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[quote author= post=40062603]My brother thank you.[/quote]You are welcome.

I guess our ladies should understand this..i want lalasticlala to read this and see if its worth sharing on fp cos there is much sense in it.

Youre:
Shesfake!!!! She has google pix as her dp

lol..google pix

fatigah:
Dont sleep with someone, you know you can t married. so that their will no excuse if she get pregnant.

LOBATAN

This is my stand...if i ever woo you then i can marry you..if i ever make love to you them im ready to bear the consequence.

if i use a condom on you then im only easing off and only a slutty unmarried lady will allow a man just ease off with her pride but the foolishness and sluttiness of modern ladies will go against this...chai how i wish im not a beliver in christ walahi it will be one lady per day since they are so foolish,i will help their ministry.

I will tell my daughter,if you get disvirgined before your wedding day,no wedding ceremony but i will just give you to your husband quietly.

Condom has destroyed the lives of many ladies because this devils tool has become a surety for reckless sex.

If every lady can insinst on no sex before marriage,i believe more ladies will get married sooner than they can imagine because in most cases,sex is one of the most compelling reason a guy would like to have u for life and once you don give am,no need to worry again.

nathoneal:
Exactly the crux of the matter... Men with vision and a strong sense of purpose in Life don't engage in pre marital sex...Men who fear God and LIVE by the principles of the Holy books (Bible or Qu'ran)

We are in the era of change... moral decency won't be left out...

That is the point and its so ironic that these same ladies will be the one to start crying that guys are not proposing...abeg help me ask them...wettin a guy wan propose for again wen he don chop you tire? dumb ladies.

Look at the comments of some of them and you will just conclude that they are their own problems and a lady at 18 has had several sex romps yet they expect men to be all over them.

A time is coming when no bride price will be paid on non virgins except one with a clear case of molest.

many ladies have lost it and i fear for guys.

This is why i now advice guys to pray for fairly used ladies cos most of them are terribly used...awon oniranu alabe rirun.

nathoneal:
Well written toks2008...I must confess the ladies I respect the most are the ones who refused to go down with me...when I used to womanise (those wasted years)...I thank God for his salvation

As youth, we should channel our youthful strength to productive ventures...Let's live purposefully and make Nigeria great...

Don't chase other people. Work hard and be yourself. Under these two principles, the right people will find their way into your life....

Most ladies give sex to get love but unfortunately most guys just have sex with you and mark their register and then move on to the next lady.

Sex to most guys is like a conquest and the use of condom is really helping their ministry.

Lexusgs430:
Your explanation is a bit shallow. Have you ever heard of married couples using condoms?

My emphasis is on premarital use and i would advice married people uysing condom to please visit a family planning clinic for enlightenment cos in my opinion,its very appalling for a married man to use a condom on his wife...which kain sexual bondage be dat?

dabossman:
The bolded parts right there are the most outrageous parts of your post. How can you conclude on what the mindset of guys are? Have you interviewed all the guys on planet Earth? Are you a mind reader? Millions of men around the world use condoms with their wives whom they love dearly as a means of family planning and you are here saying what?

Are you even married? If not then stop talking about stuff you know nothing about. And please stop having unprotected s.ex with girls you are not married to, and don't give them head either. You'll only blame yourself if you get HIV.

Sorry,my original post reads "most" not all .

Lexusgs430:
Have you honestly ever used a condom?

Now you are getting it twisted.

Yes i dont and will never use a condom on any lady because..

1.I dont do casuals.
2. If i ever make love to you then iim definitely ready to share the consequence be it pregnancy or sti.

If i dont cherish you,i wont even touch you and asides this,when i make love i actually make love to a lady with everything involved shey you get..so why fool myself using condom on my dk when i did not use for my mouth.

The bottom line is that if i were the indecent type,if any lady bring herself i will use a condom big time afterall that is what she wants.

This write up is about the mindset of guys who use the condom on these ladies.

If condom is baned today i guess anstinence will be mostly sacrosanct so ladies should stop allowing randy men screw them like whores all because there is a condom.

condom is for casual sex with a casual lady.

