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Ayodeji787:
Hello,

I applied for Masters program for the Fall 2019 in the university of Saskatchewan, I graduated with a CGPA of 4.74 of 5.0 in my last two years and overall CGPA of 4.47 of 5.0. I have also gotten a potential supervisor with the department and I also mentioned his name in my application. And my potential supervisor is the graduate chair for the department I applied to.


Please, how certain is my admission for the Fall term and when likely will decision be made also.

what's your discipline?

bukatyne:
The girl doesn't love the man neither does she love herself.

If she lived herself, she would know that the man is not good for her and she deserves better.

If she loved the man, she would encourage him to be the best he can be.

So no love here sis.

She probably saw her mother endure same and wonder why we are shouting.

True. She doesn't see it as anything wrong. She doesn't love or respect herself, so she is not even qualified to love the boyfriend. Those ubunja red pill stuff works on such ladies easily.

If GreatResearcher were to approach this same girl with the mentality of 'you're a golden girl...bla bla bla', she would look down on him, take him for granted and come back to her friends, and we would ridicle d OP together, but once she meets a man like the OP's tenant, even her best friend will not know about any tangible thing happening in the relationship. She could even cut her friends off for the guy. I hate to be friends with such people. They cut people off whenever they feel like, but when someone who can manipulate them comes, they become puppets.

Many ladies have 'daddy issues' (google it). Emotionally, you tend to attract someone like yourself, while physically, opposites attract.

zexy2030:
isn't she seeing the guy playing her? except is this kind of ladies that do he disvirgined me, I must marry him..except this too. some girls have this mindset too...while some still believe that if u don't maltreat them u don't love them..different strokes for different folks..if u dare go close and entice her and she says only that guy no one else..guy na jaz o..from true life experience..
for instance collect snail water and rub it on ur dick before sex..the woman will be glued to u.
things won't work her own way if she does otherwise.
while some claim that the guy helped when he was working but for her maybe not.
self esteem is the root of sticking to one guy for years.

Bros. It's not jaz at all. funmisticqueen is right here. The girl has a very low self esteem. She has issues.
GreatResearcher, if you want to prove me wrong, do your research about her family background, she's likely from a broken home or has some childhood issues still affecting her. You said you wanted to ask her out? If the table were reversed, these kind of ladies would turn the tables on you and treat you like trash instead. I can assure you that such lady will NEVER appreciate you treating her nicely. They're wired that way. I have some of them as friends. They have a really poor taste in men.
Our problem in Nigeria is we don't take visiting therapists and psychologists seriously.

Juliusdaughter:
I know this might not be the right thing to do, coming out here to wash the dirty linen of myself and my guy but I am left with no choice cos i'm confused and need people's opinion.
I am a final year student of a prestigious Nigerian university, my said guy is currently serving. We have been together for close to 5years now(started dating him from pre degree days). My bf is into music and so all the little change he makes is invested in music, he doesnt even buy new stuff for himself no more! Na now i know say bfr a below average Nigerian artist can be recognised eh go don tey
He is so passionate about this, as for me i have learned a skill because this present day Nigeria need not only certificate but what you can also give back to the society, in view of this i started saving some money from my pocket money. I was able to save a bit over 150K
This will not be the first or third time i will be assisting him with the little i have, what happened recently was that he told me about his new project and stuff, to cut story short he needed 50k but there was no where to get it, his typical african parents are not that interested in sponsoring him, his sibling decided to follow same path, the only person he could look up to was me, after so many nights of hope and helplessness i told him i have 60k in my acct and would be able to give him the 50k he needs since i am not in need of the money till by Gods grace when i am done with service and wanna start up a business. His dream came through and the project was done tho the outcome was not as positive as he thought. Many of his fans are now particular about one of his tracks and he has decided to push the song, but as usual no money he has been lamenting and sad cos of that, he needs 15k this time around and i have told him i dont have. I am so confused right now, i dont think its my fault that i encouraged him into doing music. I am not scared that he'd leave me by the rime the money comes because we are serious about each other. Is it advisable to keep helping him since i know i wont be needing the money till like two years time?( i would have saved more over that period of time also) and i am sure he would have gotten a job before i need the money so returning it would not be a problem. Pls what would you do if you were me? Tnk u all
Please i dont immature response on my thread,
Mods pls help push this to front page.

