Politics › Re: Tinubu Suspends Abdulrasheed Bawa As EFCC Boss by TrainPark: 9:20pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
TermuxDarkWeb: Nonsense. This man is crossing his bandry, first it was the innocent CBN Governor Godwin Emefiele and is EFCC chairman. He's creating Lifetime enemies, but it will surely hit him hard. Am not surprised it's government of Yourba he wants to fix only Yourba Muslims in higher positions. NONSENSE you are joking, right? |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character But She Isn't Resourceful by TrainPark: 10:04pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
Merry100: He did not mention any good character or attitude, he only said she is nice and she is a virgin. My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character But just out of curiosity, why the thing pain you so! |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Is Good In Terms Of Character But She Isn't Resourceful by TrainPark: 7:42pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
Better appreciate that good character ooo... e no reach 3 girls wey still gett am for this naija !! boborosky: Firstly, I am a guy who is goal driven. I work my ass off to ensure that I earn a living and this has left me with hating anyone who is lazy. I met my fiance about a year ago. We don't reside in the same town but we talk everyday. When we started dating, she had told me she was done with schooling but she had a few issues which have prevented her from graduating. According to her, she finished in 2019 but has not been cleared because of those issues.
In the first few months that we started dating, I asked her why she was idle since the school was yet to clear her. I further advised that she should start something rather than stay at home. She told me then that she would like to produce and sell a particular commodity. I asked her what it required for her to start. She told me and I provided those things and travelled all the way to see her and hand those items over to her. Few weeks after that, I asked how the business was doing - she went from one story to the other. I was pissed because I thought she could have put all those excuses into consideration before letting me go through the stress of providing those items - It is not about the money for it wasn't much, but her lukewarm interest in pursing goals. Truth is that she never started the trade.
I let that slide and we moved on... Each day I noticed she doesn't have the desire to pursue goals. I mean, how could she have stayed over 3years at home without learning any skill or being purposeful. When it was clear that she wasn't being purposeful, I told her crystal clear that I would not want to be with anyone who lacks purpose or isn't resourceful. In response, she told me that she would work harder and do something. But as each day passed, it was the same old story. Right now, she teaches at a school - this was after a lot of pushing, and forcing and begging and all of that. Even, of the teaching, she complains that it is stressful.
She visited my family house twice. The first time she visited, I had to literally tell her to help in the sweeping of the house the morning following the night she arrived, which she did - I mean, I expected her to know (without being told) that that was expected of her as a first-time visitor in the frame of a prospective wife/in-law. Even as a man, you don't stay inside the room when you visit a family especially when they are doing chores - that was how I was raised. Maybe it isn't a general expectation, but that was how I was raised (Don't crucify me).
As it stands now, she isn't cleared yet and each time I tell her to go to the school, she would either reply reluctantly or get upset. Moreso, she doesn't have a skill. The truth is that, though she is nice, a virgin apparently, she may end up depending on me 100%. Given the way Nigeria is, one needs a partner who can support one. Also, coupled with the fact that though she loves me 100%, she is not very exposed (a bit timid), and lacks the desire to be independent, hardworking or achieve her own goals.
We had discussed marriage, though I have not proposed yet. Conversely, right now, I am having a rethink which has caused me to be a bit withdrawn and retrogressive. I do not want a spouse who would drag me backwards, I have suffered a lot to get to where God placed me - I don't want a setback given that my family partly depends on me. From all indications, I don't know whether she will be able to handle and account for a business if one is established for her.
Even though the decision to either proceed with or withdraw from marriage is solely mine, I'd like a piece of advice.
For matured folks.... What do you think? |
Health › Re: Itching, Boil On My Joystick: How Did This Happen Please? by TrainPark: 5:56pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
Oblongata: Do you drink alcohol heavily? How is alcohol related to a boil on a dick? |
Crime › Re: The Delivery Man Who Steals Side Mirrors Of Cars Arrested In Lagos (Pictures) by TrainPark: 2:17pm On Jun 11, 2023 |
lhordspy: I remember when the stories of this guy's atrocities were making round. The SE folks where at the forefront of the criticism. With help from their propaganda media house, Ar!seTV; They maligned Lagos state government. They ran commentary 247 about how Lagos state is a den of 'agberos' . and how it is very unsafe.
