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platinumnk:
save the number and call the guy and ask him urself

Brilliant! Was thinking of that myself!

slimfine:
you would never understand until you actually feel it. when you do, nobody would need to tell you that you are heartbroken. you would not want to live, you will be desperate for hope, you will cry in your room if you don't wanna be seen by other people who you proclaimed you had it good, you would be among your family and friend who loves you and yet feel great pain and sadness, you would wish you were never born, you would loose couple of body weight, and you would be depressed! my advise to anyone going through heart break, never be too depressed to pray! no matter how much other people tell you "oh u can do better" yea, it doesn't help! just summon the courage and pray and call on your heaven father! it worked for me.

Brilliant words!!! And hate it when they say you will feel better with time. Well right now it feels as you said, it sucks!! Thank you so much for putting feelings into words!!

She probably removed them cos she didnt get the back up she was looking for, hehe!! Silly! You ask people their opinion and you have to take the good with the bad.

If a man doesnt attend to his woman some other guy will and vice versa!

Men have their sweet words and are all nice, honest, kind, blah blah blah for a little while. They get you sucked in til you realise the real person behind the lies and acting then your in so deep its hard to get out. So, YES, men decieve women to get what they want. Its not our fault we see good in people til they screw us over!!

Going through it now, cant talk about it cos its too raw.
When i come out the other side i will be full of info and experience.

Kelvinj:
wish u were in our shoes u do more than anything. Its said a man never stops sucking bosoms unless he dies. From mom 2 gf 2 wife and what if wife die Some plz help wit an answer

Hehehe!!! Poor babies!!! Your all obsessed!!!

Instead of fighting a man V women war and who is allowed to do what, who is looking after the children? Who is raising the children? Why bother having them if your going to leave them, someone has to raise them and it should be one of the parents!

Oh my goodness, so funny!!!! You guys will say anything to get a good suck!!! Soooooooooo funny!!!!!!

Im sorry but you need to get your priorities in order. You will find that when your kids are older and you ask them would they have preffered their mother or shiny new things, you should know the answer. Why did you have kids? You leave at 6am and get in at 10pm. Thats ok if your single or have no children. But sacrifices should be made for the sake of the children. Not the importance of a 'lifestyle' Your childrens well being should be forst and that would be them having there mother. You say you would be bored?? Again i ask, why did you have children of you didnt want to sacrifice for them or be with them.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=509858.msg6711347#msg6711347 date=1283840296]And suppose someone isn't a Christian? Will you still sit there are tell them to go by a book that they don't believe in?[/quote]

agitator:
That's Nigerian Christians for you, they conclude that every argument, debate, discussion must be backed by the bible. They are too dumb to know that before you back your argument, discuss, etc with any book, quote, law, etc it must be acceptable to all.

The poster asked a question with 'God' in it so it was answered with 'God' in it. Re read the post!!!

akinolasam:
S E X

Nothing to prove wrong here

what is wrong about it is U not waiting for the right time (marriage)

Its like eating and unriped fruit e.g cashew, very dangerous.

God makes everything beautiful in its TIME

Awesome!!!

God made sex for marriage. Not to do whatever you feel like. We are supposed have some control of ourselves. We are not animals, maybe some are but most of us are not.

Long time ago i caught my bf cheating. I was very young so belted the crap out of the girl (who was a friend at the time) instead of the guy. First and last time i ever hit anyone. Unless provoked, lol!!!

Prettytee, I wont lie to you, it will be very difficult to forget him and at times you may give in and call or see him. Please save yourself. You will have to be very strong but you deserve so much better. Just take one day at a time. I am in the process of trying to forget a guy and somedays i am cool as and so strong then other days i am a total mess, just depends. If you can hold tight on those weak days you will come through.
Your too young to be treated this way. If he really loved you he would never be happy with you being with someone else. Also money only complicates things. If he offered, then he has nothing to complain about but when you ask it definately complicates things. As far as sleeping with him i dont beleive that was a problem but im am from a very different place. Anyway, that was your own choice. The way he is behaving isnt. I hope you can move on and forward. You have every good thing ahead of you!

Awesome words Mr. Cork!!! Your showing a different side to yourself!!

Think your deluded!!!! Which Nigerian man are you talking about here? None i have known!!!

Some Nigerian men dont need help from Nigerian women to do all those bad things. Its just born in them. If some Nigerian woman are as you say then did you ever think the men behaving badly may of made them that way??