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lawrykings:
madam boss!
that's pretty different, imagine this with me, a guy approached you, you agreed to date him, he tries to please you well, give you good seks anytime, then at a point you both had issues that led to break up, you now started saying all sort's of stuff, " you ingrate, you that I gave my body" so he didn't give you his own ba?

my point is this... ladies should stop seeing seks as favour to man when its obvious they too enjoy it, you girls even enjoys it more, so a lady should learn to stop being ungrateful and do the right thing before any guy that drills her hole good, anyways I dont blame the ladies, I blame my fellow men, they have stoop so low as misplacing their right place before women, most of the guys give you girl the impression you body is gold.

Bro, you just took the words out of my mouth. God bless you!

preccy69:
yea if he is a NYC guy ,I do all for my baby except 4,we can argue ehn nd he get mouth sha

Wooow! If this is true, you're just a rare kind of lady.. HML in advance

Quinn22:
Men should definitely be the sole provider, so na me go dey provide before? Make dem sit down der like fowl yansh, them go marry themselve ni

So it's better you sholve your ego and throw your feministic fight on social media to the wind

Safiaa:
take your so called 'relevancy' to the bank, it still equates to 0 naira. Your thread makes no sense, they never do. You just jumble stupid points and combine it with gibberish to create nonsense. I'll give you the props for trying though. It is well.

Eeehyah sorry dear.. Is it not the same Safiaa I know that publicly and shamelessly declared on a thread that you've twerked on four joysticks at your tender age?

Let me leave you to you keep sleeping around

Don't vent your anger on me ehn

Quinn22:
So If you think gender equality is a scam, that means you're saying that men should be the sole provider and women shouldn't, men should tolerate emotional and physical abuse from women while a man should not think of trying to abuse a woman?

Madam, stop contradicting yourself.. Your comments so far have proven that you consider men as the sole provider, hence, your hatred for financially incapacitated men

Safiaa:
Tosyn2much has come again with his stupid threads.

Eeehyah pele.. I feel your pain

No matter how ill you speak against me, I will always be relevant more than you do even if I post both relevant and irrelevant things

Sorry eh. Go and take your paracetamol this night

Huee:

This is a blatant lie
Both parties enjoy sex...
If you don't then it's probably a psychological problem

May God bless you for being honest.. Most ladies pretend to be sexually restrained and inactive just to look decent

Quinn22:
I'm not broke
I can date anyone I please

So you can't date a broke guy like me if I initiate a relationship ?

wristbangle:


Eh! We don know say na this kind thread go pepper u

See as naija babes dey para on top OP head.

God bless u prof tosyne2much. I know God has created for the purpose of knocking sense into hungry naija babes.

See as dem dey wail like hyena

Bro, can you now see that gender equality is a scam?

When it comes to taking responsibility, they see that as an exception to gender equality

durasome:
op enlighten me more about who a broke guy is please.

A Broke dude is someone who just can't cater for himself

Quinn22:
You see why I said I would rather commit suicide than to date a broke guy

Too much negativity and wahala when it comes to dating them. Ladies if you want to live long to see your grand children, DO NOT DATE BROKE GUYS! I REPEAT!

99% of broke guys are temperamental due to their insecurities and they are wife beaters

But you, as a broke girl, you can date a rich man abi?

rosalieene:
since we are in a world of moral decadence, then leave ladies to leave their lives. Stop calling them gold diggers because clearly, u wanna turn it for the guys to be the ones benefiting instead.

if a guy has issue with a lady giving herself to another guy who has money, then he should buckle up and make money so he doesn't have to beg a lady. shikina!!!!
What do u have to offer?

I don't think it has gotten to this extent

rosalieene:
When I started reading, I stopped at 'never deny him sex'

that's so silly!!!!!

lemme save the rest statement before they will come for my head.

Ladies shine ur eyes, it's those same guys that will put u in the family way and would deny u.

Tosyne have u forgotten the saying that "never have sex unless u are ready for the responsibilities that come with it"

And you think that saying holds water in this world of moral decadence?

Be deceiving yourself oooo

Quinn22:
Tosyne2much

I think some of your points are flawed e.g

Don't deny him sex - what of if your girlfriend's vagina is very sensitive and gets bruises down there due to too much sex?

