Brother, I totally understand where you are coming from and exactly what you mean typing this.
No matter your salary, have it at the back of your mind that you must save atleast 20% of your monthly intake.
ThankGod you are not a gambler or alcoholic!
Stay safe 🙏 peace

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

Bro your story is really inspiring (I mean the part where your side hustle can generate atleast 500k monthly)
I am also in similar stage as you, please can you introduce me to your line of business??

Atleast you didn't borrow to bet

You case is still not serious just relax bros.

This Year made me realised I can never be wiser than my Creator.
Only God has the final say!
I wanted to force my way and my will but God said time is not right yet.
I will trust in God the source of my being and the sustainer of my life and destiny.
The year is still young

How did you marry??

Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

The question should be directed at the op.
Are you allowing your wife to be dressed like this in public??

SKIBiNSKI:
It is sad, you would find some same youths supporting this same system.

Really pathetic

This is painful and frightening to watch!
May God help the Nigerian system

Such amount like 4k
Such a cheap woman you got there

Few reasons why stuffs like happen although you always come back to your senses.
My few tips to help you
1. Always pray together no matter what
2. Always eat together.
3. Communicate even the tinest of all things to yourselves. Always talk

God will help you �

victooman:
if no job is coming look for a capital and start any business , l finish last year and what l am doing now is giving me a minimum of 5k everyday wetin l wan use job do, l will expand it build a house and marry biko

Very nice bro.
What kind of business do you run bro?

planetE:
I'm currently a cashier at bet9ja shop (baby). The business is very profitable.

Base on the things I have noticed, only the gamblers are the losers, wretched and unfortunate ones. the shop owners always make huge profits daily.

Once I get enough capital, nah to become agent and get my own shop. The biz is very profitable for the shop owners and bet9ja inclusive but 98 out of 100 active baby players will always remain wretched and miserable without achieving any greatness in life

If the shop owners no dey see profit, dey no go dey every street angle

Even we cashier dey cash out daily.

Very good observation from you bro!
How much are you looking to have before you open a shop and where do you stay precisely

marwanafrica:

bro nothing Much just trying to see if i can meet someone here from Kaduna that can link me up with a job or Even a friend, I am from kaduna North though

Wow nice idea �

marwanafrica:
please who are those from kaduna State?

Here bro
Any news for kd people?

It's on AIT GOtv

10k max

Please don't be offended please.
We have been good friends for many years

Uncharted56:
There are many other ways to cashout BTC we move abeg

Hint boys abeg

This topic eh..
Lol!

Stay in Abuja..

Back to Lokoja is safer but not totally advisable for a Young vibrant man.

orisa37:
The Bill REMAINS high N31.20 per unit now N58.11 per unit.

And I haven't had Electricity for 26+ hours. It was taken away 4pm last night. The time now is 6pm+. I am in KADUNA SOUTH CHRISTIAN AREA. TRIKANIA.

My guy

I suppose know you oh
Same area

Durentt:
Hello.

I am 22 years old, I am not as skinny as you described but I used to be like that until I became 20 years old.

I used to weigh 59kg when I was 17 but now I weigh 69kg. I'm quite tall also

I think you should go to pharmacy for cyproheptadine or cyprigold, this helped me gain weight after I used it for few months. (Answer to question 3)

You need body fat to get muscles, I suppose, so use the supplement above to get some fat and exercise to convert to muscles. (Answer to question 1)

That means a could be a supplement for increase in height then..

Is Messi still your goat or I should mind my business??

*Youth is the time to learn*

Excel Universal College kaduna.
10years now

I like the way Seria A clubs are getting serious with notable signings...

Football is serious business oh.
No club wan carry lass..

Beautiful...
Good for Business

Am so loving this game of football
Go crystal palace.

My defence is leaky for goodness sake

Too early for all this

iLegendd:
Whenever I go to the market, I get cheated because I hate pricing anything edible. If it's purchase of vehicles, you can't cheat me.

I bought a catfish for 1k yesterday, but someone bought it there before I left for 800. I felt really bad, but there is God.

Today, I decided to take 5k to buy some food stuff for a female friend of mine since I'll be visiting her tomorrow as she has put to bed last month.

I planned buying her a carton of Eva, tea, milk, a carton of indomie, etc. My estimate was 5k, but I was shocked when I spent more than that for that small thing. See picture below.

I haven't even bought the water yet, but I have spent more than 10k already. Market women are just using this to pandemic to cash out. It's unfair.

Anyway, na people wey dey hustle for money in Naira e go pain pass. Those getting it in foreign currency don't have to worry.

But, why do market women love cheating me?

Also, if you're a lady, calculate how much the things below is suppose to worth.

Oga you are too loud.
Lol.. Small 10k you don dey para!

akaahs:
Ur friend in marriage is someone U have real affection, someone U re fond Of or U like, someone U have strong bond, someone that support and feel deep connection.
Summary ur friend is someone U can play, pray, or eat together.

What about sex

The good old days of Lampard. Drogba, makelele, Terry....really crazy days and their OGA Mourinho and his sweet mouth .

Blues forever