₦airaland Forum

misspicy:
Lmao virgin aiye refering to me or herself....

can't be me sha
because i dont roll with cowards o if any body is sure of themselves they should quote me and talk........

Vikky014:
sme gurls are jst so frustrated in life eh. their comments speaks volume. na waoh..i pray she wunt die today out of frustration and e-jealousy
hahahahahahahahaha

kennycanny:
Funny You. Na ur type they fall mugu pass

kennycanny:
Toks2008 & vikks014. I will suggest you marry each other. You both will definitely live happy & blissful married life.

kennycanny:
Some ladies are still virgin because guys cant find them good enough to be close enough to have relationship that ll might lead to sex with them because they are either dirty, ugly, rude, cursed , boring , childish , arrogant , spoilt brat , etc.
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kennycanny:
Oga just say premarital sex is not too good, all ll agree with you.
Not everyone comes from a background that ll make them be financially ready to start raising children at 25.

kennycanny:
And some ladies also accept that its only sluts that allows condoms to used for . Nawa o, all kind of peeps Na in u go meet for chatting room.

Vikky014:
some girls are jst plain dumb and foolish. nobody is telling u nt to Bleep around. dis is a free world. u r entitled to ur opinion and lifestyle dnt panic when odas dnt think d same way u do or act same way u act. we all hv priorities in Life wht freaks u might nt b same thing dt freaks odas

Vikky014:
lol no be small pri.sec and tertiary. guess we also hv phd Virgins

its jst principles of ones conduct nt abt types of Virgin. bt atleast as a humanbeing u hv to set ur own standards and live by it nt minding wht odas think

Vikky014:
yes thanks. bt i cant tell a guy to put a ring on my finger if he wants sex. i only tell dem i will do so wt my hubby whn d time cmes. besides i jst graduated frm uni.waiting for BAtch A 16..NA my coursemates oooo peopl dt cmes to my lodge to enjoy my sweet indomie hw will i tell such guy to put a ring lol

Vikky014:
mydear i perfectly understand you. most of my female frnds thinks am an old woman d way i reason whn it cmes to premarital sex. i do tell dem dt i cant jst b sharing my nude wt a guy dt is nt my hubby except if am married to him. i prefer being an ashewo than to b fooling around in d name of boyfriend . i hv male friends not boyfriends and yes whn d time for marriage cmes one of my male friends might b my husband. shaa am neither religious dts jst me. two of my male friends went their way bc i refuse to go sexual wt dem.
anoda thing my fellow girls fails to understand is dt males hv nothing to loose no matter hw hard dey try to deceive demslfs

a friend of mine couldnt believe dt am her senior wt 2 yrs gap..she ws 21 den. i hv to show her my birth cert as an evidence evrybody tot i was an 18yrs old girl dt reason like a 45 yrs old lady dt dnt know wht life is all about. i told her dt sme lifestyles makes one to look way much older than her age

iampartyboy:
Op what are you saying? So because of konji I should get married? marriage is for sex and probably to have children right? When you are finally married you'll know there's more to marriage that this poo

Vikky014:
@Toks2008
GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD!!! my fellow ladies Abstinence is the best except if u r a commercial sex worker!!! as for me i rather be a commercial sex worker with class than to have sex whn am nt married

wrongnumber:
I have read through the pages of this thread and i can now see why many ladies in their due age are not finding a man to marry them.
This generation is perverted and totally morally dead. When i read some comments from some men i quite understand because of their gender but some ladies here have made some comments that make me weep for them.
If Nigerian government bans the use of condom today,trust me,the level of sexual discipline will increase so i understand the OP point of view and it is so regrettable that ladies who ought to support his assertion are actually cursing him goes to show howm sexually recjkless and jopeless some ladies can be. I pity the unmarried men of today cos what we have now are mostly packaged whores.

4stylz:
You people are not talking much about the fuel scarcity at the moment, it's arms deal we interested in, 4years will be over and we will still be in this same place.

opribo:
So is it not degrading to the woman you don't trust to be sleeping with her. sex with condom first and foremost takes away the real essence of love and corpulation which sex is meant to be
With condom sex becomes a alorified form of mastubation.

opribo:
True talk OP, them all glorified sex peddlers. A man fondles the lady inside out but at the height of arousal his brain remembers to grab the condom yet the lady doesn't want to be seen as cheap.
Condom usage has demystified the act of sex as you can get it anywhere and everywhere and that is why it has been commercialised.

Princess4eva:
Seriously, am with you on this one. I didn't want to comment before cos I don't know where to start the convincing from. Like you, I used to think op has it, but this thread is making me think otherwise. I mean where did the notion emanated from that condoms are for prostitutes? It's a form of birth control people can use even in marriage. The advantage it has over IUCD, pills, withdrawal method and the likes is that apart from helping with child spacing it also doubles as a prevention from STIs in the case of an infected partner.

