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BlazingAyomikun:
I'm trying to expose you as an hypocrite - obviously you want one rule for others and another rule for your own. This fact makes nothing in your write-up worth considering.

Hypocrite? Okay I agree I'm one

Came:
If to say she no go turn Muslim now, dem for plan better as Christians,but dem suppose don bury am as a Muslim . R.I.P.Moji.

She for receive befitting burial if na Christian. All this rush rush burial no just make sense

durasome:
.cater to what extent sir?

Who cannot provide his own basic needs. It may be cloth, food or shelter

Nickymezor:
A bit oo...na a handful of ladies wey dey do dat...

So when is our first date? And the venue?

BlazingAyomikun:
I'm very sure you're refraining from giving a direct answer due to what it would mean for your thread. I'm quite certain you won't like to see your sister in that kind of relationship, yet you're advising other ladies to put up with such. WHY? Isn't that unfair? To put it less charitably, isn't that simply CRUEL?

I think we should be more concerned about the write-up, not my reaction if my sister happens to get acquainted to such a guy

Nice counter thread.

The only thing I can say is that broke girls barely remain faithful to their boyfriends. Your chances of losing them is very high, unlike those financially stable women who are not swayed by material things

Cleopatra4:
Since a broke ass gat nothing to do his only occupation becomes banging. Of cuz you know practice makes perfect I'm beginning to suspect you

You're beginning to suspect me as a good banger shey? Onto say I be broke guy abi?

BlazingAyomikun:
Of course it does, you're merely evading. Let me ask again: WHAT WOULD BE YOUR REACTION IF YOUR SISTER IS IN THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU DESCRIBED? I want an honest answer.

Very good. I believe it's her discretion to go into any relationship she likes. My only role as a brother is to sit her down and talk to her if she's threading on a destructive path

funmisticqueen:
Yeah right then he can choose to be single after he has made the money, the same way you guys go for more beautiful girls especially the fair ones is the same way ladies will go for the stronger men especially the richer ones, so if you are broke, date someone on your level who will put up will your bull$hit cos most of us wont. A serious lady wont want you to remain broke, ashe will help you anyway u can even if it means making you uncomfortable in your brokeness. P. S: i do know how to talk to you especially where it hurts that ego of yours that needs to be deflated. I will always respect the hustle, but i respct results more. Go figure.

Did I miss this or what? Nairalanders no go kill person oooo

Carry Nairaland matter on your head for all I care, I don't give a damn about you

BlazingAyomikun:
Oh, really? Why didn't you answer the question?

Your question has no answer bro.

funmisticqueen:
Yeah right then he can choose to be single after he has made the money, the same way you guys go for more beautiful girls especially the fair ones is the same way ladies will go for the stronger men especially the richer ones, so if you are broke, date someone on your level who will put up will your bull$hit cos most of us wont. A serious lady wont want you to remain broke, ashe will help you anyway u can even if it means making you uncomfortable in your brokeness.

Most of you are not in good relationships as you come only to portray it and blow trumpet about it. We've always known your type to be relationship experts on Nairaland even when you're the one forcing yourself on men. People who find their way to date men they never thought they would have the privilege to date and then, they come to Nairaland to blow trumpet about it even when situation doesn't warrant. If you didn't put up your picture, I would have said you're in a good position to diss me but now that I've taken a glance at your profile, now I know you're not just worth the words coming out of your mind. Only a foolish person will take these Nairaland ladies serious for the rubbish they often spew

Go ahead and render your relationship advice to whoever cares to listen like, not me. I can smell your frustration towards this write-up.

Sorry ehn

Cleopatra4:
Tosyne2much there is God oooo! Don't ask him for money and don't deny him sex. For what na? I prefer to use my cunt for something useful than give a broke ass to destroy it. I use the word destroy cuz they can bang for Africa.

How many of them have you dated to come to the conclusion that they are good bangers?

godquality:
11. Pose online with the car you bought for yourself telling the world he bought it for you.

12. Even he beat you, lie that you fell down while riding a hover board.

But seriously doing all this is like walking on a slippery slope ladies.

Hahaha This is very funny

funmisticqueen:
I once dated a broke guy, by the time i left the relationship, he was way richer than the gutter i found him, my secret, i did the exact OPPOSITE of the ten things you wrote on this thread, after a while he lost most of the money though quite sad. Thing is i taught him to be ambitious and move out of his poverty level. Never making that mistake again though, i am dating a wealthy guy this time and enjoying it, so pls go out there and hustle instead of staying broke and celebrating it.

