LilMissFavvy: He hasn't told us what he did to his wife, matcheww. Would a woman leave a good husband just like that? Besides, Nigerian men have been jilting their wives for a side chick, so....we move.
Yes, a woman would leave a good husband. Infact, a woman is more likely to leave a good husband than a rascal.
His main offence is because he is good!!! Surprised
BigDawsNet: It's obvious... the lady doesn't love the man again.. but he can beg her to keep her has a regular guy until the man his able to get a sponsorship...
If possible leave separately
No woman ever loves unconditionally... even Mama dem!
chrisifeanyi: God knows I'll never leave such woman alive. I bring you come UK and you want to divorce me despite you are cheating. I'll end you and end myself. God will be the ultimate judge.
Samantha124: 1. Car sickness... If I'm traveling long distances, especially in the morning, I get sick... I start sweating, having short breath, getting nauseous and eventually throwing up... Same thing happens when I perceive the smell of cigarettes/weed.
Last time I threw up due to traveling long distances was this past Saturday, I had no choice because some things just had to be done in the morning, especially on weekends... As I was driving, I felt my condition getting worse but I had to keep driving because already I was running late... It was only when I felt that I couldn't keep up anymore that I parked on the roadside and threw up... I stayed outside the car for a while for some fresh air.
When I reached my destination, I started feeling better and the nausea started to suppress, only for this old man who smelled a cigarette/weed to come my way, I tolerated the smell hoping that he'll leave, but he just kept talking non-stop... The smell triggered the nausea again and before I knew it, I threw up for the second time... But fortunately, I had a sickness bag inside my hand bag because I always prepare myself for such situations whenever I'm traveling long distances.
It's like it runs within the family because I'm told that my maternal grandmother used to have the same condition, my aunt and sister are also experiencing the same thing... We have car sickness.
2. Nosebleeding... Like car sickness, this is something I've struggled with since I was a child... I could be playing, eating, sleeping, or just sitting back and doing nothing and my nose would just start bleeding... It used to be more frequent when I was a child, but as I got older it decreased to a point that I can now go a very long time without nose bleeding... But now some of my sisters' kids are experiencing the same problem.
Just last night I was talking to my 8 years old nephew over a video call when I noticed something coming out of his nose and it was blood... The boy wasn't even sick.
I've never met anyone outside of my family who can relate to having these two conditions... So I'm just curious to know if there's anyone who can relate in here.
Hmmmm... I now know the devil is real! See corrupt mind oo... devil took my mind to nose bleeding while lashing!!!
I repent and rebuke any such spirit...
my sister seek medical help for the nose bleeding as early as you can. Good luck.
Chetas81: if you tell me that France is a Muslim country,if France is not a Muslim country, all this are not necessary, Arab Muslim should live in peace, they should stop roaming around, with their religion, that never allowed peace rain
Well, they are French citizens whose ancestors were taken to help France in WWi &II... They don't have any other country apart from France.
If you mean they should stop their religion, then that is as illogical and can be.
Chetas81: you called it nonsense decision, this guy's are not African citizen, who don't know what to do, when comes to terrible situation
it is a nonsense decision because the Muslim population of France did not immigrate there recently. They are 3rd and 4th generation north africans and Turks. So why stir up the honets nest when you think of the recent protest dominated by north africans and arabs that almost crumbled France.
Chetas81: If you find your self, doing nothing,and all you know is to give birth to children with the little you have, when the Children grow up they also practice the same thing, which is killing the African continent till today
A deeper question is why are you doing nothing? There is a lot to be done in this country and you can start most things from scratch.
Chetas81: we're African citizen, quite fine, but asked India and Chinese, from 1981 to 2016 , only one and 2 child policy till now in India, till today
Not India but China.. the main point is why do you think children are the problem of the economy?
ideamonster: It's no surprise that things are getting harder every year in Nigeria. Even before the subsidy removal, the cost of everyday items are on the rise.
You may have noticed that the size of bread that sold for N200 about 5 years ago now goes for N1000. This means that families today need to allocate 5 times amount of money to bread than they used to five years ago. What even makes it harder is that every year since 2015, Nigeria has added a minimum of 7 million children every year. This is more than the size of singapore. It is worth nothing that 63 million Nigerians are alive today, who had not ben born when Muhammadu Buhari was elected in 2015. And with Nigeria's current fertility rate of 5.31 children per mother, each additional birth is creating an increase in the number of people who need to be fed.
In light of the following, several people are exploring the possibility that should Nigeria place limits on child size per family similar to such a policy enacted by the government of China in the late 1970s. In the special report exploring this topic below, population scientists, policy analysts, statisticians and everyday people ask the question: Is it time for Nigeria to start limiting children born into each family in this economy?
Do you agree? Do you support it? What alternatives to such a policy exist?
Children are individual responsibility of their parents not the government. What does the government provide to earn the right to control family decisions anyway?
The economy is fvcked up by the government not the citizens.
