Family › Re: Mother-in-law by tpia5: 2:21am On Oct 22, 2013 |
wow, and people just abuse ministers anyhow, see the number of agony aunt threads which surface daily on nl alone?  me sef i can only handle one or two per day, imagine being bombarded with these endless topics all the time? and una dey say ministers must not have anything in their lives as a well deserved rest after playing atlas?  |
Politics › Re: Adenike Grange: How The Cabal Gets Rid Of Anyone Who Wants To Change Nigeria by tpia5: 1:58am On Oct 22, 2013 |
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Romance › Re: Don't You Just Hate It When People Call And Never Speak Up by tpia5: 10:19pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
maybe a mamagee and onila section is needed.
they're obviously not letting up. |
Family › Re: The Plight Of Nigerian Widows. by tpia5: 10:07pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
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Family › Re: The Plight Of Nigerian Widows. by tpia5: 10:00pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
in nigeria, very bad situation, lord have mercy.
so sad. |
Family › Re: At What Age Should Parents Allow Their Children To Date? by tpia5: 9:55pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
as soon as they can pay their bills with non-shady income and also own some land in lekki, nigeria.
lord have mercy, na so e easy? |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Men Heartless by tpia5: 9:45pm On Oct 21, 2013*. Modified: 11:11pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
the man now has to blow his money on impressing girlfriends, who will vanish after they suck his blood dry. |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Men Heartless by tpia5: 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Guitarlife: Guys guys guys *snaps fingers*
Am disappointed nobody is thinking outta the box.
These are the highlights and some of you are getting unnecessarily worked up.
1. The husband is a muslim.
This means that the man has the express right to marry up to 4 wives. This automatically makes it impossible for the woman to expect to be treated like an only wife.
2. The husband has bee living in abuja for a long time.
To the best of my understanding, it means he is maRried to another woman over there. Even if its not the allegation by this wife that the man is busy philandering does not hold water because he may just be sorting out which woman to marry to complete his slot for all we care.
Its obvious all the actions of this man are linked one way or the other to his religiuous orientation.
I can say this because my dad is from a muslim background and all my uncles from my paternal side are alfas and imams.
So this is not religious profiling . I am only trying to open the eyes of single ladies out there who might be reading this.
Thanks God for my mom.
Toughest Woman Ever Liveth!!
Ofcourse my dads brothers have one time or the other tried all these rubbish with us too, just that my mama had counted the cost and she was prepared to fight which she did and won.
But like I said, not all women infact very few women are as tough as my mom.
So @Op I wish you strength and the grace to pull through this difficult moment of your life.
It is well with you. doesnt sound like the husband isnt into the wife, but once womanizing enters a matter, takes supernatural grace of God to prevail. |
Family › Re: Is A Woman Suppose To Claim The State Of Origin Of Her Husband? by tpia5: 9:41pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
seems cemetary workers full nl. |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Men Heartless by tpia5: 8:04pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
The man did not say he 's not in the marriage, if i'm reading the long story correctly.
The major issue i'm seeing is the womanizing and the wife is feeling down mostly because of this, and no, the relatives are not helping, probably because they never supported the marriage to begin with. |
Family › Re: Names You Would Like To Call Your Kids by tpia5: 4:23pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
tunapawizzy: my first son Drogba, 2nd son Ronaldo, my only daughter i'll name her after her pretty mum Naomi (yea m gona marry Naomi campbell) let me guess, you're under 15. and you even got two likes, yay. |
Family › Re: Names You Would Like To Call Your Kids by tpia5: 4:21pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Na their month I go take they name them oh,like_ January_jan February_feb March_mar Etc .......  at least your own name is nobody, so. . . . . . . .. |
Family › Re: Names You Would Like To Call Your Kids by tpia5: 4:21pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
samdon12: Doctore/Oenomaus, Spartacus,Crixus for the boys and you're obviously either not nigerian or else joking. |
Family › Re: Names You Would Like To Call Your Kids by tpia5: 4:17pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
obviously he was joking with some of the names. |
Romance › Re: Can You Ever Re-accept A Lady Who Fooled You With Another Person's Pregnancy by tpia5: 4:14pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
isnt this from shakespeare? |
Science/Technology › Re: The World's First Bionic Man With Heart And Circulatory System by tpia5: 4:12pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
infonubia: hmm.... data, i robot, war of the worlds,etc. |
Family › Re: The Huge Secret My Wife Kept From Me by tpia5: 4:04pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
why not change the story to the kids owning the house and unknowingly collecting the house rent.