OAU Great Ife

SilentWisper:
Owk

Bobo

Donpenny:
With time u will get heal. When I was in 200L I have a gf in 100L we dated throughout my undergraduate days even after my graduation we still continue our relationship. I went to service I was so faithful to her becux I believed in her and want to marry her. Despite that my parent kicked against me marry another tribe I insisted and made them believed my reasons. I can remember that very evening my parent called me and asked do you love yetunde and I answered in affirmative because they don't want to hurt my feeling they compromise and accepted her . all these sacrifices I made cux I loved her and am willing to make the relationship work. I called often like four to thrice daily even when I was in service my parent called her often too but one day just two before rounding off my service year she called me on Skype I saw her crying profusely i asked her what happened she now told me her parent was against our marriage base on tribal difference ground I try and calm her down so I told her to try and explain things to them and if they truly love her they won't hurt her feeling not knowing to me that she has made up her mind to go back to her ex bf just within an interval of one year when I even came to check her at home despite the far northeast state i was posted to with frequent call. She broke up with me , when she left me for her ex I was depressed for two weeks after then started see other girls that I don't even find attractive b4 we one of them became my very close friend so she help me get over her within two week. She even more beautiful and mature than her I became happy again. Just two month ago she started calling asking if I have gotten another gf I said yes even immediately she left she started crying and I asked why d cry she said her ex told her she is too cheap for her liking and he broke up with her now she is sorry she missed me, my call and bla bla bla. I diplomatically turn down her request and she felt even more hurt later I called her back and encouraged her but we can't date again cux I can't love her again never I can't even have her for a night stand . up till now she still call often sometime at odd hours when am even with my heart rub . so bros shake it off look for someone more beautiful and talented than her and give your heart a chance to love again. Cheer

Of course, her ex is very right. She is too cheap, for her to leave a promising relationship for one that didn't work out in the first place. She now wants to give you the leftover. All that crying na deceit. Bros abeg if you see girl wey dey cry before explaining something to you, just know she's trying to manipulate you. Na their way. Enjoy your new relationship.

Itzurboi:
Heart break is what some of you guys experienced, Mine was HEART BURN, I just cant start explaining but always thank God for your own and dont wish for mine... it's just the Grace of God that brought me back. And now that i'm back, i will maintain good relationship with all my ex(es) cos they will be in for serious TORMENT, just that my good brothers out there would have a lil share... hahahahakikikiki LOL

bro gist us how it happened and let us learn from it now. abeg.

Timekeeper:
Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

You can NEVER get over her if you keep on making effort to get close to her by going to her hostel or something. If she wants to see you, let her make all the effort. The key is to just treat her like you would a male acquaintance. Just drop it. Think about it. Will this girl matter in the next two years? I doubt it. Even if it works out, you'll go for your service, and it will become a long distance relationship, which is difficult to maintain. Me personally I discovered that when I get a bad vibe from something at the very beginning, then it's not likely worth it.
So, in conclusion just MOVE on.

sacramento1212:
I thought as much because many girls within that age are usually not consistent emotionally. Focus more on graduating from school and allow her explore because there's absolutely nothing you can do to tame her now.

OP. Please follow this man's advice, and you'll win in two ways. One, when you don't have time for her anymore, shell be the one fighting for your attention. Two, your grades will not suffer. Remember you have a primary objective in school, and it must ALWAYS come first in any decision you make. God bless you.

Chuknovski:
the truth is some girls can't stand handsome guys, its same for fine girls, they are insecure and uncomfortable dating fine guys so they won't be fighting with other girls, my advice is just go for ugly girls they will love tirelessly and the beautiful ones comes as bonus, then you choose your choice

Lol. what if he's not attracted to them? It would even hurt more if someone he's not totally attracted to breaks his heart.

