TrapQueen77:




Please...matured men have a different mindset than the boiz who juz wanna play around..

Boiz juz wanna have sex in every shii that wear skirt, na lie abi? So, why a lady wanna stick her azz on u when she knows that ur not even ready to settle down yet?

BEst Comment on this thread....

We all have different values and we stick to them..I see nothing wrong in what she did,it doesn't mean she cannot cook,not even the way the guy said it authoratively,for some friends again not just the two of them..Le Boo got me food the 1st time I went to his house,from the 2nd visit...I cooked. Some men may say he is testing her but he should have been a gentleman..Na so husband scarce reach. Babe,better guy is coming your way

KennyID17:


Coke wasn't stated, but i don't think its safe to use carbonated soft drinks as ur solution when taking any drug.

So u hate water, well i guess fela was wrong then, water has one enemy now, Bumbae1

lmao,make it 2 cos i dnt use water too,rather i make tea or milk only..i dnt use soft drinks

space007:
The topic reminds me of this

LMAOoooooooooo. Why now? This got me rolling on the floor,the babe na FK

pressplay411:
Nothing beats that early morning dose followed with breakfast in bed. You will feel so blessed.

I learnt that trick from a married friend of mine and it has never been the same in my relationship...lol

smartty68:
Indeed! Religion of peace always have problems with minding their business.

This guys are just extremists and sadist

religion of peace indeed!

shelter4luving:
Happy sunday lovely people. Pls your suggestions/ advice is welcome here.

Am getting married. The days of heart break and all that are over. It's time to smile, love and trust again.
He's been my best friend for a long time. We shared all our secrets with each other. He finally asked me to marry him and I said yes.

Our budget for white wedding is 250k. We want a small wedding besides things are difficult now and he's not financially buoyant now , but I love him like that.

These is the list I came up with :

1. Wedding gown & groom suit -- 15k
I will rent my gown
2. Shoes (bride & groom) - 5k
3. Wedding ring - 2k
We'll buy more better one later
4. Bridal hair/make up - 3k
I don't need a make up artists. Most people already know I look more beautiful without too much painting.
5. Cake (2 tiers of cake) 15k
I know how to bake so na weh weh. Noone can cheat me on that.
6. Reception venue (church premises) tables, canopies, decoration - 25k
7. Photograph (coverage, one photo book, pre wedding) 28k.
We are taking 5 pics for pre wedding in a very standard studio. That will be #500 multiply by 5
8. MC. We'll look for a friend maybe from youth department in church. - 5k
9. Souvenirs - 20k.
10. Food(fried rice, jollof rice, semo, fish) 70k
11. Drinks (soft drinks and 15 bags of sachet water? 25k.

I think everything above is 200k already.


These are the things I can remember. Pls any suggestions or advice? If your suggestions will reduce my above budget, pls its very welcome
Any wedding planner in the House? Pls help me adjust my list above.

Thanks

am not a wedding planner but let me ask how many pple are u inviting?you are gonna spend more cos i saw shoes for the couple 5k,where do u want to get that?why cnt u just go to registry and still have it classy..

Sunnymatey:
They's dis girl l toasted 4rm Oct. 2016 to Feb 2017. Though she gave me a yes verbally but her attitude shows she didnt mean wat she says. I showered her with love and gift just 2 prove how serious l was. Our meetings always took place around popular eateries in town. In January she requested 4 some cash 2 enable her resume school, l was ready 2 assist except 4 d fact she wanted d money brought 2 her where she live and my late father will disown me if l try dat. Days later a friend brought some foodstuff 4 me, l told her since l rearly cook in my house and minutes later she showed up and spent quality(worthless) time with me but guest what? 'She is not in d mood'. Well, nothing spoil l saw her off with d goody bag of foodstuf with some cash. An attempt 2 make her visit me 4 a 2nd time was met by verbal outburst frm her, but as a mature guy l kept calm. Just yestday after about 2 months she text saying l was nice among all her toasters, dat she is ready 4 me now but need me assist her with skul fee of 36k.

am sure she stored your name with MAGA

In as much as i hate gender equality,i still feel it is wrong to leave the finances to the groom alone. It should be a responsibility of both parties,they are both doing each other a favour...In typical yoruba land,the bride's family even spends more cause they are the host,xcept if the groom supports them financially which is normal......even if its a small wedding...As a bride sef,you wan marry and you cant fund anything on your wedding,its a shame....i would be getting married soon,even as a bride to be...i want to fund my cake,makeova for my mums,mother-in-law and accessories for the couple,sourvenir for my husband's frnds and mine too.. manicure&pedicure for d couple b4 the wedding.... he has his own roles& doesnt mean my husband cant do it all but its OUR wedding and i have a role to play in it. Life after wedding is still there(lol)

Even as a lady,i learnt a lesson frm your diary... as a wife,u shld always love your man and be his peace cos he has battles you dnt knw of. I love your diary,even glued to it...pls dnt stop. THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGHT.

amnwa:
So we should fry beans? This nairaland mods clearly have nothing better to do..
Stupid topics I see everyday on FP amazes me..

thank u for that statement..if she wanted to hide the bump,she wnt wear that gown...All these celebrities,their lyf dey always amaze me..is she d 1st person with figure 8 to get preggy?

4rty:
common among we girls

like you knw..They want to knw everything that happens in ur life,try to embarrass u anywhere,awon snitch...i used to have them as friends but now am a one-man-mopol.....

