ChristieDeBaker:
The write up is very okay. But those of you saying ladies give sex in relationship because their boy friends spend for them, it's not true o some boyfriends are broke asses yet they want oiling more than anything. what I noticed is that Naija men are too obsessed with sex that even if they dnt spend one naira on a lady they will expect sex from her. I wonder if you guys haven't heard that a poor man does not deserve to oil.

Guys! Stop looking for sex wen u dnt have money to pay brideprice look for money first, when u have it marry and have sex at the right time. You people are the ones who force most of us ladies into premarital sex.

dammywapes:
have been struggling with pimples from my year one in the university. anybody that have tips on how i can get rid of it should please offers some help.

Benita27:
Hope you knw i mentioned that there's no harm in doing all you've said.

Comprehend, don't be stupid in love, by doing all the manly roles.

ruggedtimi:
Once u notice ur galfrnd still keeps tabs with her ex...chale run for ur life

Benita27:
Never develop the habit of spending on a guy you're dating, there's no harm in helping them when they're in need, What real men want is a faithful lady, not one that spends on them.

To some spending on them reduces their self worth, even in marriages when a lady is the bread winner of the family, the men are not so happy, so why should your boyfriend be happy when you're the one doing virtually everything for him?, when such a relationship crashes, he has nothing to lose but you.

Imagine if all you do is:pay his school fees, pay rents, cook for him with your money whenever you visit, change his wardrobe, when there's no guarantee he will even marry you, neither are you his sugar mummy, is he handicap?. He will take all these and still cheat on you, and dump you when the need arise.

We ladies are naturally emotional, while the male counterparts are naturally logical, when he dumps you suicide is inevitable, he's likely to move on sooner that you.

He asked you out, you didn't ask him, why should you two go on a date, and you're the one buying everything, while he's collecting?.

Spending on a guy is not healthy, even your parents will frown at it.

Expecting the ladies you date to spend on you is like patronising a prostitute and asking her to pay you.

We're not in India where women marry men.

FvckeDyoBiTch:
Soo I have been seeing this girl for the past 3 months...Phat ass Nice tìts cute face...Carribean Beauty.

She has been asking me to commit to the relationship for some time...She wants to make our relationship "official" aka I flaunt her all over my social media.

And I am here thinking to myself, as long as I am fvcking that pussy_, you Sucking my dìck, and me Nutting on your face, there's ABSOLUTELY no reason to commit in a relationship.

What do you have to offer? Money? I got enough...Seriously as long as you are having sex there's no need flaunting each other claiming she's your girl...SHES there to HAVE SEX not Trap you in a plethora of Obligations.
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Your take on the issue?

Bottimline: if you won't marry her and she fvcking you DONT COMMIT and be acting Mr Nice faithful guy like an idiot

Women exist for sex, if she isn't paying give her the middle finger and find someone else.

joborskill:
Mumu guy

Babe wey una don dey together for over 12 months should have seen signs if it's leading to marriage or not. I just dont understand these dramas anymore. After serious knacking and several outings, yeye guys be kneeling down with aluminium ring like person wey dem press him mumu button The institution of marriage is not sustained by these melo-dramas but tolerance and forgiveness.


My papa no propose nor snap pre wedding pics but they are still together for over 4 decades. All this modern marriages are nothing but nolywood scripts.


After 2 years of marriage, una go dey write epistle for nairaland say my partner no sabi fuuckk, my wife no sabi cook. asking for yeye help from innocent nairalanders. That is if it doesn't end up in chasing each other out of the house with cutlass. Awon ode

halfricanadian:
Simple lord please hear my humble prayers
Dear God, on behalf of the entire female race world wide any guy that derives joy in wasting our time wen dey kno dey av no plans for us lord jesus any guy that wanna waste nd delay our time the number of years such guys use to waste our time or lord delay their BREAKTHROUGH,SUCCESS,PROSPERITY,HAPPINESS,MARRIAGE,HAVINH CHILDREN,BE PRODUCTIVE etc. With the same exact year they hurt us.in jesus name i have prayed AMEN

Ladies fear no evil

Ioannes:


Well if you put it that way, i can't argue with that. Lol.

