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Nice but you forgot one important thing.

Short people in general have short temper. Run for hell hart no fury like a short woman. Talking from experience.

Has anyone noticed the sudden disruption of broadcast by radio continental 1023fm? My belief for this is, the station might have been sanctioned by NBC for playing partisan politics by playing ONLY adverts from APC candidates.
For those of you thinking this is illegal, you need to read the NBC code which states that NO broadcasting outfit should play partisan politics no matter what.
Even rhythm 937fm owner, ben murray bruce(former NTA chairman) a strong supporter of PDP(he is contesting for senate on the platform) stills plays adverts from APC.
We await for the explanation radio continental will give. Other stations should take note.

Khabuqi:
See this bobo dey call me aunty when I no be woman
Chaii!!!

The husband becomes the wife's first priority.

. No be you call me Uncle first? Lol. At least we are now on the same page. There should always be balance.

Why has no one mentioned ibadan or ekiti?

Khabuqi:
The ancient concept of karma found in Hinduism and other traditions is far more complex than simply "what goes around, comes around". So Uncle tivta, forget that karma is real thingy.

In my opinion, when a man marries, his wife becomes his first priority. If a man is not ready for that commitment, then he should stay away from marriage. No be by force. Peace!

. Aunty, then what becomes the woman's first priority? The children? Yes karma is deep but the summary still remains"what ever a man does so shall it befall him times 10".

Khabuqi:
Bros wetin you dey yarn?
Leave idiomatic proverb joo. Which kin cake

Why won't I say if? It is their choice if they marry or not. I hope my son leaves my house when he is man enough. Married or not.

ok oh. Sha just remember, karma is real. Peace.

Sai Buhari,














































On Nairaland...

cacali:
Helloooo did you read my post? Who talked about fighting fire with fire? Some men are also not in good terms with their MILs, they just tend to ignore them.

. My fire by fire was due to you saying DILs should make boundaries between them and their MILs. If men can ignore MILs why can't women do the same? Instead of making it sound as if without them a man will die? As long as there is room for divorces, no man should ever put his wife above his parents. Blood is thicker than water.

Khabuqi:
Yeah. If they marry, their wives should be their first priority. Just like my mum is my dad's first priority.

. You are sounding selfish. Why say IF? You don't want them to leave you abi? My dear you can't eat your cake and have it.

cacali:
Don't be so sure that all men will choose their mothers over their wives. Know so many men that have chosen their wives jejely. But I totally agree that it is not a realistic position to put aman in, because many a times it backfires. But truth be told some MILs are just so overbearing that they refuse to give their sons and DILs breathing space. And at that point the woman needs to take a stand. But rather than ask your hubby to choose between you and his mother, you can call in some elders of your faith to intervene, especially if the man takes his faith/religion seriously. Don't deny your husband sex or food o. Hian!!! Those things are all over the place and he can even get it free of charge if he wants, with jara on top sef and then, Mrs. Wifey looses at the end. I have a fantastic MIL and I've no issues with her in the last 16 years. She no even get time as she is busy taking care of her goats and crops in the village. Her own is just make sure you feed her son. Shikena!

. So fighting fire with fire will solve the problem? Women just can't tolerate themselves yet they forget karma is real. Why don't men fight with their MILs? Its a female thing that needs to be changed.
Women are their own worst enemies.

Godshand:
Op, as you've clearly stated, one thing these ladies called "daughters in-law" seem to forget is that they are very much potential "mother in-laws" in the nearest future. You cant sow cocoyam to go reap cassava.

My elder brother's wife is so unfair to my mum.... a big disappointment to everyone in the family. But each time i look at her behaviour, i laugh cos i assume she doesnt know what she's doing. I thank God because she has a son. Let's see what the future holds for her and her son and daughter in-law.

. My brother, karma is a bittch that fuccks every one. What goes around comes back around. I pity all these women shouting "MILs" are bad, they too shall reap what they sow.

Khabuqi:
Forsake as in leave others and then the husband and wife will become one. I think it is even in the bible or something. Like I said, when a man marries, the wife should be his first priority. If a man is not ready for that commitment, then he should stay away from marriage and continue being mama's boy.

