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mentorandfriend:
Endorsed!!!
A lot of sense is in this simple thread you created.

OZAOEKPE:
see them, they allow their children to go to school, and keep them till they are ripe, they now marry them off to rich kids. they go ahead to tell their poor supporters to marry off their under age children to old agbayas all in the name of religion, only a fool would listen to them. the rules of religion, were made only for the poor, while the rich violates, and will make heaven.





common sense should rule first before religion.

mrmetoo1:
I'm conflicted, I really honestly don't want GEJ to be arrested but these guys didn't do well. If they can work out a deal with him where he's secretly questioned, he secretly returns some money I'll be very ok with that. Only problem is as long as these cases are out there, his name will always be mentioned as a part of it.

wunmi590:
Did she finished with first class?

bigtt76:
My thought too but not out of place though ....if the King was born 1974 (41 years old) that makes him 19 years 1993 and the wife 12 years old then (shei dem say na 34 years she bi?)

Choi ....the king na gbomo-gbomo oooooo! Hahahaha ....abeg o na joke ar de o

Adonis3:
please, biko, how do they resemble



So the wife got preggy at age 13

imsuboi:
good stuff; but did she really have to publicize it?

mizquote:
they re certain profession that gives a lady or a man a hinge over others of other profession.

I like the military(in the medical or engineering field) and dahs one of the first attraction I had of my boo.

so what's yours?

MrsPhyno:
Ah this is lubbish o. What if she doesn't plan on getting a job, so you won't pay for her secondary school education either? Where do you draw the line? And what's to say that girls with a tonnn of education still don't want to marry "a rich man" and sit at home all day? How does it affect you? You as their future father should just do your duty and pay for the highest level of education they can/want to attain. They can work out the rest in their matrimonial houses.

Honestly, all of you that are screaming 'yes yes' over here probably don't have any kids yet so I'm not so surprised.

arabianights:
Na lie....... men like this will look for the slightest excuse.This man is an angry man looking for a perceived weak person to hold responsible for his issues in life.
Men like this will still beat u up and claim you were ignoring them when they questioned u

doveda:
No offense

I have never been married but you don't know anything about abusers. They just can't control themselves.

Abusers will abuse regardless. They always look for reasons to frustrate those close to them. The first attack could be add a result of her actions but the subsequent ones won't be.

Only therapy and genuine self-reflection might actually help

Your advice should have been that they should take a walk from the marriage forever as soon as they realised that their partner (man or woman) is abusive and he/she is not willing to seek real help.

madridguy:
How can I hold back my tears with this horrible picture. Messing up a woman like this should attract capital punishment. How can a man with functioning brain did this to his wife. I just hope the useless husband beg the woman for forginess only if the woman will forgive him because the woman has prophesized evil in his life.

The man must be Shekau's twin brother.

irunooboo:
She fit no sabi fucck dick like that empty barrel

Raalsalghul:
I love this!

andromida:
@Toks2008

The cop out is you can't talk with a woman because her logic is twisted. Lol you should have known this before you started prescribing for us and selling untruths that all men minus you are cheats.

As per the lengthy passages why do you want to return to the law? Are you interested in Judaism or Christianity? But if you choose to marry as a Christian then this is the standard.

Jesus he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” matt 19:4-6 in Vs 19 after their complaints Jesus let's them know he who is able to accept it let him accept it.

Note the male and female not females or wives so there was no room for divorce and polygamy which is why Jesus referred them to the original institution of matrimony preceding law of moses and if christianity is about restoration to the original plan then you cannot cop out of the parts you find inconvenient. He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.

IamLEGEND1:
I been swear say I no go laugh people wey F up for my presence......but na when one girl wey dey my area ask me 'did you went home?'

I no know the time catarrh start to dey komot from my nose.

Hannysmilez:
Lol. Its okay not to speak proper grammer but abeg the person should not try at all. Its better he/she speaks pidgin or the native tongue than speak bad english. You can't get away with that abeg,except you're Funke Akindele. Its not funny as a lady hearing a dude telling you 'you're the most beauty woman of the world'.

andromida:
The comprehensive passages please.

The idea that once a man marries another woman then the wife's choices is limited to suicide or a life of loneliness or reckless sex life is what i find odd in all your write ups you speak of ladies thinking realistically but its you who seem not grounded in the real world. Women have divorced and remarried. Some don't even want to remarry they are happy to be rid of the man so the bleak picture you paint for a woman who leaves a cheating husband is just scare tactics for gullible women.

Yes you should have told your brother to leave the girl and mind his marriage the biblical standard is to leave the girl and mind your marriage we have Sarah to thank for that.

Why are there only polygamists and philanderers in your world? yet you are the most decent guy on the block why are you not encouraging men to be decent like you? your story is not adding up does it not follow that if you decent Toks exist there must be numerous decent men who exist how can you be the only decent man on NL. What is going on Toks?

Will you ask a man to zero his mind that his wife will most likely cheat on him?

Again how do you reconcile your love for Christ concerning marriage with core Islamic doctrines.?

Lilimax:
Only a fool will leave/divorce her cheating husaband

andromida:
Thank you for the well wishing.

How do you reconcile your love for Christ concerning marriage with core Islamic doctrines.

Do you have a problem with polygamy in Islam?

Philpham:
You are a very sick man, you have crass mentality, I bet you don't even have a girl friend let alone a wife, with that said I can understand ur unbelievable idiotic mentality on issues pertaining to infidelity. Get that into your thick skull, CHEATING IS BAD AND NO WOMAN SHOULD BE MADE TO BELIEVE ITS SOMETHING THEY HAVE TO PUT UP WITH. So called men cannot put up with it, why should women. And women are undeniably more intelligent and focused than men, then why put up with their mess when they cannot reason at all.

Just shut up and jump back into your baby cot immediately, and someone needs to deactivate your internet so you don't keep poisoning people with your unreasonable trash.

Boys like you should are the reason why the sanctity of marriage has been defiled because they think cheating is a normal. Well small boy, it is not. And if you intend cheating may you find someone that will castrate you and hang your balls on a tree.
Jungle beast.

mikron:
Why would she keep telling her gullible readers not to go bck to a cheating spouse only for her to do d direct opposite, that's the bone of contention here. Act what u preach

andromida:
I see why you are confused you love christ and love core islamic doctrines. Hehehehehe married women call you for advice you say?

Which hard truth? hehehehehe Toks oooooo

lovaleenny:
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repogirl:
Smallie right? B'oya l'o mo.... Undisciplined men will always be unfaithful and recurring cheats! Quit making excuses for them.

I might look like a 'smallie' to you but I have been married a number of years now and even after three kids, I can boastfully say it will take quite a lot for my husband to cheat because he is disciplined and even if he does cheat, your type will be the least of people I will be asking for advise.

You have made cheating forgivable as long as he is repentant... I guess STD and HIV is forgivable as long as he is repentant... Abeg, I have would rather enjoy my life alone healthy than live with a man wh'ore and be his dumping ground after sleeping with numerous who knows what.

thundafire:
u turn left-right u go up or down all u c na enemies which kind life cnt she make peace nd na dy same una tell her 2 leave dy man nw dy re settling or have settled yet una no gree