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i am talking about Nobel Prizes in the sciences not useless categories like Peace and Literature.

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snowdrops:
No comment, but i have to say i am disappointed in your contributions to this thread so far. You normally perform better than this.

dayokanu:
^^ You sef see am?

The research finding which was posted and she found all ways to put the blame on everyone else excepting the real people the research focused on.

A research carried out by Americans, on Americans in America she found a way to deflect it to African men ingeniously claiming they probably did it on immigrant family and the researchers were probably funded by My Okonkwo and Afolabi

Africason:
Are you folks still on this?! I shock give you guys.
Listen to that dude too. . . the arrogance in his spoutings. . . invade where? ROFLMAO. Have you even stopped fighting among yourselves let alone invade someone's country? The impudence of a 'dying cocroach'! Dude, put your house inorder first before contemplating expanding your backyard. . . :arrow: :arrow:

Becomrich0:
I am from Ondo/lagos state.
where do you think the king bear osemawe? Where do you think Gani fawehinmi is from , ondo town.

The reason I talk about Ilaje and Ikale people is because my cousin are ilaje and Ikale. may be you saw one of them speaking Ilaje or Ikale. I understand both too. I understand igbo, hausa,igalla, itsekiri, Uhrobo and Isoko. If you understand Uhrobo, you would be able to speak isoko easy.

Gypsies or not, you are the one drooling over their women.

otumfour:
@my mama why don' we drop the Nation bashing, lets show some respect for our dear nations,
now come here my senseless mama and grandmama your mumu face wey u dey take hide behind your pc, u toothless maxam paste using fool, u so damn ugly , I only diss b!tchy females like u tho, now shurrup wit tht flip/flop-like bosom of urs nonsense,
young otumfour has spoken

otumfour:
^^^ as if naija be heaven, who u tryna deceive, I don' even know where naija is, neva bin there and doubt I'll eva go there

I will say this again, my Igbo friends always seem to tlk abt how they wanna seperate themselves from Nigeria wht abt tht?, and I get this from a lot of Igbo peeps, u guys can make Ghana your problem but the real problem is hiding wit its ugly face inwards, look deep people and leave Ghanaians

Any story that attempts to amalgamate the Edos' and Yoruba are false.

Purist:
@tpiah

I think you need to calm down.  You're being overly emotional on this issue.  In as much as one cannot say for sure what the motive of these researchers is, I do not think it is fair to conclude that it's to denigrate the womenfolk.   Research like this are supposed to provide us some kind of new perspective into things that affect marital life and the society at large.  Who knows, the 'revelation' made by these researchers may even prompt some men to be more conscious of, and even change their negative mindsets about the prospect of female children.  Besides, the research didn't say that ALL marriages with female children are bound to fail.  Here, see the highlighted post below.

Akainzo:
@Tpiah, obviously, you are not reading and comprehending. The write-up by OP and my take were that the sex of the child(ren) could affect the possibility of divorce NOT that it is the ONLY determinant of divorce! Is that too hard for you to understand.?

So because Mel Gibson, Obama or Bush has daughters and are still married has now meant all marriages with daughters only are ALL still surviving? Or that you can point at ten honest mechanics means ALL mechanics are honest?

The research only says the chances of having a divorce increases by 5% when there is no male child involved. That is the simple outcome of the research, do find a way to comprehend that.

dayokanu:
The researchers are Economists Gordon Dahl (University of Rochester) and Enrico Moretti (UCLA) these are caucasian sounding names

dayokanu:
Evidence that support your opinion that it has foreigner written all over it.

And how do you know its skewed on immigrant population

chika98:
Men are men. They will cheat and do all sorts if they want to. These things aren't limited to tribe
or anything. Igbo men like to make noise about everything. . A good man is a good man and so is a wonderful family.
These things aren't tribe related. You all should be praying for God to give each and every one of you a man/woman
who will love, care and take care of you. . Also a family that will be nice enough to know their boundaries.
That is all. All the other talk here is rubbish and tribalistic because at the end of the day a man that will treat you like crap
will regardless of where he is from!

Citing an instance, Ruth, who is excited about having white men as lovers, said she has vowed never to date any black man until when she is ready for marriage.

According to her, this vow became necessary after experiencing several heartbreaks with Nigerian men.

“Can you believe that the last one I dated was a married man with three kids? He never told me he was married until I almost got lynched by his wife who saw us while we were in the heat of passion in his supposed house.

“I would have been dead by now. The worst part of it was that he hardly gave me money for my upkeep and he monitored my daily activities as if I was in prison custody, yet I stayed in the relationship as I needed a man desperately,” she explained.

She said she was introduced into the “business” by a friend and since then she has “been living in the sweetest world.

“I now have a Honda car and a well furnished apartment.”

Another girl, who maintained anonymity said she prefers dating white men because “they are more understanding and they give us freedom to do a lot of things compared to their Nigerian counterparts.”

She said she could date other men and engage in other ventures that would fetch her money without the prying eyes of her white guys. But that is not the case with the Nigerian men, who she described as greedy and crooked in their love life.

“They prefer hiding you somewhere and doing it only in secret places with you for fear of being recognised by other people.

“But the white men are always proud to move around with you openly. They are proud of what they have even if we are only with them for money.”

You do not know how many Obama I have to give white women, El presideto

That family cant be racist if they have a black person in thier family

Do you know anywhere in the bible God said , your Kilimanjaro is only for black women

BTW, how many times have you heard of a man leave a woman for having too many boys?

ladej:
well said. why do you think wealthy europeans MAKE their future sons in law sign prenuptial agreements before marrying? this is to avoid a guy marrying the heir of a dynasty and pissing it all away[assuming the girl is the only child]. also it isnt unheard of for future sons in law to agree compound surnames and the kids to still bear their grandfather's name. this is particularly true of wealthy families. still very 2010, and very european/american

dayokanu:
The fact is that parents look forward to their kids being like them.

A man would love to have a son who would grow up to be like him, In him you would see a younger you.

If the man has a business, he looks forward to his son taking over his business. With daughters they might get married and not even live in the same Geographical location.

If you have a biz and your daughter was running it, when she gets married to a guy, In most cases the groom would decide where they would live and the daughter would have to move in with her husband.

Another point, female kids are usually more caring to the parents and a son might be carefree

Would u choose to have an "heir" even if he is a ganja smoking i d i o t ? And what silly inheritance are we talking about here? The small money left in the bank?