₦airaland Forum

Mexyz:
How much come be total allawee? nawao

Egbon, the house rent money weak me oooo

nobsalis:
150 to 200K.

You don't mean it?

Benita27:
That's obviously the situation here even though she made a mistake by spending weeks with him.

You are very right sha.. I don't know how ladies fall in the hands of men like that sha

justmenoni:
Tosyne'2much how far nah

Baba I dey here oooo

Benita27:
That one was only interested in what's in-between your legs.

Are you speaking for the dude ni?

managermahmud:
Guy you fall my hand big time. Your view was actually off point. See the way people are mentioning me saying I'm wrong to think that you are intelligent

No vex baba.. I will tell the mods to bring down my comment

trilobite:
Tosin!! I like this movie oh!! lol.

Don't be a doubting Thomas bro

femi4:
Ori e kope rara.
A man that will beat a woman starts with verbal abuse

Hahaha

QueenOfNepal:
I believe you

You should

Kustin:
write 10 reason why you decided to be a celibate

So, you believed that fiction?

muriunited:
Mine is a long story but I will summarise it,my ex girlfriend do follows men both young and old no choice, if you have money you toast her she will accept you. And she can denied any wrong doing and she can argue too.

You mean she can follow anything on trouser because of money?

Alphamale2017:
i see lots of people in relationship doing that lovey dovey thing at the beginng. but after like 2 years , it crumbles like a pack of card. intolerance sets in , people become individualistic , everything they say irritate each other everything becomes boring . after that, they look for another partner and start the lovey dovey circle again . lol

May wisdom never elude you brother

SingleDad:
Had an accident, this babe called me to ask for money, despite say we never talk for phone for a month, she no care at all. Omo nah for hospital bed we break up for phone

So how did you become a single a single dad?

Aderola15:
I was tired of the relationship na

I don't need To. B Joshua to tell me that you're single

I broke up with my ex because I made her understand that I want to remind a virgin till marriage yet she wouldn't just stop coercing me into sex, to the extent that she added something in my food and when I slept off, she started removing my boxers.. Today, I'm happy I'm out of that relationship

Now, I am happy I'm now dating a lady that respects my decision. We have been dating for more than three years now and no form of kissing or hugging let alone sex.

DumaEmpire:
because she was crazy as hell remember dis one time she asked me to seduce n sleep wit her bestfrnd or we r done..asif dat wasnt enuf one time like dat caught her smoking she in my bathroom smoking..i shock like madt cos me dnt smoke n i neva knew she did n she loved getting d head n denied me Mouth Gig n even sex sometimes only me suckin her..i mean common,buh cant deny i didnt miss her cooking..n lest i forget she was older dan me wit 4yrs at d time i come b like her pet or dog

Egbon this your matter use style carry weight oooo

pocohantas:
Why do you think I hate you?

It's very obvious that my friend (a Nairalander) even asked me if I've ever done any wrong to you for you to habour such amount of hatred against me

Unna1979:
please my dear sister, since he already show who he is take a decision now, let me tell u about my similar situation. My husband did not unleash his insulting attitude to me, he rushed d marriage as my parent did not like d suitors coming for me so they agree. Infact fast forward to d insult, not only me but my entire family, I stay until four children but still it continued to d children pls money isn't everything. Think about it

My female friend experienced the same thing you experienced ma and today, she's paying the price for it

yaqq:
I just the feel for the madam were open ds. thread ghan! una don finalise plan make she divorce even wen she never marry the potential wife beater

Na the truth jawe.. I no come know why some people carry my comment for head

pocohantas:
You thought he is intelligent? LOL!

No matter how much I try to avoid you, you always make it obvious that I irk you

Why you come hate me like that nah? Can't you just reduce the hatred small ni?

yaqq:
na u be our advocator 4 ds nairaland ooo! broke guys association

Hahaha.. Wetin you sef find come here baba

Teespice:
absolutely not.

don't write things to please me because I will be irritated reading it.

all I am saying is be objective and state your opinions without being unnecessarily bias.

read your post and see if it makes sense.

