Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 4:48pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: A driver for a farm. try open a small petty business for ur wife and kids. Any type of business. |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 4:44pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
With this kind of economic hardship, Many guys will not go into marriage again.
Na only ladies wey get sense now go marry. All those ones waiting for already made man, go wait tire. |
Family › Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Tonytonex(m): 4:40pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
ConfusePoint: Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.
I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.
What is the way out of poverty for me?
One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.
This thing don come big pass me.
I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.
They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.
Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.
No two ways about it except ...
But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.
For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?
When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.
Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.
Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.
Life happens.
How do I help this family better than I am trying?
Wishing you the best in all you do. life is hard. But don't give up. Some women lost their husbands with many kids. Think about that. |
Travel › Re: Where Can I Legally Relocate To In 6 Months Time? by Tonytonex(m): 4:32pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
LARRYOBRAIN: Invest in cow rearing business 50% interest p.a, you can collect your interest yearly. what happens if the cow dies of gets stolen? Una go still pay pesin? |
Travel › Re: Where Can I Legally Relocate To In 6 Months Time? by Tonytonex(m): 4:28pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Hellonearth: Chest beaters. Una don shift am to end of the year? I thought by now it will be 1 naira to 1$. Story. Naira will continue to depreciate. I get paid in dollars shaa so it doesn't concern me I made dollars too. But it concerns me. Don't be selfish. You are happy seeing majority of Nigerians suffering? |
Family › Re: Benue Cousins Insist On Marrying Each Other Despite Stiff Oppositions by Tonytonex(m): 2:21pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Fuel Purchase Reduced By 50 Per Cent, Reduce Pump Price – IPMAN Begs Tinubu by Tonytonex(m): 2:13pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
Babzrockman: IPMAN una well so. It is better u guys adjust your widemouth in profit and abide by market forces. As demand low, reduce price na don't mind them. The higher the price the lower the demand. The law of demand is a fundamental principle of economics that states that at a higher price, consumers will demand a lower quantity of a good. Demand is derived from the law of diminishing marginal utility, the fact that consumers use economic goods to satisfy their most urgent needs first. |
Education › Re: Gender Switch Day In Delta State University - DELSU (Video) by Tonytonex(m): 1:49pm On Jul 20, 2023 |
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Education › Re: Mmesoma Pleads With JAMB To Revoke 3years Ban At Reps Hearing In Abuja by Tonytonex(m): 7:59am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Don't even know what to say again concerning this matter. |
Webmasters › Re: Is Your Whatsapp Responding? by Tonytonex(m): 7:54am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Babzrockman: My Whatsàpp stop working oh... Don't know if anyone is experience same update your app |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp Is Back And Working Perfectly Now by Tonytonex(m): 7:51am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Vijuchoco: Oh! I didn't even notice it was down before.. same here |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp Is Back And Working Perfectly Now by Tonytonex(m): 7:49am On Jul 20, 2023 |
KingDash09: Useless app
Thank God say no be Instagram or snapchat useless apps |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp Is Back And Working Perfectly Now by Tonytonex(m): 7:41am On Jul 20, 2023 |
What time was it. Mine was working |
Family › Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Tonytonex(m): 3:31pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
pansophist: Character is everlasting, beauty is fleeting. That's why you must choose character above looks.
And even if you get your beauty standards, her beauty will become the new normal, just as your novel gadgets become ordinary. If her character is not right, she will quickly transform into the ugliest woman in the world.
Most importantly, the true meaning of marriage is tieing yourself with someone competent, so that you can both become stronger, and formidable together. Beauty cant look after you when you are sick for example, but a woman with a good character.
If marriage is a ship, then the couples are the sailors. In the midst of the storm, a beautiful sailor is useless, but you need a competent (think character) one that can sail with you and prevent the ship from sinking.
If you want to go far in life, you need an ally that will traverse this journey of life with you, and character is the engine of it. I stopped here. I no read comments again. 💙👍🏼 |
Family › Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Tonytonex(m): 3:28pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Monman56: I have very high specifications I want from my to be woman and I know its difficult to find. What point did you decide to settle for Character over beauty or did you get the high requirements you wanted.
