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PoliticsRe: APC Dangles Automatic Tickets Before Aggrieved Senators, Reps by tomdon(m): 3:47pm On Jul 22, 2018
I am aggrieved too. Where is my automatic ticket. Will Dino, otom, shehu sani, tambuwal and others stay put because of this reason??
Foreign AffairsRe: Croatian President, Kolinda Grabar-Kitarović, Painting Her Own House (Photos) by tomdon(m): 6:10am On Jul 22, 2018
jbtobsyn:
Read about Croatia before you talk. The country is poor but since this woman came into power,things are changing unlike one Idiotic man we have who took us from a poor nation to the poorest nation in the world.
You call a developed nation poor?
Have you even read about it yourself??
CelebritiesRe: Davido Congratulates Ademola Adeleke On Winning Osun PDP Primaries by tomdon(m): 5:50am On Jul 22, 2018
What does he have to offer
What has he done as a senator so far??
PoliticsRe: Senator Dino Melaye's Convoy Blocked While Commissioning Projects In Kogi (Photo by tomdon(m): 8:02pm On Jul 19, 2018
All these nonsense comedy in Nigeria
CrimeRe: Two Hookers Fight Over A Yahoo Boy In Benin Hotel by tomdon(m): 3:24pm On Jul 18, 2018
Donald95:
Seek love when you are broke because when you finally hammer, girls will be more loyal to your money than you as a person
You better be hands down smashingly very handsome if you're seeking love while broke, if not you ain't gonna get what you like, that's a guarantee
CrimeRe: Two Slay Mamas Steal N200k From A Boutique In Delta, Stripped Unclad (Photo) by tomdon(m): 10:43pm On Jul 12, 2018
Olalan:
Stripping them is wrong on all levels despite their wrong action of stealing........
BTW cool they are caught cause it's girls like this that make a mess of young legitimately hustling guys who try to be a friend to them.....
Thieves caught red handed again?? Are you an a accomplice ??
RomanceRe: "My Boyfriend Got Married While We Were Still Dating" - Pretty Heartbroken Lady by tomdon(m): 5:10am On Jul 11, 2018
He was not dating her, she was just a fukk girl, so stop all the guilt trip. Every woe na to blame guys. Why don't ladies ever have conscience
How do you use the word innocent for a girl that has committed several abortions
How will he tell her on time that she doesn’t belong in your future when she's also enjoying the sx
PoliticsRe: Ekiti: Our Hotels Are Jam Packed With Various Thugs, Fayose Cries by tomdon(m): 2:57pm On Jul 10, 2018
APC in action
RomanceRe: Having Sex With A Man And Expecting Compensation After Is Prostitution - Lady by tomdon(m): 3:13am On Jul 10, 2018
donstan18:
I can't stop laughing. I'll keep saying this unapologetically that Nigerian ladies are prostitutes and whores. That's the bitter truth.

Disguising as girlfriends and doing the same work of an official prostitute doesn't make you different.

Official prostitute will fvck you and get paid.
Packaged prostitutes(Girlfriends) will fvck you, and get paid by expecting your financial care and money. No difference.

Official prostitutes are even better than them because they aren't jealous or a pest to your free life as a bachelor.

Funny thing is that some ladies are supporting the lady while they are prostitutes disguising as girlfriend in reality. We are waiting for them to blame men tomorrow for their olosho life.
Exactly, they like to blame men for their olosho life!
RomanceRe: She’s A Terrible Cook And Frowns Too Much by tomdon(m): 4:58am On Jul 09, 2018
Dammiesugar:
This life is funny! me that I can cook any kind of delicacy, never a dull moment with me, working with side hustle sef, no man to say I want meet your family�� Anyway uncle open your mind to her and if she’s not willing to change then let her go.
See direct advert oo
PoliticsRe: Akume, Ortom’s Rift Deepens, Governor Plans Defection by tomdon(m): 3:42am On Jul 09, 2018
So it is a sin in Nigeria for a governor to confront Federal Government on the killings in his state??
FamilyRe: I Caught My Husband Sucking My Niece’s Breast, Sleeping With Our Maid -wife by tomdon(m): 6:35pm On Jul 05, 2018
Lie
CelebritiesRe: Davido And His Girlfriend, Chioma Chill Together Inside Private Jet (Photos) by tomdon(m): 2:20pm On Jul 01, 2018
So what!
TravelRe: Truck On Fire At Iwo Road Ibadan (Photos) by tomdon(m): 6:46pm On Jun 30, 2018
Not again pls!
CelebritiesRe: Pascal Atuma: "If You Are Not A Prostitute, You Can’t Make It In Nollywood" by tomdon(m): 5:00pm On Jun 22, 2018
All of them na ashawos
SportsRe: Gabriel Jesus Was Painting The Streets 4 Years Ago For World Cup by tomdon(m): 4:51am On Jun 19, 2018
Reference:
huh Unbelievable... just four years...

