₦airaland Forum

NwaChibuzor:
you met someone during nysc and shes already you dearest. When will you boys have sense?

WhyNa:
I tire for una. Abeg Spirituality does not cancel Sexuality

Like obainoneandonly rightly said, keeping yourself busy is the key. And when I mean busy, I don't mean you find something to do for the main time and then relax. Busy as in both physically and mentally, something that keeps you engaged continuously. Even that is not even guaranteed but help to an extent.

I think many of these people are experiencing low sex drive and that's why they keep saying that engaging in spiritual activities actually kills your hormones till marriage and keeps your joystick flaccid each time that thought comes

Even science does not have an 100% solution that will stop sex urge. It will only give you a scientific and psychological analysis that will reduce it to some extent. However, they will tell you it's not 100% guaranteed but will only reduce it a bit (I'm talking about world class medical experts oooo).

But my uncivilized spiritual experts here will give you a thorough spiritual analysis of an 100% guide that will stop you from being Hot and will make your joystick become flaccid at all times

EmmaFantastic:
Actually, there are locally fabricated cylinders-that is, "made-in-Nigeria". Though some do look quite durable and strong, but the manufacturers don't put expiry date on them (probably because the materials they used are not standardized or factory graded and so no one can rate anything about it) and they hardly have SON (Standard Organization of Nigeria) certification. But I guess sometimes, you do see rust under some cylinders as well as on their handles, that should make you know that with time, those things do actually experience "wear and tear".

Rust don dey show for my hand oooo bro

Damdeyz:
I Have Some Answers 2 Ur Questions, They May Not Be Utterly Comprehensive, Bt U And Me Can Rub Minds Later In The Evening When I'm Done For The Day.

DeadRat:
all These People Sef how Will cylinder Expire? The Thickness of My Cylinder No Be Here... My Dad Has One That Is Over 25years And Still Okay

PUSH1:
Nigerians n religion
U can't separate them

My brother, this country don tire me I swear.. It's now very difficult to find people who are very logical in reasoning

If you throw this same question to white men, they will give you a thorough scientific and psychological analysis that will reduce sex provoking thoughts or feeling you might be having. They won't even tell you that it will reduce it 100% but will only tell you it will reduce it to some extent.

But back to my people, they will begin to give you a spiritual analysis and measures that will reduce 100%. They will give you spiritual guidelines that even make your joystick will never erect again.

It's even ridiculous that my people often say that when you are having wet dreams, you're actually under a spiritual and demonic attack (something that biology has a perfect explanation for ooo)

My brother, this country just tire me

Funny Bro, Permit Me To Say This, Do You Knw The Disparity Btw Claiming To Be A Christian And Being One? How Many Christians Go 2 Church But Are Chronic Fornicators Targeting Sisters And Causing Them To Sin, Lol My Bro Pls Dnt Be Confounded, We Have A Lot Of Religious Pple Bt Few Christians, Hope Av Given U A Knew Perspective? Christians Wil Abstain Al Forms Of Evil, Religiou Ppl Wil Bend It To Suit Themselves, I Guess This Matter Has Been Overflogged, Oya Call LAWMA to dump their trash here am loving the stench!

Malakh:
The Bible/Word does takes it off you've never just been in the Spirit before, when you in the Spirit the fruits he gives you is much more sweeter,engaging and fascinating than uncleanness, this is why Paul said walk in the Spirit and you'll not fulfill the lust of the flesh, if I commit uncleanness it's because i wanna do it, the strength is there to avoid it we just wanna do it because it feels good, but I know that according to the law we(flour) are baked with leaven Lev 23:17, in other words sin is in us, the flesh and the desires of sin is inside our mind, this is why Paul said o wretched man that I am who shall save me from this body of death, the truth of the matter its best to get married, if one woman is not enough for you get two to satisfy your desires but dont go around fornicating because the flesh WILL kill you,Satan's job is to use sex/flesh to kill us, it feels good but that's why its gonna be easy to kill flesh.

Damdeyz:
Bro Not All Of Us Are Sexually Incontinent-lack Control, Trust Me The Fact That Majority Do It-no insults intended, Doesn't Rule Out The Microscopic Few That Choose To Reverence GOD and abstain frm sex and masturbation, i'm a graduate, never had sex b4, even non-christian forums like no-fap teach efficiently how to mitigate masturbation, how much more christians who have the fear of the creator, what i mean to say is that a few of them may be speaking the truth, im one of them

IamaNigerianGuy:
This is the scenario gay defenders would like to establish as the new normal. Anyway, not all of us can be mad at the same time ....

tintingz:
Some funny post tho.

Praying or reading religious books doesn't cancel sexuality, it is a natural thing, you will only be decieving yourselves.

Masturbatión is the only safe sex to reduce the urge for singles according to medicals(there's no negative side effects).

My brother, I just dey shake my head when reading the comments of these people.

Can't you see it's highly ridiculous for someone to think that reading one's Bible cancels sexuality?

Adaumunocha:
I observed being Godly helps.

What are you even saying? Africans and their way of reasoning sha

So, being Godly and reading one's Bible regularly means that biology will no longer play its role again abi?

It means you will no longer feel the urge for sex when you're on the path of Christ abi?

Oma se oooo

schumastic:
Is true, we have been through that road and that's why I can boldly say I pity you. If you find a girl or know any who can pass the test, it simply means her emotions haven't been triggered.

Women are emotionally unstable being and its during this period they fall for gullible guys or Cheat with someone else. Why do you think when you ask them this ?, why did you cheat on me? they reply back with I don't know what came over me and it only happened once( which is still a lie).


