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Truecelebmedia:
Someone once said that when love is good, it’s easy. I don’t know about all that, but your relationship definitely shouldn’t feel like a chore. When you’re with a man who is good for you, things just seem to flow. Most of the time it’s because he’s giving you what you need without you having to ask. And that’s the mark of a good partner.

Rough patches in a relationship usually come about when you need something that he can’t or won’t give. Then the arguments start. And if you’re struggling to get basic needs met in your relationship, you might need to prepare yourself to move on.

Some gentlemen are rough around the edges, and no relationship is completely free of drama. But if you have to fight for these basic necessities, the rest of your relationship is probably going to be an uphill battle.



TIME

A good romantic partner doesn’t make you beg for his time.



CONVERSATION

If you have to ask, “Why am I always calling you?” then he’s clearly not as interested in the relationship as he should be.



COMPLIMENTS

You shouldn’t have to fish for them.



PHYSICAL AFFECTION

And not just when things are headed to the bedroom. Even a man who’s not into PDA will still find a way to show you some TLC.



SUPPORT

In a healthy relationship, a good partner naturally tries to understand where you’re coming from — even if he suggests another point of view.



SPACE

He understands that you need a night out with your friends — without texting you a dozen times to find out “Where you at?”



SECURITY

Even before the official talk about where things might be headed, the right kind of prospective partner gives you the feeling that they can protect you.



TRUST

A healthy relationship doesn’t leave you with a sneaking suspicion that something is up.



MouthAction

A good partner keeps your pleasure in mind without you having to always remind him that you’re in the bedroom too.



FORGIVENESS

It’s normal to get on each other’s nerves every now and then when things are done that you don’t like or agree with. But healthy relationships are built on forgiveness, not holding grudges.



KIND GESTURES

Whether it’s an unexpected cup of coffee (just the way you like it), or a date to a movie he thinks you’ll love, a good partner pays attention to what you’re into — and tries to deliver at least occasionally.



REMEMBERING IMPORTANT THINGS

If you constantly have to remind him of the important things you’ve shared with him — like the fact that you have a sister, or you’re allergic to peanuts — it might be a sign that he’s not interested enough to pay attention.



ADVICE

When you struggle with an issue, he shouldn’t shrug his shoulders and leave you to deal with it alone. He might not have all the answers but he should be there to help give you direction.



GOOD BEHAVIOR

If you have to ask him to do the “good” basics — like return your messages and remember your birthday — you’re wasting your time.
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Now I know ts not easy being a man,,God bless you my love for been there for me always...MUAH#

Talk2Bella:
Thanks I'd email this to the boyfriend

u r much welcomed

wakes:
Just curious...
I don't need you to answer yes or no.
If you have done it before, simply like the post.

Remember it is ONLY FOR MARRIED COUPLES!
Blessings!

I want to try it when I get married

I like my man big of course,it makes it fun.could still manage an average one but make e small...haba!! I no fit.....

Talk2Bella:
These days the smell is unbearable, when we’re are making love, I’d wanna tell her about the smell but my dick would just go flaccid and I’d lose interest, this thing is killing our relationship and she’s such a pretty girl, I don’t know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.

Recently after she finished sucking me, she asked me to do same, I put my head down there and I almost died, I couldn’t go on with it, she felt bad and asked what was wrong, I told her I had stomach upset.

When we bathe together, I volunteer to help her wash down there, I thought she wasn’t washing it properly but the smell still persists, I wonder if she doesn’t perceive it, please how do I gently tell her without hurting her feelings.



Talk2Bella.



You not telling her is already hurting her feelings, she feels you’re not returning the same sexual favors and she doesn’t know why.

How do you claim to love someone and not be able to talk with/to them?

Please tell her ASAP so she can get serious medical help, both of you need medical help.

Tell her and get back to me, trust me, she would appreciate the fact it’s coming from you and not someone else.


