narite:

There are some things I want to share with you but I feel something strongly holding me back not to, so am going to leave you with this short words.

If you get to live to the age of 60, I hope you do. The things you will want to talk about in life are not those flashy cars you bought, not the shelf of awards in your home, not the luxury clubs or homes you visited, not the high status people you meet in your lifetime. All you want to talk about is not your life but that of your children, your grandchildren, their father and even their father father.

If there is nothing good you could tell about them, to yourself, to others, your children are disaster, their father has never been there, you will naturally know you have been a failure.

Yes! People who really are not close to you and those who are close to you but are fake, will praise you in life for your big achievement and sing your name but it won’t change the fact that you will be miserable because you have realized what some of them are yet to realize, the most important in life “FAMILY”.

As a woman, the children you are leaving behind, what becomes of them after you are gone is what truly decides whether you have been a success or failure. Check around you and you will see.

Have fun in life and chase after big dreams but while at it “always remember the most important thing” be ready to sacrifice every other things for it. It is my hope that the latter stages of your life will be far greater than it beginning.

This is as deep as it is true.
Thanks bro.

Deal-breaker for me.
Total turn-off.

Ode, Lawan saved you from drowning further in your self-generated tsunami.
Never seen such unforced error of Himalayan proportions from an old (supposed-to-be wise) man.

LordAdam16:
If you like mk you fine pass Agbani Darego, na your local champions go still chop you. With their 212 spray, knockoff watches, and suya dates.
-Lord

Now this legit cracked me up.
Deep truths you penned in this post bro.

CaveAdullam:
Lastly
Cc. Hedgefunds, Tonnyray, Reminderz, et al.,

Very true bro.
Glad you're still spitting truths.
Seems even you are tired of the incels that have overtaken the other thread.

Afrobasic:
Don't end up like the flower boy in this photo.
Her past matters!

Her children keep editing and posting this popular picture of hers

People that want to start tracking their husbands, bfs etc now disguising say their relations lost make OP drop tracking 411

Edipet:
You have a nice point Bro, but I'm not really comfortable with your last paragraph, I "think" pride price should belong to the biological father unless he reject it for any reason best known to him. In some culture, if you did not pay the pride price of the mother, you have no right to eat anything from your son in-law, if you do, it will result in a very big issue. You fit die sef or untreated sickness.

Thanks. I only spoke based on my convictions. There is no way I am going to marry a babe without getting to meet or at least discover the biological father. You do not take a woman's word for it in matters as deep as marriage in the African context. If I now discover it to be true that the man was totally irresponsible and deliberately absconded from fatherly duties to my fiancee, I will focus on the man who raised her to be what I find admirable enough to wife up.
I have a personal experience along these lines bro. I broke up with a babe with similar daddy issues I was engaged to when it dawned on me what I was getting into after I'd obtained irrefutable details of her mom's whorish and treacherous dalliances in her younger days. Her biological dad had just been one of her victims.
A woman and her mother with bile for her father is a massive red flag.
Tread carefully. Chances you'll also be stung real bad in future is well over 90%

MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.
My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.
Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.
Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.
Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?
Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?
What can you say about this?

Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?

Very deep but this is what I'll say in a nutshell: To prevent you being the side-lined father-in-law in another 25-30 years' time, (cos trust me these things come in cycles) tell your fiancee your parents insist on having a brief meeting with her biological father as your family tradition entails but assure her that all marriage rites and obligations will be to her step father.

Case has been dismissed.
The Supreme Court has dismissed PDP’s suit challenging the alleged double Nomination of Kassim Shettima.
A sum of Two Million Naira was awarded against the PDP, even as the suit was dismissed for lacking in merit.

https://www.channelstv.com/2023/05/26/supreme-court-dismisses-pdps-suit-challenging-double-nomination-of-shettima/

Tonnyray:
Life is actually balanced in my opinion though and if we were to actually delve inwards to discover and unearth the qualities that are gifted to us as men: the powers of creativity, aggression, courage, strength, competitiveness, resilience, mental and physical energy, capacity for critical thinking and logical thought to mention a few. These are qualities that last 50 years and more. Physical beauty that lasts for just 10 years (maybe 15 years max for the extremely genetically lucky ones) pales into insignificance in comparison. If we are objective enough, nature has ensured we MEN actually have the "unfair" advantage.

Tony thoughts.
Selah.

Rizzputin:
Ah yes, once again another red piller realizes that taking pills is nothing compared to being in the trenches of play gaming women
When i read your first post on this, i thought you probably had an issue with making her feel comfortable. Basically, showing her that you genuinely care about her so she doesn't see herself as another intimacy gadget of yours.....

Perfect take.
Pretty relatable.
Sorry I couldn't quote the whole.

dhiqson:
Page 2027 resist the urge to shalaye
Resist the urge to explain
Resist the urge to clarify
Let em mofos keep exposing themselves
Imagine a full blown self acclaimed "Captain save a hoe godly doc" can't infer from a picture how a nigha tryna force genuine interest... Yall learn to ignore

Over 80% of their posts in the last 2 pages is still about people they should be ignoring.
3 years and 2029 pages on and these characters are still brainstorming and hitting themselves over the head who and when to ignore.
Same ones that suddenly attain "omniknowest" status when it comes to women related matters. Lmao.
Y'all better return to your tales which by the way I got one:
A married albino woman tried to seduce me in my face-me-I-slap-you room yesterday. As me never reach for white woman to follow. Thanks to the peels I've swallowed I resisted successfully. Isn't Jesus wonderful?
Clowns.