No one is perfect but bro to be on a safe side, don't do distance relationship and don't trust anyone, I can back it up with a bible verse so be wise.(Micah 7:5)

Mynd44:
Normally I wouldn't do this but when you slander the game of Chess, everything else goes out the window really.

The picture where they were playing chess, why is that only the black squares was used? Yeah, the cameraman and couple though this was checkers (Draughts) right? Someone thought, lets have a picture of you two playing chess and still didnt get it right.

Oh, that one of the groom playing pool, did he mistake the red ball for the white one?

Weird

You didn't talk about the pool too.. The was no cue ball and my guy actually aimed at porting the red ball... Very weird

schumastic:
I pity u.

Damdeyz:
EYIBLESSN AND BIACAN, MOST QUOTED COUPLE ON THIS THREAD, HOPE SAY TOSYNE2MUC NO GO VEX.

I no kuku vex baba

yarimo:
In the last picture, the girl in the left side BOOBS got me looking for my vaseline

Doctormarvin:
i have seen one who knows what she's talking about... not these little ones who their mothers still wipe their bums after they poo ...figuratively though!before they lay siege to my post

Doctormarvin:
you don't fight for rights you've never been robbed of...feminists claim they are independent but their entire argument center on rights they've not been denied and thinking being on equal grounds with men will grant them thosel rights which was never taken in the first place ...like somebody forced women to marry men who order them around and stuff!c'mon!!!Know your real problems Nigerian feminists ,gender inequality is not one of it

Blackhawk01:
Oh well, Tosin thinks I'm a mature Lady. Halleluyah sumbori...

It definitely isn't something new but it's kinda serious when your gf Is sometimes guilty of what you accuse other girls of.

Lailai, with you 10/10 lists abi?

Doctormarvin:
we are all here to learn dear and I must confess,your write up is sensible but please I would like to know the area in life that you personally have been cheated and robbed of opportunities or your valid opinions discarded due to you being a female and not a male...i feel like I have soo much to learn from you

Blackhawk01:


Finally! The "women bashing" threads paid off after all.

Look up the meaning of gossip tho, oko Iyawo.

If you say it paid off, it actually did.

But on a serious, it's not something new so I sometimes wonder why you do those things as a matured lady.

Anyway, I no need check dico jawe.. I know say you sabi English pass me

Blackhawk01:
Tosin and I aren't new to each other. I don't have to go through his comments to know his stand. He is a misogynistic dictator.

Blackhawk01:
Tosin wee nor listen. Lol

You ehn... I see as una take dey gossip about me up and down both online and offline. So tey you go quote me begin whine me indirectly.

You know say I be very smart guy and I dey see those indirect attacks wella...

I don't know if it has now become something weird for two adult to get entangled

Jupxter:
Tosin wasn't authoritative he simply stated his points saying that it comes naturally for a woman to do somethings. Its the backbone of the argument, submissiveness isn't slavery, the man shows his woman love, the woman in turn respects him, how hard is this to understand ?

My brother, I don tire for these ladies jawe. They have a lot of problems and I know the kind of men they usually end up with.

What do you even expect from people who are mentally unfit for marriage? Isn't it obvious?

Ask them how many marriage counseling they've attended and you will be amazed that all their knowledge about marriage is only limited to what they read on Nairaland

Damdeyz:
You Turn Pastor?

Sometimes, e dey make sense to pray for people

ReinaFarine:
[s] Okay, y'all clamouring for respect and submissiveness and humility from your woman.... Equality asks, do you respect her? Are you humble enough to accept when you're wrong and she's right? Do you truly love her?

Hmmmnnn

Respect is earned.... If you act like a real man, you won't be having shallow arguments like why didn't you wash my clothes and everything...... If it is the love I know, taking care of your man isn't a big deal.... It becomes an issue when you make her washing your clothes a rule. I am your woman... You reflect me to the outside world... Thesame way I reflect you... I will want you to look your best.... It becomes slavery when your wants are interfering with my needs....

Slavery means I have no choice because I was bought to please you and what I want don't matter.....


You want your clothes washed, you want a warm non-microwaved meal thrice a day, you want a clean home, you want cultured children, you want an agile woman to bleep when you get back from work... You want.... You want.....

I need to go to work early, I need to further my career... I need time for myself...

That's why jumping into marriage or commitment of any kind on the basis of chemistry and sexual attraction only is the highest form of stupidity.... If both of you can't make compromises.... Like a house keeper,
Or holding up on having kids until one of you is settled enough in his/her career to create his/her own schedule, or doing the chores together.....
I thank God everyday for the man I am lucky enough to be with.... He doesn't see the big deal in cleaning up the room while I'm cooking.... He understands I have a career that will not come second to his....

You respect someone for his/her accomplishment, ideas and actions not for his/her sexual organ.
If you think you must be the dictator in the house, please, go and marry a village illiterate with neither book nor street smarts.... Then only your opinion, actions, job, ideas, hell, only you will matter...

Leave feminists alone, real men are not threatened by their woman's success... [/s]

Safiaa:
A wife is NOT legally obligated to cook for her husband. Just the same way a man is NOT legally obligated to provide financially for the family. Will he go to jail if he can't ? It's simply a expectation that may or may not be met due to circumstances. Understand the difference.

So tosin let me ask you, if your wife cannot meet your household expectations, does that make her less of a loving wife? I think the problem with you is understanding. You're not willing to listen to anything unless it's suits your views.