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Oh, sorry bout the quote thingy. Wasnt thinking, Done!

Got your email so delete any time.  Oh, and, Happy Birthday. Am sure i read somewhere else it was your birthday. Talk soon.

Its emotional blackmail. Dont stand for it! If she is serious about killing herself nothing you do will stop her.

Ogaga4luv, you are too much!!!! Ive never laughed so hard in a long time!!! Your going down big time, cant wait!!!

vivaladiva:
yeah alternative and constructive yes, but alternative and somehow unrealistic no------
i fink u prob sld google contraceptives, who knows u might afford your self the pleasure of learning somin new today

trust me if u can have the heart to have an abortion, wats a piece of cake like taking contraceptives, which imposes more stress on the body

You cant possibly think that if you use contraception you are 200% not going to get pregnant. Nothing is 100%. Condoms do fail. My youngest brother is a 'pill' baby and many cant take it cos it makes them ill. What about all the abortions and unwanted pregnancies, it happens in the real world so all i am saying is be prepared for the consequences, geez.

Oh i do enjoy it while it lasts for the time it lasts, am just not deluded to think its ever forever.

Settle down!!! You misunderstood. Poster asked what age, i am saying when you can handle the resposibilities if it turns out that way. Please, not everyone uses contraception or there wouldnt be so many abortions around and the pill doesnt always work for some people. Im not stupid, im realistic. I was working full time and supporting myself, you dont need to know the age but i was old enough to know what the deal was if it turned out bad. I know you dont like my comments for anywhere but i can still have an opinion even if its different to yours.

Poster, you got exactly what you deserve! You both have! Be happy!

Definately agree with other comments on other threads, Mr Cork is absolutely MOBO444!! No question. There could not possibly be two silly guys in the world that think like them.

Yep, anticipating the end. How long it will take to get there, how it will end, etc. Dont believe in happy ever after or forever. Did once but not now.

When your old enough and responsible enough to take care of a child, cos you know that can happen, right?? I know for some people that would be never but some mature early. As long as you can handle the consequences.

Just as well he didnt marry you if it was so easy to cheat on him. Good luck with the karma thing. He should run away as fast as he can.

I am aware that it happens for real, It happens everywhere. Just dont believe this one and think its sick to make such a lie out of it.

Silliest story from you so far!!! No way a grown women could sit on a three year old with out squishing him!! Your stories are getting sicker! Really, you need to get a hobby!!! You real love bashing your country women dont you. I hope they tear you to peices, hehehe!!!

vivaladiva:
and your point is----i cee u havee picked countries where the level of female repression and oppression is rather on the high side
so u wld rather nigerian women in the uk get killed by their brothers and fathers because she has refused to marry a man from a certain tribe or religion or because she is dating or wants to mary a man outside a certain culture or religion----your really saying we sld adopt the cultures of people that practice honour killings----pakistan, iran iraq etc

your actually proposing that women be forced to marry a man they dont know or love in the name of an arranged marriage

u seriously want black women in egland to carry on with the babaric inhumane practice of female circumcision practiced in countries like somalia

u wld rather a woman did not have the choice t divorce even if she was unhappy in her marriage

mobo444 my only conclusion is that u are a man with very limited brain function, u were either born silly and ignorant or u have been groomed by others and your self to be as silly as u are====personally i think its a mixture of all three factors

Brilliantly said!!!!

MOBO444:
There you go again with you equality talk,women should be put down and seen but not heard,here in the UK look the way the Pakistan, the Irans, The Iraquis, The Somalis, The Isreali live their live,they hardly have divorce and all sort of rubbish,their daughter also marry on time because the women of tese countries are made to work behind the man, but look what the west has done and look at ylour Australia country and all sort of ill vices.

There you go again being silly!! Hahaha!!! You really are a very funny guy. Commenting on my country when you know nothing about it. My country rocks but men like you wouldnt survive here. You would be very lonely and kicked out i would imagine. Do you have a mother or sisters, neices, etc? I feel sorry for you!