this one has been overdone already. |
Family › Re: The Huge Secret My Wife Kept From Me by tpia5: 4:03pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
https://www.nairaland.com/784798/unknowingly-paying-rent-wife-whatFlawless: Emeka and his wife Ada have been living in a supposedly rented duplex in VI for the past ten years. He just recently discovered that for the past 10 yrs, the house they had been living in belonged to his wife and they had been paying rent to an agent with normal yearly increases and the money goes to Ada. What would u do if u were in Emeka's shoes?, https://www.nairaland.com/784221/husband-paid-wife-house-rentpash: Stanley and his wife Tina have been living in a supposedly rented duplex for the past ten years. He just recently discovered that for the past 10 yrs, the house they had been living in belonged to his wife and they had been paying rent to an agent with normal yearly increases and the money goes to Tina. What would u do if u were in Stanley's shoes? Your thoughts here pls! |
Literature › Re: Admirable Construction/ / The Villa Of Progress by tpia5(op): 3:52pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Nigeria: Abuja Writer's Forum Hosts Isa, Iyimoga for October Event Two budding Amazons, Hajo Isa and Stella Iyimoga, working in poetry and film will feature at the October 26 Guest Writer Session of the Abuja Writers Forum (AWF).
Ms Hajo Isa is a poet and author of the much acclaimed anthology of poems titled Shadow Fall 2012). Hailed for their poetic originality and lyricism. She is one of the three featured at the Abuja literary Society's Emerging Voices Rising stars debut series in 2010. She is a budding contemporary poet, with a raw, quirky and simple style with a rich eclectic mix of language and feeling.
Hajo who hails from Zuru Local Government Area of Kebbi State, was born in Lagos and is the first of four children born to Colonel A.K Isa and Ladi Dazieni Isa (nee Namah). She spent her childhood growing up in Lagos, Jos, Enugu and Kaduna. She had her secondary school education at Federal Government College Jos, where she developed a love for literature. She then went on to study law at the Ahmadu Bello University Zaria and Nigerian Law School, Bwari, Abuja.
Hajo is also a photographer and a trustee of the Ladi Dazieni Isa foundation set up in honour of her mother. Hajo is also an entrepreneur and Manager of Aitadi Nigerian Limited producers and marketers of Shea Butter based Beauty Products. She is an avid literary and art enthusiast, and is a member of some literary associations in Abuja including the Abuja Literary Society, Association of Nigerian Authors, Abuja Chapter and the Abuja Writers Forum.
Many of Hajo's poems are published in national and international online blogs, literal magazines and anthologies and she will be reading from her latest collection of poems, Dancing Tongues. .
Ananga Stella Iyimoga hails from Nassarawa State but was born and bred in Jos. She attended St Louis College, Jos, and took her first degree in English at the University of Jos. However, given her passion for the art of filmmaking, she enrolled at the New York Film Academy.
Ananga has written, produced, directed and edited four short films and a music video. They are: "Your Passport, Please", "Fatal Mistake", "For Love or Country", "Same Difference" (work in progress) and a music video for KASA, a Kenyan musician.
Being a total filmmaker, she has occupied various crew positions for different productions e.g DOP, sound mixer/boom operator, gaffer and has also acted in two of her short films, "Your Passport, Please" and "For love or Country" and one other film titled "The Marriage of the Ladybird" by Hassan Khusshaim in Abu Dhabi.
She has been script supervisor for an independently produced short film titled "The Traveller" by Ag Musaab. It was screened at the 2011 Cannes film festival. She recently directed a 13 Episode documentary for Tertiary Education Trust fund (TETFUND) which is currently airing on NTA Network. Her dream is to make movies with high production value that can be enjoyed and appreciated globally.
She would be screening her short film, "For Love or Country", which tells the story of Bala, a Nigerian, a Medical Doctor based in the UAE who is frustrated with Nigeria and intends to settle in the UAE. He proposes to his girlfriend Kemi also a Nigerian studying in the UAE, but she has plans to return to Nigeria to make a contribution to its development and wishes Bala would do the same.
