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RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 12:11am On Jul 08, 2017
Fearlez:
here's an excerpt from your thread: In any romantic union,the mid life crisis in a man is usually from age 30 to 50 while that of a lady is from age 20 to 30

Midlife crisis is a completely wrong allusion. That's my take.
Do you really understand the so called universally acceptable definition ?

Go read again and you will see that I'm 100% right if I choose to apply an age range cos the age varies just as I also pointed out

If I were you I would discuss the contextual application rather than bother my head over what a mortal like you wrote as their definition.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 12:04am On Jul 08, 2017
Fearlez:
Toks for kuku do law with this brazen rigmarole
If I could I would go into law cos I can prove myself in almost any situation and if you are not very intelligent you will be forced to hate me.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 11:56pm On Jul 07, 2017
Fearlez:
Let me sail along with the import of your thread. So according to your thinking outside the box, a girl in as young as 20 is already in her midlife of romance? When did she start dating? 10?
A lady becomes an adult at 18 and at 20 to 25 she usually feels the world is hers and commitment talks to her at that stage is baldadash. ..any guy trying to pin her down at that point might be faced with her rebellious act..then as she gradually approaches age 30,she begins to see the need to calm down her nerves and that inner crisis begins to dwindle and a lady who feels she is unstoppable at 23 suddenly sees the need to settle down at 31....
and please what gragra does a 50year old lady wants to do again? if a lady adulthood starts at 18 and at 50 she is considered old enough does it not make logical sense that the mid life of her romantic life should be from 20 to 30?

How is this hard for you to understand...let me stop here.
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 11:46pm On Jul 07, 2017
vingeophysicist:
young girl generally if a man wants to settle than they go for well cultured ladies .Men only go after slay queen for the fun they derive, am absolutely and 100 percent sure of what am saying .infact to really know if a man wants to settle down immediately he start discharging those slay queen for wife material.
You make sense.
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 11:43pm On Jul 07, 2017
busybeei5:
Thread is coming back alive smiley smiley smiley
It was never dead but some of you are just tooooooo anti social.

Ladies forming voltron.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op):
SecondEva:
you should have named it something else, mid life crisis is midlife crisis, you cannot redefine it.
This is exactly why we lag behind in Africa....who actually defined it?

It may blow your mind that the original definition is so wrong because life expectancy is about 70 years on the average and of course many die younger than that so shouldn't it be from ages 30 to 40?

You see why I wrote that until we learn to think outside the box we may forever be enslaved in the ideology of a fellow human like us

When I first used the word mid-life crisis I had no clue that it ever existed in the dictionary and I applied it when I was counseling a couple and as an individual with a cognitive ability to create words,I will stick to my application in relation to romantic affairs regardless of a universally acceptable dogma.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 11:12pm On Jul 07, 2017
Fearlez:
My angle is what is universally known as midlife crisis which are the crisis people experience in their middle lives and it begs the question how a girl in her 20s will be having midlife crisis when life has only just began?
You need to think outside the box....

According to wiki...A midlife crisis is a transition of identity and self-confidence that can occur in
middle aged individuals. It is a psychological and behavioral observation that commonly occurs with individuals between the ages 45–64...... *Its observations differ in a diverse manner for each individual.

But this write up creatively expressed another type of mid life crises in our romance with the opposite sex...and not the contemporary definition you are used to
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 10:57pm On Jul 07, 2017
WenysAD:
Thanks darl. Means alot
You should know how to cook very well cos many ladies born within this period are natural born chef.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:54pm On Jul 07, 2017
Fearlez:
Oga Told, your points are valid but midlife crisis are usually in the 40s of both sexes and not 20 for women and 30 for men!