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/how-do-i-tell-my-girlfriend-she-smells.html

she should try to wash her vagina regularly and not pee witvout washing....She can get this drug"KLOVINAL" ts about 3 or 4K,if she visits a doctor,that's what he would prescribe to her...I read it online and she can also use vinegar wiv warm water,soak herself in it for 10mins before bathing...or get garlic peel it and insert whenever she wants to sleep at night...
Stop drinking sugary drinks,take more water....stop wearing tight trousers too...all these should help drastically

kolaish:
If armed robbers attack her now, she will be blaming God. Must she reply everybody. At times, we should remember that 'Silence is Golden'.

our celebrities are gullible...everything na news,imagine this OGODO now..

CarmelloANGEL:
Popular Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, has expressed disappointment at the founder of Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg, for not visiting her when he was in Nigeria.
Zuckerberg arrived Lagos on Tuesday for an official visit to Nigeria and during the visit, the philanthropist was seen with hosts of entertainers including movie director, Kunle Afolayan, among others.

But ‘Omo sexy’, as she is fondly called, wondered why the Facebook founder ignored users with highest number of followers on his social media platform.


On her Facebook page, the mother of four shared a photo of Zuckerberg, taking a selfie with President Muhammadu Buhari and his Vice, Oshinbajo.

She wrote: “That weird moment Zuckerberg visits Nigeria and meets with Everyone but the ones with the highest Ff on his platform.

“WelcomeZuck or #goodbyezuck ? #jealousmuch #welovehimthough #controversialpost and #heworeasuit #facebook,” she wrote.


Source: http://dailypost.ng/2016/09/04/visited-others-ignored-omotola-disappointed-mark-zuckerbergs-visit/?utm_source=dlvr.it_dp1&utm_medium=facebook

abeg make she enter BRT...who she epp?

lebroske:
Great Nairalanders, pls i want you to look into this matter.
My wife feels so reluctant to initiate sex. I (the husband) had always be the one initiating it while she just lie like a lug of woods. She expects me to do everything. Is it that she is shy to make the first move, or there are other ways she does shows her desire that i am not catching? I know that ladies in the house (nairalanders) will surely have an idea of what women do to attract their husbands when they are in the mood. We just been married for a year and some months.
Nairalanders, Your advice are needed. Thank you

maybe you should talk to her about it,learn to speak her love language too.... Myhusband to be,get ready for some loving..LOL

aolumaxi:
breaking up can be a messy affair. To avoid the messy, ladies and gents usually come up with different excuses for wanting to breakup with their partners.

Question for today is: what's the weirdest or funniest break up lines you've ever heard?

cc: tosyne2much, mynd44

@3:44a.m on a sunday morning. "I went for a seminar yesterday and I gave my life to Christ,I don't think we can be together again" I wanted to cry but I have promised myself no man will make me shed tears...av moved on teytey

HungerBAD:
Interesting.

Just ask him straight.

When are we getting married?

his reply and his action in the next 2 days will tell you,either to stay or leave instead of wasting your time.

This makes sense,av never thought of it....instead of wasting. Your time being commited

I love Benz,inshort german cars does it for me....I always pray to God to make me so rich that I can wake up one morning and buy my husband an expensive gift**eyewinks**

DemisigOfficial:
Oga ooooo

Person go fear all this debate about WHY DO MEN going on here oooo


Me I kukuma don't understand sha..... so make I just keep reading jejely before Glo will comma cheat on me with my data.

abeg I dey find work too..

#teampetitebabes#werock#

woltom:
Are you really bored and need someone to share your problems with as a single lady or single mother?

A reasonable person who can be confided in to share your emotional block with you.

Someone whose voice will bring smiles to your lips and advices are reasonable to bring solutions in critical periods.

Someone to greatly appreciate you

Somone to add value to your life

A man fully independent financially and wont at anytime need your financial assistance.

A man who is fully educated and appreciates exactly what you feel inside.

A man who is flexible and understands ur Priorities and time constraints.

A man who won't promise the impossible

A man who is not all about sex but has a matured mind

You might just have stumbled on what you have been looking for.