Well, BROTHER OGBONNA CHIWENLU, the professional developer , Onyi gburugburu has been the one terrorising the state. I am very sure he also joined in the criticism party back then on social media. You still wan make heaven with this savagery? Ha ha ha ha ha ah |
Politics › Re: It’s Ethnic Cleansing, Ohanaeze Ndi Igbo Condemns Emefiele’s Suspension by TrainPark: 6:47pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
These so called Apex Igbo body dey make me shame wallahi!
So which ethnicity is being cleansed now?
Person wey cleanse the whole country money na him una wan own as your best ambassador?
If this body is the apex igbo body then I am sorry, there is nothing about them that is apex at all apart from stupidity and foolish tribalism. |
Politics › Re: Profile Of Folashodun Adebisi Shonubi: Acting CBN Governor by TrainPark: 6:42pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
asanausana91: and this idiot, aside from being a Yoruba man what else is the reason for his appointment. I would think you already know he is a CBN deputy Governor by now. So apart from being a yoruba man what else made him a CBN deputy Governor? ... t ou can see how illogical your argument is that you had to introduce insult for it sound good to you. For your information, any deputy Governor, and I repeat ANY DEPUTY GOVERNOR, Can become a SUBSTANTIVE GOVERNOR in an organisation. In other words, the Governor is not better than him in anyway except for hierarchy. Alternatively, So you have a better qualified person? Then use your power to appoint him na... why vex? |
Politics › Re: Profile Of Folashodun Adebisi Shonubi: Acting CBN Governor by TrainPark: 5:35am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Shikini: A Mechanical Engineer is CBN governor? Lol ... tribalism is Nigeria's biggest problem You are talking as if he just left a Mechanic Workshop to become the CBN Governor just because his background is mechanical engineering... Error! He has always been a banker and rose to become a deputy governor of the apex bank... you can have any degree as a foundation and become an expert in ANY PROFESSION. Emefiele wey study banking and finance wetin him do for Nigeria? |
Family › Re: I Would Love To Go Back To My Ex-Husband – Caroline Danjuma by TrainPark: 12:19pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
reality don dey set in! |
Sports › Re: Karim Benzema Leaves Real Madrid After 14 Years At Bernabeu by TrainPark: 3:27pm On Jun 04, 2023 |
Ella231: Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen
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Politics › Re: "I Inherited All The Assets And Liabilities Of Buhari" - Tinubu (video) by TrainPark: 12:16pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
This man will be a good president, sha |
Travel › Re: Poor Road Condition Of Nnewi, Anambra State (Pictures, Video) by TrainPark: 3:14am On Jun 03, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by TrainPark: 8:47pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Essenza01: I really don't know anymore, i just did my budget for the month and i am scared, i have cut from everywhere possible and i fear for my self.. i dont have a GF, Wife, Children.. my salary is N400,000 and i have added side businesses and one or two's to even survive.. but with this fuel increase, what else is left... zero savings..
- Rent - N108,333/mth (1,300,000/12) - Fuel for car - N180,000 (36k for 5-6days) - Auto maintenance - N30,000/mth (service/repair) - Fuel for generator - N50,000/mth (20ltr/wk) - Feeding - N62,000 - (N2,000/day) - Health miscellenous - N5,000/mth - Dstv - N4,500/mth - Data - N7,000/mth - Recharge card - N3,000/mth - Dry cleaner - N4,000/mth (Starch/iron) - Hygiene maintenance - N10,000 (body spray/perfume, roll on, soap, cream) etc.. - Gift to people - N10,000/mth - Family House contribution - N20,000/mth - Eko electric - N10,000/mth - repairs and maintenance - N12,000/mth - Clothing, footwear etc - N10,000/mth - Outings, restaurant, sit outs and provisions - N30,000/mth
Total = N556,500...
