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cyril700:
God bless who ever posted this. Who ever will say yes to this, come am ready to marry u. Just that atleast I can afford a one bedroom flat instead of a single room.

Oliviaarims:
Toks, I usually agree with a number of ur posts, but u seem to be taking this a bit too personal. I can't count the number of times u've insulted women here. And then again, u're beginning to make it seem as though marrying a gainfully employed man is now sth bad in itself and plain stupidity. This may not be ur intention, but that's just how u sounding right now.

Oliviaarims:
It's only now u stated ur point clearly. I agree with u.

Oliviaarims:
NO, u can't subtract hope from anything u do, as a human. In whatever situation u find urself, u always hope it gets better, even if it's good. So, if a girl's dating a poor guy, she's definitely there because she hopes and believes that things 'll get better. The guy also hopes and believes that his situation will get better. Hope and living are two inseparable ideas. When hope dies, life becomes useless!

Oliviaarims:
Link, please.

ladycomfort:
Guys sha. That was how one idiot wasted 6 yrs of his life not mine.

marvelck:
This goes out to guys who are fond of hurting/deceiving girls intentionally... Don't think that girl you have been dating for like 3 years, and who has been giving you enough love and care all this while is happy just being a girlfriend when all her mates are getting married every weekend while you are busy delaying things and enjoying all the privileges of a wife from her.

If care is not taken, she might start having or looking at other options, since her biological clock (or goals) runs faster than yours. And before you know it, you wil be surprised to hear she's getting married soon to someone else. Bros, stop wasting time, and stop playing with the hearts of ladies. When a woman loves a guy dearly, she'll be willing to make sacrifice for the guy. She will be willing to wait and also endure. But mind you, there is a limit to every woman's patience. Women work on time... Lets do what's right for the sake of love!

markkaycee:
mr man.., u are seriously misleading people..u dont reason like this at this age/time..pls my people protect urself.,male and females are likely to be carriers of stds..be wise..

kidgod:
Still looks like the fake one


Kidgod

siamia:
Toks2008, Indomie ke?
Inbox me, make I send u address pronto pronto.

MzDeeb:
I have gone through all the comments here, from what i can deduce- its true some people are frustrated not because they really want to be but because of envy [the truth is really hitting them on the wrong side.]

I tell people being a virgin doesn't equals to u having the best marriage or love story. Having said that, this should mean that virginity shouldn't be celebrated. It is a pride of a woman for crying out loud . Almost all guys pray their future wife is a virgin. Because there is a blessing n glory attached to it from God.

Nevertheless, non-virgins shouldn't be condemned also. Judge not, we are all sinners.

Also, non - virgins should not always take it personal when their counterparts are being praised. It ain't that fault na haba. Cos all i see is bitterness, Jealousy and envyness...

People should learn to relate with each other well even if they have different opinions n views. Virgin and non virgins - strive to develop yourself in all aspect n have a good character because in marriage only sex will not keep u there forever.

NB: It is not everybody that one gives reply to. Some people are not worth the stress cos of their low IQ n level of reasoning.

Peace...

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

bqlekan:
I tell you.. he should preach abstinence and quit beating around the bush.

suzzy16:
thank u my lady for dis,some ladies should learn to love with their brain,nt their heart,most guys out there cheat on their girlfrnds.and what I knw mostly about nigerian guys is dat,they like. Going down raw with a lady,they hate dat thing call condom,which protects frm any serious sexual disease

fikolo:
@ OP, you have every right to your opinion but please bear in mind we live in a real word with real problems. It only makes sense to choose a less evil when faced with odd choices. Don't play with HIV! Don't bring a child to this world when you are NOT ready.

I am very sure most parents will swear their wards are virgins, same with most guys about their sisters and vice versa, leaving one wondering who are those getting bleep every seconds!

Please, take time to visits HIV clinics and their wards in hospitals, maybe you will have a different thoughts regarding UNPROTECTED intercourse. This is not a question of love, respect , cheap or trust. The first basic instinct of human is survival after wish we could discuss other issues.

Folks protect your future by all means necessarily!

Ups01:
HAVE YOU TRIED EMPOWERING ANYONE BEFORE?

solid3:
Hmmmm, may it be onto you as u wish.

Elosky20:
just like ur statement.people go into relationship nowadays because they want to enjoy sex without condom, i also pity for ladies.

solid3:
What if u are a pastor and ur members are so blessed, one of them bought this Porsche for, will u reject it ? Or what will u do?

enigma2007:
i tell you! These court appearances they delay things...or media ruckus

MRBrownJ:
- if you aint single but do not trust your partner then you might as well be single.
- we have all seen negative crazy stuff in life, but we certainly shouldnt use that as the sole basis for our future interactions in life.
- yes its better to be safe than sorry, "as soon as you have any signs of concern". if there is NO signs of concern then you have no business poisoning your union with such negatives thoughts.

but hey, if we should all think like you do (and use other people's life as the benchmark for ours) then NOBODY should get married because a few have died in the hands of their husbands/wives.

executioner27:
Use a condom no matter the situation. As in if you are not married. Its not about trust nor pregnancy, its the right thing. Don't be caught in this trust or cheap girl deceit. Another right thing to do is abstain from the whole drama. This is even the main right thing. When you are married, you can blow your wife (former GF who u used condoms on) skin to skin, Free Willy, Faceless, No Cap etc. Every other reason to use a condom on your wife has gone into the technicality zone which we can debate from now till the end of the world.

oloyede252:
I read the topic and i cant phantom the need for insulting or abusing the op..from his topic he already said its controversial.with something like that you only need to put down your opposing or supirior argument.unless you have something against the op

moreover at the topic using of condom is very important for people who engage mostly in pre and extra marital affairs because of the effect which is mostly in a negative light.std's etc

the reason most people here disagree with you is because for me they could not understand the psychological aspect in generality to the subject matter..look at your post from a physical point of view most people will tend to disagree.
But having a common relationship with the subject on a deep cognitive and psychological point of view i will tend to agree becouse of one thing you mentioned which is the THOUGHT.
Thought is inconsiquencial compared to action.most people will agree that people are likely to use condom when they trust not their sexual partner.TRUST NOT.could be alot of reason one of which the op projected...


On the long run.we are both right at the end.
Thks

misspicy:
egbami boda ode ma ti mu shepe oti ni igboya ore nu dahun

Vikky014:
lol. jst laugh it off jare no be her fault whn so many characters are deposited in one place dt is d result