I dont believe MOBO444 is serious. He just has nothing better to do than stir people, women up. You need to find a hobby mister!! Im sorry but its men like you that keep some women down cos thats just the way you like it. Makes yourself feel like a big man. , even though you are only a game playing boy. Would love to be there when karma comes knocking at your door.,, hehe!!

You are such a hypocrite!! Your 'exposing' your nigerian sisters for bad behaviour yet you where the one shagging her. Couldnt go to her place cos you had slept with the other girl there or your place cos of your partner but you have the self righteousness to claim the girls are misbehaving! You must really be bored to want to stir up so much trouble!

I read the sister reasons that where given but how do we know for sure. Sibling rivalry doesnt usually go as far as this. Think there is much more to this but regardless, it takes two.Two where involved and Two made the choice not one. If she is going to disown her sister she should do the same with the cheating husband.

Are you kidding me!!! It infuritates me to read all is blamed on the 'evil' sister and the poor hubby must be forgiven!! Honestly, can you seriously believe he is innocent and make excuses! He wanted to send her away to save his wife the pain, pleassssseeee! He wanted to send the pregnant sister away to protect himself. Ever heard of walking away from the girl? At any point before the actual deed he could of stopped. She is being taken for a fool. Yes the sister is inexusable but we also dont know her reasons either. Both kn ew what they where doing and both went ahead and did it in the wifes sacred home. If he hasnt done it before how come it was so easy for him this time. Im sorry but nothing is worth that rubbish!!

They only regret it when they get caught and kicked out! They never reform. Cheaters are gutless and spineless no matter if its male or female. Would love to chat with them in their old age when they are alone cos no one wants them cos they are cheaters and their bits are all worn out,

Sorry but pregnant women have no business dating. How has she got kids, pregnant and dating? Where is the father of her children or fathers? She should be focussing on her unborn baby not hooking men! As for the man dating a women pregnant with another mans baby, YUCK!! Isnt there enough non pregnant women for you, gross!

Wow! 6 years! Good for you. I hope i can be as strong as that, i think i'll do fine cos something has changed inside me now and i just dont want the bs anymore. I can not be bothered with all the drama for nothing.

xxcarolxx:
Have you managed to resolve anything yet?

We have talked a little but its the same stuff. He wants to come here for us but ive heard it all a million times before. He doesnt have residency here only visiting. Knowing what i knowand have experienced the past months i dont see a future like this so am just not contacting and hoping it will all just fade away. Probably the gutless way but the more i say i dont want it the more he tries to hold on and suck me in. I think its a case of he only wants it when he thinks he is losing it.

MOBO444:
@Poster Tink_sh, i know your night are long and lonely far away in Australian, well o well so you in a long distance relationship and he left for the USA, now what is chasing him away,is it you,ask yourself again. (search your heart and yourself), you women are too demanding and asking.

Whatever!!!

MOBO444:
Now we all know a lots worse goes on in Aussie land, do i need to go into details or bring up links on Australia bed habits (we both dont want that).

Bring it!!!!!

Sometimes its fun to just hear a story, wether true or not, isnt it??

You are only an hour away from him and he still cheated, now the girl he cheated with is moving in??
Oh my!!! He has already gone there so why would you think he wont with her under his roof then blame her. It takes two baby. Please believe that i know exactly how hard it is to walk away from someone you love but you need that love in return. He is playing you. Doesnt matter how long you have been together, his story is ridiculus!! How can you believe anything he says, I know you want to believe him and it will hurt like hell to walk away but my god you deserve better than that.

If i was the man in that situation, again it would depend on, if we had children i would make sure they are taken care of. If she was a good faithful wife i would give her something. If it was me wanting out for my own reason i would make sure she was set up with a roof over her head. If she was bad i would give her nothing but still make sure my kids are taken care of. Have a third person not involved to handle the money for my children.