But the Brazilian scouting system is just first class, the way they manufacture these talents is just amazing.
Here in Nigeria, with over 150 million people they cannot manage to find a half decent striker to pair a washed out Ighalo. All we do is look for is finished products of mixed perantage whose only claim to performance is the better environment theygrew up in.

Tell me in four years what will Gabriel Jesus have learnt in Brazil to make him start as top 9 for the 'Selecao'. The boy is just raw talent, period. We on the other hand want 'foreign based professionals' even if he plays in Azerbaijan and cannot control a five metre pass and when we cannot we will recycle old cargoes till tjey can barely walk.

We have serious mental problems in Nigeria.
You raised many salient points which I have been talking about since nig lost the match
The
RomanceRe: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by tomdon(m): 4:17am On Jun 19, 2018
adamasmag:
Every lady needs to be mentally, physically and emotionally ready before getting married. Yes! marriage takes a lot to make it work. For many women, marriage is something they’ve been looking forward to since they were a little girl. While it’s undoubtedly an exciting and momentous experience in life, it’s far from the only life-changing and all-important event. For this reason, it’s best not to rush your trip down to the altar. This is true even if you’ve been with your significant other for several years  or even decades.

Below are some lists that can help prepare you mentally, emotionally and physically for a successful and long-lasting marriage.

1.Create a Life That You Love *Without* a Partner
That way, when he shows up, you’re already grounded. You’re not dependent on him, and you'll be more likely to find someone who loves you and your passions.

2. Create a List of Five Values It's Important Your Partner Has
Say, for example, that finding a partner who follows a sustainable lifestyle is absolutely crucial for you. Put that on the list as a reminder not to compromise on your core values. Disclaimer: If you feel that your priorities are shifting and that what you thought was a dealbreaker value isn't really a dealbreaker value anymore, then by all means, change your list. It's not set in stone. But if the guy you're heading down the aisle with right now doesn't meet one of the criteria on your list—and you still feel it's important—then it may be time to re-evaluate your relationship before you make a big mistake.

3.Learn How to Be Alone without Being Lonely
Need some help? Try taking yourself to dinner once a week or planning one night a week just for you. You’ll find that whatever you choose to do in those moments is what you really want to do. And knowing how to “find your chill” is crucial because it means that you don’t need outside validation to feel whole—and you don’t put unfair expectations on your partner to keep you entertained. In turn, you’ll likely encourage your partner to pursue his hobbies, too, which will create a healthy interdependent relationship. It’s better to rely on each other completely equally than to have one person do the heavy lifting, which will likely cause tension down the line.


4.Create Time and Space in Your Life for a Relationship
You know that whole idea of "If you build it, they will come?" The same goes for your love life: If you make room in your life for a relationship, you're way more likely to find that one falls into place. And if you have an S.O. but don’t invest enough time or effort into your partnership, chances are you won't have it for long.

5. Agree on How You and Your Partner Will Handle Your Finances.
You may have been managing your own finances for a while now, but once you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, figuring out how to share a bank account can get tricky. Discuss financial biggies (read: any potential debt you'll need to manage, what you're comfortable paying for rent or a mortgage, what the price cutoff should be for discussing an impulse purchase, how much you want to try to save each month, etc.) in advance so you know what you’re dealing with from the get-go.

6. Stop sharing every detail of your relationship with others
When you first met or started dating, you might have unveiled every tiny detail about your now  to your friends and maybe even your family. But now that you’re serious, it's important to preserve and protect the integrity of the relationship. “When you get mad, no Facebook rants or cryptic quotes about a fight you may be having and no more calling all of your friends for consensus about whether you are right or wrong in an argument,” says Nelson. “Your marriage is sacred and what happens in your relationship needs to stay in your relationship.” She suggests instead, leaning on a trusted best friend to blow off steam or find a therapist that you can confide in and learn skills to be a better mate and get through conflicts.

