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Gokoyer0:
Only you will help yourself. Stop watching porn. Even block anyone with porn contents on SM including twitter. Cultivate another good habit that will keep you busy at your free and lonely time. Then download "ironwill" app to monitor your progress everyday.

Try this for 3 months and come back to thank me how every area of your life will change.

Masturbation is a destiny killer! You will not reach your true potential with the addiction.

what does the bolded do?

Sonofthemoon:
if you are into it , DM let me help you stop it Spiritually then come back here and give testimony for everyone to kno masturbation is spiritual.

You are a fool to think that.

Akwamkpuruamu:
Na forex ọ... The thing de kill me and de keep me alive in moments when I no get hope

it's like gambling that's why. Infact, it is not different from bet9ja.

zedegit:
Hmm. 161 people need help here.

How do they stop it? I think it's a spiritual problem. Any strong pastor to deliver them?

some people went for deliverance, but couldn't stop.
It's a bad habit. It can only be stop by discipline and determination.

Tisham20:
Negative thought

yours is simple to stop.
Read good books and Bible.

blazepascal:
I should start first..i dont know why i like boring my finger nails even the nails on my toes i've tried to stop it but i keep forgetting its already a habit ..i think i learnt how to bite my nails from my dad ..my dad always bite his nails often ..i dont know how and why i copied him .please how can i stop biting my nails..because my nails are now short.

Assuming you were constantly using facemask during the covid-19 era, you would have overcome it. 21 days discipline can stop and starts habits.

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pansophist:
For men it would be porn/masturbation, for women, it would be social media/need for attention. Any man/woman that can overcome them is a strong person.

Like some women may literally die if they did not receive attention, while for men, if they do not nut at least once a week, they can also die.

Talk about being a slave to so many slave master. Lack of self-control makes you a slave to external things that can control you. The one wey worse na that person wey get many slave masters.

So just one person is addicted to porn and masturbation, to gambling, to drinking, to womanizing, smoking and a need for attention,

Only one person enrich alcohol company, the gamble house, hotels and prostitutes, tobacco company, and your engagement on social media from your likes, views, etc, which is converted to money through advertisement

That's how you become a modern slave. And many are like this, they don't know. Na that kind person every slave master like, because the person no get sense.

[/center] some sense dey for this your talk. I'm a strong person.

talented321:
Sucking of p*ssy

stop taking substance, like alcohol and/or hard drugs. Cause I don't think anybody with his right senses would do that.

Microwhy:
Its more easier for a comfortable family to think about family planning than for a poor or struggling couple to think about such....
Its what its and can't blame him too much..
Subconsciously, the poor or struggling couple equate children to money/wealth. That's why its easy to see a struggling man having more children than a comfortable man.

please, explain more on the bolded.

armyofone:
Make everyone keep p.r.i c.k for inside pant.

OYO if you bring pricking instrument out.

hmmm! It's well oh.
Konji go kill man pikin be dat.

LikeAking:
Are u sure?

They are taking advantage of us.

it's tax. All airlines can't be all expensive.

dangermouse:
Ah tell u.


I later retaliated with my own slap and beatings which made the wife come out all in support of the husband

Since then have learnt to mind my bizness

that's why in a public compound, I mind my business.
Only good morning. That's all

Imredeemed:
My neighbor and his wife were fighting that night so my husband dragged him into our house when it turned violent. The next day he and his wife insulted us, claiming that we were gossiping them and all that. Since then we vowed to stay in our lane!

Share your own experience with us

LOL 😂😂😆 very funny.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://nairametrics.com/2023/07/21/fuel-subsidy-removal-leads-to-sharp-decline-in-generator-sales-across-nigeria-traders/

If everybody is complaining now, who are the people that voted for tinubu?

[quote author= post=124555492]Source: https://tribuneonlineng.com/lady-beaten-to-death-in-anambra-club/[/quote]justice should take its course. Money can't buy life.

princeade86:
How many times will they do this? How many times will they ban them? Yet, these loans apps still operating on play store.

Are people still taking loans from loan apps?

No comments yet?
And it's already on fp?

seuncyrus:
Bro, there are still menial jobs she can find depending on her location. There are cleaners who still make about 25,000 - 35,000/mo... I know it's nothing but it will go a long way in their present situation.
Any business they open will be used to feed the family. I've seen this play out over and over and if I'm being very conservative with the number sef ... the business can't last 6 months. They will use both capital and interest to eat

that's where discipline comes in.
That's an excuse.
There are people that are doing it and are succeeding. I've seen it.

sunbreaker:
Even if her husband is alive,5 children is too much. Even in 90's,not to think of 2000's

we are talking solutions, not the the problem.
The problem is already there.
What would you advice the OP to do?

seuncyrus:
The wife needs a real job , not any nonsense petty business. Any business in that family will be used to cater for the home. I give the business 3 months max

what qualifications does she have?
Where do you see jobs?
Who would employ a mother of five kids?
Be realistic.

9jaRealist:
His minor kids shouldn’t be helping pay his bills…
Cheap (child) labor shouldn’t be the reason for having kids.
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depends on what you mean by child labor. When I was a child, I used to go farm with my mother and siblings, and I was doing exceptional well. And Also help sell some of the stuff in the market when I closed from school.

abba190:
why would 38year old be earning 40k ?

You can employ him and pay him higher na.

9jaRealist:
Abegi leave the kids out of it…
Don’t know so many Nigerians think child labor is ok.

Apart from household and basic chores…
Let the kids go to school and concentrate on their studies!
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It wasn't a general advice,
I was talking to the Op. If you read his write up, you will understand.
Abi you go help am pay his bills?

LARRYOBRAIN:
100k per cow, 500k to any amount you invest.

thanks!
It's not for everyone then.

lifezone247:
Yes, yes and yes. AC has nothing to do with fuel consumptions. It’s uses gas when the engine is running. Make una stop that mentality abeg.

don't mind them. So many ignorant and foolish people everywhere. Believing trash.

Rikze:
As for me, the answer is NO.


Unless the rain is heavy, to have clear vision, I may drive the car with AC for a while and turn it off.


The fuel wahala is biting so hard. 😡😡😡😡

LARRYOBRAIN:
Yes, it is in a restricted place and also poutry, your capital and interest is guaranteed, monitored by World award vet. Doctor
It is not crypto or MMM.

alright, Thanks for your response. This is interesting and lovely.
How much is the minimum one can invest?

taylor89:
They should increase every bill and payments

I want make the suffer get odor

Make suffer choke every tribe & ethnicity

Because it’s seems it’s only intensive suffer that can cure Nigeria of tribalism

Nigerians will vote a wrong leader, then regret and vote another wrong leader

Queue wey go dey mortuary before December go surplus

Many of us are not even feeling the bad governance now

Wait till NEPA goes back to its old ways where you go three weeks without light na that time una go begin pick dead body for ground like snail

sharap you fool.

RepoMan007:
they can save it.

you are not being realistic here.
Na pesin wey don chop dey save.
How much have you saved so far?

It can only be because of money.
Without money they won't

RepoMan007:
I know already that N8k X 6months can buy a bag of rice or beans that will last them almost a year is my point. Or set up a small business for the wife.

you are not getting it.
They are not getting the money in bulk, as in once.
It's every month.
And there is no way they can be saving that for the 6-month.

RepoMan007:
these people need that palliative more than others. Those trashing it should come see a family that palliative can greatly help in a 12 month cycle.

the palliative was for 6-month not 12-month. And mind you,
That 8K palliative can only feed them in a day or two.