Population is not even a problem globally, declining global population is the main problem. That is why Canada, Germany etc are giving you guys visa so they can manage the economic impact pf declining population growth.
He is a simp... the coach of all Simps where he tells them to kiss women ass now a calculating bitch is out to get his simple ass.
He married the gold digging, night newspaper of a single mother. He adopted and trained her kids. Gave her a luxurious life and money. Then he imagined he knows women and started giving the most ignorant dating advices ever not really knowing that he is a Godfather of Simps.
Alchemy528: Nigeria won't stay one place,, in other people country later we will call it racism
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Loveabove: Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.
My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.
Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.
God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.
House rent has expired and problems everywhere.
Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.
Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.
Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.
Please advise me on what to do.
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Where do you live?
I might be able to help you with the kids?... would you let them be adopted?
Poten111: I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
My brother, you don't love anybody... na infatuation.
jumper524: Nasir elrufai my most loved and admired norther elite. I'll miss you not being a minister. I know Asiwaju insisted on you being a minister but you weren't ready for another circle of political naivety with some bitter fellas who has refused to move on. You were never interested in the nomination until president Tinubu insisted on it, but then again, you showed you put Nigeria first and respected the president even more when you urged him not to go into any political battle for your sake. Media houses have trades your name with negativity but no proof till date. They hate you cos you did the right thing, they envy you cos you still progress. You'll remain a rare gem amongst men whether in or out of service. Till date no one could match you developmental records in the FCT. You did what the military govt couldn't do in lagos in Abuja. You ended decades of religious and community killings in kaduna. But then it's you they hate, your the short evil man they can never proof to be evil. Allah would continue to elevate you till your old age.
To the ignorant mumus quoting me, let me remind you that communal killings is different from banditry and terrorism. Long before banditry and terrorism came to kaduna, there was always these communal clash among its indegenes especially on religion. It all came to an end under elrufai. Infact it only happened once under elrufai which was contained at the early stages. As for banditry and terrorism in southern kaduna, a lot of ignoramus on this forum should know that prior to El-rufai, Southern kaduna has always been the rural part of kaduna and its no surprise its a sweet spot for terrorist cos of the forest. If your looking for who to blame for Southern kaduna Insecurity, blame Buhari and CAN of kaduna who opposed elrufai suggestion of bringing in mechinaries to deal with bandits in kaduna since Buhari appears too weak to curb them. Hypocrite.
Karen2024: Few days ago I celebrated the iPhone my boyfriend bought me, but today I'm here to let you know that he has taken his iphone. This was how it all started, he said he have a very urgent problem that I should help him with the phone so he will sell it. I gave him he sold it but I don't even know what the problem was. If I ask him he will only shout at me. Truly, men are all scums.
Men are truly all scum!!!
You entitled daughter of a scum pauper! Someone bought Iphone with his money and gave a useless,poor, poverty stricken, entitled leech. He collected his thing back after realising that a hookup dog doesn't deserve an iPhone... then comes the world's most logical conclusion..."TRULY, MEN ARE ALL SCUM"
Just imagine the level of IQ if there is anything called such in this context.
You are a reason why men should not marry and birth daughters if they do not have money... just a worthless, entitled leech...¹
Dem no dey get sense until person don move on then dem go begin worry person.
They will stress you to the point where you have had enough then when you wake e go be plenty grammar.
I just replaced a 41yr old bag of trouble who wanted to use wahala to kill me. I got me a 23yr old sweet suzzie who has been giving me nothing but peace now the old layer is disturbing when I have since moved on.
Confirm4real: Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.
1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.
2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.
3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.
4. Treat her like rag.
5. Doesn't have regard for my family.
6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.
7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.
8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.
9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.
10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.
11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.
12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.
13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.
14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.
Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.
Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.
Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.
Your sister must be an angel while your in-law is lucifer.
She is such a good woman that she reports all the evil that her husband does to her while she is just sitting innocently minding her business.
If I did not know the antics and manipulations of women, I would have joined fools to condemn your in law without hearing his own side of the story.
Kipaji: This is wicked and dumb. He probably thinks that he is a "redpill alpha sigma mgtow guy with masculine frame" for doing this. But that is just lame. Things like this are reasons why I left the redpill. It pushes men to be uselessly wicked.
Unfortunately, marriage does have some terrible outcomes!
so far, human beings have not yet found a way to resolve conflict between men and women according to the nature of the genders. Men resort to physical strength to resolve conflict while women depend on emotional and verbal confrontation to resolve conflict.
A woman will verbally inflict hurt on a man but the result of her violence is invisible to the eye while a man will physically inflict hurt on a woman and the result is always visible.
Both physical and emotional violence are as we all know, equally deadly with only different speed of manifestation.
For me as a man, I will and do try my best to avoid a verbally and emotionally violent woman and I strongly advice women to avoid any physically abusive man in a relationship.
The good thing is that in both cases, there is usually a red-flag before full manifestation but what a tangled web we weave when we conspire to conceive.
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