If only ladies know what goes through the mind of most guys when they make love to them with condoms.

sickstars:
I support the girl throw it i will catch the wedding is about us our life time together even if he ask me to dig the ground dats whr d ring is i wud dig and take d ring


i hate loud propsals i admire wen i see but i don't want one for mysef i can actually walk out true talk

My best proposal as i will always say is puting d ring on my finger while i'm asleep drop a note hand written nd hints too like d first note cud give an hint of whr d next note is like dat like dat til i get d last note sayin check ur finger will u marry me

Wen i av already done

Orisirisi...Nothing wey we no go hear from these ladies.Issorite..at least i don learn another method and i may likely use this.Thanks for the hint but no expect your own to come that way o.

Only a dreamer will want her man to propose to her in a certain way because every lady has a different life's script and must be ready to flow with it.

-Some get proposal under water,on the highway,during live shows,in family gatherings
-Some get proposals with pregnancy.
-Some never get proposed to but just flowed into marriage
-Some even do the proposal
-Some never gets any ring.

And on and on so which ever way you end up marrying that person is ok irrespective of how the proposal was done.

Ironically most marriages that have dramatic and elaborate proposals do not last while the secretive ones usually see the light of day...and ladies must learn from this.

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

That moment when you give your body on a platter of mud to all as-sundry,you are most likely to get dumped.

You are your own problem

mine42:
I can understand how u feel.
Yes don't engage in self servicing nor alcohol but I'm still waiting for someone to prove u wrong by backing it up wt a scripture.

Please prove the OP is wrong wt a scripture pls!

Honestly i am so put aback and when i write all these,i was meticulous in backing them up from the scriptures but these people quickly assume im supporting all i wrote from my understanding expecially the act of masturbating.

We must be careful not to equate bad habit with sinsful habits.

We have sinful acts and YEs we also have bad habbits and not all bad habbits are sinful

Betting is a bad habbit yet i dont see where the bible calls it sin. Anything you do that has a potential of becoming addictive should be discouraged.

So when people argue about self servicing lets not mix words,if you see it as a bad habit please stop and if you come to me to ask i will tell you straight up,go marry to avoid it and avoid it if you can because like every other habit if unchecked can be addictive.

Like i am addicted to reading and i can read and read all through without mixing with people..i am also checking my addiction to writing so shall we say i am sinning?HELL NO.

So i repeat,i hate it when people who out to have sound mind come to start ranting without doing the needful.

Thanks for pointing it out again and till this moment,i stil wait for a counter notion from the bible and not from funny bias human psychology.

There are better ways to deal with an adulterous wife..

You need not spend a dime on divorcing her but turn her to your LovePeddler while you calmly look for another wife because sending her out means giving the other randy guy full access to a lady you have loved and nurtured for years so dont grant them that luxury at all.


Shebbi she has chosen to be a LovePeddler then i will treat her like a real LovePeddler while taking my time to get another lady.

But if you really love her and she is sorry and really repentant abeg just bone cos there is no guaranty that the next one wont be far worse.

But honestly,when a lady cheats on her hubby,nah serious issue.

Smartsyn:
Just like that.. What changed?

"To pursue the case in a higher court".. Iffa hear

I see this case dying a natural death
.

Yeah and i guess this is a ploy to warn him..though the case is not entirely dropped as the news read but as i wrote, its a systemic way of saying "Be warned" cos if he continues then the higher court of jurisdiction will certainly take it up and he may be in for it for a very long time.

CARLOSS1:
U ar going down with O09 Bleep ur fame... #Unbeatable# says so
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Seun should do something about these unscrupulous people.

What a gross act.

LadyX:
Bros, dis your comment caught me off guard- I almost fell from the seat.

That moment when someone mentions you on a thread you never commented on or even knows it exists abeg help me judge the matter.

tomakint:
A wise King showing RESPECT to a ' HIGHER KING OF KINGS' who also remains his CREATOR. Unfortunately, these clowns will never understand that tradition and culture are entrapments to enslave humanity, this King is a wise man.

If there is one thing i know about this king,he fears GOD and hge always makes reference to Jehovah as more supreme.

Kudos

Mark my word..he will be the greatest ooni ile ife ever had in the past hundreds of years.

eagleeye2:
Shey Dasuki na the BENEFACTOR of Past Head of States?

