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RomanceRe: Qualities Your Partner Must Have by toluene12: 1:39pm On Dec 27, 2012
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11) His parents should live very far away or they can be 6ft under I don't mind[/quote]shocked
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Are Asked Not To Talk For A Year And Get 1 Million Dollar? by toluene12: 11:37am On Dec 27, 2012
Henrick007: Am very sure no one will win that money.
how about those in solitary confinement
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Are Asked Not To Talk For A Year And Get 1 Million Dollar? by toluene12: 11:33am On Dec 27, 2012
Bolt2011: Why are all these ridiculous questions on Nairaland now. Are there no moderators again?
lighten up a bit and take a joke, o.k
NYSCRe: What Has NYSC Done For You? by toluene12: 8:51pm On Dec 26, 2012
Kzinne: hello guys, new to dis forum, kindly inform me how i cud make a comment on dis forum
huh
HealthRe: University Of Calabar Teaching Hospital Commences Kidney Dialysis by toluene12: 8:03pm On Dec 26, 2012
abeg moderator, save us the ridicule by scrutinizing what you send to front page from the health section. At a time when health care givers are talking of the possibility of renal dialysis and transplant being incoporated into the NHIS scheme.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by toluene12: 7:10pm On Dec 26, 2012
ogugua88: Some guys here remind me of one of my uncle's worwor friends. He has managed to sleep with every species of woman in the US. As he don old reach, his wish is to go back to Edo and find himself a young virgin wife in the village. Imagine having your cake and trying to eat it too.

#unfollowing
Vee girls for edo? your uncle's friend is on a long thing
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men, So What If She's Not A Virgin? by toluene12: 6:05pm On Dec 26, 2012
[quote author=D-Explorer]That's right, people change and we shouldn't be castigated because of our past. Also know that, the enormous cases of once a virgin now dis-virgined can majorly be ascribed to divers sexüal rumble. Now that's lack of morals and self-worth.[/quote]non virgins lack morals and self worth huhnairalanders will never cease to amaze me.
CelebritiesRe: Yvonne & Tonto Are Cool, But I Want A God Fearing Woman - Iyanya by toluene12: 5:43pm On Dec 25, 2012
Series22: So na tonto dike thread we go use do xmas.. Abeg, God no allow tonto thread follow us enta 2013
ASE O...AMIN O....ISE O....AMEN O..
PoliticsRe: The Shamefulness Of The Politics Section Hall Of Shame by toluene12: 6:41pm On Dec 24, 2012
Seun what u did to your mods was wrong, admit and apologise. As a leader u dont expose ur close and loyal subordinates publicly. You need them to run a successful enterprise/forum. Go and buy Rick Warren's purpose driven church and read it.
FamilyRe: Breastfeeding In Public - What Is Your View by toluene12: 3:45pm On Dec 21, 2012
Vikin: Haahahah, My dear, hoarding the bre.ast assures better firmness o. sometimes i see the kids playing with it, throwing it up and down, even biting the ni.pp.les. i wont even allow the baby to grow teeth on my br.eas.t...onvce i see the sign of little teeth, that begins the countdown.
Hoarding what? countdown wetin? abeg breastfeed ur child regularly, at least for 18 months. If practicable, we encourage exclusive breastfeeding for the first 6 months, it is beneficial to both the mother and child.
Breastfeeding reduces the risk of developing bre.ast cancer for the mother, while it promotes mental development and improves social bonding for the child.
EducationRe: Principal Questioned For Conducting Virginity Tests On Pupils by toluene12: 4:36pm On Dec 19, 2012
Baby mama: What do you dispute in my post above
Are Nigerian men not doing those things I listed in large numbers too
If your little sister got missing today,what is the first thing that will flash through your mind?
The truth is always bitter
Nigerians men rape their women at an alarming rate,you speaking about my family is being petty
Let us address the issue at hand
I posted a study that says 80% of women in a survey were raped by age 18
Is it not Nigerian men raping them ?
There is an epidemic here and we need to tell ourselves the truth
That is the step to a cure
80% of who ra.ped by what at age 18!!! Common if u believe that, then u can believe an eskimo actually bought ice from a salesman. I'm not denying pedo.philes but that figure is exaggerated. 5% at most and according statisticians, 5% of anything is significant making it look like all men are pedo.philes
Lets face it, most teenage girls lose their virginity to their teenage male counterparts, and at the very most a young male adult(18-21yrs)who still has a lot of youthful lust running wild in his vein. I witnessed all these sexu.al escapedes while growing up as a secondary school teenager way back in the 90s. Its called peer pressure and it still exist among our adolescents groups today. I now wonder when teenage boys became saints and grown up men demonic cradle robbers.
Let them question the 273 disvirgined girls, they will point out their so called molesters among their sec school mates.
EducationRe: Principal Questioned For Conducting Virginity Tests On Pupils by toluene12: 3:44pm On Dec 19, 2012
Baby mama: I have written before that I believe almost every man is capable of rape
It is like a sport to them