The truth hurts anyway, so I shouldn't be bothered

Okay I will reduce my level of bias next time

Fourwinds:
I'm disappointed in u for picking on one side story to pass ur judgement....u should have asked OP what led to such moment of insult... I worked in a place and I have both married and singles women working together with me...do u know most of d married female behave better....d singles way of u viewing life is far from reality...when I discuss with d married one I always remind them dat dey got their maturity of reasoning as a result of their married status...So Tosyne2much there is. more in what OP is not telling us

I'm glad you said except the OP is only telling us the edited version of the story

managermahmud:
Honestly I thought you are intelligent, but this disappointing view of yours seem to prove me wrong. You don't share your opinion in this manner on such a subject matter

I shared my opinion and I know it's impossible for everybody to agree with me

Teespice:
as in eh.

he implied so many things that wasn't written in the original op.

tosyne2much, I am mentioning your handle because that gibberish you wrote is something not worth quoting. do me a favour, read your article and see if you have said anything reasonable. you come to threads of this nature to say rubbish.

op, take the advice you can and discard the rest.

I believe we are all entitled to our opinions and it's not a must my opinion goes well with you.

You want me to post something that will impress you? Oooooh common I'm not a "people pleaser"

Tobiloba84:
you would have made a lot of sense if you chose your words wisely and if you werent inappropriately blunt

I will be subtle in expressing myself next time.. Pardon me on this

kidaby:
.

While I have no problem with your first paragraph, you may need to tone it down a bit in the second one. First, its not only men who are richer than their wives that abuse them. We have such men across all classes of race, religion and financial class. Because you are broke does not make you a good man nor does it mean you will appreciate your wife more. And while I don't support gold digging or marrying a man just for money without considering other things like his character and upbringing, a woman does not have to be insulted because er husband is richer than her or she's financially dependent on him.

You cannot copy the west in the parts that suit you alone. How many of you Nigerian men can share house chores with your wife? Since she's bringing in the same as you. In some families where both spouses are working, one sometimes stops due to the demanding nature of their work to have more time for the kids, could be the father or mother. Even some couples abroad make this decision and decide to live on a single income while bringing up children in a good manner.

Also, a woman can decide to be a full time housewife, part time housewife or a full career woman, she doesn't deserve to be insulted as long as this decision is made with her partner. At the end of the day, what works for family A is different from what works for family B.

I agree with your suggestion to the OP though, one has to be really careful, so you don't rush out of the marriage later.

You've said it all. One should be very careful

MrSly:
Listen to those things written by ss2 and ss3 students, single ladies and bachelors at our own risk. Married people are at work, not time to comment and when they come back they have their partners to take care of. No wise advice here as I have seen. Better meet those in successful marriage for direction. Don't listen to 21st century youths. Their ways make no good home and their advice leads astray.

And you think you made any sense?

So people need to be married before they can offer quality advice to the OP as regards this issue right?

So, common sense and sound judgement about life issues are only attributed to married people abi? ... Issokay!

Na your comment make sense pass for this thread

trustyshoess:
You're right tho. Some women seem to be blind to the obvious signs of a violent partner. Same person will probably come on nairaland in 6 months to ask us if she should leave him because he beat her. Smh

It's not her fault... I guess it's because she doesn't want to lose some benefits from the guy

Terrence15115:
Your moniker and your advise should not be taken seriously!

Lmao

pocohantas:
See as you run to edit post and add something irrelevant. Where did you draw conclusion that she is dependent on him? Stop demonising rich men please, there are broke guys that abuse their women.

Verbal abuse is a character ish, has nothing to do with financial status. Your other points are sensible for a change.

As if I knew you would find me here again

MasterRahl:
That's my boy

Hope say a talk am well bros?