You don't know to talk about me. It's people like you that thinks a man should only strive hard to make money at the expense of looking appealing to women. A reasonable man will strive hard to make money just to live a fulfilled life, not because of ladies

Anyway, I wish you a HML with your wealthy guy

BlazingAyomikun:
[color=darkgreen]TOSYNE2MUCH, HOW DARE YOU ADVOCATE SLAVERY FOR WOMEN IN THE 21ST CENTURY? TELL ME, WHAT WOULD BE YOUR REACTION IF YOUR SISTER IS IN THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU JUST DESCRIBED?[/color]

I want an [color=maroon]honest[/color] reply.

Oooooh! Did you just say slavery?

This has nothing to do with slavery

MyPicsSaysItall:
I'm a man.

My post is based on the points @tosyne2much posted inorder to keep a peaceful relationship with a broke guy..

Let's be real here, why will a broke guy be in a relationship when its obvious he's not ready.

Most times, broke guys dating a financially dependent lady always end in chaos because low self esteem will definetely set in which will lead to domestic violence.

A broke guy's priority should not be about 'being in a relationship' or 'doing snake in the monkey shadow syle with a lady in the other room'.

Brother, if I may get you right, you're implying no matter the dreams and visions a man has, he's not eligible to enter into a relationship just because of money?

And what is the guarantee that every financially stable man will have a flawless a relationship?

Brother, if lack of money renders your useless in the sight of a lady, it doesn't render me useless

Lancelott:
Going by that your logic, Dangote's gateman is a billionaire? or Otedola's driver should be on Forbe's list, afterall they are always in the company of rich people. And stop using the term "poverty stricken". its derogatory and insensitive to people who are not buoyant and have not gotten their chance of a financial breakthrough. I can tell you people who fit your description, never mixed with the rich people but they are stinkingly rich

My brother, it's disheartening people don't know that flocking with rich people does not mean you will also become rich or wealthy. In fact, you can keep friends with them, eat with them, sleep in their houses and you will still be a mediocre

Also, the notion that hard work is the only guaranteed way of becoming rich is very flawed if you ask me bro

Life is just too dynamic for our understanding. Sometimes, life may even be fair to a lazy person more than a hard working person. As a matter of fact, the laziest of my friends has found his way to New York living comfortably and sending money to his parents while the acclaimed serious and hardworking ones are still struggling our lives out in this unbearable PMB administration.

I just hope people will understand this

Lancelott:
The truth of the matter is this....I believe Tosyne2much has given me the perfect opportunity to psychoanalyze some ladies. A broke guy today might be a rich dude tomorrow. op didn't say broke and lazy, he simply said broke. How many of y'all claiming badass are financially okay? Am not talking about runz or 100k kind of okay, like 800k minimum balance? If the girl was broke, they will say the guy must provide. Let us be realistic here, no guy will be broke today and you'll dump him and when he becomes rich, will accept you.
This mentality of he must be already made has finished a lot of people. A rich guy today, had brokenness somewhere in his lineage before but one woman like you ladies, born of a woman stood by him and together they had a legacy that some will covet. Am not broke so I have nothing to fear BUT remember love a poor man with a vision than a rich man with none...look at so many people who became poor.
When sex is dependent on money, it is termed prostitution...DO THE MATHS!

May God enrich your brain with this comment.


The truth of the matter is that, if every woman stands by her man and helps him attain greatness, the rate of broke guys will reduce and such ladies will surely be rewarded (only a fraction of them don't get rewarded for it)

Just because some of their friends shared their experiences on how their boyfriends left them for no good reason after helping them to stardom, they pass their own judgment on other men based on their friends' experiences forgetting that the same thing can't happen to everybody

mrphysics:
Majority of them a falling for one guy. There day dream and their ego won't allow them lead a normal life rather come to the cyber space and say rubbish. Venting their anger as if their "HiMEN" was forcefully removed.

That's true, even the ones that have little or no toasters will come here to claim otherwise and down Nairaland Guys

mrphysics:
That's not the point. The point is that most you you on nairaland just like Safiaa think from your pant. The nip.pls on your boobs drips off the remaining brain you ladies have.

Each time you come to nairaland and start filling yourself with rubbish principles. Theories that have nothing to do with real life. The sad thing is that most of you take this principles to your boyfriend and personal lives. The truth remains that your type will remain single or be with a guy that still fvc.k you for nothing.