What haven't we heard

They kidnap a girl they ra.pe her
They go to rob a house they ra.pe the women
They meet a girl at a dark spot alone they ra.peher
They are conducting business she is alone they ra.pe her
The boss at the office forces his subordinates and ra.pes them
School teachers rape the pupils
Male coaches ra.pe the girls
Imams and pastors prays for a girl ra.pes them
A girl is thrown in jail,the police ra.pe them
The soldiers go to war,they ra.pe the women
Doctor exams patients,molests and ra.pes some
Fathers and grandpas ra.pe little girls
Uncles and cousins ra.pe little girls when watching them
Undergraduate males capture and ra.pe their school mates
A girl is selling oranges,the.men capture and ra.pe her
Even mad women on the streets are not spared

And many don't even see it as wrong

ALL MEN ARE CAPABLE OF RA.PE, NORMAL REGULAR MALES
Only very few can claim in their lifetime on their dying bed that they haven't.
That is my opinion from the happenings in the world
baby mama you sound way too intelligent than this crap you wrote, what are u trying to prove anyway? that your dad, uncle, nephew, fiance, husband, or son are all ra.pist or potential ra.pist. OR
that you've been assaulted one way or the other by any of the above listed.
pls lets not our emotions cloud our sense of judgement even on sentimental isuues
PoliticsRe: Should Prisoners Be Allowed To Vote? by toluene12: 11:03pm On Dec 18, 2012
futhermore, most european countries allows its prisoners to vote, U.S and U.K are the only advanced countries that denies its prisoners this right.
PoliticsRe: Should Prisoners Be Allowed To Vote? by toluene12: 10:46pm On Dec 18, 2012
ogugua88: The United States is a democracy. Incarcerated felons do not vote with the exception of two states: Maine and Vermont.