No insults please mine will be both. |
Romance › Re: Ijaw Bride Moody On Their Wedding Day Despite The Rain Of Money On Her (video) by Tonytonex(m): 3:23pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
She's probably a big girl too. Money May not be her problem. |
Politics › Re: FAAC To Share N1.959 Trillion Revenue In July — Probably Highest Ever by Tonytonex(m): 8:28am On Jul 19, 2023*. Modified: 12:48pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
GeneralPula: Assist you say?
No!
Each State Governors must provide palliatives for their people. This is expected. It’s one of the reasons each state is getting almost x2 of what they previously do receive.. most Nigerians don't know how to hold government accountable. That's why the government are riding on their ignorance. |
Politics › Re: FAAC To Share N1.959 Trillion Revenue In July — Probably Highest Ever by Tonytonex(m): 8:24am On Jul 19, 2023 |
HeDied: Still the same old thing. Robbing the poor to pay the rich. Small 10k will enter your account and automatically, N50 is taken away, the bank will charge their own and another tax will still apply on the same 10k. 10k becomes 9800 or less and at the end, it is accumulated and given to thieves in the name of president, governors, local govt. chairmen and what have you. #Sad I thought it was the banks that charges those money for themselves. So na government. God pass them |
Politics › Re: FAAC To Share N1.959 Trillion Revenue In July — Probably Highest Ever by Tonytonex(m): 8:20am On Jul 19, 2023 |
What is the impact on the masses?
How will it benefit the common man on the streets? |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Canada: FIFA Women World Cup: Fri.21st July 2023 by Tonytonex(m): 9:04pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Canada win |
Politics › Re: ₦620 Per Litre: This Isn’t What We Voted For, Tinubu’s Supporter Laments by Tonytonex(m): 9:03pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Dem never see anything. Fools! |
Food › Re: Unveiling Peak Yoghurt 1 Litre Strawberry Flavour by Tonytonex(m): 10:16am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dem dey copy Hollandia .
But it is good sha. Their product has a higher quality. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu To PEPT: Nullifying The Election Over 25% FCT Could Cause Anarchy, Chaos by Tonytonex(m): 6:09am On Jul 17, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Carlos Alcaraz Beats Novak Djokovic To Win Wimbledon Men's Singles Final by Tonytonex(m): 5:56am On Jul 17, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Now See Dating/Marriage As Poverty Alleviation Programme by Tonytonex(m): 5:24pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Yes. So many of them. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: What Is The Best Caption For This Picture by Tonytonex(m): 5:22pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
Na wa for you oh Samantha. There are so many ways na. Samantha124: The same way other people are achieving it. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: What Is The Best Caption For This Picture by Tonytonex(m): 12:24pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
How do you intend or plan to achieve that? Samantha124: Financially loaded. |
Romance › Re: Did You Recover The Money You Spent After Your Wedding?. by Tonytonex(m): 11:51am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Zab2021: Spent above 4.8 during cashless policy. Recovered all and still Received gift on Wednesday. God is ever faithful. Married my best friend though. Best decision ever. I envy those that married their best friend. Mine didn't allow me. |
Romance › Re: Did You Recover The Money You Spent After Your Wedding?. by Tonytonex(m): 11:47am On Jul 16, 2023 |
Olarewaju89: I did not recover all but half of it and i used it to bought land.
Now God is doing great work on the land.
Not easy though.
It is well oh you get sense oh. For investing the money. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: What Is The Best Caption For This Picture by Tonytonex(m): 11:41am On Jul 16, 2023 |
isabi2lof: Life no hard , na you dey give urself headache contentment is key to a fulfilling and happy life |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: What Is The Best Caption For This Picture by Tonytonex(m): 11:39am On Jul 16, 2023 |
canalily: Why is this kid and her bread trending on Facebook Whatsapp TikTok and nairaland 😏😏😏did she steal the bread or person dash am na the bread advert strategy. If you know you know |