My rent is average rent for where i stay, its a two bed flat, i use the other room for home office..
Feeding is N2,000/day.. its not anything out of the ordinary.. tried cooking and spent more with time wasting.
Fuel for car is at the new rate of N500/ltr, my car is a 70ltr car tank..
Auto maintenance is basic brake pads, shocks, service 2mths, tire guage, police pr, tire purchase if any, minor touch ups etc... nothing major.
Fuel for generator is 20ltr/day (2hrs or less daily)
I need help.... how are you people doing it, what am i doing wrong? The rat race is killing me.. Na enjoyment be yourr problem. The easiest way to help yourself is to assume you are earning 250k. Then plan your life around that income and all your unnecessary expenditure will disappear. I see alot of items that are optional on that list but I know they will look like mandatory items to you because you are already used to them. But think about living below your earnings and let's talk. Na big man problem dey worry you. |
Politics › Re: No Protest Against Fuel Subsidy Removal For Now – Labour by TrainPark: 8:42pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Hello by TrainPark: 8:32pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: . Daddy can you suggest the business I no be Daddy ooo but... mek talk small. - there are only two ways outside crime, to make money: you either provide a service and get paid for it OR you sell a product and make profit. I suggest service business for beginners because it is usually less capital intensive. My suggestions depending on your location and available capital: 1. Carwash 2. Barbing Saloon 3. Laundry All these three businesses cost less than 300k to start and any of the three can give you more than 3k a day minimum. |
Romance › Re: Hello by TrainPark: 8:17pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: How do I survive this regime? This is suicide mission for a married man. How do I filll my car I used to manage? Try doing a business and forget about depending on a salary. Anything you can do that gives you 2k a day is double the minimum wage. 3k per day na Federal civil service. 5k per day na banker levels. Think am |
Politics › Re: Judges Order Peter Obi’s Legal Team To Go Home by TrainPark: 7:30pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Fuckingmallam45: In as much as I rigorously campaigned for Tinubu. About the remover of fuel subsidy, I don't support it. Of course, Subsidy removal in actual sense is good and would encourage open or competitive market. But what are the things that have been put in place, for the betterment of the people? the minimum wages is 30,000#, how can a common man cope with such a salary? Some people are earning 15,000# as salaries, inside they are going to transport, feed and so on, how can they cope? What are the alternative?, did you put the masses in consideration before making the decisions? As a leader, the people should be your utmost priority, before any other things. Subsidy removal .. done and dusted. When Jonathan wanted to remove subsidy with a clear plan of supporting the masses with transport na the same WE refuse and protest. The economy was healthy then. So mek we manage the suffer |
Business › Re: CBN Did Not Devalue The Naira! by TrainPark: 12:00pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
SalamRushdie: You clearly don't understand what is happening Your statement has not helped him or anybody else. Question: In your Understanding, WHAT IS HAPPENING? |
Politics › Re: Governor Alex Otti Monitors Abia Community Cleanup (Video, Photos) by TrainPark: 9:07am On Jun 01, 2023 |
MrNotAgain: Source- Aba is one of the dirtiest cities in the whole country! Everywhere na garbage dump from PHC -ABA express, you go know say some people just clean for mouth. I swear to God this is true. A three year old girl once mentioned ABA as an example of environmental pollution when the pikin hear smell wey full all the 'drainage' and potopoto! I think this governor is starting in the right place... that town can be so dirty!!!! |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Can’t Be Subsidising Fuel For Neighbouring Countries - President Tinubu by TrainPark: 8:49am On Jun 01, 2023 |
donphilopus: Whose mandate was stolen? You think getting 95% of the votes in the southeast wins you Presidential elections in Nigeria? In states like Jigawa, Borno, Sokoto and most core northern states that Tinubu and Atiku were getting hundreds of thousands of votes, Obi was struggling to get 5k votes yet you're saying his mandate was stolen. Obi was a regional candidate who hoodwinked some gullible Christians Biafrans from other regions to vote for him. He has no mandate. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Behead Man At Drinking Joint In Abia (Photos) by TrainPark: 4:18am On May 27, 2023 |
taylor89: Watch out for that region where their leader cared more of Fulanis cows than lives lost
They’ll masturbate now Whataboutism... is a mental challenge! Your logic: there is a region that has a bad leader therefore killing people in broad daylight in the most gruesome manner is justified, right and should be applauded! |
Romance › Re: Young Man Cries A River After Being Dumped By Girlfriend (VIDEO) by TrainPark: 4:11am On May 27, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by TrainPark: 4:07am On May 27, 2023 |
Wodu89: You managed to spin the narrative that the mother in law is evil. Share the core details of what happened and stop trying to tell the tale with you as the victim in it
Watch fools begin to vilify the woman and her family.