BBM: 2BF124C2

E mail: adekunle_wole@yahoo.com

You can check out my profile and follow me here

I am following you....

waleadex:
My wife's friend got slapped by her husband for the first time in 8yrs of their marriage. Afterwards,she came to my house this evening,looking so terrible with swollen face,to explain what transpired between them. After listening to her,though I doubted her side of the story,what transpired was not enough to land her a slap on her face. Meanwhile, she was not really bothered that she was slapped but that it came from her hubby(Dapo) for the first time.

Funny enough, she said to me that because of that slap she has concluded that Dapo no longer loves her. That got me thinking why she could,in such strong terms, conclude that her husband no longer loves her.

If it happened to you,what would be your reaction?

Some women can be frustrating but no matter what happened,the husband shouldn't have slapped the wife...If I was in her position,I got slapped by my husband...I will maintain silent treatment till he apologizes...i will now treat his own Bleep up

MY LIPS...anytime,anyday.

Shamstiel:
I checked your Dp and now I can understand why you are pissed. You don't even have half of what I won now. See i can feed your whole family.

Drop your account number here and call me a bastard if I don't send cash into your account. Drop it. I dare you

lemme send u my acct no oo,pls I want to pay my fees and pls stop arguing with one another...that's all I have to say

FoolishPig:
He just announced this during a radio phonecall interview on Sango world radio in Sango Otta. Details shortly..

why Seun Osewa dey fly like this? He is wearing Nike.. O fee ji ni

Oga! U will mould yourself one oh. God help you.

baldman:
I am seriously tempted to outline my preferences on here, see if there is anyone who meets or almost meets them and then explore a friendship targeted at a purposeful relationship.

Ok.. I am just going to do that...( God works in mysterious ways). I am looking for a lady with the following attributes:

[b]Christian: ( Born Again preferably CAC/RCCG) Family Background) It will be nice if the parents are well involved in Ministry
Educated: At least first degree with good academic records ( evidence of a budding career or business ( business is preferred)
Personality: Mild Introversion ( I am an extrovert, can talk for Africa, life of the party, multiple chain of friends, big baby etc)
Ministry: Must be involved in Ministry work ( it will be good if she is good with children and old people, I love these people)
Spirituality: She must be someone who understands the significance of ceaseless praying and the fact that we are all that we are by the grace of God ( so she will be humble and be able to exude grace and compassion). For instance, it takes humility and wisdom to even consider this online advert.
Life's ambition: She must be someone who really wants to make heaven and whose life's ambitions are subject to their alignment with that goal.
Ethnic: I am sorry, but I really will prefer a Yoruba Lady ( preferably an Ijesha ( or any other town in OSUN, Oyo or Ekiti)
Age: 24-27[/b]
Physique: Slim with nothing particularly conspicuous
Complexion : Dark ( chocolate)
Eyes: Big or moderate eyeballs with heavy eyelids ( the physical attributes are desirable but not compulsory)
Height: I am 5:8, so that is the maximum height.
Interests (movies, road trips, hosting guests, cooking and fashion)
Dressing: I need it to be obvious from your dressing that you are a Christian ( No rainbow colours on the face, no heavy jewelries and definitely no skimpy dresses outside of the house)
I am sorry, you will also need to still be a VIRGIN. I respect every woman regardless of their sexual history but for this position, a Virgin will be more appropriate.
Location: Preferably Lagos but if you have access to the social media ( location should not be an immediate barrier).

MY CREDENTIALS

I am a christian, male, professional in his early 30s. The qualities I want in my woman ( as stated above) sufficiently defines who I am. If you are interested PM me and you will be free to conduct your due diligence.
[b][/b]

evolg:
An incident at an airport really put me off.

This one time I was traveling by a certain airline - lets call it Amirates. My flight was going to be more than 24 hours, so lets just say I was very comfortably dressed. Now I enter the airport and started walking towards the business class queue to check in my luggage. One of the staff members approaches me and tells me please join another line - the one for Economy Class passengers. I wouldn’t have had an issue but I had paid for this ticket and I did not find that reasonable. I let him know that I was heading to the correct queue. He asked me to show my ticket. I did. He says he’s sorry, puts on those happy faces, says a thing or two and tells me to have a pleasant flight.

