₦airaland Forum

Lancelott:
Going by that your logic, Dangote's gateman is a billionaire? or Otedola's driver should be on Forbe's list, afterall they are always in the company of rich people. And stop using the term "poverty stricken". its derogatory and insensitive to people who are not buoyant and have not gotten their chance of a financial breakthrough. I can tell you people who fit your description, never mixed with the rich people but they are stinkingly rich

My brother, it's disheartening people don't know that flocking with rich people does not mean you will also become rich or wealthy. In fact, you can keep friends with them, eat with them, sleep in their houses and you will still be a mediocre

Also, the notion that hard work is the only guaranteed way of becoming rich is very flawed if you ask me bro

Life is just too dynamic for our understanding. Sometimes, life may even be fair to a lazy person more than a hard working person. As a matter of fact, the laziest of my friends has found his way to New York living comfortably and sending money to his parents while the acclaimed serious and hardworking ones are still struggling our lives out in this unbearable PMB administration.

I just hope people will understand this

Lancelott:
The truth of the matter is this....I believe Tosyne2much has given me the perfect opportunity to psychoanalyze some ladies. A broke guy today might be a rich dude tomorrow. op didn't say broke and lazy, he simply said broke. How many of y'all claiming badass are financially okay? Am not talking about runz or 100k kind of okay, like 800k minimum balance? If the girl was broke, they will say the guy must provide. Let us be realistic here, no guy will be broke today and you'll dump him and when he becomes rich, will accept you.
This mentality of he must be already made has finished a lot of people. A rich guy today, had brokenness somewhere in his lineage before but one woman like you ladies, born of a woman stood by him and together they had a legacy that some will covet. Am not broke so I have nothing to fear BUT remember love a poor man with a vision than a rich man with none...look at so many people who became poor.
When sex is dependent on money, it is termed prostitution...DO THE MATHS!

May God enrich your brain with this comment.


The truth of the matter is that, if every woman stands by her man and helps him attain greatness, the rate of broke guys will reduce and such ladies will surely be rewarded (only a fraction of them don't get rewarded for it)

Just because some of their friends shared their experiences on how their boyfriends left them for no good reason after helping them to stardom, they pass their own judgment on other men based on their friends' experiences forgetting that the same thing can't happen to everybody

mrphysics:
Majority of them a falling for one guy. There day dream and their ego won't allow them lead a normal life rather come to the cyber space and say rubbish. Venting their anger as if their "HiMEN" was forcefully removed.

That's true, even the ones that have little or no toasters will come here to claim otherwise and down Nairaland Guys

mrphysics:
That's not the point. The point is that most you you on nairaland just like Safiaa think from your pant. The nip.pls on your boobs drips off the remaining brain you ladies have.

Each time you come to nairaland and start filling yourself with rubbish principles. Theories that have nothing to do with real life. The sad thing is that most of you take this principles to your boyfriend and personal lives. The truth remains that your type will remain single or be with a guy that still fvc.k you for nothing.

Stop allowing all those ladies talking trash for likes. Example is Safiaa, she is 22 with 24 body counts.

Have you ever imagined while the ladies on nairaland are always saying the same thing. It's because of how deluded most of you are. You go into relationship expecting a huge without knowing what is phantom income.

Be yourself and don't take what you read here to heart. Else, in the next five years you are still here.

Most of them read comments from these random embittered ladies about their relationship and will go and apply it in dealing with their own boyfriends. By the time their relationship crash, they will still come back here to label men evil, and the cycle continues

Every lady on Nairaland storms on any thread that demeans broke or unemployed men and they will begin to express their disgust for such men. The funniest thing is that most of the ladies are not even in fruitful relationships in real life

lawrykings:
nice write bro, I quite enjoy your post anytime, lemme believe there are books at amazon I could enjoy more from you.

Oooooh thanks brother

menwongo:
Have been trying to read between the lines of your write-up and this post, I now officially confirmed that you are using irony,and sarcasm, to portray (how Nigerian ladies behaves in relationship)

You're a smart dude

bjhaid:
Finance is needed to sustain a relationship bro esp in this part of this world where the economy is very hard, if you've your money you'll definitely get the kinda woman you want and desire, Owo ni koko my opinion.