Op nobody hates fine boys jare. Once you have a good personality, people will be attracted to you. Na dem dey rush us o.

Eglobalma:
Don’t mind the fool, saying I have bad character cuz I don’t like a girl that constantly tells me how I should behave in a house I spent thousands to rent? I suffered for months saving to get my own place, I have no family support..only hardwork and God and you think I will tolerate one skinny bitchh telling me when I should or shouldn’t stay inside my own fuckinggg house ? I’m not a learner , I have seen suffer and trust me nobody can take advantage of me. Bad character untop forced friendships? Wow

Of course, you really had to say 'FOOL' again. A bad character does not mean a bad personality or one is a bad person. Your character is just a very tiny part of your personality. Anyone that is worth improving on should be improved on ASAP. You know I've been following your posts before, though i like some them, but i noticed you don't like taking to corrections. You'll rather delete the topic. Try and see the good in everything and never the bad. God bless you bro.

Mcy56:
Exactly. Why must someone force himself or herself on him all in the name of friendship? Someone like me, I like my privacy and will not just accept any person as a friend.
Besides, they live together, he might have seen some attitudes or moves he doesn't like, thus try to keep his distance.

Did you see this?

''To answer ur question even tho I didn’t want to, I’m inside hustling looking for clients cuz I’m a yahoo yahoo , we yahoo yahoo are always indoors ! So no bitch is allowed , excepts she’s getting fuckedd ..now tell ur bitch to back offf !!!!!'

I replied because of this actually.

Prognose:
He has not said anything that indicates he has bad character. He wants to be left alone, no be by force to make friends.

What I'm trying to tell you is that you can't tell someone to remain rigid such that nobody would be able to HELP him adjust any part of his character that needs adjustment. Of course people have different personalities, but it's not a good thing when you're not open to corrections. Cheers...

Mcy56:
You are actually looking at this from one angle. We are all different and have different personality.
Some introverts likes to be alone and not disturbed at all; they want to associate only if they feel like not when someone is pressurizing them for friendship. Some don't know how to make friends 'cos it becomes boring to them along the way.
If you read what he said well, that the lady's bf hardly greets him again. So what do you want him to do?
To keep romancing the lady all in the name of friendship till one jealous bf waylay him somewhere?
I read where someone says ladies were supporting him. I think it's for both of them's good anyway but you can enlighten me the more sha.

I understand you perfectly, but do you think he didn't have to include this...'' Is it now bad to be charming, that’s if I’m even charming cuz I keep attracting PSYCOPATHS.'' to make his point?
My own opinion tho.

Kudducini:
You have problem

He sure does. He needs a psychologist ASAP. Ibwas surprised some girls were supporting him. Birds of a feather...

Prognose:
So what advice do you want exactly?

Embrace who you are. There are people that will accept you for you and won't bother trying to change you. Those are your real friends. Those are the people that matter.

So even if he has a bad character (as clear in his case, then he should'nt allow anyone to change him?. Your own advice weak me o. Imagine him calling them 'psycopaths' behind their backs, just because they are nice to you. SMH for op o.

rychard:
I can't believe I just wasted 45seconds reading sh*t from a narcissistic slowpoke. If you're friendly to people, then its okay, because you're the nice one, but when they try to be friendly with you then they are desperate.

So great was your desire to show the world how self centered you are that you had to make a post about it..

Oga park for one corner... Look outside the window and see folks enjoying their life, world doesn't revolve around anyone, so get a grip on yourself ,

God bless you. I thought i was the only one seeing through his bullshit. When you start having problem with most of the people you meet, just know that you are the one with the problem

Too much 'Assurance ' and they start taking you for granted. This applies to both sexes o. Anyway what do i know...

No. that's putting the cart before the horse jare. You want to guage sexual compatibility before emotional compatibility. #kolewerk. Meanwhile, say NO to pre-marital sex altogether sef.

Uncle maths teacher, President BuBu only got one vote per person, and Big brother supports multiple vote per person. No Franchise law. So your statistics is flawed. Cheers.

aaronson:
The ability of assimilation when you read a post determines your IQ for comprehension.