Don't be with wealthy friends - what of if your girlfriend is wealthy, hence having wealthy friends. And if anyone wants to be successful in life, they need to change the company they keep e.g poverty stricken broke people, when you accommodate friends that are successful and wealthy, you too will become successful one day because of their influence in your life, I'm not talking about financially, I'm talking about mentally and psychologically.

Nice criticism

Well, the truth of the matter is that most broke guys battle with insecurity issues and they feel intimidated when they see their gfs flocking with men that are better than them

On the issue of sex, broke guys got no chill when it comes to Sex

I no see any backside ooo

ThisTrend:
Namesake; You are too much mehn .. You are Protege and Genuine... ah like you.

cc: tosyne2much

Oooooh

Thank you dear

donbenie:
That is EXACTLY my point,GOOGLE is your friend..you can't OVERCHARGE a Smartphone..
A little experiment for you,charge your phone till it's FULLY charged at 100%..you'll notice that at a point the battery charging signal will go off,indicating that the phone is no longer charging even though the phone is still plugged in,that's the overcharge protection kicking in..
And if the phone is turned off while charging with a Power Bank,you'll also notice that the Power Bank will trip off on its own sometime after charging the phone to 100% showing that it's no longer CHARGING the phone..
But don't take my word for it,like I said GOOGLE is your friend..

You're very right Bro

KentoBility:
even if my battery is 97%, if nepa bring light or anybody on generator, i will complete it, so it will reach 100%.

You're just so funny bro

donbenie:
Leaving your battery plugged in ALL night has been proven to have ZERO negative impact on the life of a modern Smartphone,these devices have built-in regulatory mechanisms which kicks in once the phone reaches 100% and shut down the charge to avoid overcharge..
First the rate of charging slows down at around 90% and then trickles till full and shuts down at 100%,then only kicks in if required to top it right back up..it's a MYTH still being propagated to scare the gullible..

Yes you're very right brother... New generation phones batteries will never spoil even if it's plugged in for hours after the battery has gotten to the brim

How do I know this? Your phone will have no temperature after your battery has gotten to the brim. Meaning that, there are circuits protecting the battery from overcharging

One just needs to be careful with where one slots his joystick

ennon92:
Wie dem post dis mr 10 list man


Tosyn2much

Dem never post me ooo.. Na Stream2 jawe

pocohantas:
Never deny him sex?
Then after spreading her leg like compass and allowing him turn her anyhow on the bed, he'll come online with his 10MB to talk about virgins?

Do you know how many calories you burn during sex?
That energy he uses to thrust and strive to hit Gspot, he should channel it into lucrative projects.

Is a broke guy even supposed to have an ereçtion?

Guys will soon be there for you

biz2get:
This is Just a Temporary Solution.

None of this can keep the relationship going.

Based on say your own case strong gan?

Most ladies don't want to date broke guys not because they have nothing to offer financially, but because dealing with broke guys requires strategies, patience, endurance and perseverance. To have a very good relationship with broke guys, ladies need to take caution of some things summarized below.

Without wasting time, below are the ways to keep peaceful relationships with broke guys.

1. Don't ask Him for a Kobo

Nigerian men are quick to insult and ridicule any girl that talks about money in a relationship. Asking a broke guy for money is not a good idea because a little amount of money will likely cause fight between you two. Imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends, by buying provision or something for them. He will feel unhappy and may tag you an evil person. Since broke guys know that most ladies are only in for material things, they seek out for ladies who will accept them for who they are, and will never ask them for kobo. In fact, the best way to be in a peaceful relationship with a broke due is to avoid asking him for money no matter how much you need it. (not even N100 recharge card)

2. Never Deny Him Sex

Most broke guys are naturally temperamental people and are quick to resort to violence especially when a woman denies them sex. Denying them sex is just like you're bruising their ego because of their financial status. When your female friends are going places with their rich boyfriends, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other’s faces in his bakery-like heated room. Denying him sex at this point is very dangerous as it can result to physical combat or capital punishment. We have heard stories of guys who used koboko on their girlfriends just because of sex.

3. Never bring a Friend along on a date

Nothing is as disastrous as dating a guy who is broke and at the same time, stingy. These are guys who will take a lady on a date and will be the ones to order on her behalf without even asking her. These are guys who will take a lady to Mr. Biggs and will order gala and kunu for her just to avoid spending unnecessarily. Imagine bringing your friend along with you on a date when your broke boyfriend has already budgeted N1, 000 for the two of you. He will find this very ridiculous because it's like you want to put him to shame in the presence of your friend.