Stop allowing all those ladies talking trash for likes. Example is Safiaa, she is 22 with 24 body counts.

Have you ever imagined while the ladies on nairaland are always saying the same thing. It's because of how deluded most of you are. You go into relationship expecting a huge without knowing what is phantom income.

Be yourself and don't take what you read here to heart. Else, in the next five years you are still here.

Most of them read comments from these random embittered ladies about their relationship and will go and apply it in dealing with their own boyfriends. By the time their relationship crash, they will still come back here to label men evil, and the cycle continues

Every lady on Nairaland storms on any thread that demeans broke or unemployed men and they will begin to express their disgust for such men. The funniest thing is that most of the ladies are not even in fruitful relationships in real life

lawrykings:
nice write bro, I quite enjoy your post anytime, lemme believe there are books at amazon I could enjoy more from you.

Oooooh thanks brother

menwongo:
Have been trying to read between the lines of your write-up and this post, I now officially confirmed that you are using irony,and sarcasm, to portray (how Nigerian ladies behaves in relationship)

You're a smart dude

bjhaid:
Finance is needed to sustain a relationship bro esp in this part of this world where the economy is very hard, if you've your money you'll definitely get the kinda woman you want and desire, Owo ni koko my opinion.

The same thing does not apply to everybody. All I know is that, with money, you can get any flashy lady you want and take her to bed. But do you know that the same money may not take some ldies to bed. In fact, it may not find you a good wife

Subscribe to your opinion and lemme subscribe to mine

mrphysics:
Ask Pocohantas. I might want to be of help.

A woman understands herself not claim to understand herself as you do.

A woman knows her role in a man irrespective of whether he is broke or not.

A woman is responsible not a Safiaa-like one that needs spiritual baptism and mental sanctification.

A woman is strong, and respects her man irrespective of his current status and her ego. See, nairaland is just 0.001% of real life experience. if you continue like this at this young age, in the next 20 years, you will still be on nairaland talking this tra.sh. All these ladies talking rubbish on nairaland are underaged girls.

I just got to realize that nairaland breeds the worst ladies. With the lots of principles poured out to you by slay queens, you apply them to your life and relationship. My dear, you are not doing me.

May God bless you my brother

The truth of the matter is that Nairaland is dominated by slay queens, poorly breed and underaged girls who will come here to polute the minds of young innocent girls by giving them wrong orientation about relationship. I just pity most of the gullible ladies who follow the counsel of these underaged girls and apply it to their own lives

bjhaid:
ladies have the right to hate broke men, a man should work very hard to be financially buoyant at least before getting into a serious or more casual relationship, then he'll definitely get a woman that's quite alright as well.

Nobody is disputing that fact. But you make it seem like money is all a man needs to date a woman, which is wrong

Who about men who are financially buoyant but can't handle a relationship due to immaturity?

Money is good my dear but do not attach too much importance to money especially when it comes to relationship. People who attach too much importance to it know what are facing right now

mrphysics:
I would have helped but for some reason I wouldn't. Abeg tosyn2much, pardon her.

This is the food I always love to eat but it has soured, and no longer edible.

Alright egbon

McBrooklyn:

Oga, you sef get time dey reply that mumu clown... Person wey no know wetin she go chop sleep tonight sef... 

Hahahahaha Roflkmd abeg no use laugh kill me oo

Kbanka:
All youre saying is that the girls ahould encourage them. Dont argue with him? Buy him gifts? Dont deny him sex? Because of what?? Love?

It's just an opinion which is open to criticism

ennon92:
same here...God knws best bro

Everything has a purpose.. Let's just hope for the best, whether stream1 or 2

Quinn22:
And no woman wants to marry a burden either, they shouldn't let their mentality breed laziness too

Eya sorry to disappoint you, I'm 22

22 years and you haven't started thinking like a woman?

Huee:
I feel you should stop arguing with Quinn22... her priorities are obviously misplaced

I know for sure that her misplaced priorities will land her into the hand of a wrong man if care is not taken.. Well, I know she's still a kid sha. A get-inside girl to be precise

Anyway how are you jawe?

Quinn22:
No oh! Feminism all the way! Without feminism, women won't be were they are today, they won't be able to go to school, have an ambition, get to marry who she wants and get a divorce, get to vote, or get to have free will or rights. I'm a feminist till I die!

All I know is that, no matter how much you rant on this thread about your hatred for broke men, I want you to remember that no man in his right sense wants to marry a burden. Don't let your mentality breed laziness


Something within me tells me you're below 20 years.