Yet it's women we call babe and it women who want to be pampered, no be so?

Ioannes:
The woman ought to be scared, when the husband wants to be the baby instead of being the man in the house.

OZAOEKPE:
A rather unexpected marriage advice has been handed down to
couples, especially the male counterparts by a marriage
counselor on how best to make the union work and last a
lifetime.
The Ghanaian Marriage Counselor, Frank Adofoli penned an
interesting and unconventionally new perspective to one of the
basic requirement of keeping and maintaining a strong and
lasting marriage.
He wrote:
Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but
the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with.

A rather unexpected marriage advice has been handed down to
couples, especially the male counterparts by a marriage
counselor on how best to make the union work and last a
lifetime.
The Ghanaian Marriage Counselor, Frank Adofoli penned an
interesting and unconventionally new perspective to one of the
basic requirement of keeping and maintaining a strong and
lasting marriage.
He wrote:
Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but
the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with.




www.herald.ng/every-husband-needs-girlfriend-marriage-counselor-advises/?utm_source=nnd&utm_medium=twitter&utm_campaign=nnd




Cc: lalasticlala mynd44

ChangeIsCostant:
ordinary laptop. what of the thieves that steal in billions

Kobicove:
Better keep your private life off social media except you want your marriage to be scrutinized by the public just like a certain Ms Savage!

butanep:



I don't know you dear... but your comments shows you will make a good wife.


Respect is paramount be it relationship/ marriage.

ChangeIsCostant:
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below;

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html

Nyceguy92:


Wow!!
I never thought of your second choice.
That's the most mature, creative, and romantic way I have ever heard or seen.

Imagine when you are deeply asleep, the quietly manipulates the ring onto your finger.
What on Earth could be more pleasantly surprising when you wake up to feel something strange on that finger
Then he goes...the gospel according to...
I have this hunch that most men who happen to read your comment will copy it. Don't rule out that your Sweetie may see it, too.
Good luck.

FlawlesRebirth02:
Hi guys•••hehehe I kinda have a lil question to ask,tho its embarrassing••••Doctors in the huz your attention is needed pls••yah(m 22) is it possible to feel pains while having sex?(like d pains u get while losing ur virginity? I mean its getting to much and I feel somehow going to d hospital to ask•••i don't know but someone told me its can cost me really birth if m to get pregnant and have babies•••its mks me feel bad nd its not helping with relationships as m always having breakups••••am I having some kind of trouble••?I mean do I need to be scared? Tnks and happy new week

Nyceguy92:
The media is awash with pictures and videos of men proposing marriage to women in various manners.
Most of these are dramatic and sometimes outlandish.

Question is: Ladies, how would you like your man propose to you?
Is in the quietness of the bedroom, when two of you are in bed(not necessarily)?
Would you prefer the restaurant with everybody watching or the middle of the highway with all vehicles stopping for you?

Isn't that exercise supposed to solemn, when the man asks a very important question of his life?
Are those fanfare really necessary?

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

xoella:
YORUBA girls r simply the best!!!

divinehand2003:
3. You need to have a certain level of hygiene yourself

Before you go on to marry that Yoruba girl, you need to have a certain level of hygiene yourself. This means that you must be someone who cannot tolerate dirt in your immediate environment.

Most Yoruba girls struggle in this area and you have to be ready to encourage them while you upgrade them to your level of cleanliness.

liljboy:
she has o oooo it's called NO VALUE

photoshoot:


I watched all of this 3

Second chance
Passion!!
Catalina and Sebastian(whatever the spelling)


:Dplease how can I watch or download all episodes of Catalina and Sebastian,Passions,When you are mine
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