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ZINIBANKS:
But how come king Solomon have 300 concubine and gave them no fúcking money
No horse wagon no beautiful designer how come
The guys sense was truly from above

You're talking of someone who had Looks, Money and Status (LMS) going for him at the same time.

Good day everyone. Please are we still allowed to go for interview before funding our blocked accounts, or must the account be funded before interview?

But why is this thread more toxic than the first thread?

Nairaland is unpredictable o.

sylve11:
Safrian you dey vex o. Easy na. I understand it's wrong to insult others' looks; but you're taking it too personal here.

She clearly didn't see that the OP insulted someone's looks first.....

She said "The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department"

Now tell me. Is that a praise or an insult?
@safarigirl I agree its bad to insult people, but the golden rule is treat others how you wish to be treated.

ambivert27:
Maybe you're a boring person because in your lamentations, you met another girl this year, after giving you the green light, she suddenly developed cold feet?

Ask yourself why they are all leaving.

Do you mean he must provide some sort of entertainment for them so that they won't leave?

OP, when you find the partner that is meant for you, you won't have to jump through any hoops or try so hard before it'll happen. A genuine relationship will flow naturally with equal efforts from both you and your partner. Stop trying too hard.

You have to send a mail to Facebook help center. They'll delete it for you, since its not encrypted like WhatsApp.

OP. How old is the girl you're talking about?

I believe Nigerians are too religious to the point where they become hypocrites.

Why should the OP help her ''because of God'' by doing something illegal. Does God allow you to go against the law by falsifying her state of origin?

OP. Don't let anyone blackmail you emotionally. God can not use you to help someone illegally. Maybe the devil wants you to do it, so he can punish only you, while she walks freely.

Op. I wouldn't advice you to get her the job, because then, you would be committing a crime for a stranger by changing her state of origin. Never go that length for strangers, as it may have consequences in the future. If she was going to marry you, then you would have been FAMILY and any consequence faced will be shared by both of you. She really played you. Just block it and move on.

Don't let anyone blackmail you by saying its mature to let her have the job.

Supposing you were doing it legally, i would have asked you to let her get the job.

OP. Let me advice you as a brother. Be very careful of those girls you term 'shy'. Its too easy for such people to use your head, and you'll be there thinking 'oh its because she's just shy, let me give her another chance'.

You're the man in this relationship, and i think you're spending the resources and have a plan set. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty. She could have suggested another place instead, but she didn't. She could have bought you a present, but she didn't. Forget the 'i love you', that's simple manipulation 101 to soften your heart, before asking what she wants. I guarantee you wouldn't have gained anything from her. She's the one to benefit more.

Also, I think you should'nt contact her again for a relationship. Just greet her casually when you see her in school.

Tip: Remember if she breaks your heart, you'll never recover till you graduate since you'll see her in school everyday.

OP. Dis she attend OAU?

OP Argon18. Please ask yourself this question.:

"What if I didn't win that scholarship and she's now in the UK, will she have had my time, or would she have been replying me with single words?"

There you have it. OP, when you answer that question, you'll know the meaning of 'love'.

What I see here is infatuation. Even if she dates you, one of you guys will be bored of the other very soon.

AfroKnight:
I think I owe you one crate.

Collect

lol. Thanks

AfroKnight:
Women use that statement more.

It is sometimes an underhand plea to let them advance an agenda that needs the fertile soil of patriarchy to flourish. They use it to manipulate men.

Op. This is the only correct answer so far. It's just a manipulation tactic. You will keep on impressing her, while she'll walk over you. In the end, YOU'LL BE HURT, when she leaves you.

It has started working on you. That's why you're asking this question. My advice : Leave her and find someone else that won't manipulate you.

GozyNA:
As long as you’re legal and authorized to work here, no employer would openly discriminate against you based on age, sex and race, so don’t worry. I’ve met people in their sixties who recently completed college and got into the workforce.

Thanks a lot

Markab:
There is no age limit or discrimination in any province of Canada. As long as you're qualified for the role you're applying for, you stand a chance.

Wow thanks a lot

Auroralights:
Perhaps you should ask the landed seniors in the other thread but it's unlikely that there will be such because a lot of immigrants regardless of age and experience start all over in Canada.

Okay. Thank you

Hello everyone. Please I have a question.

I know in Nigeria, there is usually an age restriction of 24-26 years, for entry level position.

Is there age discrimination in Canada for a 30 year old who has done her PhD and no work experience?

Thanks in advance.

Hello everyone. Please I have a question.

