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RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:55pm On Jul 01, 2017
Cholls:
my brother you dont get it...Many believe that men go through a midlife crisis when they are in middle age. Not quite. Many middle-aged men do go
through midlife crises, but it's not because they are middle-aged. It's because their wives are. From the evolutionary psychological perspective, a man's midlife crisis is precipitated by his wife's imminent
menopause and end of her reproductive career, and thus his renewed need to attract younger women. Accordingly, a 50-year-old man married to a 25-year-old woman would not go through a midlife crisis, while a 25-year-old man married to a 50-year-old woman would, just like a more typical 50-year-old man married to a 50-year-old woman. It's not his midlife that matters; it's hers. When he buys a shiny-red sports car, he's not trying to regain his youth; he's trying to attract young women to replace his menopausal wife by trumpeting his flash and cash.
This angle you dey go pass me. What I'm talking about is varying ages that determines mid life crisis in both sexes and a 50 year old man must be ready to cope with that crisis that might be experienced by the 25year old lady.

Little wonder why most older men know how to treat a lady cos they have passed that stage of inner crisis
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:40pm On Jul 01, 2017
Cholls:
my brother Toks2008 for me I think the midlife crisis stereotype is aimed at a guy in his 50s that leaves his wife for a younger girl and gets a Porsche 911 Carrera .
As I wrote... it varies with individuals but I only gave a hypothetical age that holds true for many ....and ofcourse there is always an exception to every rule.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:38pm On Jul 01, 2017
VargasVee:
LMAO. Your posts makes sense often. This one got me lost at the middle of it.
In most cases if you don't meticulously read my articles you may not get the message.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:36pm On Jul 01, 2017
lalasticlala
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:20pm On Jul 01, 2017
VargasVee:
Confucianism grin

He was making sense till I don't know, he kind of drifted away from the point.
Thank God you confessed that you don't know where I drifted away.
RomanceRe: The Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op): 10:14pm On Jul 01, 2017
Deadshot:
Link ?
My brain is the source
RomanceThe Mid-life Crisis. by Toks2008(op):
According to Wikipedia;A midlife crisis is a transition of identity and self-confidence that can occur in middle aged individuals. While it is universally believed that this crisis occurs in individuals of 40 years and beyond, I have come to realize that this is also applicable in our romantic affairs with the opposite sex at different ages.

In most cases,after marriage,Many men still live as though they are still single and they would still make decisions without carrying their wives along,act foolishly and irrationally.

Some married ladies on the other hand just get married just for the sake of bearing that Mrs but still live their life as single ladies and lacking the vital qualities of a genuinely married lady.

The mid life crisis of the man is usually any period from age 30 to 50 when he is expected to be married while that of a lady can be any period from age 20 to 35. The period varies from one person to another but it is one phase most people must pass through and while some people are disciplined enough to control the crisis,some allow the crisis control them.

As we progress in age,the crisis usually reduces...During the mid life crisis of a man from age 30 when he is usually ready for commitment,there is an inner crisis he experiences when he will keep asking if he is really ready for commitment thereby exhibiting some crazy acts that may likely make the lady leave the union....but as he grows in age,he begins to overcome the crisis and by the time he is approaching the 40s or 50s,he suddenly realizes the need to get a grip of himself.

For the lady,at the age of 20 to 25 she just does not care and to her it's about catching fun and as she approaches age 30 she starts to realize the need to calm down and once she clocks 35 and above,there is an unexplained calmness that she starts to exhibit.

The bottom line is that most marriages that crash could actually survive if they can only tolerate their spouse at this passing phase.*This is the secret of marital longevity.

Domestic violence is also part of mid life crisis but it's never an act to tolerate but can be reported to the authorities so that it can be checked.

Stay in your marriage cos every marriage has its own peculiar problems..just be determined

Don't know if this makes sense.

RomanceRe: Nigerian Men Need To Understand That Some Women Have Financial Standards. by Toks2008(m): 7:06pm On Jul 01, 2017
Lubyna:
One thing I have realized from reading comments on this website is that a lot of men do not understand that some women have certain financial standards when it comes to dating, and nothing can make them lower those standards. So guys, when a lady says she can't date a broke guy, try to first ruminate on the information I want to pass across before deciding to label her with derogatory appellations.

When I say some ladies, this "some" constitutes a certain category of ladies. This category includes ladies who are ambitious, hardworking and goal oriented. They are aren't idle or ignorant. They are intelligent, well informed and most times are financially bouyant. These are the kind of women I am categorically referring to. If this kind of woman says she can't date a broke guy, then she is justified in making such statement, and any guy who insults her for making such statement or tries to refute her statement with the kind of pathetic comments I read here, is indeed l.
Soto niyen?