If the person is awaiting trial, then he or she can vote. If a prisoner is serving a term, then he or she shouldn't be allowed to vote. It's called punishment. I don't recall misbehaving when I was a child and still being allowed to play with toys and have dessert. You do the crime, you do the time, and that involves losing privileges that people who abide by the law enjoy.
That U.S doesn't allow its prisoners to vote does not make it ideal. The concept of prison is to reduce the individual's ability to commit further crimes by limiting his freedom. Hence, being in jail is no reason to remove the rights of an individual that are clearly outlined in the constitution, and that includes the RIGHT(not priviledge as u allude) to vote. Besides, the prison is called a correction facility n not a demeaning incaceration system. Therefore, there is no reason why anyone should be deprived of his basic right as a citizen even if serving time or had served time.
However, its like our society wants nothing to do with whoever has seen the inside of a prison, we deny them jobs, accomodation, opportunities, assess to their kids and spouse, and even the right to vote or be voted for. No wonder most ex convicts ends up in prison more than once, they feel thats the only place that accepts them.
PoliticsRe: Should Prisoners Be Allowed To Vote? by toluene12: 10:11pm On Dec 18, 2012
ebamma 3: Should mad men be allowed to use the internet?
how about those on nairaland shocked
ebamma 3: Should mad men be allowed to use the internet?
how about those on nairaland
PoliticsRe: Should Prisoners Be Allowed To Vote? by toluene12: 10:09pm On Dec 18, 2012
engrtee: So rev king should vote?
that guy is no longer in prison, he has since escaped.
besides if obasanjo and bode george can vote, I see no reason why rev king should not vote.
PoliticsRe: Should Prisoners Be Allowed To Vote? by toluene12: 10:05pm On Dec 18, 2012
Roland17: Reading without dropping a comment is disallowed
what about comments without reading? i guess that's worse, it should attract a stiffer penalty. maybe a ban
PoliticsRe: Touts On Edo Highways by toluene12: 6:38pm On Dec 18, 2012
I encountered them once, along akure-benin road and i parted with #8000.00. Initially I thought they were genuine govt workers(they showed me i.d cards and even issued a receipt for the fee collected), but when I got to benin and told colleagues of my ordeal, I was told they were fake. Infact most people in benin are not really aware of this boys and their atrocious act. Someone later told me they are oshiomole boys posted there as a reward for their faithful stewardship to the excellency. There's no doubt that those boys get serious govt backing,they have been extorting motorist along that road since 2008 and yet nothing was done about it. Just like someone said no matter how many previous stickers you've bought, there will always be a new one they will show you. If you refuse to pay, they will deflate your 4 tyres and delay you till late in the evening and trust me that lonely road is not a place you will like to be once its dark.
Since then if i'm compelled to take the road, I wait till like 5pm to embark on my journey, when those boys would have left and I return on sunday(they dont work on sundays). There are also alternative routes depending on where you are going. People also talk of speeding past them or even running them over, although I never try that one. I knew someone who brought out his gun and shot into the air when they stopped him and the boys ran inside the bush.
Foreign AffairsRe: Man Stabs 22 Children At Chinese Elementary School by toluene12: 11:05pm On Dec 16, 2012
FXKing2012: this is why gun control is needed in d US. Those kids wld have been killed if the attacker had had access to guns.
Foreign AffairsRe: Man Stabs 22 Children At Chinese Elementary School by toluene12: 10:58pm On Dec 16, 2012
FXKing2012: this is why gun control is needed in d US. Those kids wld have been killed if the attacker had had access to guns.
exactly, crazy people exist everywhere. There are numerous unstable mind who are ready to vent their frustation on others in a violent manner if given the opportunity. The other day, we heard a landlord's son who assaulted a female tenant in lagos because the latter doesn't greet the former. Imagine what would have happened if he had assess to a gun.
The answer to american reccurent mass shooting crisis is gun control.
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Right For Jonathan To Kneel At Redeemed Camp by toluene12: 9:44pm On Dec 16, 2012
[quote author=Okija_juju][b]It is when I see posts like this that I am glad not to be one of the millions of religious fucktards that exist in Nigeria...
Jonathan is the equivalent of a king in the bible... He is to kneel before nobody but God. Adeboye has no right to lay a hand on the head of Jonathan... Such powers have not been given to him at least scripturally God chooses a king, the prophet annoints that king and from then on, the Prophet becomes subjct the king. Even Adeboye should not have allowed him to do so. That shit is wrong. Rather, Adeboye is to bow in reverence to Jonathan as his head... In terms of biblical hierarchy, The king is higher than the prophet.
Actually when it comes to religious activities n biblical instructions, the priest/prophets comes first ahead of the king. Saul's ignorance of this truth led to his downfall - samuel 13: 7-14, read also 2 chronicles: 26: 16-21.
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Right For Jonathan To Kneel At Redeemed Camp by toluene12: 3:05pm On Dec 16, 2012
hardywaltz: Jonathan is a disgrace to the office he holds, i can just imagine Obama or Cameron kneeling before any religious leader.
actually obama bowed before both the king of japan and saudi arabia during his reconciliatory tour in 2009. Be well informed of international affairs b4 making a comment about it.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gunman Kills 27 Including Children At An Elementary School by toluene12: 7:23am On Dec 15, 2012
nagoma: I don't take lessons from illiterates . A serial killer kills in series , i.e . One episode after the other over a period of time for example Jack the Ripper - it does not mean killing for non religious reasons as you concocted. Your other definitions are equally faulty.
abeg, stop denying the reality, all religions have radical extremist n if they kill in the name of their respective beliefs they are called religious terrorist.
Maybe the reason u are oblivious of this fact is because this atrocious act is few and far in btw in occurrence among most religious sect apart from islam, thus people now see it as being synonymous with islam.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gunman Kills 27 Including Children At An Elementary School by toluene12: 10:34pm On Dec 14, 2012
nagoma: Nobody is rejoicing on gruesome murder of innocent children. We are just pouting out the double standard where Ryan Lanzer the killed will be glorified as a depressed person witth mental problems. It would be different if he was a Muslim. Get that right.
if a muslim kills praising Allah, then he's an islamic extremist; when a chritian kills for the sake of his religion, then he's called a christian fundamentalist e.g david koresh, timothy mccveigh, and that norweigan killer. If someone kills for non religious reasons, he's termed a gunman serial killer.
U need to understand how various terminologies are used in different circumstances. Get that right urself.
PoliticsRe: Police To Lose Power To Prosecute Suspects by toluene12: 7:22am On Dec 14, 2012
50calibre: Come to think of it, how do the Nigerian police prosecute people in the first place?