. Don't get angry when your children also abandon you for their wives

TooNoisy:
Young ladies just ruin their marriages for no reason. They come into marriage thinking their MIL must be evil so they just start fighting her. How come only the husband's mother is always evil?

These ladies will set strong boundaries for the woman; boundaries that they will not set for their own mother and they think that is fair. If their own mother enters her kitchen to cook, no problem but if MIL enters kitchen to cook, all he'll will break loose ; then they tell their husbands to choose. You think your husband will not clearly see that you are being partial? A woman you were very nice to before marriage suddenly becomes evil after marriage.

Nobody is saying some MIL are not trouble some, what the OP asked was if it is ok to ask your husband to choose between wife and mother . The simple answer is that it is never Ok cos the two ain't in competition. I asked again, how come only the husband's mother is troublesome? The wife's mother gets away with anything she does but anything the husband's mother does is pure evil.

. Am surprised am reading this from a woman, wow am really impressed. My dear please don't bother talking to those feminist girls cause they would just give you unnecessary BP. Let's just pray that whatever they sow so shall they reap.

@babyosisi

All I can say is, remember that you too will become a MIL one day so whatever you sow so shall you reap.

greatgod2012:
Leave the house and show that you're now a grown up man.
Leave, not abandon, not reject, not disobey, not dislike, not hate.
And remember, the same bible also says......."obey your mother and father in all things, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God has given you".
And this is the only command with promise o.

. Men, your wisdom 'bad' oh. I swear your children will enjoy you die. Its not a prayer but a FACT.

You look happier than your wife.

Ezedon:
All our network providers are rogues yet NCC dont want to do something

. Have you tired using the service?

Cc honsule, puskin, dragnet.

Seun, lalasticlala, mynd44, ishilove. Push this to the front page to see if am the only one and also to advice nigerians before they lose their money.

I have used two different sims to subscribe for the etisalat video smart pack, upon reduction of my airtime (N400 for the service) I am told that "you are now on the eisalat video pack bundle". The issue is despite switching my phone off and on, no video pack or internet service is available. It keeps saying"error,check internet settings" this is strange cause I am still using the same internet APN to browse and stream when I have a data bundle or credit.
I have called to many times and all I hear is"we have forwarded your message to the department in charge of the service".
Now I want to know if am the only one with this problem or if others are being ripped off too.

Pls mods move to the front page as this affects all of us.

Lol

dancok:
bro leave them,they watch too much Jackie Chan films.

. Trust me bro if it was really jackie chan they watch, they would see at the end of most of his films involved in one accident due to a crazy stunt. The problem is they watch too many telemondo serials.

Am disappointed most women here don't know how sensitive the human body is. A simple punch at the right place can KILL anyone.

lonelydora:
The thing haf tire me.

. Yet some people say its the best place for experts to live in...

Abduletudaye:
Yep, with cuts to the vital blood capillaries...

. Thanks bro, you obviously are well learned.

almostFamous:
I don't know if I shld believe this..a grown up man was killed with a blade? Hmmm

. You obviously don't know human anatomy, if you did you would know just a single cut can rupture an artery(main supplier of blood) and without blood is death. Just be careful so as to avoid such.

UrennaNkoli:
for you info, mine was specially sent from the US. I'm the only one who currently own an HTC ONE M9 in the world specially customised for me only. You can however chill till like next two months before you lay your hands on it...

. How old are you? Or are you an aspiring comedian?

Kentrasso:
Nansense post

. Can I guess? White garment?

I can only manage to cope with a clingy girl cause am an introvert. The rest are suicidal for me...

steric58:
Although everybody has his or her own opinion but it's only the person that doesn't want progress of this country that's going to vote for gej

. And its only a person who wants to die for fighting the government's performance that will vote for GMB. #donttakeawayfreedomofspeech.

Its obvious GMB has already won









In nairaland.

GEJ wins in reality.

[quote author=acidtalk post=31549969][/quote]. Bro they are OBVIOUSLY kids or dry comedians .
lol

Mhizkel:
Lol...That's y we are women

. Ok oh. Sha try take am easy. Bye dear.