People like Evans,hushpuppy and dubious guys i guess.....True wealth is progressive.

And what if that wealthy guy by a stroke of faith loses all the wealth? I guess she would leave him to hunt for a new wealthy guy....

Baldadash!

RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 6:21pm On Jul 01, 2017
Happy new month friends.

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CelebritiesRe: Toke Makinwa's Tweet About Jay Z Cheating On Beyonce Got Her Blasted by Toks2008(m): 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2017
This Toke is still a learner.
Music/RadioRe: I Need A List Of Reputable Musicians You Can Easily Play Where Kids Are!! by Toks2008(m): 12:18pm On Jul 01, 2017
1.Asa 2.Timi dakolo 3.2baba 4.Sound sultan 5.Waje 6 Lagbaja 7.Beautiful nubia 8.Femi desire
And few other.
RomanceRe: Wish A Nairalander Happy New Month by Toks2008(m): 12:02pm On Jul 01, 2017
shinarlaura:
Happy new month to all my friends here. You guys are just so awesome;

BiafraBushBoy
Lalas247
DEGuyNxtDoor
Aderola15
thepussyhunter
Lefulefu
Jacksparr0w127
Toks2008
jakandeola
Young03
fitnessDoctor
Sexybbstar
SNOWCREAM
My Camerounian angel thanks and wishing you same.
RomanceRe: Wish A Nairalander Happy New Month by Toks2008(m): 12:01pm On Jul 01, 2017
sexybbstar:
Happy new month Lalas247, Lalasticlala, McBrooklyn, tosyne2much, shinarlaura, lefulefu, redbeans, deguynextdoor, Toks2008, seun, oyindidi, Aderola15, Tarah, makydebbie, sonofLuci, Victornezzar, greyboy5000, Fadiga24, msroe, thepussyhunter, sekxy, iweecureyou
, jamarifox, Maxi112.



And to everyone I couldn't remember their names.
Oh thanks omo to shan...wishing you same.
RomanceRe: Wish A Nairalander Happy New Month by Toks2008(m): 12:00pm On Jul 01, 2017
MzEddytan:
happy new month to Ekuru , Dewalcod, DaddyGngeess, tosyne2much, lalasticlala, Explorers, mmreport, Toks2008, femi4 and Osunra.
Oh thanks sweet lady...wishing you a productive month.
RomanceRe: Wish A Nairalander Happy New Month by Toks2008(m): 11:59am On Jul 01, 2017
lefulefu:
my guy called DeGuyNxtDoor so very sorry i left u out in the new month wish cheesy.it aint my fault ooo.its the fault of Evans grin...he just kidnap my memory cheesy.may the spirit of evans be cast out this new month in our lives.sonofluci and Toks2008...a happy new month to u two guys as well.new month popcorn to u three cheesy
Waa gbayi ore...happy new month
RomanceRe: Wish A Nairalander Happy New Month by Toks2008(m): 11:57am On Jul 01, 2017
sonofLuci:
Haha happy new month bro.


Toks2008 happy new month o.

Hope you will not reply using fake Spanish

undecided
Oloun gbami lowo awon monitoring spirits yii o...omo lucifer deyin leyin MI but happy new month.

CrimeRe: 2 Nigerians Arrested In India For Possession Of Heroin by Toks2008(m): 11:53am On Jul 01, 2017
taiyesoul:
The Sun ☀ won't ever stop rising from the East
Nairaland is one crazy place for comic relief.

RomanceRe: Ladies, Girth Versus Length? by Toks2008(m): 10:20pm On Jun 30, 2017
Cinderella5:
Let's talk about sex, don't be shy, this is the 21st century where we are liberated, we should discuss freely, non judgemental open minded guys are welcome too and pls ignore any retarded male who comes here to spew thrash cos they are hypocrites and broke.

Having said that, if you are to mould your dream man, will you prefer a long or fat D?
If you don't want to talk based on personal experience, you can talk based on what you have heard or learnt smiley


As for me, Girth over length (from information i have gathered).
From information or experience? just asking...

