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afrobrown2000:
wow...just like i said book your tickets ASAP the evidence for ban was just too glaring
My wife just got to Canada Early this morning .As a travel Consultant she changed her ticket to Monday Morning (Nigerian Time) to Arrive early Hours of Tuesday Morning (7:45am) via Ethiopian Airline. we where ready for the worst as fully vaccinated she might be forced to quarantine ...etc
But her POE was smooth no much questions asked probably because there was crowd and about to switch shifts, infact she had a long lay over for her connecting flight to her end destination before we heard about the ban...
She was just lucky......

purespikes:
This is sad. How often does Canada review their travel ban? What is the fate of Nigerian students who are starting school soon? This is so upsetting

user283:
There's this lady I've been dating for two years now. We happen to be members of the same church and I ought to have taken the relationship to the next level by getting my parents to her place for our introduction last month but I had a rethink and postponed our introduction due to an issue that might cause problem in the future

I noticed my girlfriend is the stingy type. When I mean stingy, it's on the high side. Assuming she's just averagely stingy I wouldn't really be bothered but this is gross.

I work as a bank teller (contract staff) and my salary isn't really much while she works in Shoprite. Even from the little I earn, I'm always sensitive to her needs and I tip her whether she's stranded or not since I love her but how can I explain being with a lady for two solid years and I've never for once received any gift no matter how little it is? Not even something as little as toothbrush or hair cream

Initially, I didn't see this as a big deal probably because I grew up with the mentality that it's a taboo for a man to expect gifts or little support from his girlfriend when he's in dire need
but I've now grown to realize that "give and take" is one of the key elements of a good relationship

Even if I get stranded or go into debt, my girlfriend acts nonchalant and she'll be the
last person that will ever render a little financial assistance to help my situation. You might say I should sit her down and discuss about it. Yes I've already done that and I made her understand that I actually postponed our introduction for no other reason but because I'm still indecisive if I want to spend the rest of my life with a selfish woman but her response shows she takes pride in being stingy

I even used logic to whine her younger brother recently just to be sure if she's stingy to me alone but the boy confirmed it that her sister is very stingy. I decided to carry out my findings on her brother because I believe he should know her better.

You might want to talk about sex but my belief is that sex is just a mutual pleasure and does not define what a woman gives to you in a relationship especially a relationship that will lead to the altar

What's getting me worried is that we've come a long way but I don't want to end up with a selfish woman because it's written all over her that she cares so much only about her own well being

Please advice your fellow brother. Do I have a reason to be worried? I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me especially when it comes to giving. Should I tolerate this level of stinginess from a woman simply because I'm a man?

P.S: I'm still with her because she has other good traits

Please pardon my typos. I wrote this in a hurry

Pr0cter:
It's no biggie. You have nothing to worry about. Just recommend seritide inhaler for him whenever he has an attack. That's the best relief for asthma and it prevents continuous attack.


Congratulations all the same.

Bawizzo:
Ismail don blow whistle

He is not guy....he was with them


snitch ass douchebags everywhere.

PrimadonnaO:
The truth and nothing but the truth!

How do we see evil and cheer on? See perversions and be ecstatic?
Are these the kind of people we want our sisters and daughters to be like? If not, why cheer?

Ndlistic:
Female mechanic recounts her experience, today, in Lagos.

The beautiful lady while sharing her experience today wrote,


Watch The Video .https://www.thenaijafame.com.ng/2019/08/female-mechanic-recounts-her-experience.html?m=1

Amazingman:
We already have one of their members as president or

NoSidonLook:
Word from a matured, intelligent woman and wife who's exposed and has achieved enough in her lifetime

Unlike Tacha the brainless, classless slum dog with no honour disgracing Nigerian youths upandan

The funny thing is she still has fans supporting her every way
I wonder if it's human beings that follow these deadbrain celebs on Instagram God bless u real good your just spoke my mind gbam

These are the beasts some jobless activists are saying "Real men walk away" from

Her kind can even stab a man...Mike should thank his stars it was a live TV show, and it was just tissue paper she threw at him

If it was in the outside real world and they were in private, who knows it may have been a knife flying to his face

tosindami:
I'm very confused right now.

I'm presently undergoing training as a graduate trainee in one of the first-generation banks in Nigeria. I resumed not too long ago, and it's gonna span for three months, after which I'd be fully absorbed into the bank as a core staff. The training school is in Lagos, and you dare not seek permission, as it will not be granted. You even risk getting sent off if you arrive the training school 10 minutes late.

Just yesterday, I received an email from NNPC stating that I've been shortlisted for an interview (Graduate Trainee) slated to hold in Abuja next week.

I really don't know what to do, as I risk losing both if I attend the interview with NNPC without an express permission from the bank.

N.B: Both are graduate trainee roles.

I'm mystified right now. I hope to get plausible answers from my ogas here..

bigerboy200:
I know the PDP supporters really wished there was a server. The issue of electronic transmission wasn’t in the electoral guideline, and the constitution doesn’t provide for such either. But I don’t blame some people who believed the server story. Afterall,it’s in this same country that people believed bathing with salt water can prevent Ebola.

sonnie10:
Ignorance, must it be on social media?

good4all40:
bro u have a point


I don't think our man can afford such amount of money according to his message. I will suggest he look for a cheaper hotels online from 10k downnward, check jumia and other hotel portals online. The reason l mentioned you should delay your marriage till her second or third visit, is that it will surely makes your immigrant visa less complicated, Nigeria is rated as high marriage fraud country, so marriage at first visit will be viewed as such except mountainous and convincing evidences are provided by you.

cescky:
hes a foolish boy
All the time he was being arraigned and hailed by his group of touts and yahoo boys..instead of him to maintain a humble and sober outlook, he was busy forming gangster and freedom fighter....some civil servants stand for people they dont know, for profit or money...and are paid for it..its a business on its own

He has potentially chased away such people, because hes shown the world hes unrepentant and can run away.

Life is more than posing for instagram and nairaland

Teaser4:
victory at last

eelbay:
God will see you through bro... GOD can never see through evil mehn

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

SolutionMee:


That's why we recruited you. We gave you a job so that we can monetize you. People serve their country here in America too. I haven't seen any soldier lamenting like this before.

Which chapter is this written in your book of lamentation?

Unprofessional army.