I just believe that the fact that you took longer than others does not mean you wont have a happy ending.God rewards patience. Yorubas say" A pe koto je, ko tun gbodo je ibaje"

laudate:


Babe, your head is too correct! Give me one hi-five!

*smiles*take it..GBAM.

Softorgasm:
she is getting it from another guy...
All ladies are naughty in nature and loves sex.. it only takes a sharp guy to unleash her naughtiness.

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kimbra:
Don't let one failed marriage be the parameter to judge other marriage outcomes. People are doing well in marriages and it doesn't just favour only men.

Thank you jare...even with the rate at which pple r divorcing,domestic violence,some couples are still enjoying their marriages...the prayer is not to miss it maritally.

I still wonder even as a lady why some babes do that..I have never done it and I won't,it doesn't stop a man from cheating..the only time I can pack all my stuffs to my man's house would be a month to our wedding...when its not as if I don't have my own place.

Abiss19:
To begin with, I have what could be described as a very high libido. Nevertheless I have always wanted a lady with low libido. Why? I know the negative side of going for a lady like me. Moreover, overtime I realised when you dig (Bleep) so dip too often it tells on your health negatively in the long run.

So, at 25 I fell in love with a young girl whom I often had s*x with (mind you, I never dip my manliness into any pssuy until I was 22). I can still recall clearly now what I gave to her back then were a "gentle s*s and live making". Only once did I tried to give her hard. Not too long afterwards we broke up, only for her to tell me on our WhatsApp chat that I could satisfy her. I was so disappointed in myself - for not using on her the skills embedded in me. Anyway that was that about that.

Today, despite my very high libido, I am into a serious relationship with a lady with a low libido, and I like it. My survey on her shows that she can stay long without that thing - a quality I like so much. Also, that has given me the opportunity to cut down on my sexual "escapade". Hey! That escapade is quoted, for I never cheated in a serious relationship.

Therefore, my dear, there are lots of men put there who like someone like you. You need only to pray.



Note: Nothing is as good as a healthy love making (not just s*x). In fact research has shown that it is best to have s*s two or three times a week.

my face cap dey loke for you

Safiaa:
Because we don't have all the time in the world. Our most fertile years = 20s.

Thank you for that statement

borntoexcel2000:
Please comment what you learnt from this story, and your advice to couple's who are acclaimed "spiritual" and also how to balance sex, romance and fasting. Thanks to all the readers, and I appreciate all who took out time to comment, God Bless You.

GOd bless you Op,I REALLY learnt a lot fron this story,it just made me to understand that marriage is not a bed of roses,you need wisdom to be successful in that school. As for the couple,its a step by step healing process,the wife has more to do than the husband..a woman that can be submissive and respectful to her husband shouldn't think abt marriage. GOd will bless their home,the devil isn't happy when a home is filled with joy,they won't allow that..

akintho:
maybe I'm too quick to judge o...but to me she was selfish, she could have balanced things and the mummy GO was the wrong counselor.

thank you jare,foolish advice from mummy GO,some christians are going tru this scenarios in their homes and they have forgotten no marriage in heaven,so why can't one enjoy your marriage here on earth. So many marriages,romance has flown away.. God pls make me become a virtuous woman.

Nukilia:
That's good! Matured people keep their family issues to themselves and not on social media where jobless people are waiting to make a disaster out of peoples predicaments.

God bless your sweet home.

I like the guy jare.3 things to keep private;

Your lovelife,your income,your next move. God bless their home,it won't hit the rocks..It depends on the both of them

henryhemon:


You should be happy he is sincere to you cuz he has to settle into a new life which will take some time,now you guys are miles apart do you expect him to wait for you or believe he will be the only one you 're seeing when he might possible not be home for at least 1 yr ? Or you expect him to.promise you heaven and earth n once he is on that plane laughs hard at you n never contact you again?

life and its ups&downs

AdeniyiA:
I will do it for free. U can show appreciation later

i like ur spirit and i agree with it. My whatsapp is nt functioning well,so how do i get intouch with you?am interested pls

niyi:
Super
#62#86#1#83#38
Good luck

goodevening pls I want to join the winning team but I don't know about this lotto game..Is this tomorrow's game?

Sleekydee:
For Married Couples: HOW MUCH DID UR WEDDING COST YOU? AND ARE U PRESENTLY WISHING U SPENT MORE OR LESS...

For Singles: How much have u envisaged will be your budget for your wedding??

Oya over to you.

budgeting 300k for just 50 pple, strictly by invitatn,i prefer collecting the money left to invest in a business.. No one will be with us after d wedding day&life begins then..

I hate the word gender equality cos I know baba almighty created adam before eve...if a woman cannot manage her career&family,that is failure. African women are the strongest.

God blessed us with inner strenght even our men don't have.

sarrki:
Madam Diezani hope you are strong now ?


Whistle-blower go hammer wellla

she is a big liar,I knew it from the start and she&her family will suffer for it...

dgodfathermat:
RISK TAKEN
RISK WOT IT

I DEY COME

STAY CLS TO ME JOOR

am following

SirJeffry:
Madam, we are saying the same thing. I have total of 5 credit cards with limit of approximately $100k. My monthly utilization hasn't been up to $3k except if I buy airline tickets which I balance at the end of every cycle.

When I wanted to buy a home, I had a credit limit of only about $15k which impacted a little negatively on my mortgage approval.

All I am saying is how much limit does a man have? If he has utilized up to 50% of what he has, then there's a problem.

goodmorning sire,i sent u a pm...i just want to ask you some questions off the thread..thank you