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^^yeah, whatever.

your claims about being raised well are questionable going by what you've shown on this thread.

^^isnt olumide one of those "undateable" names?

as in, they tend to be players though of course that might be a misconception.

so, dayokanu, you mean you cant toast that girl with hair on her legs.

that would be a first and is it the anti-dayokanu many have been looking for.

^^well, you need to provide solid evidence showing your mum is an unfit mother, because just smoking weed then reflecting while under the influence, on how long you were in the womb, doesnt count.

I just wanted to see if them acting the way they did had anything to do with my mother being African American.

it doesnt really matter even if it was.

people are individuals, each with their own preferences.

i for one dont do all these " you cant date me therefore you're a racist/bigot/ethnophobe/whatever" mentalities.

if i'm going to call someone one of those tags, it would be based more on their actual talk, attitude and behaviour, not necessarily dating alone.

and i do recognize the fact that someone may just not like me for whatever reason- could be my looks, conversation, approach to life, appearance, etc. If they chose to add background to that list, then abeg i keep moving cos i cant be wasting my time running after somebody who is either not worth the effort or who i might not be suitable for anyway, and vice versa.



so, its a big world and as they say, "enyan o mo nkan t'oloun fi se" ie you dont know what might be prevented in future.


now, if a person cant be friends because of prejudice, then that's also different, but even then, not worth disturbing oneself over. Na them sabi.

Elpieda:
TPAIN SO whats the whole WITCH calling for??

Anyways you are talking like a Nigerian that is not exposed with a narrow horizon so I aint surprised.

Na your silly naija mentality  cause am so you dont know better

Like someone said, no one forced her to have kids and they did not beg to come into the world so children are not indebted to their parents forever. My children owe me nothing for bringing them into this world. They are to honor and respect me but I wont Lord it over them to forever kiss my foot if I have neglected them and not being a major part of their life.

What will you say about women who have kids and dump them infront of someone's house? so if the kid ends up meeting such mother in future she is forever indebted to her abi? Olodo

the fact that you're encouraging someone to attack their own mother while touting yourself as ideal, shows you yourself are a bad mother.


so, if in spite of whatever you say you're doing for your kids, they still grow up and curse you anyway, what will you say then?


you lack knowledge and dont seem to know life isnt black and white.

did the mother in question dump her new born baby and if a mother neglects her child for whatever reason, its still a sign of mental illness if the child attacks the mother in public and says the kind of things you're saying now. So far, the op hasnt given the full details of whatever happened.

get that into your brain.

its not about whether your ill feeling is justified or not, but about the fact that you're attacking and finishing yourself .

i'm sure you'd have nothing to say about the multitudes of fathers who abandon kids all over the place.

lagcity

i guess you mean the hair is korean looking.

Elpieda:
I will reiterate what SIena mentioned. A BAD UNREPENTANT MOTHER DOES NOT DESERVE LOVE, SHe needs to prove herself worthy of that by being humble and not automatically expect the child to show unending love simply because she came out of her Vajina,

do not jump on siena's coattails.

he referred to his father, not his mother.


post your own story so we can tell you if your mother is an evil person.

and yes, you talk like a witch.

you came out of your mother's v.agina. If you hate that fact then do whatever you like about it.

people who saw your beginning will also see your end while they discuss you with their own mothers.

the people who supplied the woman with whatever "materials" were used to get her "miracle pregnancies" should also be arrested since she clearly didnt do it alone.

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=696230.msg8568864#msg8568864 date=1308751928]Give me one reason why the husband of a woman who died a terrible death should conduct autopsy ? I can see you don't have a heart at all ![/quote]^^yeah, you'd like throwing emotions about in order to avoid "nasty" realities, wouldnt you.


i dont usually engage in conversation with you, so kindly get out of my face.

anyway, plenty of fish in the sea.

one man's meat is another man's poison, so i wouldnt worry myself too much about such things.

^^only a witch talks like you just did.

my point is nobody enters this world outside of their mother's womb.

so, when you call down curses on your mother, you're cursing nobody but yourself since that's your dna and mouth you're cursing.

and yes, a child is indeed indebted to her folks because without them, the child would not be there.

we havent heard from the mother, so till then, the case remains moot and is certainly no reason to start abusing the woman anyhow on a public forum.

your wishing death on the girl for attacking her mother, in no way contradicts what i'm saying.

I SAID AUTOPSY REGARDLESS WHAT THE IMPLIED CAUSE OF DEATH WAS.

DO YOU PEOPLE HAVE COMPREHENSION PROBLEMS.

Elpieda:
I beg to differ with that statement, Without God she will not be alive, God is the giver of kids and not man. Just because you get married and sleep with your husband does not automatically mean you are entitled to a child. Its a gift and God can give you that gift and take it away from you when he pleases.

you did not just drop from the sky.

a vehicle was what you used to enter this world, and that was the womb of your mother, like it or not.

so cut the crap. And stop talking like a witch.


not all women make good mothers, and not all men make good fathers, but that's not for you to decide or say about your own mother.

in cases of obvious clearcut abuse, nobody says you shouldnt talk, but none of that has been established in this case.

attacking your mother is a definite sign of mental illness.

if you have a bad mother, let others say that, not your mouth.

ibkonis:
Wat as dat gotten 2 do wit dis?wel d wife died of cancer

is that why no autopsy was performed?

Let's not incite violence plz.

We havent heard the other side of te story and besides it never bodes well for the child who curses out their mother in this manner.

Regardless if the mother is actually bad or not. Let others do the cursing, not you. Because without your mother you still wouldnt have a mouth to say whatever it is you're saying.

At most, call your relatives into the matter, not random strangers and/or boyfriends.

What killed the wife?

Was any autopsy done?

^People from one of those countries introduced rice cultivation to the US, but in nigeria rice eating wasnt widespread until recent decades.

hmm, the last two pictures shouldnt be following each other.

^^are you one of the girlfriends?

my grandparents rarely ate rice.

@ topic

i guess that will effectively keep him in exile then.

with the husband's colour, i'm going to guess they might produce an era [redbone].


i could be wrong however.

i'd have to go with

kome osalov

https://img21.imageshack.us/img21/7776/v4454x600.jpg


temitope ige [why did they lighten her skin though. And apply too much makeup on her]

https://img856.imageshack.us/img856/4171/v23400x600.jpg


tobi banjoko

https://img827.imageshack.us/img827/9162/v24400x600.jpg



and okafor oluchi's hair is fine:


https://img821.imageshack.us/img821/2342/v18423x600.jpg

chinese/white father, AA mother:

[img]http://fp.academic.venturacollege.edu/womensbasketball/07-08_VC_WBB/Pictures/web_pics/1wongweb.jpg[/img]

chinese father, AA mother [looks just black]:

[img]http://1.bp..com/_keGrtX2pfZA/TADCxFhKvMI/AAAAAAAABsw/5aaMGiC4teo/s1600/shannonWALLACE-IMG_7449-bw-email.jpg[/img]

gabon deputy prime minister [chinese father, african mother]:

https://news.myjoyonline.com/photos/news/Dr.%20Jean%20Ping.jpg

the chinese features are indeed quite strong.

where are the photos.

^^the singers are american.

MeandSum:
And what would Christ do to solve the issue?
We are talking about educating people about one form of deception and ignorance and you are suggested they need Christianity which in itself is based on falsehood.

i said they need Christ.

you jumped in with your own falsehood.

@ tollu

the kunu i drank was prepared in hygienic conditions.

i didnt try fura de nunu [and its not found easily in the south anyway].