It is usually the arrival of menopause for women when hormonal changes trigger behavioral and emotional inconsistencies, and depletion of testosterone for men.
My consept of the mid life crisis I'm referring to is far from the angle you are looking at it...
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:41pm On Jul 07, 2017
misspineapple:
this is the crisis..Hw can it b overcomed or managed?
lots of Tolerance.
RomanceRe: Lady From UK Is Looking For A Husband On Twitter by Toks2008(m): 10:39pm On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
Lemme talk the attention of those guys that have no babe cheesy

Cc
Lefulefu
Toks2008
Rapmoney
I jump am pass...this one is either scammer or possibly possessed or just stupidly seeking for attention .
RomanceRe: Lady From UK Is Looking For A Husband On Twitter by Toks2008(m): 10:37pm On Jul 07, 2017
auntysimbiat:
oko won lode
Husbands are everywhere...it is their high expectation that is the problem.
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 8:39pm On Jul 07, 2017
Neroski:
Oga toks, sharp guy. Lolsss.
How's everyone doing? I hope to get a wedding invitation from people that met on this thread o. As everybody don quiet so, e bi like say things dey go well behind the scenes.
lol! don't mind these people o....be be nlo for background...and I hope so too.
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 8:37pm On Jul 07, 2017
WenysAD:
Someone with a kind and beautiful heart should pls show me love with a birthday cake oo. My birthday is tomorrow and my nephew's first birthday is Sunday and I've only got cake for him.
Pls help a nairalander smile on her day. Thank you
Happy born day swerrie
CrimeRe: Raped At 12, Had A Baby At 15, Now Sleeps In The Cold (pic) by Toks2008(m): 8:33pm On Jul 07, 2017
ijustdey:
men who ever raped underage girls should just have their "rope removed"


castrated
Do you people ever read before making comments?
CelebritiesRe: Wale Ojo: My Sex Scenes With Omotola Jalade- Ekeinde In "Alter Ego" Were Real by Toks2008(m): 4:17pm On Jul 07, 2017
Marketing gimmick

CrimeRe: 14 Passengers, Driver Kidnapped In Port Harcourt, N14 Million Ransom Demanded by Toks2008(m): 11:50am On Jul 07, 2017
rifasenate11:
its disheartening that kidnappings on daily basis is taking a while new dimension in this country. so nobody can safely travel by road again. if you are not thinking about accidents or robbery, you are now thinking about being kidnapped .. This country is really a threat
Blame the security operatives who published the insane ransom collected by Evans.

Many bad guys now see kidnapping as a better alternative to robbery.
PoliticsRe: Our President, Buhari, Has Been Away For 60 Days! by Toks2008(m): 11:09am On Jul 07, 2017
greatgod2012:
A very big mistake was made in 2015 when this man was elected! Honestly, this is a big mistake and not government!
So you are now God that knows that an elected president will fall sick or was I not travelling for rallies during the election period.

Please free me and pray for my recovery...

TravelRe: My First Time Outside Nigeria by Toks2008(m): 10:40am On Jul 07, 2017
Alert:
Another nice one from you @ naijasinglegirl, I admire your writing skills always having a dash humour, at unexpected places.

Please I sent you a mail since May 14th, no reply from you yet. I would appreciate if you can do that, except you have a policy on that.

Thanks smiley
I don't know and I might be wrong but I think she is allowing the encomia get into her head and that is a red flag.
PoliticsRe: Magu Can Be Removed When Saraki Becomes Acting President – Falana by Toks2008(m): 9:25am On Jul 07, 2017
omoiyalayi:
One day saraki will bite more than he & his cohort can chew
I have never trusted saraki judging from his days as kwara governor...that guy is a zealot and may myander his way to the presidency just as he became the Senate president in a controversial manner.

I pray for Osinbajo.
PoliticsRe: Magu Can Be Removed When Saraki Becomes Acting President – Falana by Toks2008(m): 9:22am On Jul 07, 2017
krendo:
Femi Falana does not understand the constitution
I guess you need to do some facts finding....in all honesty Buhari ought not to have asked for Senate confirmation cos section 171 of the Constitution is very clear on the matter.
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Held Meeting With SANs For 5 Hours, Before Insisting On Keeping Magu by Toks2008(m): 9:19am On Jul 07, 2017
So many lacuna and anomalies in our Constitution and this is why we are where we are today

The president under section 171 of the Nigerian constitution can remove or appoint a head of ministries without the Senate confirmation but the question is....what about sub ministries such as Inec,efcc and the likes?

