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dayokanu:
I cant measure Tope and Toyins as i might need my 2 arms to cover each one

Bro day  . . .shey won fi oyan se yin ni

Treetop20:
i wonder why these blokes find it hard to understand
that most of the so called paperless men are just looking for
who to use for immigration purposes. I know lots of lasses it has
happened to.

Thank you . . . .u dont who to trust nowadayz . . . i swear
I mean u cant help but think . . .is he with u cus of the paper or truly

This topic has already been discussed

Have you ever wondered why A, B, C, D, DD, E, F, G, and H are the letters used to define bra sizes?
If you have wondered why, but couldn't figure out what the letters stood for, it is about time you became informed!

{A} ~ Almost Boobs ~
{B} ~ Barely there Boobs~
{C} ~ Can't Complain Boobs!
{D} ~ Dang! ~
{DD} ~Double Dang! ~
{E} ~ Enormous! ~
{F} ~ Blessed/Fake Boobs ~
{G} ~ Get a Reduction !. ~
{H} ~ Help me, I've fallen and I can't get up !! ~

They forgot the German bra.

DWL

@POST
Why do u want to know?

dayokanu:
I dont think I would want to.

I can discipline my own child the way I want Not someone elses.

If I have 3 children I can give one a bigger chunk of the cake and reverse the order the next day. Not with a step child.

The step child still has allegiance to the biological dad. And can decide to hang out with the dad without my consent.

A woman once divorced sees no BIG deal about being divorced and she can pack out once more at the slightest inconvenience.

A woman with 2-3 kids marry her and I still intend to have about 3-4 kids of mine making 6-7 children to take care of. The extra baggage

I think divorcees would do better with divorcees.

For me? No!!!

We have enough single never married ladies

Hmmmmmm . . .true talk

Outstrip:
Actually it is the man that donates the chromosome to make a boy. The woman cannot. If a man does not have a son and he feels like blaming someone he can blame himself

lol. . . . i know that but the man cant really tell his Y chromosome what to do, can he?

posakosa:
I HATE my ex and I gladly wish him DEAD.

Lol . . . .Gosh
Why?

olabukola:
Why do this british girls attach thier mind on this paper? I don't just understand that. I mean a guy will come over struggle and get paper, he will willingly travel home to marry a girl and bring her over. Why is it difficult for a girl to marry someone that have over stayed his visa. To be honest it is difficult for a nigerian guy with paper to marry a nigerian girl with paper. Check people around you and see for yourself. Not only Nigerians i work with 3 ghana guys and they have the same view. Maybe we are wrong but somehow somewhere those girls are not cutting it.
Most nigerian born brit will chose to marry a Nigerian girl that is illegal than to marry a british born nigerian that grew up in britain.

I have noticed that too but most of the chic excuse are usually thats the reason why he is still with me, i actually heard a story of a guy that only date a girl with her papers intact . . . . .apparently wheneva he meet a new girl he usually ask her to travel with him, the girl's answer will detemine if she has paper or not meanwhile he doesnt have any paper himself but just looking a chic that will help him get his own . . . . .now tell me wud any girl wanna marry that kind of guy?? i know i wudnt

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=108910.msg3746014#msg3746014 date=1240024940]in Africa at least, that is sometimes the general belief at least i know some women who have gone through hell all because they don't have any male child and their husbands ridiculed. however, in the western world there is little to no difference between the two. also in china they value male child more, so i think it kinda depends on the culture[/quote]I am aware of that but really its not the woman's fault that she didnt have a male child niether is it the man's.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745713#msg3745713 date=1240012676]How many can one marry at a time??
Choosing one out of 200 seems to be the problem.
They all look ravishing. [/quote]Do eeny meeny miney mo
It has never failed me

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745694#msg3745694 date=1240012219]Of course. . . . . . .
The chics in ma church think so. [/quote]In your church??
guess u better propose to one of them na. . . . . see it as doing them a favour

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745683#msg3745683 date=1240012011]ROFLMAO. . . . . . .
I don't want a slave. . . . .I want the ideal woman.[/quote]Are u most girls ideal man?
There is no ideal man or woman . . . . u both have to meet each other half way n be ideal for/to each other dear

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745675#msg3745675 date=1240011848]Even me?? [/quote]Even u sauron. . . . . cuz u want a slave
on sunday i might have said yes

EbeleAmobi:
How many times should a guy call his girlfriend in a day.

mine doesnt call me on most dayz so i wudnt know

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745664#msg3745664 date=1240011626]Na lie you talk, you will do your wedding tomorrow if a man approaches you tonight.
See your mouth!! [/quote]If any guy ask me to marry him tonite . . . . I'd turn him down, i aint that old or desperate

ibkaye:
Hahahahaha

Ok my dear, obviously don't be a slave to your husband, but do the things that make him happy na, no matter what it takes, but of course don't kill yourself. You should know the guy and what he likes/wants, you got married to him, he will love you even more for the things you do to please him

There is no pleasing naija men abeg . . . . . .whateva u do . . .one their friend's wife is doing better
Thats all u hear . . . they neva appreciate nada . . never apologize when wrong cuz their ego wont let them . . .
in short naija men scare me, this thread kinda opened my eyes sef. i have learned alot but thanks anyways

davidylan:
A woman's duty in her marriage is to be her husband's help meet . . . i dont think there shld be defined roles that are restricted to one person.

kiss 4 u

JJYOU:
i wont say amen to it becos it is one of the things that really made people like me  begin to seriously look at the tolerance treshhold of our people.  i cheerish the power because that is what it is.  power of a very quiet and not easily offended person.

i can stand most people  but i cant stand peole who dont know how to get along with people.  we dont have to win every arguments at least not in close relationships.  no one is permitted to shout or be angry around me. it took me years to find a person who can stand me and i am so glad i waited that long cos it is worth the wait.

most of our people dont know how to work as a  teams with our parners.  if you want to succeed in life you must learn to live in a strife free environment.  you produce more and blessings flow more freely.

some people turn relationships into war zones too quickly.