RomanceRe: My Type Of Man....(pix Attached) by Toks2008(m): 10:15pm On Jun 30, 2017
vanida6:
Just searching for this type of man but never get it wink wink smiley


1_Intelligent wink
2_Wealthy wink
3_Sexy wink
4_Handsome wink
5_Caring wink
6_Cute lips wink


If you have those 6 good quality's feel free to drop yah number or Pm me plss!!
I have all qualities but unfortunately you are too young for me to date.
RomanceRe: Shocking Photos Of Shellfish That Looks Exactly Like the womanhood. by Toks2008(op): 10:11pm On Jun 30, 2017
DarkRebel69:
Awon dindinrin meji. It's not a jellyfish.
Ori e fo. ...of course it's a shell fish as already stated...that was just an error
CelebritiesRe: Frank Edoho Blasts A Guy On Twitter Over Paul Scholes by Toks2008(m): 9:50pm On Jun 30, 2017
lalasticlala:
Quite funny. LWKMH

If I were these celebs, I won't even reply.
It takes serious self control to ignore some trolls cos they have a way of making one really angry...dem full naira land. ...

BTW how you dey? and hope you have finally wooed that lady you have been eyeing in your area...don't be surprised that I know...I be confirmed prophet.
PoliticsRe: FFK: "Okorocha The Diaper-Wearing Governor Says Buhari Is Not On Life Support" by Toks2008(m): 9:10pm On Jun 30, 2017
Nempi:
I'm from Imo state and I can attest to the fact that Rochas is a diaper wearing creature.
The only thing FFK missed out is the fact that Okorocha's diaper leaks both urine and feaces! The man is finished!
How you take know?

RomanceRe: 25 facts about women that will shock you. by Toks2008(op):
WORDWORLD:
That is WISE!!!
Hmmm! I guess so
RomanceRe: 25 facts about women that will shock you. by Toks2008(op): 8:25pm On Jun 30, 2017
lefulefu:
theres no big deal in the thread but i least expected frm someone like u na grin u know u are a pastor cheesy
Lol! Pastor kwpa
RomanceRe: 25 facts about women that will shock you. by Toks2008(op): 7:41pm On Jun 30, 2017
lefulefu:
the one yesterday uploading pics of fishes that have similar shape like a woman"s vagina grin grin
But honestly I think that is hypocrisy cos there is no big deal with that thread...
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S9: Top 4 Future Expectations by Toks2008(m): 11:53am On Jun 30, 2017
kossyablaze:
got it 300k bro.[s8+]......s8 is 270k
Half plot of land....OK continue
RomanceRe: Ladies,this is how to tame Your Man And Make Him Do Your Bidding. by Toks2008(op): 9:26am On Jun 30, 2017
yemoxyl:
Respect is Earned not Given undecided
If you are waiting for your man to earn your respect then don't bother to be with any man.
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy S9: Top 4 Future Expectations by Toks2008(m): 9:17am On Jun 30, 2017
S9! wait wait..OK continue..small time nah bomb den go dry produce cos I don't know where all these S kinikan will lead us. .I have s4 and it's doing do well and I was just admiring s8 that goes for about 350k and now this..
RomanceRe: Ladies,this is how to tame Your Man And Make Him Do Your Bidding. by Toks2008(op):
Jettage:
From your reaction and comment, I would warn men to be wary of ladies like you.
The point is, You just saw an apt aphorism and you have begun to rationalize it,
You don't know how it works out with men,
When you begin to demand the respect of a man, you will loose.
Men gives respect to women as a result of a woman acting accordingly (being submissive and respectful) to expect a man to throw his manliness to your expectations at first is the disaster of most homes.
It is a natural instinct in all men.
They will sure respect you when they see you exhuding all the characteristics of good manners and well brought up atributes
But impose yours first and you will meet a vehement resistance from any sane man.
It is naturally designed by the manufacturer
So, go learn all the skills of respect for your man, and you will sure see him acting naturally to his nature
But expect it first and the man will resist you with his mental faculties

FamilyRe: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by Toks2008(m): 11:53pm On Jun 29, 2017
eyinjuege:
Play along, and wait for the next 8months. Don't even mention it again
After delivery, just go to a center where they do DNA tests, and find out what you need to bring to do one. They may give you a swab, to scrape or rub on the inside of the cheek of your baby.
Collect it, and do that when you're alone with the baby.
Take sample back to the lab and do your test.
If the baby is yours, congrats. If its not yours, its still congrats. Do what you have to do/ your heart tells you to do.
Meanwhile, make sure you're also fertile before you make a decision on what to do if the baby isn't yours.
Nah DNA test you use mouth call like that!

It's over 100k to do it and the guy said he is financially strained.

Op it's so unfortunate that you have to bear the cost of cos this matter get k leg.
RomanceRe: 25 facts about women that will shock you. by Toks2008(op): 9:25pm On Jun 29, 2017
lefulefu:
this is the Toks i know cheesy grin
Lol! and which one don't you know?
EducationRe: Pictures Only Medical Students Can Relate To by Toks2008(m): 8:40pm On Jun 29, 2017
Abimbex007:
I love doctors kiss
Here is my wattsup contact.
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