The Guest Writer Session, which started in June 2008, holds at the prestigious Nanet Suites located at the Central Business District in Abuja, and runs from 4-7pm on the last Saturday of every month. It also features side attractions of poetry performance, mini art exhibition, a raffle-draw for book, and a stirring dose of live music. http://allafrica.com/stories/201310211789.html |
Family › Re: After Education, House, Car And Children. What Else Do I Need In Life? by tpia5: 4:33am On Oct 21, 2013 |
Tpave: As in striving to be a very popular person like celebrities and power like a well known political figure eg IBB, OBJ AND JONATHAN. What you mean is ambition then. Success is a relative term which means different things to different people. |
Science/Technology › Re: The World's First Bionic Man With Heart And Circulatory System by tpia5: 4:21am On Oct 21, 2013 |
Data from startrek. |
Food › Re: Social Programs For Food Supply? by tpia5: 5:59pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
there are programs for those who need food assistance, overseas, however in nigeria, I'm not so sure.
private individuals usually take up this responsibility, generally for political purposes.
the matter of borrowing maggi, salt, oil, water, etc abroad, is usually a non-issue because you're supposed to get govt assistance to buy those items.
in nigeria, you can borrow from your neighbour, if they have any to spare. |
Food › Re: Calling All Pizza Lovers! by tpia5: 5:52pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
and going through your posts where you are advertising cakes in ile ife, is that where you're calling a remote village in osun? |
Food › Re: Calling All Pizza Lovers! by tpia5: 5:50pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
^ just wondering why you need to direct your lies at me?
if you stay in a remote village in anywhere of your choosing, how is that my concern?
just tell your lies without referencing my posts, thanks.
you people and your twisted priorities, nothing is too small for you to fight over. |
Family › Re: I Feel So Manipulated & Used By Some People Back Home In Nigeria by tpia5: 5:23pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
^ you were the one dishing out advice about people's private parts on another thread, but you're here on this one complaining you dont want to help your friends and relatives and inviting everybody to join you in abusing them.
you have your priorities twisted, i would say won ko e sugbon o jo pe oo gbeko. |
Family › Re: The Most Suitable Job For A Married Woman? by tpia5: 3:55pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
i doubt there's any profession without women in it, be they married or single.
however, getting married with the expectation your spouse will "go down" or "die", to me smacks of witchcraft when you state it that way.
people are so messed up these days. |
Family › Re: Science Claims Women Are Not Hardwired For Monogamy. by tpia5: 3:07pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
i believe the point is some women are not wired for monogamous relationships. |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Men Heartless by tpia5: 3:06pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Emmysteve: What a long story, let me go and eat, i am feeling hungry now. i will still read ur story again to understand the main problem. Meanwhile, change the topic, its doesnt suite ur story... so as to attract reasonable advice. cant make head or tail of the story either. |
Family › Re: Why Are Some Men Heartless by tpia5: 3:05pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
i did not read the whole story, but if you're a christian and your muslim boyfriend has never followed you to church (nor can you provide evidence he was ever in one), yet you still went ahead and married him, then i dont know what to say, sorry.
just get closer to God. |
Family › Re: I Feel So Manipulated & Used By Some People Back Home In Nigeria by tpia5: 1:41pm On Oct 20, 2013*. Modified: 3:10pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Why would you be comparing nigeria with a first world country?
And what s the big deal about sending your friends and family basic items which they need but cant afford to buy? When jonathan said he had no shoes as a kid, wouldnt it have helped if he had someone who could have sent those to him?
Stop being so petty and arrogant, nobody is forcing you to part with your money, if you dont want to help anybody then thats your prerogative and stop whining about everything.
As per how many people are "sharing" your experiences, that does not concern me. If you dont have a mind of your own then too bad.
of course, if you dont have money and cant afford to send cash or items home, that's entirely different. In that case, let them know the situation of things, they dont have to assume you're rolling in cash just because you're overseas. |
Culture › Re: The Tribes Of Nigeria Are Fake. by tpia5: 1:32pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
As soon as i saw the thread title and thread starter, i knew it was another diatribe about yoruba.
He didnt prove me wrong. |
Islam › Re: Do Muslims from Northern Nigeria have native names? by tpia5: 1:18pm On Oct 20, 2013*. Modified: 3:30pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
AbdH: If you check well, the Yorubas who bear the name had a Muslim background. That's possible. or it could also be of european origin, like portuguese, brazilian, etc. |