The same thing does not apply to everybody. All I know is that, with money, you can get any flashy lady you want and take her to bed. But do you know that the same money may not take some ldies to bed. In fact, it may not find you a good wife

Subscribe to your opinion and lemme subscribe to mine

mrphysics:
Ask Pocohantas. I might want to be of help.

A woman understands herself not claim to understand herself as you do.

A woman knows her role in a man irrespective of whether he is broke or not.

A woman is responsible not a Safiaa-like one that needs spiritual baptism and mental sanctification.

A woman is strong, and respects her man irrespective of his current status and her ego. See, nairaland is just 0.001% of real life experience. if you continue like this at this young age, in the next 20 years, you will still be on nairaland talking this tra.sh. All these ladies talking rubbish on nairaland are underaged girls.

I just got to realize that nairaland breeds the worst ladies. With the lots of principles poured out to you by slay queens, you apply them to your life and relationship. My dear, you are not doing me.

May God bless you my brother

The truth of the matter is that Nairaland is dominated by slay queens, poorly breed and underaged girls who will come here to polute the minds of young innocent girls by giving them wrong orientation about relationship. I just pity most of the gullible ladies who follow the counsel of these underaged girls and apply it to their own lives

bjhaid:
ladies have the right to hate broke men, a man should work very hard to be financially buoyant at least before getting into a serious or more casual relationship, then he'll definitely get a woman that's quite alright as well.

Nobody is disputing that fact. But you make it seem like money is all a man needs to date a woman, which is wrong

Who about men who are financially buoyant but can't handle a relationship due to immaturity?

Money is good my dear but do not attach too much importance to money especially when it comes to relationship. People who attach too much importance to it know what are facing right now

mrphysics:
I would have helped but for some reason I wouldn't. Abeg tosyn2much, pardon her.

This is the food I always love to eat but it has soured, and no longer edible.

Alright egbon

McBrooklyn:

Oga, you sef get time dey reply that mumu clown... Person wey no know wetin she go chop sleep tonight sef... 

Hahahahaha Roflkmd abeg no use laugh kill me oo

Kbanka:
All youre saying is that the girls ahould encourage them. Dont argue with him? Buy him gifts? Dont deny him sex? Because of what?? Love?

It's just an opinion which is open to criticism

ennon92:
same here...God knws best bro

Everything has a purpose.. Let's just hope for the best, whether stream1 or 2

Quinn22:
And no woman wants to marry a burden either, they shouldn't let their mentality breed laziness too

Eya sorry to disappoint you, I'm 22

22 years and you haven't started thinking like a woman?

Huee:
I feel you should stop arguing with Quinn22... her priorities are obviously misplaced

I know for sure that her misplaced priorities will land her into the hand of a wrong man if care is not taken.. Well, I know she's still a kid sha. A get-inside girl to be precise

Anyway how are you jawe?

Quinn22:
No oh! Feminism all the way! Without feminism, women won't be were they are today, they won't be able to go to school, have an ambition, get to marry who she wants and get a divorce, get to vote, or get to have free will or rights. I'm a feminist till I die!

All I know is that, no matter how much you rant on this thread about your hatred for broke men, I want you to remember that no man in his right sense wants to marry a burden. Don't let your mentality breed laziness


Something within me tells me you're below 20 years.

lawrykings:
madam boss!
that's pretty different, imagine this with me, a guy approached you, you agreed to date him, he tries to please you well, give you good seks anytime, then at a point you both had issues that led to break up, you now started saying all sort's of stuff, " you ingrate, you that I gave my body" so he didn't give you his own ba?

my point is this... ladies should stop seeing seks as favour to man when its obvious they too enjoy it, you girls even enjoys it more, so a lady should learn to stop being ungrateful and do the right thing before any guy that drills her hole good, anyways I dont blame the ladies, I blame my fellow men, they have stoop so low as misplacing their right place before women, most of the guys give you girl the impression you body is gold.