7. Learn To Cook
No, Noodles doesn’t count as food.


http://www.adamasmagazine.com.ng/things-every-lady-should-do-before-getting-married/
Nonsense.
I don't even need a girl or woman with these irrelevant qualities.
Come as you are, as God created you
If she has those things already, it's just an added advantage.
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye And His 2 Sons Rock Stylish Super Eagles Jersey (Photo) by tomdon(m): 8:53pm On Jun 16, 2018
Mcheew
Thank God he knows he's a thief
This lackluster team that will not qualify for the second round
CelebritiesRe: Anita Joseph Declares Alex Is The Most Beautiful Girl From Bbnaija 2018 by tomdon(m): 6:31pm On Jun 16, 2018
God forbid
SportsRe: British People Blast The Nigerian Jersey (pictures) by tomdon(m): 6:29pm On Jun 16, 2018
izzou:
A world of 7 billion people think its cool

Your opinion doesn't matter smiley

Am I not part of the 7b people your ignorantly quote??
Stop being delusional, my opinion matters
SportsRe: British People Blast The Nigerian Jersey (pictures) by tomdon(m): 3:04pm On Jun 16, 2018
izzou:
grin

Everyone isn't supposed to like you in life anyway

Their hatred won't change the fact that

The jersey is the coolest in the World right now
England won't get past the Round of 16
Nigeria will win today against Croatia

So therefore, we appreciate their anger. After all, if nobody talk about you, then you're nobody
Wtf is cool about that wallpaper??
RomanceRe: "Get A Partner That Offer You Values, It Is Not About Money"- Facebook User by tomdon(m): 2:10pm On Jun 13, 2018
Mcheew
PhonesRe: Ntel Emerges Leadership Telecoms Company Of The Year (Photo) by tomdon(m): 4:41am On Jun 11, 2018
lilfreezy:
Ntel the best browsing network 1k for 12gig grin
Are you kidding
How's it
PoliticsRe: Saraki Mobilises Islamic Clerics In Saudi Arabia by tomdon(m):
It's now a prayer thing
How can prayers save you from your atrocities??
Saraki, Buhari, IGP, all of una de mad
CelebritiesRe: Olayode Juliana Celebrates Her Birthday Today With Beautiful Pictures by tomdon(m): 9:05pm On Jun 07, 2018
rosalieene:
If you are not a saint, then sharrap!
Why should I shut up if I'm not a saint??
Did I lie against her??
Well, I've spoken. I'm in my house, Come and shut me up
CelebritiesRe: Olayode Juliana Celebrates Her Birthday Today With Beautiful Pictures by tomdon(m): 1:36pm On Jun 07, 2018
This is the lady that lied that she's a virgin.
She wants the respect accorded virgins while collecting dick. Slut!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Isn't The Currently Trending HR Outsourcing System A Subtle Mode Of Slavery? by tomdon(m): 8:38pm On Jun 06, 2018
EasterDell:
This is actually a national emergency and has concentrated wealth at the top!
- Banking,
- Oil & Gas,
- Telecoms,
and many other lucrative industries to work in have become manufacturing grounds for graduate poverty!

E.g. (Oil & Gas) approved salaries for drivers in Total E&P from France HQ is above 450k per month. But the so called HR companies managing the drivers don't pay them more than 80k monthly. This caused major strikes in 2013. Today companies like Shell, Schlumberger, Baker Hughes, etc suffer same agitations

This has been debated in the house of reps. But like people cursed by the gods, we seem uneager to address any issue deemed important (e.g. PIB is taking 8yrs to pass)... Yet useless bills like "not too young to run", are quickly passed and signed by Mr. President in weeks.
Thank God another person shares my perspective of the uselessness of the not too young to run bill.
PoliticsRe: Reps Probe Jibrin Over Counter Of NASS Resolution To Buhari by tomdon(m): 4:55pm On Jun 06, 2018
This man
PoliticsRe: Buhari: MURIC Blames Saraki For Impeachment Threat by tomdon(m): 4:55pm On Jun 06, 2018
kimjongJezebel:
Mad Yoruba man, fake Prof always licking the ass of his Fulani masters. South West will not tame this useless potential terrorist called Ishaq Akintola now, if he gets out of hand and crisis ensued in the future, you guys will find a way to blame us in the Niger Delta or our brothers in the East
Who is Southwest??
You're very unintelligent
HealthRe: My Challenges With Rhesus Factor In Pregnancy And How I Overcame It by tomdon(m): 4:31pm On Jun 01, 2018
To God be glory
Car TalkRe: 7 Nigerians Who Own Rolls-Royces In The UK (Photos) by tomdon(m): 1:53pm On May 31, 2018
Auto corruption
CelebritiesRe: Churchill, Princess Onyejekwe, EFCC Walk Against Corruption On Children's Day by tomdon(m): 1:48pm On May 31, 2018
When he is also corrupt

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