₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Why do you think I hate you?

It's very obvious that my friend (a Nairalander) even asked me if I've ever done any wrong to you for you to habour such amount of hatred against me

Unna1979:
please my dear sister, since he already show who he is take a decision now, let me tell u about my similar situation. My husband did not unleash his insulting attitude to me, he rushed d marriage as my parent did not like d suitors coming for me so they agree. Infact fast forward to d insult, not only me but my entire family, I stay until four children but still it continued to d children pls money isn't everything. Think about it

My female friend experienced the same thing you experienced ma and today, she's paying the price for it

yaqq:
I just the feel for the madam were open ds. thread ghan! una don finalise plan make she divorce even wen she never marry the potential wife beater

Na the truth jawe.. I no come know why some people carry my comment for head

pocohantas:
You thought he is intelligent? LOL!

No matter how much I try to avoid you, you always make it obvious that I irk you

Why you come hate me like that nah? Can't you just reduce the hatred small ni?

yaqq:
na u be our advocator 4 ds nairaland ooo! broke guys association

Hahaha.. Wetin you sef find come here baba

Teespice:
absolutely not.

don't write things to please me because I will be irritated reading it.

all I am saying is be objective and state your opinions without being unnecessarily bias.

read your post and see if it makes sense.

The truth hurts anyway, so I shouldn't be bothered

Okay I will reduce my level of bias next time

Fourwinds:
I'm disappointed in u for picking on one side story to pass ur judgement....u should have asked OP what led to such moment of insult... I worked in a place and I have both married and singles women working together with me...do u know most of d married female behave better....d singles way of u viewing life is far from reality...when I discuss with d married one I always remind them dat dey got their maturity of reasoning as a result of their married status...So Tosyne2much there is. more in what OP is not telling us

I'm glad you said except the OP is only telling us the edited version of the story

managermahmud:
Honestly I thought you are intelligent, but this disappointing view of yours seem to prove me wrong. You don't share your opinion in this manner on such a subject matter

I shared my opinion and I know it's impossible for everybody to agree with me

Teespice:
as in eh.

he implied so many things that wasn't written in the original op.

tosyne2much, I am mentioning your handle because that gibberish you wrote is something not worth quoting. do me a favour, read your article and see if you have said anything reasonable. you come to threads of this nature to say rubbish.

op, take the advice you can and discard the rest.

I believe we are all entitled to our opinions and it's not a must my opinion goes well with you.

You want me to post something that will impress you? Oooooh common I'm not a "people pleaser"

Tobiloba84:
you would have made a lot of sense if you chose your words wisely and if you werent inappropriately blunt

I will be subtle in expressing myself next time.. Pardon me on this

kidaby:
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While I have no problem with your first paragraph, you may need to tone it down a bit in the second one. First, its not only men who are richer than their wives that abuse them. We have such men across all classes of race, religion and financial class. Because you are broke does not make you a good man nor does it mean you will appreciate your wife more. And while I don't support gold digging or marrying a man just for money without considering other things like his character and upbringing, a woman does not have to be insulted because er husband is richer than her or she's financially dependent on him.

You cannot copy the west in the parts that suit you alone. How many of you Nigerian men can share house chores with your wife? Since she's bringing in the same as you. In some families where both spouses are working, one sometimes stops due to the demanding nature of their work to have more time for the kids, could be the father or mother. Even some couples abroad make this decision and decide to live on a single income while bringing up children in a good manner.

Also, a woman can decide to be a full time housewife, part time housewife or a full career woman, she doesn't deserve to be insulted as long as this decision is made with her partner. At the end of the day, what works for family A is different from what works for family B.

I agree with your suggestion to the OP though, one has to be really careful, so you don't rush out of the marriage later.

You've said it all. One should be very careful

MrSly:
Listen to those things written by ss2 and ss3 students, single ladies and bachelors at our own risk. Married people are at work, not time to comment and when they come back they have their partners to take care of. No wise advice here as I have seen. Better meet those in successful marriage for direction. Don't listen to 21st century youths. Their ways make no good home and their advice leads astray.

And you think you made any sense?

So people need to be married before they can offer quality advice to the OP as regards this issue right?

So, common sense and sound judgement about life issues are only attributed to married people abi? ... Issokay!

Na your comment make sense pass for this thread

trustyshoess:
You're right tho. Some women seem to be blind to the obvious signs of a violent partner. Same person will probably come on nairaland in 6 months to ask us if she should leave him because he beat her. Smh

It's not her fault... I guess it's because she doesn't want to lose some benefits from the guy

Terrence15115:
Your moniker and your advise should not be taken seriously!

Lmao

pocohantas:
See as you run to edit post and add something irrelevant. Where did you draw conclusion that she is dependent on him? Stop demonising rich men please, there are broke guys that abuse their women.

Verbal abuse is a character ish, has nothing to do with financial status. Your other points are sensible for a change.

As if I knew you would find me here again

MasterRahl:
That's my boy

Hope say a talk am well bros?

ImaIma1:
Very true. My friend's husband abused her verbally before they got married. After marriage, it graduated to physical abuse. To the extent that he beat her weeks after she gave birth and also hit her mum that tried to wade in.
No matter what a woman does,nagging,rudeness,etc...you don't have an excuse to beat her. You married the nag and rude woman so manage your situation.

My sister, most women who normally got beaten by their husbands saw those battering tendencies in him during courtship but they overlooked it with the notion that he would change

trustyshoess:
Dudee!! Rotflmao

Or what do you think?

teehamzat:
As i see your comment, i bin dey carry plank come scatter your head, then @bolded featured .. GO AND SIN NO MORE

I know say you no dey use that one joke

No worry, rapture go soon sound on top your head

Nickymezor:
Lol, na u sabi.. .it's not every tym abeg. Besides I only send a mention wen u say Something funny, untrue n wat hv . Any way Its always worth it tho, nt dat I hv a crush on u o... I jst like u Shikena

You better confess let's fix our marriage by next Saturday.. Common don't be shy Nicky

He will never demand sex from you. A guy who loves a lady genuinely will never want sex from her


















Before guys come for my head, abeg na joke I dey joke oooo

COOLDK:
I just hate it when someone told me what i knew i can do successfully

May God deliver you from the tempting spirit of "over speeding"

makydebbie:
Thanks dear, it's your house nau.

I don't allow ladies into my house

Very pretty lady

Fitness Doctor, what are the foods to avoid as an ulcer patient?

I wish you all the best in life as you add another year today
BTW, where's the venue of the party?

taiocol:
Edited


Seems like HDR

That's what I think too

Am I the only person to observe that these men always take quality pictures of accidents?

I wonder how some ladies will be looking for future husbands yet they will still be dressing like whores. As for me, I don't settle for immoral ladies no matter how appealing they might look

Anyway I wish her a baby daddy in advance

harmless011:
120km/hr is not over speeding, on a normal road I don't do less than 140km/hr and I don't feel like I'm on top speed. If u can't control a vehicle comfortable at 120km/hr then your driving license should be revoked.

Lmao

zoho23:
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Did you apply for US or Nigeria Adsense?

A very hilarious counter thread