Bro, you just took the words out of my mouth. God bless you!

preccy69:
yea if he is a NYC guy ,I do all for my baby except 4,we can argue ehn nd he get mouth sha

Wooow! If this is true, you're just a rare kind of lady.. HML in advance

Quinn22:
Men should definitely be the sole provider, so na me go dey provide before? Make dem sit down der like fowl yansh, them go marry themselve ni

So it's better you sholve your ego and throw your feministic fight on social media to the wind

Safiaa:
take your so called 'relevancy' to the bank, it still equates to 0 naira. Your thread makes no sense, they never do. You just jumble stupid points and combine it with gibberish to create nonsense. I'll give you the props for trying though. It is well.

Eeehyah sorry dear.. Is it not the same Safiaa I know that publicly and shamelessly declared on a thread that you've twerked on four joysticks at your tender age?

Let me leave you to you keep sleeping around

Don't vent your anger on me ehn

Quinn22:
So If you think gender equality is a scam, that means you're saying that men should be the sole provider and women shouldn't, men should tolerate emotional and physical abuse from women while a man should not think of trying to abuse a woman?

Madam, stop contradicting yourself.. Your comments so far have proven that you consider men as the sole provider, hence, your hatred for financially incapacitated men

Safiaa:
Tosyn2much has come again with his stupid threads.

Eeehyah pele.. I feel your pain

No matter how ill you speak against me, I will always be relevant more than you do even if I post both relevant and irrelevant things

Sorry eh. Go and take your paracetamol this night

Huee:

This is a blatant lie
Both parties enjoy sex...
If you don't then it's probably a psychological problem

May God bless you for being honest.. Most ladies pretend to be sexually restrained and inactive just to look decent

Quinn22:
I'm not broke
I can date anyone I please

So you can't date a broke guy like me if I initiate a relationship ?

wristbangle:


Eh! We don know say na this kind thread go pepper u

See as naija babes dey para on top OP head.

God bless u prof tosyne2much. I know God has created for the purpose of knocking sense into hungry naija babes.

See as dem dey wail like hyena

Bro, can you now see that gender equality is a scam?

When it comes to taking responsibility, they see that as an exception to gender equality

durasome:
op enlighten me more about who a broke guy is please.

A Broke dude is someone who just can't cater for himself

Quinn22:
You see why I said I would rather commit suicide than to date a broke guy

Too much negativity and wahala when it comes to dating them. Ladies if you want to live long to see your grand children, DO NOT DATE BROKE GUYS! I REPEAT!

99% of broke guys are temperamental due to their insecurities and they are wife beaters

But you, as a broke girl, you can date a rich man abi?

rosalieene:
since we are in a world of moral decadence, then leave ladies to leave their lives. Stop calling them gold diggers because clearly, u wanna turn it for the guys to be the ones benefiting instead.

if a guy has issue with a lady giving herself to another guy who has money, then he should buckle up and make money so he doesn't have to beg a lady. shikina!!!!
What do u have to offer?

I don't think it has gotten to this extent

rosalieene:
When I started reading, I stopped at 'never deny him sex'

that's so silly!!!!!

lemme save the rest statement before they will come for my head.

Ladies shine ur eyes, it's those same guys that will put u in the family way and would deny u.

Tosyne have u forgotten the saying that "never have sex unless u are ready for the responsibilities that come with it"

And you think that saying holds water in this world of moral decadence?

Be deceiving yourself oooo

Quinn22:
Tosyne2much

I think some of your points are flawed e.g

Don't deny him sex - what of if your girlfriend's vagina is very sensitive and gets bruises down there due to too much sex?

Don't be with wealthy friends - what of if your girlfriend is wealthy, hence having wealthy friends. And if anyone wants to be successful in life, they need to change the company they keep e.g poverty stricken broke people, when you accommodate friends that are successful and wealthy, you too will become successful one day because of their influence in your life, I'm not talking about financially, I'm talking about mentally and psychologically.

Nice criticism

Well, the truth of the matter is that most broke guys battle with insecurity issues and they feel intimidated when they see their gfs flocking with men that are better than them

On the issue of sex, broke guys got no chill when it comes to Sex

I no see any backside ooo

ThisTrend:
Namesake; You are too much mehn .. You are Protege and Genuine... ah like you.

cc: tosyne2much

Oooooh

Thank you dear