Smartb0y:
Very creative 🤜

Very creative from here https://sms4smile.com/love-sms/relationships-are-like-bluetooth.html

Carcholce:
Bro you don tay for woman matter, you shouldn’t be the one saying this. This isn’t a matter of redpill. The face the lady is putting up could mean a lot of things but not “low interest” like you said.
I think guys on this thread are heavily invested in learning red pill but low interest in understanding women and their body language. Red pill can tell you one thing, and a woman’s body language will say otherwise. I dated a lady that sometimes when I peck her, she’ll use her hand to clean it off, with an angry face. Whenever she does this, it’s her little way of seducing you to sex. she put up an angry face but the next few minutes she wants you tearing her asx out when she realizes her angry face is not making you back off or getting angry at her for being petty.
Women shows shakara with body language normally. Whether they are heavily invested in you or not.

Thanks bro.
You see, these people have a way of displaying naivety of himalayan proportions just when you think you've seen the worst.
Anybody who's ever had makeup sex with his babe after he's effed up megally won't even tow this line of discourse. One minute she's sulking and hissing and yelling you should leave her alone, the next she's moaning loudly to some deep strokes.. and finally smiling sheepishly after the calming "cumming" effect.
But what do I know?
Just a blue-pilled simp feeling fly among the "idans" of womanology.

Karlifate:
Make una rest for dis matter.
Even women don mock the guy taya for Twitter.
https://twitter.com/faiththegemini/status/1613347722941304832?t=_YJ1bHFwppywmdZE7e6WlA&s=19

Women's comments are the gold standard for "red pillars" now.
You people won't stop amazing me.
Shebi heartofcity will soon come and quote them specially.
Jokers.

Smartb0y:
You're missing the whole point 😂😂
Do you want to act like a bad boy or do you want to act masculine.
Trust me,the disparity between the two is enormous.

You are the one missing the point ogbeni.
If you bothered to check how your kinsman started it, you'd understand where the bad boy dimension came from.

Karlifate:
Just because you're covered in tattoos, with locked hairs doesn't make you a bad boy, any dumbo can go get several inscriptions on his skin & make crazy hairstyles.

Now na masculine.
Shifting goalpost upandan kuku na your stock in trade

Smartb0y:
She's leaning away while he's leaning towards her.
Very feminine of him.

He's grabbing the ass of a 7-8/10 chick in public. That's real feminine of him

Smartb0y:
Her expression says low to No interest.

Her ass is being groped in public and she's not slapping, elbowing or even pushing him away.. that's no interest.

Even a rookie in women mattaz knows that expression is the typical "I'm still pissed off at what you did" expression.
And these are the experts.
Just twisting things to suit preconceived narratives.

Continue to accept rubbish shegbo?

ShaqFu:
what's the point here, is it not to get laid?
From the looks of it, that dude with the tattoo own that girl.
I believe it's not his business if the girl likes him or not, the bottom like is to get what he wants, which is to get between her thighs. The girl isn't even pushing him away. Lol.

Spot on bro! My exact deductions.
That dude owns that pvssy if the pix is anything to go by.

ShaqFu:
I believe it's not his business if the girl likes him or not

The true definition of a bad guy.. though I've never been a bad boiz fan.

ShaqFu:
The girl isn't even pushing him away. Lol.

You noticed that too. Happens for example when a girl tries to bill you and you clear her and she puts up some shitty attitude to try'n guilt trip you. She go likely still collect heavy dickin after that game from the dude.

Ttalk:
Oh Biden refused to read Chimamanda's letter?

Used it to wipe his ass

MatrixCircle:
Good girls like bad guys.
Bad boys get good girls.

What makes her a good girl please?
Just curious.

dhiqson:
Then there's you, trying to negotiate the one thing a woman should give to you Stay well sir

And that one thing is hymen. SMH.
Stay well sir

Ashez:
Tinubu can never rule Nigeria. No be one week remain?? We go soon see

We go soon see true true.

CaveAdullam:
Keep your sisters.
Protect their mother.
Safeguard your daughters.
Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1659633193807429638?t=pDTRYDATwYfwTOAA_xJs_g&s=19

Deep.
GOD bless you bro.

Rubbish.
Deal with the marafacker.

Pukkalolo:
I've talked about sexual comfortableness...

This guy is in a class of his own.
Pristine truth.
Respect bro.

Ajisebioyolaari:
Full spec.....
She get front, get back, get brain, sabi cook, she be baddie,

Doesn't look follow come to me.

Hezzyluv:
All the while, I thought she's cooking lron Beans that would take 4days.

Now this legit cracked me up. Lol

First deeply introspective thread I'm seeing on nairaland in quite a while.

Retire on a higher pay package I guess.
Na the masses go still bankroll am.
Sad.

Rizzputin:
Just remember this, a man that has to say he is a king is no king.

Deep.