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makydebbie:
Yelz abeg, gats to make money.
I forget Tosyne abi Tosyne forget me which one you wan talk?

Rukkydelta:
Yeah that's right Good evening How are you doing?

Caringguy:
I would have prefer Optional1 but she's older that me with 11yrs.

If i should marry refiner, I will go broke within a yr

Is there any single mother in the house? I don't mind been a step father

makydebbie:
If you get business proposal, no forget me oo.

Rukkydelta:
Lol
Nope and I don't think he won't cos I don't break the rules
I have only being banned once when I comment on a thread in politics section, since then I stay away from that section
If you go through Mynd's posts you will find out he is a good definition of a gentleman

gentlegenius:
I think you are right. A girl that just finished secondary school is obviously still a teenager. Though dating a teenager is not wrong, but when you get serious and start thinking of marrying them, you'll certainly face one problem that is common among teenagers and even girls in their early 20. Their problem is Lack of commitment. I am speaking from experience because I've dated teenagers twice in my life.
Just like the Op is secretly admiring her, she might also be secretly admiring him and look forward to dating him. But once you start dating her and commit yourself to her, she won't commit herself to you and won't do much to keep the relationship going. She will start mingling with others guys once she got admission and will Sometimes forget that you still exist. They don't care how you feel about their lack of commitment. This is exactly what I am facing now with the teenage girl I'm dating. She loves me but she just can't commit herself to the relationship. She wants to mingle with the wrong guys who have nothing good to add to her life. This also, is a general problem with our young girls. They will see a good guy they love, but just can't commit to him while they are still young. It's only when they are very close to 30 that they'll wake up and start committing themselves to relationships.

You may date a teenager but don't commit yourself too much to such relationship if you don't want disappointment or heart break.

makydebbie:
I'm fine lol, you give me market to sell?

Rukkydelta:
Mynd' 44
He is so matured

makydebbie:
If you want to have a conversation with me, then mind your business!

unapapadeycraze:
amokeme is good for you. run her parole. hopefully, we will see pre-wedding and wedding pictures.

unapapadeycraze:
i just hope your rumoured girlfriend doesn't see this.

gentlegenius:
Hmmm...

adewumiopeyemi:
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Evaberry:
Madam must you shout?


can't you enjoy that thing small small without disturbing everybody

FoolishBoy419:
senseless post

@op there is nothing wrong with that as long as you will allow her to continue her studies in Uni

olad99:
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sexybbstar:
Na where dem go find you be this.

Bimffo:
Your mum should be ashamed of you still.
He left and you wanna follow her?
Why did she now give birth to you?
Useless fool.
If you don't die that die, na Sango go strike you.
Oloshi.

ShyCypher:
This is the Broke Girls Thread.

The ones who have absolutely nothin' 2 offer in a relationship except slacked, overused cunts.

Scroll up, have you seen them?
Yeah, there they are

Oloshos.

Nedfed:
Problems with gals/ladies of nowadays.
OP I pray your case is not like dat of my female friend (Bimbo).
@26, she got an appointment with FIRS
Ever since no man worth her taste, she sees every young man that approach her has poor.
This how she live till she clock 34 with no man to settle with.
To cut the story short, she later got married to one Alhaji@ibadan with 3 wives as a result of no choice. Now the Alhaji has stopped her from working and make her a full house wife.

Just a lesson for the OP, no one is born to be poor. An average man today can still be the next billionaire 2moro.

KinSlayer:
we all have certain biases that are put into us by society , church , parents whatever...


The name (in nairaland this translates to moniker) is the epitome ofwho we are that is... ourselves in a nutshell... what we percieve ourselves to be.

It is possible to focus on the message only, but the message is out of context without considering the aims and motives of the messenger, therefore doing so will actually be detrimental as it reduces perspective.

You might call it being objective, however that is wrong, as it is impossible for a human being to be objective. An app or program might be, but not a human. You see, we all have certain biases that are put in us from society, church whatever...

Technically to be objective is to put aside our biases when examining an issue or point.
But I just said human beings cannot be objective . So am i running around in circles?

No. the closest thing we humans can do to being "objective" is to view issues or points in light of the biases of others as well as our own biases(since we cannot drop ours)

How am I aware of the biases of the messenger? The name which they have elected to give to themselves

Hope I didnt beat around the bush too much, but you asked what I felt was an important question so I felt to do justice. If the question was a sincere one you should have no problem reading it. If i have failed to explain myself properly, mention me as I am not following the thread. tosyne2much