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Dailyschoolnews:
You seems to be pointing out the bad side. Talking out of Experience?

kakabre:
I'm not always bossy tho..and as for the possessiveness I Don't think I'm ever gon really stop being possessive.. I just try hard to tone it down tho it comes out on its own..
Is being possessive a bad thing tho

soberdrunk:
I wonder how her husband is coping, i dont mean to be prophet of doom but i doubt if the marriage will last because the pace at which she is moving, the husband might not be able to keep up. Rapid success comes with a price......

Jacks14:
hw do u knw

kakabre:
Ahn ahn bros... I'm an only daughter and I can confidently say that I'm not lazy, overpampered and I definitely don't mastvrbate, though I don't deny the fact that I can be quite bossy and possessive

amokeme:
you know I'm not naw...

etainment360:
heheh!

frenzyduchess:
Your brain is still on pause, is that all? Political chameleon, I am sure other monikers have heard this line a thousand times, no new invention, just regurgitating same old trash, hehehehehehe, kolo

frenzyduchess:
don't you ever get tired of using that last line?,every female you have altercations with on this forum, that is what you always use, Abeg try something else, unfreeze your brain and think of another line na, stop repeating this over used line, nonsense and ingredients, over grown baby, I pity the unfortunate woman that will get stuck with an adult baby, unstable chameleon

frenzyduchess:
,big lie,I am an only child, both you and the op are delusional

1stGenius:
How about the "only male child" folks.What are our traits/characteristics?I am eager to know for comparative analysis.

amokeme:
This is just so wrong except the bold. And the bold is only natural for any Good parent. I'm not a "spoilt brat"

jmaxjohn:
Tosyne2much, please there's something else I'd like to discuss with you as a mod. I sent the mods of the crime section a mail but got no reply. It's quite important. An idea to make this community a little more helpful

agrovick:
I believe the bold is where my issh lies; I'm using my own standard but then you and I know an income of less than 50k for a family of 4 or 5 is the starter pack for frustration.



Yes people will always marry and engender kids but I believe family life is all about been responsible and been able to provide and provide adequately for the kids you've chosen to bring into the world.

I get the idea of not despising little beginning; I'm only adding that we should use our heads less we become a standard for mediocrity.

Djbond:
Where dem dey? I'm sure in your dreams because all the girls I've met all my life, they are the same

amokeme:
Exactly...
I'm not saying there shouldn't be disagreements in a relationship, but there should be respect from both parties even when the disagreement is heated up. There are words/attitude you shouldn't use on your partner no matter what. A broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage.. he is doing this now, then what is he going to do when you are both married?
And some words are worst than beating trust me.. I know from experience
But if you know you can "endure" it, well, fine, you know yourself better than we do.
But this is a other form of an abusive relationship, it doesn't have to be physical.

johnstar:
Bro, i nor get tym for 9ja gal


Na white woman dey my mind to marry, moni wey i go spend for used nigeria gal for wedding i go use am travel out go meet white woman

Frankicent:
You this girl ehn I raise hand for you oo

Tapout:
Bro the thing weak me .... But some nairalanders confirmed he's actually a comedian


I guess that justifies his swag

Tapout:
pls is that guy who is wearing his glasses backward a comedian?? Which kind swag be that na

PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.


Marriage is for better or worse!

I beg to disagree with the emboldened because I know of a man who still beats his wife of about 60 years (a grandmother for that matter oooo), so forget it.

I want you to know that a misogynist will always remain a misogynist and not even child bearing will change him. Misogynists don't usually retire, only government workers do

Please make a research and ask those women whose husbands normally beat them, and you will see that many of them saw those battering tendencies in him during courtship but they tend to overlook it

It's just a matter of time before the man graduates from verbal abuse to physical combat when he starts taking full responsibility of her