While this might not be a big deal, I really felt bad that how people have this biased perspective on how rich and successful people are supposed to look and behave and would not accept that looks do not define a person.

There is a yoruba adage that says" Aso nla koni eniyan nla" "A great outfit does not mean the person is great" Try not to be offended by that attitude,let it go...

azuson:
These are the ingredients 10 lime,50 9ra ginger,50 9ra garlic and blend together and take it before food in the morning. You will thank me later.

You will also discover other uses of it which I will not tell you I want you to experience it

pls can it done in large quantity and stored in a bottle? Am I to put lil quantity of water wen. Blending? I really need to make it for my mum?

jonaifame22:
For me I think.
Wrapping ur arms around her frm behind.
Telling she's sexy.
Poking her frm behind wth ur erect Dick.
handling breasts when u guys are together.
Showing are some cash and make her know u'll spend for herany day and anytime.

I love this guy joor...your head dey there,now that's what am talking about.

naijamakossa:
mine is....Bia,,,so you want to make me a talkative in this house,you won't kill me before my time.Lols

LMAO....mine is "Olorire omo ni e,ti n ba mu e" meaning"you are a glorious child,if I catch you"

sanky346:
Since I was born, now that I am old, this product has never changed size,shape,colour,packet and wait for it... It doesn't advertise. What kind of business arrogance is this?
Lol

ts called" maintaining brand/product standard"the only product I respect be that*lol# That is what is killing Nigerian markets..Keep the standard,even if you inflate the price,pple won't mind..

whiteeyes:
@Op, I advise you to take the bull by the horn. No need to always ask a woman politely to make love to her especially if she's wifee. See, I'm a woman and I can tell you authoritatively and from experience that most women don't like the slack man but the vicious who asserts. Not that you should rape but just show that you are in charge of that ministry. When she brings up those countless excuses, just do some sweet little talks into her ears and voila! The aches are all gone and the act sets in. Sometimes I wonder, if you men only knew the little things that trigger and make women surrender. Cheers dear!

THANK YOU..you v said it all. Some men don't understand their wives sexual needs..In this case of her giving excuse,he might give her a hug from behind and whisper funny loving words to her ears that would just melt away all the stress.. Ladies are triggered by what they hear.

danbrowndmf:
This write up hit me hard. Some girls will tag u all sort of names cus you toast their friend,mean while she is the 1st person you talk to.

some lladies can be like that..so annoying.

dealordea:
It's a journey which I think should be believed in! Met my fiancé on here and she was based in Dubai! She died last two month in her home town and I am just trying to move on! She was an active member of NL and so I am but God knows best.... We had plans but God wants another for me... Try your luck and you may find the real deal on here! NL is big world bro

am so sorry to hear that. God will strenghten you

JESUSBOIY:
There is one girl i had sex with weeks ago ... I actually deflowered her , i noticed that the more i try to push her away, she is getting real close to me, she visits me frequently,gets angry if i don't call her,calls me different pet names, helps me with chores and keeps telling me personal things about herself and her family.


The worst is that she has already started talking about getting married to me. When i told her that it isn't possible, she started threatening me , saying that since i slept with her i must marry her.... She keeps fighting any girl i talk to, stalks me and keeps disturbing my life .. ... Please help


[s]she is a beautiful girl tho, i should have tot about marrying her but,[/s] she is a gossip , lazy ass troublemaker and a very ill mannered person.

You shouldn't have disflowered her then when you know she is a trouble maker....70%of ladies share a bond with the guy that disvirgin them

Dbrainiac1:
op u well so? Which kinda man will do that?

Oya girls
Over to you

yes it is possible,I watched it online,ts d biggest wedding proposal/wedding ever...the lady was just in tears all thru.. If na me,ts gonna come as a surprise,tears of joy but will still pull through till the end but I will forever cherish my man.

sinaj:
It's alredi trending in ph

It is real madness

pwettiejay:
Village people at work, tragic!
Unless its a movie

When they are told not to escalate the event,they wan do "ka ri mi"....future husband hear me oh... From the family introduction to the signing of the dotted lines na coded tinz... May God heal her IJN