How do the incompetent and inept nigerian police gather evidence to build up a prosecution case? No forensic analysis, no DNA matching, no crime scene reconstruction, no ballistic or projectile experts, nothing!

This is fu*king funny!
bros, forget all those things u mentioned above. This is naija. Police get their evidence to prosecute suspects by self confessions of the accussed via torture.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Girl Killed In Rome, Italy by toluene12: 1:48pm On Dec 13, 2012
coogar: nigerians can be judgemental.....
where did it say on the article that she was a pröstitute? ?
Franca was killed in the woods of Stifone, between Narni Waters, in Rome and her body was found 24 hours after her death on Sunday 10th of December, 2012; after her friends called the police to declare her missing when she failed to return home from work (prostitution).
Foreign AffairsRe: When Is The BBC Going To Stop Rubbishing Nigeria ? by toluene12: 6:24pm On Dec 11, 2012
Anvaller: I am just surprised at the 100% motivation behind a fight against BBC while there is 0% motivation behind a fight against our irresponsible government which is the architect of all these mess in the 1st place. So which battle makes more sense? Let's assume that u achieved the ultimate aim and BBC apologizes, does that change anything? does that change their mindset and perception of Nigeria? That is the most important thing. Even if u asked them to shut up and never say it... well, they know it, so it doesn't change anything. It doesn't stop them from giving u extra check at the airport when every other passenger had already been cleared, it doesn't stop them from stepping back when they have to do important business with u, it doesn't stop them from deciding not to give u job because they are afraid of what may happen if u have access to the company's data. So this goes beyond all these stuffs u are talking about. I think some of us are even being more patriotic by taking our time to actually identify where the problem is and advocate that we tackle it from that perspective. Is this not the same crazy habit of our government? they will never solve a problem where the problem actually is, instead they will keep spending billions to solve problem where the problem is actually not.
Dont mind them, that was how frank nweke jnr(former information minister) started wailing and howling in 2007 when cnn ran a controversial coverage of the niger delta militants and nigerian govt gross incompetence on the issue. The minister personally travelled to atlanta and demanded an apology from cnn over the report. Nigeria govt also withdrew their advert from CNN and the reporter who covered the story was banned from nigeria. Did it solve anything? NO.
After 2007 the niger delta crises worsened and rapidly became violently uncontrollable affecting socioeconomic factors in nigeria. kidnapping also emerged from the whole brouhaha to become the fastest growing lucrative business in nigeria.
lets face it, na your neighbour go tell u say you get bad mouth odour. lets work on ourself and they will respect us. this is what china did,and india is also on that path.
CrimeRe: Tiwa Banks Aka Tiwantiwa Stabbed By Landlord's Son by toluene12: 6:00pm On Dec 11, 2012
pak: Doctokwus, please stop arguing or insulting the people on the thread. They probably can't reason better.

I sometimes feel Nigerians are just barbaric in nature, don't you thinks its way primitive for you to conclude on what happened until more findings on the issue has been made.

We know next to nothing about tiwa banks and Tobi Obadina (and even about the OP - truth4meal), so how can you form conclusions by reading just four paragraphs and 3 pictures.

What doctokwus said is what any reasonable person ought think (at least until we have more information ). Though its painful and annoying but we cannot crucify Tobi Obadina until we hear a TRUTHFUL and BALANCED account of what exactly transpired.