I know in Nigeria, there is usually an age restriction of 24-26 years, for entry level position.

Is there age discrimination in Canada for a 30 year old who has done her PhD and no work experience?

Thanks in advance.

Good day everyone,

Please how true is it, that if one does a PhD in Germany, he is not likely to get a post graduate work permit or blue card (since he or she has been living there for more than 3 years)?

Thank you

leechicomsoln:
Any one who needs documents sent to any part of the world through DHL should contact me. Its take 3 - 5 working days your documents we arrive safely

How much to Germany?

Good day everyone. I recently found out that someone who has worked with lecturers as a research assistant can also use it for express entry.

Please has anyone successfully done something like that? Also, what documents did you use? Can I get a reference letter from the Professor or must it be from the university?

Note that i was not paid a monthly salary. (Is a payslip compulsory?)

Thank you for your help.

Anotii:
U might put her in a situation she doesn't wanna be in...just kiss her straight away in the moment, avoid talks and if it doesn't work out,you are still in the safer side

Economist. ''less cost more benefit'' O.P follow this advice.

Good morning guys. Please I completed my NYSC last year November, and I've not been employed since then.

On the Imm1294e form, where i'm supposed to fill my current and previous employment /activities for the past 10 years, should I leave the first part (current employment) blank (type N/A) or add that i'm helping out in my father's small scale agro-business, even though the business isn't registered?

Thanks in advance.

GiantParrot:
Do not take this as an attack. I just find this line of reasoning to be quite strange. Why do you think she refused your advances because she felt the guy was better than you? Don't you think it's possible she refused because she has a classy quality called loyalty? If things didn't work out with the guy in the end, why should she be punished for being loyal? Or do you expect her to be a diviner who can see the future and tell that a stable relationship wouldn't work out? Imagine sometime in future your daughter is in a stable relationship and she begins to get offers from other guys then runs to daddy for mature advice because she is getting confused. What would you tell her?

Brother, your line of reasoning is really good, but you're deviating from the context of this topic, which is why you might be wrong. The key phrase here is 'PLAYING HARD TO GET'. A girl in a stable relationship like you said doesn't have to play hard to get with another guy.( She could just consistently rejecting his advances outrightly. )That would mean she's leading him on. And such a girl shouldn't be taken seriously if she comes back begging. My 2 cents.

yemilasko:
hello house..here i am in canada.����...i will like to share my poe cuz i was abit concernd abt that before leavg nigeria..and cuz my cousin was once denied at d POE..my journey was smooth.the distance frm casablanca to montreal was jst tiring cuz i went with my daughtr...but thank God,i Got to montreal airport lately ,was asked to go to immigratn 1...and our conversatiom goes thus.....

cbsa........hi
me...........hello
cbsa........passport pls
me...........i handed it over
cbsa.........can u gv me 5min to print ur study permit pls
me...........yea..and i dropped my passport and decided to v a seat
Aftr 5min he called me bck and handed it over to me,he asked if my daughtr was on studnt visa too ,i answerd No and he said welcome to canada ,you can go fr ur baggage pls...
i was surprised nothg was asked,no questn..nothg
meanwile i saw other pple with thorough checking ,some were directed to immigration 2,i met some sitting down and left them still sitting ...
I return all the glory to the Almighty God and i want us to alwys put evrythg befr God...my prayer point was alwys (GOD I DNT WANT ANY DELAY AT THE POE ,DEY SHLD JUST HAND OVER MY STUDY PERMIT AND SAY WELCOME TO CANADA) i actually got it d way i wanted...atyms wen im prayg i usually say is it possible but now i knw my God is awesome....i pray fr every1 waitg for response fr visa shall have a positive response IJN.

Amen in Jesus' name. Congrats bro. To God alone be ALL the glory.

chibertha:
Yes you can finish in 2 years on purpose
But get the Visa first when you get to that bridge ......

Wow that's a relief. Thanks for the reply.

chibertha:
That means the duration of the course is 1 year but you can finish in 2 years except for any reason which subject to approval by the school eg medical and childbirth.

Please for a course like this, is it possible to finish in two years on purpose, so as to get 3 years work permit after the program?, because i heard he's going to be given a 1-year work permit if he studies for 1 year.

Thank you.

SPOLO:
Probably 18-19

A teenager. Most girls at that age range are not emotionally mature enough for a relationship. Just go for mature ladies and thank me later.

Some ladies are rude tho. Instead of just saying 'NO'or 'i'm not interested'. OP how old is the girl in question?