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rawpadgin:
Have u ever been in a wedding where the pastor's teaching on marriage & relationship was extremely touching & u start reminiscing about that awesome relationship u had with bola & how she was an angel from above but because u were so stupid & naive u never valued her now it's difficult to find another girl that's as good as bola?

Dude, i have been there (am still there) so i share ur pain

E dey happen baba

Safiaa:
Everytime I see your comments, I always shake my head in disgust. No offence.

If you like sef, you fit knack your head for wall, na your own wahala be that

Keep going around with your condom

greencard:
Morality this days is being confused with hypocrisy.. The two are two different things

Just because u can do it or it probably doesn't feel wrong to u doesn't make it right

This is Africa we've got a heritage of moral values don't lose yours because someone else lost theirs.

PureWaterNylon:
hahahahahaha. I Burst Laugh As I Read This Comment...

KreativGenius:
Like we've both established, its not about the kitty, but she's a cheap fraudster, the guy will not feel safe around her. Why marry a person we can't trust? Mark her, the marriage will have issues except thre are elders that can calm the guy, this is the only solution, she needs to go speak to people that know the guy before the marriage, so he can decide of his free will to go on with it, otherwise he will say she stole his free will

KreativGenius:
Tosin, it's way beyond the hymen issue. How can the guy entrust his decisions, his life to such an individual. Also guys, once a lady accepts a proposal, sexual intercourse is permitted. I can prove from ancient Jewish traditions, i wonder why guys wait till wedding for proposal. The guy will feel duped, and won't be able to trust her for life. It's a different thing if he knew she wasn't a virgin, that's different matter entirely, this one is a dupe, a fraudster, a liar, a murder, she doesn't deserve that marriage

The magnitude of that lie is way too much bro.. Even if the guy goes on with the wedding, he will always reminisce about such a thing

Imagine, she come still put something to inside the kitty-cat make the thing be like brand new just to scam the brother

Just imagine say she tell the guy that kind thing

KreativGenius:
They don't listen. The expectation is not for them to be virgin but for them to be honest, the guy will feel like she payed him, which is what she did. Tosin,hope you've watched this film before? This guy will cheat through out the marriage, she can't
stop it, if she tries it, he will call her a cheap slut and will abuse her physically. Why don't girls use their senses ?

KreativGenius:
She has lost him before the wedding, the guy will definitely feel conned, and she'll pay for it big time. I wonder why chicks lie. If a guy loves you, he loves you. Stop raising expectations and then making pipu look stufid

OrestesDante:

OrestesDante:



Most babes will want to know the stuffs you packaged that made the process looks like it's a real deflowering. Trust me

Jokes apart.

Be a woman, be bold tell him the truth. But the man will be very disappointed. I hope the level of trust he had built in you will not be brought down

Some babes go be like, "OP, abeg tell us the trick wey you use wey make the thing be like tear rubber nah"

Veraatabeh:
nt everyone is matured only his hairstyle will tell u

mrdickhead:
like say na only you sabi vex,naija parents go tell you say I sabi vex pass you lol

lefulefu:
Rudeness is one thing dat scares off guys....though its very rare for a lady to say she has never been toasted b4 in this part of our environment.

It's not possible.. Even if you wear skirt for a monkey, some guys go still woo am

KreativGenius:
I've had my eyes on you for more than a year na.

That thread where you responded to that guy's post that said, a girl didn't date him because she felt he was too pure and too genuine was spot on. I love the response you gave. Why others were giving different replies, you nipped it in the bud and gave the honest fact. Not everyone has eyes that can see or heads that can reason.

I'm just that type of a person that doesn't like to follow the crowd in reasoning towards a particular direction

KreativGenius:
I've been following you for a very long time now, you see things from a different axial others don't, and you're always right. Abeg, drop CV and job hunting, you can make cool cash with all these broken hearts around us. You're even more sound than Poju. Start on a low key online

My brother, you're a very good observer. See how you described me perfectly

Kittenprincess1:
yes It Makes A Whole Lot Of Sense

KreativGenius:
But bro let's leave the prophecy out of the matter. Imagine your babe wishing you failure cause she fears you'll do multiple ladies, does it make sense?

vblaze2k17:
please am also confuse about this whole matter. someone should please enlighten me further more if its possible for a part time student to do NYSC. to my personal research, am told that NYSC is not important, but I really need it. let ask about IMO STATE POLYTECHNIC NEKEDE, can a part time student do NYSC after graduation? please enlighten me because I don't want to fall any victim in the name of anything. thank you very much for your advice.

Part time students are denied the chance to go for NYSC but you can only get exemption letter.

The only way you can go for NYSC is if you have a solid runs. I know of someone who ran a part time programme and was mobilized for service through solid runs. (I mean a very strong one)

Na Naija we dey

DanXplore:
I never knew i had stage fright until i was told to do a vote of thanks during my secondary school days as the newly appointed headboy. Guys, I messed up big time that day. Prior to my appointment, i had always avoided scenarios where i would be made to speak up because i was extremely shy. Highly introverted! But somehow, i knew that as one progresses in life, it would become impossible to avoid public speaking so i took the bull by the horn and starting practicing with myself in front of a mirror. I sometimes forced myself to contribute in discussions etc but the stage fright did not go. Till date i still battle with it! No matter how i tried to hide, one leadership position will just land on my head for no reason. I am not a born leader, and God knows i am not trying to be one but since situations always arise where i have to speak up, i developed a system that masks my fright. If you hear me speak now, you might think i am confident but trust me, it is all facade.

But to woo babes nko? I know there won't be fright

alexis007:
I'm a die-hard chauvinist with an attitude that can intimidate even mothers, so imagine what a lady below 35 would seem like to me- she is kinda like an ant.

But then, op, this write-up is unnecessary and too sexist even for a chauvinist like me. You drove some points home, by the way. Thing is, a real man should know how to lay his priorities in the appropriate order. More focus is needed on things that matter- that's my attitude. Irrelevancies can sort themselves in the dark hole of oblivion.

This is what I mean: Learn to ignore these type of girls. Continue ignoring. Ignore till it's a habit. When you see a girl slaying but unproductive, just look away. Meanwhile, if you are not as selfish as I am, you can devote your attention to the industrious ones with brains.

As for me, I have no f##k to give to a slayqueen. Your market cannot sell on me. Even good girls get affected sha a. Many do call to tell me that I'm too selfish and uncaring. But then, na so God just create me. I just lack time for people who are not my blood. The only attention I have left in this world- I gave all of them to my family.