I know I'll get a lot of stick for this from NL peeps but truth is when our words are action are based on pure sentiments we fall out of line with reason.

For those of the christian persuasion - Proverbs 18 v 17 has a word for you on this.
For those that are not, check this link to hear what it says http://bible.cc/proverbs/18-17.htm
how can we hear the accused side of the story if he's not arrested. what has been established here is that a lady was assaulted and a tobi obadina was accused as being responsible for the act. he should be invited/arrested for questioning by the police and if he's deemed innocent he will be released.
NYSCRe: The Good, The Bad And The Ugly Of NYSC Lagos Camp In Pix by toluene12: 4:10pm On Dec 11, 2012
that dirty closet picture should be blocked, its highly distasteful. mod pls note
Foreign AffairsRe: When Is The BBC Going To Stop Rubbishing Nigeria ? by toluene12: 11:40pm On Dec 07, 2012
erico2k2: bross pay attention to international news make you hear bribe in Billions of pounds, ie recently Virgin train where challenging a decission passed quick quick to a fellow rail operator 1st great western, the dicovered money had changed hands, the contract have been given back to Virgin for the next 2 years,who say Oyibo no dey collect mega bribe, now on the moral side, did you not hear that the Blind David Blonket a whole Home office Boss who supose B blind sleep with another guy wife hence he lost his post, blind minister of the highest order ohhh, guy, stay there dey belive this saint saint wey dem dey potray, we know diff here.
OR is it the members of paliament who have thier own homes, and lie about it and pass the rent as xpenses to claim?is that not fraud? or is it the Eastern EU guys who have 10 kids keep 8 in their country and claim benefit for 10 kids? the list are endless, so guys stop killing ursef for those stupid news bout 9ja, we over here we deff know diff
keep deceiving urself and continue living in delusion or self denial. The truth is out there; ibori is a case study.
FamilyRe: As A Man, Is It Proper To Know The Virginity Status Of Your 18+ Female Child. by toluene12: 1:58am On Dec 05, 2012
The issue is if she confirms ur worst fear, what will u do? If u over react she will simply shut u out of her life and u will lose her permanently. Intimacy is a deep secret to ladies and they are careful who they share it with. She will no longer trust u and will most likely find it difficult to confide in you(even concerning other matters).
If u are particular about ur girls virginity, then let ur sex education be centred on 'abstinence till marriage' and start teaching her early, not at age 18. U should also learn to be a good friend to her, so that she will be willing to tell u stuffs about her personal life, then u can guide her the way u want. u can even dictate to her when to start dating she will listen to u.
@ruddy, sending ur girl child packing is not the answer. Sooner or latter she will leave and ur relationship with her when she were young will determine how she will treat u at ur old age when u will really need her.
HealthRe: Pregnant Woman Dies In Port-harcourt Hospital Because Of Deposit by toluene12: 1:50am On Dec 02, 2012
coogar: thank you very much o
it wasn't even because she had no money - she was on a fücking waiting list - the only snag was the priority given to her? hahahahaha - and this is what baby mama wants to compare to a pregnant woman needing an emergency treatment?

o........k!



hahahaha - and that's the reason they took 5000 from her for registration fee?
is that death registration or what? keep defending rubbish in the name of trying to win an argument!



are you deliberately trying to be obtuse or you are naturally daft?
who cares how many patients besiege nigerian hospitals for free treatment? this one is an exceptional case cos if involves mother and child - the emergency also meant the patient had no time to rally round for money even if they could provide it....why can't this evil doctor just proceed with the treatment instead of letting 2 people die because of 20,000 naira that cannot buy a 2nd hand blackberry!
I'm sure nobody is giving excuses for what went wrong, instead we are looking at a permanent panacea to this reccuring crisis in out healthcare sector and to put a stop to this cash out of pocket health care delivery.
Expecting doctors to play santa claus every now n then is not the solution, we can only appeal to their conscience.
Most nations have moved beyond all these awkward practices decades ago, and its high time nigeria takes that step in the right direction vis a vis universal healthcare coverage.
Nobody should insist we remain in the cave age.

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