Hypocrite You are looking like the fool now.. already jumping into conclusion with insults without waiting to hear even the "complete one side" of the story talk more of the complete picture. Are you saying there no bad people? Is it impossible fir a mother inlaw to be bad? |
Family › Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by TrainPark: 4:41pm On May 24, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by TrainPark: 4:01pm On May 24, 2023 |
How many tangible things can you give him? Entitled delusional beings who believe that their very existence adds value - while at the same time looking for a man to take care of them. This mindset is the reason why most women do not take time to improve their talents, personality and character because ALL WOMEN believe they are beautiful, valuable, and queens worth worshipping by default ... even if they have very shitty character, zero personality, bottom of the food chain value and eternally poor! Most women, with the exception of a blessed few lack self awareness, accountability and perpetually live in dreamland with expectations based in thin air! When your value is in an item you did not create and did not do anything to improve, then delusion and disappointment na your permanent companion. Thats why ALL relationships that go south are the faults of the MEN always. Well, reality na shege .. e go set in everly! Jennyclay: MONEY SEX LOVE ATTENTION.
If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.
BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her. |
Sports › Re: Manchester City's Bench: Is This The Greatest Bench Of All Time? by TrainPark: 3:20am On May 22, 2023 |
Echoly: Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Cabinet: Muslims Lobby President-elect For More Ministers Than Christians by TrainPark: 2:54am On May 22, 2023 |
Chimez21: And we wonder why we are the poverty capital of the world when we've eschewed sensible decision making to relying solely upon HOPE despite the events of the last eight years. At this point in the life of Nigeria, hope is the only thing you can hold unto. Or apart from grammar and vitriol, is there anything else you can do about it before next elections? Poverty is an individual attribute not a national one. You can be poor anywhere and you can be rich anywhere depending on who you have chosen to be by your decisiions, actions and inactions! |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Cabinet: Muslims Lobby President-elect For More Ministers Than Christians by TrainPark: 10:10pm On May 21, 2023 |
I believe Tinubu will make a good president... I do hope he does |
Politics › Re: What Ganduje, Masari Discussed In Leaked Audio (Full Transcript) by TrainPark: 9:42pm On May 20, 2023 |
SwissMass: Waste of time, it is height of mischief, Peter girigory Obi and his miscreants at work, how will the two speak English rather than their language TRANSCRIPT, Sir |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lesbian Couple, Dr. Elizabeth And Krystle Ekpo Wed In US (Photos) by TrainPark: 10:25pm On May 17, 2023 |
saphiere: Let he without a sin cast the stone first. Na that stone go knack you head... |
Crime › Re: White House confirms Attack In Anambra: No US Citizens Were Involved Or Hurt by TrainPark: 7:10am On May 17, 2023 |
Megabig: America can’t afford to bring their person back home in body bags without clearing a few of the guilty and innocent…
Nigeria Biafra should not bite more than it can chew, Government officials should go hard on insecurity please, before it touches everyone |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Mouns Saint Obi And Afolabi by TrainPark: 2:12am On May 16, 2023 |
dam2000: i beg who hold the record of longest time having sex how many hour i want to break the record E dey mortuary since. You wan join am abi? |