₦airaland Forum

mumumugu: Is it a sin to leave class before lecturer/teacher finishes teaching

is it sin to leave meeting with boss when meetin isnt over


is it sin to walk out when ur dad is talking to you

Mortiple: Why is the man's name ENUGU when he is not from Enugu State? Doesn't he have another name? Hope this is not an attempt to rope Ndigbo into the Ombaste bruhaha?

joeydozzy: which kind of man is this?
she keeps in touch with her exes with basic platonic relationships, he's angry

she hides it from him in order not to upset him, he's angry

she now deleted 5 of her friends just to be with him, he's angrier

lastly, she's begging him to come back to him and he's still angry

frankly, the roles in this relationship have been exchanged

Chrisbenogor: How the hell do these threads make front page?


Dear OP,
How convenient for you to suddenly reduce your friend's relationship to just one thing - Money.

1. When should a guy start spending on a girl?
It is not the primary responsibility of your boyfriend to "spend" on you. Infact when a guy starts by "spending" there is a huge probability he wants to "give and take". People are different and I am sure there are happily married couples out there whose husbands do not just dole out candy at every opportunity. Your friends parents/guardians are still alive presume or she should have a job to primarily take care of her, it's her responsibility.

2. Why guys believe in Give and take?
No guy who wants you in a serious relationship would be thinking of give and take. It's ladies like you who have formed the opinion that a guy who is a spendthrift is the correct guy and the more conservative guy is stingy. At that point it ain't rocket science, services has been paid for in cash, the payee expects service in kind for the pizza or the blackberry z10 he bought, simples.

3. Who should call more

My advice is go back and look out for the important things in a mans character that would make him a solid rock for you tomorrow instead of chasing flimsy things like who spends on you or not. Men do not want a financial or even an intellectual liability at home, grow your sense of pride as an individual most especially as a lady and whatever you do kindly stop advising your friend or anyone on what makes a marriage ugly.

Cheers.

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