₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
aahhh! tor!

I just reason am say devil wan use this one mess me up. Na him I act ooo

Kobojunkie:
Are the kids her kids or her step kids?

Her own kids!

Kobojunkie:
Which kain yeye story be this abeg! it is upside down!

And it is all true, bros me!

I had to 'deport' my own woman from this yeye Europe back to naija last month for a similar reason after repeated pleas and warnings
She was becoming too violent with the children even flogging my daughter on their way to school. I had to leave work and come back to pet the pikin mek she no go talk for school say dem beat am from house.
The next day, I called my wife to discuss the issue in private as a couple. Na so the woman begin shout dey insult me. I come begin fear mek neighbours no call police for domestic abuse again.
She started telling me that she wants to go back to Nigeria. I asked if she will go with the kids and she said no.

I come reason am say this woman wants to cause me wahala that can lead to loss of the job that brought us to Europe. When she continued showing attitude, I asked her to put it in writing that she wants to go. When she write finish, I just book am ticket back to naija fir the next morning flight.

She did not believe me until when I carry am reach schipol Airport.. she come dey shock. She is not the type to ever apologise to me so I deport am. Now she is making trouble in naija that I pursued her.

I now live with the two kids. It is tough but my job is nice and allows me to go to office only 2 times a week.

My peace is worth the stress of living as a single father.

I have worked too hard from abject poverty to an expatriate position with a multi national to allow woman mess up my life with disrespect and anger issues.
Worst case, the marriage end. Can't let no woman Bleep my life up..

hiteelong:
Someone will say Nigerian girls are gold diggers always after your money

Please is this gold digger a nigerian

laziness and greed is not determined by type of skin or race

You are right. It is a gender thing!

Fabulozz:
As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.

She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.

What should I do now mature advice please?

Did you mistakenly sleep with her? Kpele ooo Baba Ejima

erico2k2:
I recon you should sit bac and think out of the box on this o ne, have you any idea how much subs he gets from FG, how much gratification he gets from FG also tax exemptions? Also how much loan he has taken in the name of this refinary?.He manage to sell 20% to FG at an amount equal to building almost two brand new refineries. All the natural queries in the Sw and Se he bought and not mining and killed off local mans cement Biz.If you are in the know bross you will understand the fraud going on there. What I am saying may not make sense to you but its the obvious reality.

You are taking on so many different points at the same time which makes meaningful discussion impossible.
- I agree about govt support but that is how it works in every sector if you are a leader because the government has an interest in the success of private sector players. They provide employment and serve as the main stay of the economy.

- Selling 20% to the government is business and even you will do that f you are in position.

- All the local quarries he bought: I agree you he may have bought some but that is because it is his sector of interest.

- Fraud: for your learning, business is not church work and as long as the players are within the rules, then all is fair. he is free to use his influence and connection. Just like I am sure you have used and will use if you are in position.

erico2k2:
The reason for his post is not far-fetched, we are moving into Monopoly. He did that in cement and controlled the price. There is no fair trade, no one monitors or controls these commodities, he controls salt, sugar, cement and many more.

He may be the leader but it is not a monopoly... BUA, and several other players are making it big there too.
He was smart to focus on non-oil business sectors that are essential and hence his outstanding success.

Anybody can go into these sectors.

You that has investigated, can you provide proof of your wild, unfounded accusation which may not be unassociated with the usual tribal sentiment!

taylor89:
If you investigate deeply you’ll realize Dangote is one major big problem we have in Nigerian government


I know you can’t relate but behind the scenes Dangote won’t be this rich if Nigerian government was working fine


These people are benefactors of bad governance


But 30k monthly warriors will come to defend him

I met a good friend here who happens to work as an HR personnel in a multi-national that I eventually joined before leaving Nigeria.
He is now a brother, a colleague and friend. He helped me make a life decision that I am still grateful for.
- Almost succeeded in chyking/marrying a popular Nairalander but she asked me a silly question and that I must give her my NL ID before we can proceed. I come know say her head no too correct even though she is a sweet babe. Na so I jump ship leave her matter.

He is talking about the stolen 1Trillion Naira

ednut1:
This was Shehu Sani going to beg Buhari so that El Rufia wont kick him out. Now forming activist on Twitter