₦airaland Forum

delectablegyal:
Fvck u if disagree.

Dafe20:
Honestly, you are a blessing already to your generation! Thank you for these kind, educative (marriage wise) and uplifting words. God bless you Toks2008.

I appreciate!!!!

Confessng:
OMG
Mental health awareness should be on the increase....
I just wish he allowed that 450 to go,knowing he would soon leave the shores of this country
As for the men who refused to take him to the hospital?
They won't get my hate only love conquers hate.

Dafe20:
I want to say that God has been indeed very much faithful to us. We've been friends since childhood, dated for almost a decade. . .lolz . . .that's my style!



She's my personal person, my sister, my friend, my sweets, my bestie and soon-to-be wifey!

She's on Nairaland too. . .but just a reading member!
Tribal warlords gave her the chase.


We love each other very much ooo. . .no just dare look for anyone of us trouble ooo, or you don buy wahala be dat

The traditional marriage and church wedding is on the 25th "yes Christmas day" and 26th of December, 2015 respectively in Delta State.


I dey invite una ooooo. . . .party jollof rice berekete plus red wine and ofcourse beer is benbestically karid. . .d godz!!!!!

And there you have it. . .we honestly do need
your prayers as we celebrate our Love and Union! Shalom!

misspicy:
As for me myself and I....i cannot even date a poor man

obiorathesubtle:
bro. Me like the way you think...

We trying to please him, but it be hard!

obiorathesubtle:
mehn.. No be my fault, dem easy na. As dem dy give, man no fit reject na, I no be firewood.

obiorathesubtle:



[size=15pt]GOD FORBID! I REJECT IJN[/size]

misspicy:
seriously? whats innocent about my question? am replying according to ur explaination about the subject besides when did age become a criteria for innocence?

misspicy:
okay who does the sitting? me or him? and won't my weight crush his face or break his nose you know (ike ni mu)

misspicy:
seriously now am curious since my moniker is been mentioned on this since, what does face sitting mean

Wowzer:
Toks2008. If I hear say you catch fun with this type of topic again will ask misspicy to face sit on your head. Mr Perfect.

Wowzer:
Toks2008. Face sitting done by misspicy. Lol. Not your wife. Or is she your wife.

Aitee1:
Baba Toks2008 long time, I dey hail oh...

Wowzer:
Toks2008. If I hear say you catch fun with this type of topic again will ask misspicy to face sit on your head. Mr Perfect.

misspicy:
why call me a liar

Wowzer:
Op is this a new strategy of getting ladies on Nairaland? Even if I have been treating ladies right..I wouldn't agree with your approach. People make mistakes and amend their ways about the way they treat others irrespective of gender. Your approach sounds primitive and judgemental.

Cutehector:
bible said trust nobody...

Cutehector:
Mchew...

menix:
Someone should tell Ambode that the bridge will need maintenance after the excessive heat it experienced.

See how this devil just took away means of livelihood of some families at this End Time season.

Devil won't take away our livelihood, just hit the Like button to claim it..

Kachisbarbie:
This your experience in b**bs affairs, na how many years abeg?

misspicy:
cutehector you need to read this

troubleshooting mood activated

Omotayor123:
Lol... But you are on point!

wristbangle:
Sir, I hold much respect to your comments always and I really love the way u analysed this fact.

steady986:
Lwkmd...see expert ooo!

Reiyvinn:
Sex sex sex! That's the topic breaking through ethers of the romantic atmosphere across the globe.

In all ramifications, it can be drawn that the act of Sexual intercourse can indeed change a relationship for good; either to the right direction or otherwise.

The bond that Sex creates in relationships shouldn't be overlooked because even as it could strengthen relationships, it could keep you emotionally attached to the wrong person.

WAITING till after marriage for sex seems religiously appealing at all fronts, and to be honest with you it really is a beautiful thing to behold. However, let us not pretend to be unaware of the numerous disadvantages it holds. (few of which will be treated here)

Thus, before taking a "purity pledge" (i.e. No sex till marriage), let us be realistic at the following levels:

1.) Your Future Sexual Satisfaction is not guaranteed:

This is the major disadvantage of not having sex with your partner till after marriage.

It is true marriage isn't entirely about sex but we can't deny the fact that sexual intimacy makes up a huge part of marriages.

When you haven't had sex with your mate before walking down the aisle, your partner's sexual capability is entirely subjected to guess work which is really a huge risk and if your guess turns out wrong, it most often than not leads to.....

2.) Infidelity:

We're humans. It is in our nature to diversify when our long term investments yield a loss.

Oh yes, that's the word, it's a big loss! Imagine having spent two decades (or more) of your life waiting for your wedding night to have that long envisaged pleasure of intimacy only to be met with an ill-performing partner. It's a huge loss!

At this point, one party or both begin looking for alternative means to attain that long yearned satisfaction. At first, it starts with masturbating and porn addiction, and when it gets out of hand, infidelity sets in.

Body no be firewood you know.

3.) Risk of Impotence:

There's absolutely nothing worse than discovering that you've been entangled to a partner that'll never be able to procreate with you till death do you both part.

What a nightmare that is!

No wonder some people choose to get married only when the wife gets pregnant.

I even recall a neighbour back in Abuja who had an impotent husband. She had to have children with his relations and name them after him just to keep the marriage strong.

Some love strong sha!

4.) Sexual Chemistry:

Supposing everything goes fine and both partners are fit, capable and fertile, they will most definitely be one thing missing: Sexual Chemistry.

For couples who have had each other before walking down the aisle, pleasing each other won't really be difficult because they already know where ticks and how to get into each other's cloud nine. That's the understanding they took time to build. Mind you, everyone's different. That which works for Obi may piss Alhaji off.

It's really hard getting married to someone you don't fully understand and some situations come up where one partner wants MouthAction and the other detests it, or where one partner seeks to try out other positions and the other won't just get any of it.

These could lead to both insatisfaction and infidelity which aren't really good for a lifetime bond.

So, guys, that's it.

I'm not encouraging you to lose your "sexual purity", I'm rather highlighting the disadvantages of what you're getting yourself into and being real about it.

Please don't get me wrong, your purity pledge could come out as a tremendous success (which would be awesome) but assuming you find yourself in any of the situations stated above, know it's because of the decision you took.

Wish you well.