4. Never Argue with Him

Broke guys like me (Tosyne2much) normally demand total submissiveness and high level of respect even more than rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their girlfriends. The best a lady can do is to avoid arguing with them even if you're right and there wrong. Even if your broke boyfriend says Taribo West is the president of Zimbabwe, never argue with him if you don't want him to feel he knows nothing because he isn't financially upright. Always try to accord him with the respect he doesn't even deserve and watch him treat you like the queen of England.

5. Appreciate any little thing He does

Showing mind of appreciation for every little things he does is one of the ways to have a peaceful relationship with a broke guy. Even if he buys you a cabin biscuit on your birthday, kind appreciate it and don't hesitate to eat it in his presence. If possible, lick your fingers after eating it just to show you appreciate it, otherwise, this will make him feel you're not appreciative in nature.

6. Avoid talking about Valentine

What broke guy hate the most is for ladies to think they aren't capable of taking care of their responsibility. When valentine is approaching, avoid talking about the gift he's going to get for you or where he's taking you to. Majority of broke guys like me quickly loose interest in a woman who talks about valentine.

7. Avoid keeping Wealthy Guys as Friends

If you want the best for yourself, ensure you avoid keeping financially buoyant men as friends otherwise he will begin to feel insecure about his possibility of loosing you to them. This is because he gets so jealous mere seeing you talking to a guy who owns a car or dresses expensively. As funny as it sounds, keeping broke men as friends is even better so that they won't feel intimidated.

8. Buy Him Gifts

He might not be used to the idea of gifts and giving without any occasion to. So on a good day, go shopping, buy something cheap, give it to him. With time he'll learn to do the same, out of shame, guilt or whatever. If possible, go to the market and use your money to buy food stuffs and cook delicacies for him

9. Hype Him in the presence of your Friends

Your friends may not respect him by the time they get to know about his financial incapacitation, the respect will just not be there anymore. The best thing to do is to always hype him and heap praises on him in the presence of your friends. Talk about how he's the best man you've ever come across and his self esteem will elevate

10. Avoid passwording your phone

Locking your phone will make him feel you're cheating on him and that you don't want him to suspect. Even if you lock your phone, never hesitate to let him know your password if you don't want him nag you to death.

I drop my pen at this juncture

Feel free to add yours

Cc
Lalasticlala

Written by: Tosyne2much

http://www.tosyne2much.com/2017/05/ladies-10-ways-to-keep-peaceful.html

You need to see the way the road was blocked when these politicians were arriving. This got me wondering how a burial was politicized

anneboleyn:
My submission is that LDRs can help a person to develop more of self control and will surely help the guy or girl abstain from premarital sex.. ......but this only works for those who know their end goal for the relationship and who put a high value on their partner. But for most fellas of today, who value casual sex more than a real relationship, such a lifestyle is anathema

This is brilliant!

luminouz:
Organs no dey try at all......I no know wey we ekiti boys do dem oooo!!!!

The matter just tire me ooo

Organs:
Chai most guys are really really poor... If you are worried about the food consumed on a date, you might as well sit your ass home, food oh na im people go dey complain about. Babes, make una date "Northerners" na all these ijebu, ekiti and ibo boys dey complain about "food". Recently one ibo guy complained that a babe that used his bathroom used too much "tissue". can you imagine I still no understand how ol boy take eye gauge tissue come determine say the thing don too reduce. Guys, if you don't have it, tell the girl upfront say no kaka for pocket, the one wey go follow you go follow you, pls stop complaining and counting the # of meat consumed on a date, its poverty mentality.

Bro, must you mention Ekiti boys?

Abeg no make me change am for you ooo

chisco82:
Bia... Whose footstep? You doing what u knows best.
I m wondering if you study that as a course

You should know that is my ministry

Nickymezor:
A bit oo...na a handful of ladies wey dey do dat...

I hope you don't do that sha?

Be sincere oooo

PDPGuy:

One thing I won't tolerate on a date is bringing friends along. The whole purpose of a romantic date is to ensure a modicum of privacy when conversing with the person you like.

Most guys won't tolerate such