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your friend needs to settle down before they call her mammy water.

maybe she's emotionally distant or sleeps with her male acquaintances too fast. She might end up not liking them after the act.

or vice versa i guess.

This can ONLY be achieved of there is a FAST TRAIN FROM LAGOS TO OGUN!

and to ibadan sef.

PureOhio:
Did I say something wrong?

wa, you seem rather unfamiliar with nigerian attitudes.

all this tiptoeing aint gonna work.


were you very sheltered from all these nigerian miscreants wahala while growing up?

just curious.

keep looking then.

skinii:
E be like say Tpia still dey bed wet!!!

details here:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-615302.0.html

poster, next time, in a gathering, dont volunteer personal information about yourself especially as relates to your background.

just chat about general issues, or join them in whatever they're talking about.

Basseti:
Nigerian guys date/marry girls that are 100 percent AA; why do you think they will have issues with someone that is 50 percent akata and 50 percent naija?

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=694530.msg8553424#msg8553424 date=1308568184]Poster if you were fully one or the other they might have paid you more mind.

If you were half white, that might also count for something with some of them.

Unfortunately, nigerians are in the business of creating mixed people all over the planet, but integrating these mixed people is another thing entirely.

Of course its possible you said something or acted in a manner that put them off, but even then the sudden coolness is rather weird.[/quote]

true.

why cant we build copies of western cities like china is doing.

and why are you looking for salt at night?

the only thing you're supposed to be buying at a late hour is suya.

get with the program.

Poster if you were fully one or the other they might have paid you more mind.

If you were half white, that might also count for something with some of them.

Unfortunately, nigerians are in the business of creating mixed people all over the planet, but integrating these mixed people is another thing entirely.

Of course its possible you said something or acted in a manner that put them off, but even then the sudden coolness is rather weird.

I'd say date outside that circle.

poster you sound like your friend died.

are you sure you wish her well.

[quote author=isale_gan2 link=topic=675773.msg8551477#msg8551477 date=1308539409] How does a slave leave voluntarily?[/quote]they were offered a choice i presume.

Leave voluntarily or face harsher consequences. Also, many were free blacks.

If you don't mind, how are you getting the books so fast?

Are you registered on GoogleBooks, GoogleScholar, or using one of those readers like Kindle or Nook?

i had the book before katsumoto's link.

Calculia:
[b]Wat ever happened to having favourite [/b]becos I thought we all have them. joooooooooor! 

favorite what?

you mean tribe or ethnicity?

do you get a cookie for having "favorites"?

true.

The size of Brazil and the Quilombos or free states or territories controlled by runaway or free slaves was important in infusing relative sense of autonomy and maintaining cultural practices like in Salvadore/Bahia etc.

at some point, african babalawos [native priests] were being sent to brazil enmasse either as slaves or free men accompanying the slaves. The reasons for this arent yet clear but it did happen. Some were also exiled for instigating the local populace. eg in congo or angola one particularly troublesome native doctor was exiled to brazil [one of many in what was the trend then]. He met the former administrator of his birthplace there, who then sent him back to africa.

so, these priests exported much of the african gods and religions, and helped integrate them overseas. Likewise many muslim slaves brought over from west africa [males] did the same for their own religion.

however, when the continued efforts of all these people [christians included], led to insurgencies and slave revolts, many were deported back to africa [or different parts of brazil] while others left voluntarily.

The Portuguese were never an aggressive lot like her fellow European journey men

they were, in the congo.

and they were in west africa to get slaves, nothing more.

Indeed a recent study reveals that over 25,000 people from across the world move into Lagos for various reasons on a[b] daily [/b] basis.

imagine.

^^can you explain why any normal, non-psychotic lady would knowingly marry an armed robber in particular?

drug dealers and 419ers are now considered marriage material?

love of money is indeed the root of all evil.

lord have mercy.

Yes, in arab lands marrying blacks is frowned on, especially when the couple is arab male vs black female. To a lesser extent, i dont think black males marrying arab females is encouraged either but it could still happen though with some disapproval which could be minimized if the man is rich.

In arab lands, black women often can only function as concubines, nothing more. At most, probably a wife of extremely low rank in a polygamous household- if at all.

Arabs overseas however, (especially lebanese) have been known to marry local women in their places of residence but i have no idea how long the marriages last or if the wife and offspring of the union would be accepted should they visit the man's original country.

Just my opinion.

^I think by now you should know i do not respond well to threats.

And i hate cowards who threaten others over the web.

So, learn to curtail yourself. It can only help you.

Just pray for the rude ones- that way the matter is out of your hands.

True many adults are quite rude but there's really little that can be done about that.

Nigerians especially have some really bad eggs who happen to be grown but one just has to try to work with them if its unavoidable.

Is it by force to start a thread.

Turn to Jesus and eschew evil.

You know yourself.

Why cant she help her mum out in the restaurant? She can avoid the men if she wants to- all that depends on the type of restaurant involved. If it isnt a sleazy one then such behaviour wouldnt be tolerated there.

When my mum dealt in minor business like that, i helped her out (not a restaurnt though) because after all its for the good of the whole family. Likewise my friend helped her own mum the same way.
We need to hear more of the story because the op hasnt presented enough detail to justify people hating on her mum.

If her mum owns a restaurant, why would the children remain unfed? That's very strange and makes me wonder if the girl stayed at home doing nothing while the mother was running herself ragged trying to stay afloat.

And what happened to the father?

She better thank her stars it didnt progress further (probably because she had no money).

From all indications, the whole thing would have headed nowhere, to her detriment, not the guy's own.

Hope she didnt send him n,aked photos or anything.

And what is the p.orn star complaining about again?

Everytime s/he notices a male on the thread, she quickly switches the talk to her p****sy and how lonely she is with her absentee husband.

Quite clearly you have itchy wetincall and i dont know who you're trying to f.ool here.

You might have sampled all the nigerian touts and scammers in your neighborhood and are here scouting for fresh meat.  Like i said, go to sexuality section or just advertise here- help is on the way.

^^i have no idea why you're catching feelings.

did you find what i said, insulting?

have you seen bamilekes and feel there's no similarity between them and igbos?

then just say that instead of perambulating.

and, for the record, storey building refers to a building where the upper floors are continuously occupied by people? As in, place of residence.

i dont know why some of you people insist on remaining d.aft.

why not stay in sexuality section where they discuss things better suited to your understanding.

brainwork isnt your forte.