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good for them @ topic.

they can even move to ghana or gambia.

nje emi je anfani kankan lara won?

the thread got moved somewhere, so here's the response I typed for you:

musKeeto: great message, guilty messenger

guilty of what?

I've been expecting someone to ask me to explain my presence in the muslim section, since I'm not muslim.

however, I go there occasionally because I find certain topics interesting, or am following certain posts.

I've been in sexuality section before and had people ask me the same question, and my response was I dont think people there should seclude themselves from interactions with my type. Of course I'm an SU so I think the wiles and whatnot over there would be lost on me. I certainly wouldnt advise 98% of nl users to do the same and especially not if you have a weakness in such matters.


But unlike calotti/spermdrops/almondjoy/blazay/whatever, I did not go there to solicit for customers to ogle my n.aked privates in a satanic ritual, in addition to cursing the heck out of everybody i met there. Not saying it's wrong to do any of that, but just giving you my opinion.

so, I think there's a difference, but in case there isnt, I dont think I necessarily have to be anywhere I'm supposed not to be.

^good luck then.

Contact a school of your choice and find out what their requirements are.

so, from what I'm seeing on the thread, the general consensus is:

1. it's ok for young women/women to randomly chat with strangers they meet outside. Since non-Nigerian women commonly do this, it is wrong for Nigerian women to not do the same.

2. The op and his cohorts are free to attack females- there's nothing strange about his singling out women to attack, since he obviously couldnt ask anyone else for directions, besides women he "considered attractive" .

3. there's really no point in me arguing here and especially not with this darn interface for goodness sake. Knock yourselves out- e no concern me who anyone decides to chat or not chat with. Or when or where. How exactly is it my business?

so, I'm out.

so, from what I'm seeing on the thread, the general consensus is:

1. it's ok for young women/women to randomly chat with strangers they meet outside. Since non-Nigerian women commonly do this, it is wrong for Nigerian women to not do the same.

2. The op and his cohorts are free to attack females- there's nothing strange about his singling out women to attack, since he obviously couldnt ask anyone else for directions, besides women he "considered attractive" .

3. there's really no point in me arguing here and especially not with this darn interface for goodness sake. Knock yourselves out- e no concern me who anyone decides to chat or not chat with. Or when or where. How exactly is it my business?

so, I'm out.

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if you're still in nigeria it might be better if you study the nursing there, before crossing over, unless you already have your visa.
and plan to travel very soon.

if you're already in the US, then just contact the nursing schools for their requirements.

you can also consider going for a masters program in a good discipline. Nursing can be stressful although it seems it pays well.

from the same poster

Is It A Crime To Impregnate A Woman Out Of Wedlock?



https://www.nairaland.com/889036/it-crime-impregnate-woman-out

by the same poster

Is It A Crime To Impregnate A Woman Out Of Wedlock?


https://www.nairaland.com/889036/it-crime-impregnate-woman-out

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seriously, can you imagine being banned even while managing on top of this _______ interface?

wonders will never cease.

in africa, most parents raised with the african mindset dont see favouritism as wrong.

so, its really not much use complaining about such things, imo.

besides, maybe it was necessary back in those days before or during colonization.

the influence of globalization and emigration have exposed people to a lot of different cultures and also empowered others who according to tradition, would not ordinarily be so.

eg in the olden days, talking back to someone older than you, was considered rudeness of the highest order and the infraction was likely punished.


but i think as people grow older, they are forced to confront what would otherwise not have mattered, or what would usually have been swept under the carpet or ignored. Acknowledging these feelings/situations may lead to bitterness, anger and alienation especially if the parties involved refuse to forgive.


oyibos/westerners typically handle these things by going to therapy [i'm just beginning to understand all that now] but in nigeria we dont have so much of a therapy culture yet.

i think the best thing is just to pray for those who despitefully use you- forget the right or wrong of the matter involved because there'll always be aggravation no matter what.

and why must nl always be filled with s.tupid questions, people asking s,tupid questions, people trying to push their weird and demented mindsets/lifestyles on others, etc etc.

gosh, this rubbish is very annoying and speaks volumes about a certain person or persons.

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its funny, just yesterday i was wondering if the boko harams and their likes, couldnt just be employed as demolitions crew?

building roads and things.

Arcadia: All d guys i ever dated want 2hav sex! they all end up jilting me. I'm yet 2date one dts on d same wavelength wit me. Jst too lonely.

eyah.

i pity your life.

^^yes, and yahooyahoo scamming/419 is payback for when oyibos colonised africa.

you must think you're saying something?

femijck: She gave me an english name and she understand yoriba very well.

she understands yoriba very well?

sounds like you're igbo.

where is she [the wife] going?

she should concentrate on the bedroom aspect- that might be why he's remembering the ex.


if she does her job properly he'll forget all that stuff, imo.

most men tend to not have permanent/fixed memories like that. If he really feels bad, console him then get jiggy abi how else una wan do am.

this guy pestered her mum to help convince her to marry him

shows he did want to marry her?

the fact that nobody bothered replying the thread, should have worried the op, assuming he had the sense to figure out why.

dont know, really.

it might depend on the reason for the deportation.

you can also check one of those immigration forums- i found some of them very helpful.

what do you mean you "found out she's an igbo girl"?

[quote author=Stella_Bella]Wrong answer.[/quote]wrong attitude


not to mention ignorant to boot.

^^ALL babies born in the US are given preventative treatment for stds.



do you know the meaning of ALL?

Anyway, who posted this picture on the internet?

U live in the same house with your wife and u don't know when or how she got a tattoo, and u only saw it when she got out of bed...obviously, there is a disconnect somewhere

true.

maybe it was the result of a prank while she was drunk.

or she was under peer pressure- strange things happen.

^^what's hmm there?

I opened this same thread some months ago.

it was probably the inspiration for your own.