This is where the k leg is.
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 8:45am On Jul 07, 2017
rane06:
oga Toks2008 I hail o
Rane how u dey? oya make you sef add that number make we relate on a gentro level.

Do have a profitable day.
RomanceRe: When you get carried away by initial gragra. by Toks2008(op):
nairamaniac:
Wonderful. U cudnt HV sed it any better. Both physical appearance and inherent qualities matter.

You would be my wife and I marriage councillor when the time comes. I only pray I can afford you. grin

God bless you.
Interesting .
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op):
reminiscing:
It's a pity because most ladies are not that way. Men wants slay queens, one who will walk semi naked on the road.... They fall in love with that one and then leave the unslay ones saying they have Zero social life. I have had lots of guys like that... It's very frustrating but I am living my life regardless
Wait o...what is your age bracket sef?

If you are below 25 then you have no reason under the sun to be worried but I would advice you focus on developing yourself and the right man will come in due time.

Let me extend a hand of FRIENDSHIP so add me to your wattsup on o8otwo3146o46
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op):
OME:
Now there's no such thing as political or romantic confidence, is there?
Your confidence, or lack of it, affects all aspects of your life.
True
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2017
Lalasticlala Maka why?
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:04pm On Jul 06, 2017
Lalas247:
See this wan o grin
Kilosele?
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:00pm On Jul 06, 2017
BiafraBushBoy:
I am just gonna pretend like I read this long epistle with no bearing.

Who else is gonna pretend with me? wink
If this is long then I wonder how you cope with academics ...
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 9:57pm On Jul 06, 2017
Cinderella5:
Op made sense for the first time in his misogynistic life.

RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 9:55pm On Jul 06, 2017
misspineapple:
Gbese re o..
Why Gbese?
SportsRe: "Carl Ikeme Has Been Diagnosed With Leukemia" - Wolverhampton Wanderers by Toks2008(m): 9:06pm On Jul 06, 2017
dominique:
Aww sad
Hope he beats it
It will take a miracle and of course GOD is ever able.


Leukemia facts
Leukemia  is a cancer of blood cells (and therefore sometimes referred to as blood cancer ).

While the exact cause(s) of leukemia is not known, risk factors have been identified, including radiation exposure, certain chemotherapy for
cancer , smoking , family history of leukemia, and exposure to certain chemicals such as benzene.

Common symptoms of chronic or
acute leukemia may include
pain in the bones or joints,
swollen lymph nodes that usually don't hurt,
fevers or night sweats ,
feeling weak or tired,
bleeding and bruising easily,
frequent infections,
discomfort or swelling in the abdomen,
weight loss or loss of appetite .

Leukemias are grouped by how quickly the disease develops (acute or chronic) as well as by the type of blood cell that is affected (lymphocytes or myelocytes). The four main types of leukemia include acute lymphocytic leukemia (ALL),

chronic lymphocytic leukemia (CLL), acute myelocytic leukemia (AML), and chronic myelocytic leukemia (CML).
People with leukemia are at significantly increased risk for developing infections, anemia , and bleeding. Other symptoms and signs include easy bruising , weight loss  , night sweats, and unexplained fevers.

The diagnosis of leukemia is supported by findings of the medical history and examination, and examining blood and bone marrow samples under a microscope.

Treatment of leukemia depends on the type of leukemia, certain features of the leukemia cells, the extent of the disease, and prior history of treatment, as well as the age and health of the patient.
Most patients with leukemia are treated with chemotherapy. Some patients also may have radiation therapy and/or bone marrow transplantation.
There is no known way to prevent leukemia.

The prognosis of leukemia depends upon several factors, including the patient's age, the type of leukemia, and the extent to which the cancer has spread.

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