Found out he was just a tall fool....

Whispering Palms or Eko tourist beach....

Love on the ocean....I can never try it

dasparrow:


Shouldn't you go and ask the over 30 years single ladies why they are still single? Or do you fear getting smacked in the face by one of them? Besides, why are you worried? How does it affect you? If you are happy and content with your own life, why do you care what others do with theirs? Are you afraid that if more Nigerian women fail to marry, you will be stuck having to cook, clean and wash your own clothes? Something that the average Nigerian bred male hates? or are you worried that you may have to spend more money patronizing ashawos since a wife is nowhere in sight?

Anyways, for discussion sake, let me take a wild guess as to why an increasing number of Nigerian ladies no longer marry before the age of 30:

1. They want to take their time finding the right partner so they don't end up marrying a potential murderer, serial cheat, a wife beater or a man who has a mother who does not like them and then one day stabs them in the abdomen. I mean you can't blame these single over 30 ladies considering all the domestic violence stories permeating from Nigeria.

2. They are few responsible Nigerian MEN that are marriage material. Just take a quick look at Nigerian society and you will see so many married men - and nowadays women - sleeping about with reckless abandonment while infecting their spouses with all sorts of STIs/STDs

3. The marriage institution has been bastardized and is no longer held sacred. This is why it is so easy for a Nigerian male to send his wife packing all because she keeps birthing female children or maybe no children at all. The rate of infidelity is very high as mentioned in point 2. Why go into a monogamous relationship with someone who has no intentions of staying faithful and thereby exposing you to all sorts of diseases many single ladies might ask themselves.

4. Most Nigerian bred men are filled with lust and want to fornicate during the dating/courtship period with a single lady. A christian lady may not be willing to compromise her body for some lustful lover boy who calls himself a boyfriend and hence chooses to wait till she comes across a God fearing man who is willing to keep the marriage bed undefiled.

5. Too many broke Nigerian bred men with no goals, ambition or the drive to succeed. Single ladies nowadays don't want to attach themselves to a sinking ship because they are gradually realizing that it ain't worth it in the long run.

6. Too many abusive Nigerian in-laws. Some single ladies feel they don't need that stress. After all, all human beings have only one life to live and everyone deserves a chance to be happy and live a peaceful life void of fights and unnecessary stress.

7. Some ladies want to finish university and have a career before settling down. Since the average Nigerian male in Nigeria does not live long due to incessant car accidents, illnesses, diabolical curses from extended family members etc, single ladies want to make sure that they and their potential children don't go hungry or homeless should the man pass away suddenly. They want to make sure they can keep sustaining themselves and their kids with the job they have. I can't blame the ladies considering that most Nigerian bred men don't write a will and even if they do, the wife hardly get's anything. Life insurance nko? Zero! So a lady got to do what a lady got to do to survive.

8.Some single ladies look around them and see only disgruntled married folks so they feel marriage is too much of a bed of thorns and hence not beneficial to them in the long run. Having their kids and living a peaceful stress free life void of an egoistic controlling husband and wicked in-laws seems like a better option to them.

9. Some ladies were victims of r*a*p.e or child sexual abuse and as a result don't enjoy sex due to the psychological impact caused by what they went through.

10. Some single ladies just don't feel marriage is for them. They do better on their own rather than when they are in a partnership so Nigerian society needs to respect that including YOU the OP.

So there you have it!

you are a blessing,you just said it all...God bless you

TohKunBoh:
Long but try and read through if you believe it can help your relationship,you might find an interesting tip out of all.

Firstly,A lot of ladies complain about having a 3months relationship and the guy getting fed up with them already,the big question is,what are you giving him in the relationship? What's the purpose of the affair?

If you think you're in a relationship to get rich,please you need to scrap off that mentality from your brain.Your man isnt obliged to cover for your expenses, he isn't your ATM, appreciate any money he spends on you, don't act like its his sole purpose to spend on you.

You ladies with anger issues,don't expect your man to guess why you're upset, just tell him so you two can solve it.Just be open to your man.

Build your trust with him,stop thinking your man is cheating, you have to believe in him, if you can't trust your man then you shouldn't be with him in the first place....

Sex is not a gift, your man can get that from you any day, get him something that he'll actually appreciate on his birthday/valentine's day,and so many other previous days.

You need to control your feelings: I understand the fact that ladies tend to feel differently to those that care about them,stop trying to be friends with your man's friends, the sooner you understand that his friends are not your friends the longer your relationship will last.

×××You gotta s how interest in what your man likes doing, as much as you don't want to watch the game with him, your company will be appreciated,reason

Be matured in the relationship,don't be childish and expect your man to always text you first, it is not written that guys are meant to, grow up and text him first too,it won't bite.

Tell your man what you want & expect of him, it's as simple as that, things don't have to be complicated, just be straight forward...Be there even when your man doesnt have money to take you out, chill home with him & learn to enjoy his company too, not just what he has...

Learn to listen to your boyfriend, don't be so stubborn
You women can be stubborn and feel you've rights and all,but please be submissive.

Hope these helps.Goodluck in your family/relationship

Culled from :: http://palmchatnow.com

Thank you Op...nice points

Marriage!!!! God help me.

lofty900:
Truth is bitter bro but how long do you expect a 29 year old woman to wait. Forget about love, ur not ready to settle down. The lady is not getting any younger so allow her to move on while you get a new, younger girl that can wait until Jesus comes

end of discussion....the difference is you have grace as a man but for a 29yr old,she no get that kind of grace. Abeg let her move on while u find someone else or u wife her straight up and continue with ur lives.

Mattin:

Great opinion you've got there lady.