Go back to my post, study it, again and again probably for 2 days and figure out where I wrote she should jump at the advances of any man that comes her way. If you can't figure it out then you made it up NOT me literally.

I salute your doggedness sir. Many people just conclude without assimilation.

konfused:
I wonder how some people reason, some castigating the guy without even trying to understand where he is coming from.

Imagine you sent a message to a girl and she takes 2hrs to reply and you tell me I will not be pissed off. What stops the lady from telling him point blank I am not interested so the guy can move on.

I don't see anything bad in what the guy said, he is just trying to buttress his point that no matter who she thinks she is, she should be humble. It is almost the same as telling a proud man that after everything na 6feet e go end.......it still the same thing.

Pride is very bad, if you are not interested, say it loud and clear, I am not interested and stop feeling too full of yourself, taking 2hours to respond to common "how are you doing today" esi be gi aga be onye, who you epp.

And for those stressing the point he is Igbo ......so he should stomach rubbish because he is an Igbo man abi.

Imagine that the role is reversed, how will the girl feel.

Ike gwuru

Abi. God detests the proud and loves the humble.. But e pain d bros sha.

tamethem:
How handsome are you guy.
You wey dey see person wey ugly.
Ppl like you are the worwor type with lousy stinking mouth.
Smh

Bros all boys are handsome jare. Nobody ugly.

smileysmiley:
The lady obviously deleted her reply that made him give such response. Look at the time in between, maybe she was rude, who knows?

Aunty. I lovee you jare. You also got the correct gist. She carefully avoided her own flaws and highlighted the guy's own, just to allow twitter users replenish her ego that the guy crushed for her. Cos that's the only point of bringing it to twitter i can think of.

CyberWolf:
I don't blame the guy sha.. A guy will muster courage just to chat you up, you will be forming one kind useless shakara.. The guy wrote you around past 7AM, you didn't reply until 9:45AM (Granted you might be busy with something or not online so,it's understandable). But when you finally replied around 9:45AM and the guy replied immediately, you locked up again till around 10:57AM when the guy got tired of waiting for you.. Who wouldn't be angry? .. Well that's why I don't waste my time chasing women up and down, just chase and catch the money and once you're with the money, women will come after you. That time, you just relax, chop the puna as they come and enjoy your life to the fullest.

My brother, im surprised say na only you get the gist. For her to even carry d chat go twitter shows her immaturity. That bros na correct guy-man. And na dos ones wey no fine dey proud pass. Typical CeeC of a girl...

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CanadianEnginee:
There are lots of CeeCees amongst our girls. She wants the relationship to end because she cant apologize.

I dey tell you. I hate indecisive people - not only girls sef. Its difficult for them to commit to things, not only in their relationship, check other aspects of their lives, how many of their childhood friends still relate with them. Even if the relationship works out initially, she'll always remind the man that she left a richer man to marry him and she regrets it.

Seyitosino:
*Her ex-fiance dodged a bullet. be like him* that was profound

Lol. The funniest thing is that the ex won't believe that he just left the BAGGAGE for someone else to struggle with.

oloyeagbaakin:
I prefer running PGDE program instead of this Masters I find myself in

Please just try and finish this Master's program because I'm sure something prompted you to start it in the first place. Note that once you get your M.Sc. (for example) , even if you don't graduate with a Ph.D grade, you can just put-in for M.Phil, before your Ph.D,( in most schools) and you can choose to do your M.Phil in another related discipline. You could also just talk to your supervisor as he might be in the best position to advise you more. Thanks.

oloyeagbaakin:
It is a struggle I can still keep on going even due to the financial constraints but am afraid I might not really need the degree when am finally thru with the program.

Ok. You didn't give enough details before, as to whether the course is related to your choice of career. I don't believe there's any investment on self development that is a waste actually. Also, its always better to be occupied than leaving the mind idle. Once your mind is not idle, you tend to perform better when you eventually get a good job. If however you have something in mind to do that can occupy you and you're SURE it'll be productive, you can go for it.

odiereke:
Nice one Op

Thanks. just thought i had to share this.