As long as he did that in uniformity with the constitution,its very legal and acceptable.

koxyz:
They go outside,they excel but within their own country they are helpless. Something must be wrong with Nigeria.

You can say that again.

I tell our youths that we are not lazy and infact the poorest Nigerian youth is more hardworking than millions of Americans but when you live in a country like ours,you need to be extremely fortunate beforee your hard work can yield fruits.

Even as a politician,i have friends who are in top political offices in UK but here i have to take my time so that i can see my children even my guy Desmond has to send all his family abroad just to contest for national assembly member and this goes to show how backward Nigeria is.

An American president once said "think not of what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country"

But Unfortunately No Nigerian president dares utter that blunder because Nigeria is a country that will not do anything for you and will hardly allow you to do anything for yourself let alone for the country.

Lets just remain positive and pray hard,together we shall re-create this country.

Omotayor123:
Chai.... So you no get liver

Lol this one no be liver matter..its just the power of subconscious imagination...its like watching an horror movie before going to bed.

How dumber can our youths get?

The SUVs were given to former head of states and Buhari apparently becomes a beneficiary so whats all the fuse?

Abeg enough of these snakes story...na so i begin dream sey i see snake for my room after viewing this thread last night.

MrsPhyno:
An 18 year old is legally an adult anyways. No matter the gender.

Point is, even if ur 85 and u want to date "fresh blood", wait till she turns 18. Can't just hang around in the mean time. Some of una lack conscience o....... And quite frankly it's pathetic

Seconded.

MrsPhyno:
Don't mind the useless paedophiles.... jaysus

Nurturing is the job of her parents, her church/mosque, and her teachers. They don't even realize how disgusting they sound.....

16 yr old is underage but if an 18yr old girl decides to marry a 60yr old man without any form of compelling so be it..she has become an adult.

Adaeze003:
I do hope you'll be pleased to find that your 16yr old daughter in ss2 is being wooed by a 24yr old??

Some guys parading the streets today are just plain sick in the head. Nurture for marriage my arse...

Anyway... I guess Toks2008 will approve...

I bind every form of monitoring spirit by fire in Jesus name...Ada abeg kpa chara n yagi.

siamia:
Hi toks, thanks for the call this morning, u musta sent this post before we spoke. But u didn't do the special number ooo. Lol

lol..i will nxt year in Jesus name.

And even if all the allegations are true,is there anything new under the sun?

AlaniPamoleKun:
I want to buy keke napep and give it to an individual to ride it and deliver money to me by the end of the day, though I'm kind of new in this line of business.

Y'all advises and suggestions will be highly appreciated


Thank you

I would advice you drive it yourself anytime you have the time because if you give anyone who is not as dogged as you want,it will end up in regrets and serious frustrations.

Another idea is the higher purchase thing but you must have other businesses you are doing to have a grasp of the profits.

Sijo01:
Hmmmmm, sounds magical! Garlic? I can't stand it's legacies

The teeth nor decayed o. Thanks for your suggestions. It will be useful to someone out there someday.

Make you dey form levels..if you like yourself go use garlix on that tooth and be free of tooth ache.

This is a great expose that many people who dont know have spent thousands on a tooth ache that N20 garlic can solve..GOD IS AWESOME

20bc:
[color=teal]They need to upgrade the working mechanism of this truck, they are very hard to control and usually develop fault every minute.[/color]

Expecially during the ber months..oye oloun

porka:
Don't be a f00l.

Subsidy is now 10 naira per litre even when the oil price is $38 per barrel.

How would they have increased it beyond 97 naira.

Who is this tout that can't express himself with proper decorum? If you dare quote me again i will place an e-curse on you.

ekpesa:
am so passionate about this Apc led government, they have been so committed in reminding me how I disappointed myself in voting for them. they promised fixing the refineries and now they are failing again.

How many years do you think it will take to right the wrongs of 16years?

I implore everyone to remain positive and at least allow solid 3years to pass before we can start scoring this present regime. It is very easy to take the role of a critic until you wear same shoes and that shoe has been worn by them and so far i can say there is yet no need to judge..for Christ sake its just about 7months and i believe that is too early to pass a judgement.