Thank you sire

Mattin:
I came across the pics and wanna hear opinions of our Naija ladies.
This is becoming a trend nowadays even in marriage. Can you date or marry a guy as old as 10-12 years older than you?
Over to you ladies...

yes I can,as a matter of fact...I love it,he would be more matured with me and I will still be attractive to him no matter what.

ezehisaac:
Hello Nairalanders, I need an urgent advice.

My fiancee will never wear her engagement ring. Each time I asked why she'd either say she forgot or could not find it.

This had lingered to an extent that I threatened to give it to another person, that was the only time she wore it consistently for some time and stopped again.

When I tried finding out why she always removes it from her finger for the first place, she said she doesn't want it to wear out. But this is a special ring I picked for her in an exclusive malasyian mall, diamond for that matter.

Just this morning, I was looking for something in my drawer and I saw the ring. When I asked her what the ring was doing there, she claimed that she's been looking for it for ages.

I don't know what to do right now!

Mind you, this lady loves me and would do anything for us to be together. And that's exactly what confuses me.

Though I bought the ring very costly, but that's not the issue. The issue is that I want to always see her wearing the ring everywhere and at all times, because in my opinion, it is the symbol of love.

Please advise me, ma good pipu?

U just wan turn the babe to lord of the rings abi,instead of you to do the needful...so one guy would just put one ring asking me to rock around abi,,na so now....guy wife the babe and stop disturbing ur head

abdulskulboy:
little baby, junior cox-noon is from brighton in england.
just caption the hair in one word.

he is born to become the next wolverine...LOL

pocohantas:
The summary of the story is, in the event of infertility issues, if the problem is from the woman...prepare to go back to your father's house.

If it's from the man, and he knows that you know...you're safe. He'll treat you like a QUEEN.

There are exceptions though...

it just shows that Men are wicked...if it was the woman that had issues,the story won't end like that. Abegi

Nikita1:
Somebody is pained .


That's why it's better you go for someone better than your EX . They thing dey pain guys Wella when they see you with a better guy

as in....you gerra it,Tonto your head dey there...my ex be ready ooo,my own go worse pass Tonto..LOL

careytommy7:
May those of us reading this never experience such in Jesus name (Amen)

AMEN

He is the one that doesn't have brain,senseless man...

cuvox:
Who has seen the Latest mandatory Marriage conditions for Redeem Christian Church of God (RCCG) Members? Yes from the Church not from the Bride’s family. And it was said to be highly mandatory for all intending couple (RCCG Members).

Read For yourself...

As shared by a twitter user: @chydee

Source http://yawnaija.tv/marriage-conditions-rccg-members/

am a redeemer but its not by force to do wedding there with all these conditions.....abegi

otunbashonny:
unilag

HBD.. Wishing you longlife,goodhealth and greater achievements. Igba odun,odun kan ni. Have fun

freeman95:




i'm short of words

u must be a very stupid person in real life

Thank you for that statement. It shows that he has been stupid from day one of his life. Nothing wey person no go see for NL

Benita27:
Social media sha!.
See how she and her hubby just snapped the new baby to broadcast to the world.
Can't they give it a rest?.

But meanwhile...Congrat to her.

them no even allow fresh air blow on top baby wey don dey inside womb..everything now is news,anyways its still congrats.. Olorun aa wo,aa dasi

Garri.

A nice polo T-shirt with shorts(I love shorts lol) and a nice footwear does it for me..

No matter how double standard and unfaithful Nigerian men can be,,babe there are still some of them(maybe 20%) that are good,loving and worth the time.. You just have to find one and carry your cross.

Lack of a dating type

INTROVERT:
BOSS gonna really get his waist oiled later that night.

if am his wife eehhen,some sweet sweet loving. LMAO

gcsllc:
Registration for free entry is on-going but will end soon!

pls how do I register?

mamawin:
I share the sixth one. in fact, one day my husband asked me what he could do that would pain me most, I told him that's if he dies young. he said do I realized that won't be his fault? I told him he should just make sure he doesn't die. funny

He won't die,you guys will grow old together in love and harmony...

BrainBoulevard:
Hello,I sent u a mail.could you please reply?

I just replied..check your mail

A big YES

AMEN,I claim it IJN

Dafe20:
God is Great. . . My boys have landed!

Recall;

Whereas on the 4th of December, 2015 yours truly created this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/2781473/pre-wedding-photo-session-yours-truly

I still remembered how some Nairalanders especially stjsd specifically said our first will be twin and so on.

However, the day came. . .and to the Glory of God on the 25th and 26th of December, 2015 our story moved officially to the P-site.


Fast forward to 28th of September, 2016 God blessed us with one of the fruits of marriage. My bestie, sweets and bae of life was delivered of two bouncing baby boys!!!!!. . . . .guys there's a God in heaven oooo.

There was no complications whatsoever! Just plain and safe delivery. . .honestly God is great!

To that Nairalander who's expecting God for something like this, you go get am in Jesus name. . .AMEN!

To that Nairalander who really wants to settle down but because of this recession can't help matters, helpers shall locate you from all corners in Jesus name. . . .AMEN! Infact, anybody wey go waka bad waka for you, dem go waka loss in Jesus name. . .AMEN!

To that Nairalander wey wan dash my boys money (guys things rough sha oo) oya ask me for account details in Jesus name. . .AMEN!

Finally to this Nairalander stjsd your prayers for me worked ooo. . . .God bless you real good!

Please help me thank God and welcome Eric and Ethan to the world.

There you have it!

Thank you!!!!!

Laveda:


Same fears.

It is well babe,don't worry God will give us the strenght to pull through the life contract Lol