In marriage, it is the decision of the couple to choose a birth control measure that suits them. The woman may even be the one that wears the female condom.

Princess4eva:
Seriously, am with you on this one. I didn't want to comment before cos I don't know where to start the convincing from. Like you, I used to think op has it, but this thread is making me think otherwise. I mean where did the notion emanated from that condoms are for prostitutes? It's a form of birth control people can use even in marriage. The advantage it has over IUCD, pills, withdrawal method and the likes is that apart from helping with child spacing it also doubles as a prevention from STIs in the case of an infected partner.

In marriage, it is the decision of the couple to choose a birth control measure that suits them. The woman may even be the one that wears the female condom.

Sijo01:
That's your moniker!


@op, I can't help but agree with you.

Jolllyjoy:
hehehehehe calling you names is out of it since you are only expressing yourself and what you think.



Well,i think condom is more reliable than other birth control method hence the preference.



Now,you will agree with me that,in this present generation,trusting people especially in b.f &g.f affair is extremely dangerous because even after the test you dnt know who that same guy wil sleep with the next minute ,little wonder a guy who is tested hiv- this month can be tested hiv+ next month even when he has a regular g.f hence the importance of condom can not be overemphasized.





The primary aim of condom is for protection,btw a guy can dig a gurl raw without any itom of affection for her,so i will urge you to have a rethink about this topic.



Abstainence is the best but in the abscence of that,dont forget condom can save one from a whole lot of stress.





Thank yhu.

flokii:
hmmm!

I understand you perfectly well.

either
1) they are not married and doesn't want to bear d consequences
2) he is sleeping with a prostitute or a runs girl
3)he's married and about to cheat
4)he sees free kitten on social media eg. Nairaland he wants to sharpaly smash

etc. etc.
C'mon married people don't need condom... either d husband or wife could get sterilized and datz all...
they can fvck all they want till end time who carez

bqlekan:
you are not addressing the circumstances I gave.. but let me leave that to your conscience.

if you go through your posts, you've contradicted yourself

* you want us to abstain and still have unprotected sex even outside marriage..

@emboldened, I disagree with that totally

if I use latex for a lady I love, the message m passing is [\b]' I want you protected just like I want to. we both are not ready to raise kids, so this act between us is just a way of consuming our love for each other. I care for a perfect future for the both of us, a future with no STDS.'[b]

Abstinence>prevention>cure

as we can't abstain, we gotta prevent

flokii:
bro... don't you know how conji affects this generation?

even sec. skol children dey fvck demselves for skol... what do they know?

it is very necessary in my own opinion... at least to avoid population explosion...
even if you'd leave STDs out of it

Jolllyjoy:
i cucuma dey sideline dey observe ooo,btw,na he opinion be dat.we all are entitled to our own opinion you know but am kinda surprised tho,all i know is that condom is used for protection.,




no condom,no sex until maybe after marriage and the two parties inovled are tested hiv free even at that one cant really say for sure talkmore of ordinary b.f and g.f.

flokii:
You don't know we have female condoms too...


you are not informed atal... as you age you'll understand

misspicy:
now i can see that you are a confused fellow really and i am really suprised at this coming.from you....

this corrolates the adage that humans do not seize to suprise one,


preach abtinense if you want to but saying only girls harbour diseases has shown that i was really wrong about you and yes age does not determine maturity,education is not enough to make a man knowledgeable


gosh this your sense is so achiac







am out jor

bqlekan:
now, lets take decency away from this, assuming I'm in a relationship with a lady, we both agreed to keep it safe.. ( does that mean the lady is a slut? why not call the man a slut?) what if during the relationship, either of us contact HIV virus through other means other than sexual intercourse? then we can gladly transfer it to one another right?
like you said,
"no lady in her right sense indulges in sex with a man she does not love."
now she loves me and we've been having sex, the best I can do is make sure it's protected sex for the sake of our future.

now to the emboldened..

assuming I've got a fiancee in her final year in school, bound to go for housmanship next year,.. I think you are telling me to impregnate her.. probably make her pause her career all because I really want her. Sir, it's not the right thing to do.

you probably should say 'abstain from pre-marital sex' that would have been better..

I think I once told you.. you have a problem with premarital sex..

misspicy:
even when they are not ready for it?

like seriously?

you mean every one should start poping babies in this economy because they wants to show their love for one another?

if you wanna talk about abstinaince please do but don't destroy the protection condom given to people abeg....they don't need this bullcrap

misspicy:
btw no offeinse meant but i can't allow you preach what will affect the coming generation

bqlekan:
this dude is here again.., here is my opinion,

lets assume a dude is HIV positive, going by your opinion now, he must respect that girl and spread the disease to her.. or better still, the dude should not have sex any longer cos he is HIV positive. and that makes him less of a human...

my opinion tho...