Amen to that in bold
May God bless you
U have have wisely spoken . . . . .many naija men dont know how to work as a team with their partnes at all
Its so SAD. . . . sometimes i just imagine if marriage is really worth it esp seeing how many naija men behaves . . .too much ego n pride

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745583#msg3745583 date=1240010021]U need to take tutorials from Ibkaye.
Lil wonder there are more unmarried women today than they were 4 years ago.
The attitude y'all women exude these days makes men sick to their stomachs.[/quote]Of cos i need lessons from ibkaye . . . .because i said a man putting his clothes into the washing machine himself isnt too much for him to do

Bia Ibkaye. . .  come n teach me how to be an obedient wife na

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745548#msg3745548 date=1240009256]Let her wait for NEPA na!!!
I am not gonna wear all em clothes in one day.[/quote]Clap for urself

Go to Africa ans see 36 yr-old lasses under their parents' roof.
They all started this way and they lost all the responsible men that wanted to marry them.

Once again i dont live in africa
If a man want a slave instead of a wife . . . . i'd stay at home too

Sperm is the only good thing women get from guys?? Ignore men then and try dogs and horses.

Biko what do u guys do for us that we cant do ourselves or get outside help?
we dont need a dog or horse . . . there are lot sperm banks now

We would keep our favours when all y'all women stop disturbing us about marriage 3 weeks into a relationship. . . . .
I am sick n tired of hearing these comments:
"When are you meeting ma parents?" "I am not looking for a boy/friend, i want a husband", "If you know you have no future for me, lemme bounce"
"My biological clock is running out","I want to have all my kids before i clock 30"

Buncha hijackers.

I absolutely agree with u
We women shud always look for the ones that are ripe enuff to marry and a man that wud give me his last cuz he thinking of me first

ibkaye:
@topic
Cook, clean, make luuuuurve and don't get fat

I 100% agree
But some men here are the type that will let their gf or wife carry all the shopping while he is carrying nothing . . . .yeye guys

JJYOU:
bless you too. i know what you mean. i used to attend an  all naija church here some yrs ago. our people still do some fighting here.  if you dont like hunger dont like anger because you add the letter D in front you become DANGER 'r US.  sadly most dangerous people always hurt themselves. there is theat song the heart you hurt may be your own.

one of the sadest thing i used to see in east london is lonely old men buying meat and food in the market. it used to tear my heart knowing some of them had good relationships they could have nutured for that period of their life.  dont get me wrong i know some of our sisters are ugly rumour  sister nasty when they get to this part of the world. a little endurance, a little give and take and a little loving can go a long way.

we must all learn to get along if we are to form a  happy and meaningful lasting relationships.

This is how most naija men lives will end up like . . . . .

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745493#msg3745493 date=1240008326]Hehehehehehe , . . . . . .What a lame excuse!!![/quote]How is it a lame excuse . . . . u were the one that said therei s no eletricity to poerate the washine machine, so how wud ue houswife iron ur clothes which she washed with bare hands (Which i think is ridiculous) wen there is no electricity.

If it's about children alone, i woulda impregnated ma classmate when i was 15.
U will rather remain single?? What a laugh!!!
I give you 3-4 yrs more and watch your parents fling your belongings out of their house.
Who wants to harbour a 30 yr-old daughter??

Why wud I live with my parent till im 30??
The only good thing women get from u guys is the sperm . . . i can always get that anywhere
There are lots ppl claiming they are married meanwhile they both live like room-mates . . . who wants that kind of marriage just because men think they doing women a favour by marrying a woman  . . . what a pathetic excuse
Why dont u guy keep ur favour to urselfs

go n edit ur last post now

JJYOU:
where is the tatafo man in the first place? he doesnt have credit for internet, cant help a pregnant wife, cant help an unborn child ,

who tell you say you waz ready for marriage kanayo abi na small orange seller u don give belle.

Rofl

MrCrackles:
M yoruba!

I know yoruba people use it!

I have used it b4 and it is very good

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745436#msg3745436 date=1240007296]I live in Africa and there's no electricity to even power any washing machine[/quote]Then i suggest u take all ur dirty clothes to the drycleaner cuz even if ur wife wash them [even tho its going to ruin her well manicured nails ] . . . . .  well there wud be no electrity to iron them

When would you ladies realise men are doing y'all a big favour marrying y'all??

A favour??
and woman arent doing u guys a favour by bearing youse lot children??
n if marryin me is doing me a favour, i'l rather forever remain single who needs pity

So some guys are less of a MAN just because they dont have a male child??

bluespice:
ahhhh


tope u taught me well
being sisters is not a joke

I know na
I am such a good role model for u, mamam wud be proud

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=262594.msg3745416#msg3745416 date=1240006868]Go to Africa and get the stats. . . . . . . .
Maybe 1 in 100,000 homes would have a washing machine.[/quote]well i dont live in africa

She can go back to her father's house if that is going to be a problem.

rite.

@poster
Oloshi clap for urself