Politics › Re: "I Inherited All The Assets And Liabilities Of Buhari" - Tinubu (video) by TrainPark: 12:16pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
This man will be a good president, sha |
Travel › Re: Poor Road Condition Of Nnewi, Anambra State (Pictures, Video) by TrainPark: 3:14am On Jun 03, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by TrainPark: 8:47pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Essenza01: I really don't know anymore, i just did my budget for the month and i am scared, i have cut from everywhere possible and i fear for my self.. i dont have a GF, Wife, Children.. my salary is N400,000 and i have added side businesses and one or two's to even survive.. but with this fuel increase, what else is left... zero savings..
- Rent - N108,333/mth (1,300,000/12) - Fuel for car - N180,000 (36k for 5-6days) - Auto maintenance - N30,000/mth (service/repair) - Fuel for generator - N50,000/mth (20ltr/wk) - Feeding - N62,000 - (N2,000/day) - Health miscellenous - N5,000/mth - Dstv - N4,500/mth - Data - N7,000/mth - Recharge card - N3,000/mth - Dry cleaner - N4,000/mth (Starch/iron) - Hygiene maintenance - N10,000 (body spray/perfume, roll on, soap, cream) etc.. - Gift to people - N10,000/mth - Family House contribution - N20,000/mth - Eko electric - N10,000/mth - repairs and maintenance - N12,000/mth - Clothing, footwear etc - N10,000/mth - Outings, restaurant, sit outs and provisions - N30,000/mth
Total = N556,500...
My rent is average rent for where i stay, its a two bed flat, i use the other room for home office..
Feeding is N2,000/day.. its not anything out of the ordinary.. tried cooking and spent more with time wasting.
Fuel for car is at the new rate of N500/ltr, my car is a 70ltr car tank..
Auto maintenance is basic brake pads, shocks, service 2mths, tire guage, police pr, tire purchase if any, minor touch ups etc... nothing major.
Fuel for generator is 20ltr/day (2hrs or less daily)
I need help.... how are you people doing it, what am i doing wrong? The rat race is killing me.. Na enjoyment be yourr problem. The easiest way to help yourself is to assume you are earning 250k. Then plan your life around that income and all your unnecessary expenditure will disappear. I see alot of items that are optional on that list but I know they will look like mandatory items to you because you are already used to them. But think about living below your earnings and let's talk. Na big man problem dey worry you. |
Politics › Re: No Protest Against Fuel Subsidy Removal For Now – Labour by TrainPark: 8:42pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Hello by TrainPark: 8:32pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: . Daddy can you suggest the business I no be Daddy ooo but... mek talk small. - there are only two ways outside crime, to make money: you either provide a service and get paid for it OR you sell a product and make profit. I suggest service business for beginners because it is usually less capital intensive. My suggestions depending on your location and available capital: 1. Carwash 2. Barbing Saloon 3. Laundry All these three businesses cost less than 300k to start and any of the three can give you more than 3k a day minimum. |
Romance › Re: Hello by TrainPark: 8:17pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: How do I survive this regime? This is suicide mission for a married man. How do I filll my car I used to manage? Try doing a business and forget about depending on a salary. Anything you can do that gives you 2k a day is double the minimum wage. 3k per day na Federal civil service. 5k per day na banker levels. Think am |
Politics › Re: Judges Order Peter Obi’s Legal Team To Go Home by TrainPark: 7:30pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Fuckingmallam45: In as much as I rigorously campaigned for Tinubu. About the remover of fuel subsidy, I don't support it. Of course, Subsidy removal in actual sense is good and would encourage open or competitive market. But what are the things that have been put in place, for the betterment of the people? the minimum wages is 30,000#, how can a common man cope with such a salary? Some people are earning 15,000# as salaries, inside they are going to transport, feed and so on, how can they cope? What are the alternative?, did you put the masses in consideration before making the decisions? As a leader, the people should be your utmost priority, before any other things. Subsidy removal .. done and dusted. When Jonathan wanted to remove subsidy with a clear plan of supporting the masses with transport na the same WE refuse and protest. The economy was healthy then. So mek we manage the suffer |
Business › Re: CBN Did Not Devalue The Naira! by TrainPark: 12:00pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
SalamRushdie: You clearly don't understand what is happening Your statement has not helped him or anybody else. Question: In your Understanding, WHAT IS HAPPENING? |
Politics › Re: Governor Alex Otti Monitors Abia Community Cleanup (Video, Photos) by TrainPark: 9:07am On Jun 01, 2023 |
MrNotAgain: Source- Aba is one of the dirtiest cities in the whole country! Everywhere na garbage dump from PHC -ABA express, you go know say some people just clean for mouth. I swear to God this is true. A three year old girl once mentioned ABA as an example of environmental pollution when the pikin hear smell wey full all the 'drainage' and potopoto! I think this governor is starting in the right place... that town can be so dirty!!!! |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Can’t Be Subsidising Fuel For Neighbouring Countries - President Tinubu by TrainPark: 8:49am On Jun 01, 2023 |
donphilopus: Whose mandate was stolen? You think getting 95% of the votes in the southeast wins you Presidential elections in Nigeria? In states like Jigawa, Borno, Sokoto and most core northern states that Tinubu and Atiku were getting hundreds of thousands of votes, Obi was struggling to get 5k votes yet you're saying his mandate was stolen. Obi was a regional candidate who hoodwinked some gullible Christians Biafrans from other regions to vote for him. He has no mandate. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Behead Man At Drinking Joint In Abia (Photos) by TrainPark: 4:18am On May 27, 2023 |
taylor89: Watch out for that region where their leader cared more of Fulanis cows than lives lost
They’ll masturbate now Whataboutism... is a mental challenge! Your logic: there is a region that has a bad leader therefore killing people in broad daylight in the most gruesome manner is justified, right and should be applauded! |
Romance › Re: Young Man Cries A River After Being Dumped By Girlfriend (VIDEO) by TrainPark: 4:11am On May 27, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by TrainPark: 4:07am On May 27, 2023 |
Wodu89: You managed to spin the narrative that the mother in law is evil. Share the core details of what happened and stop trying to tell the tale with you as the victim in it
Watch fools begin to vilify the woman and her family.
Hypocrite You are looking like the fool now.. already jumping into conclusion with insults without waiting to hear even the "complete one side" of the story talk more of the complete picture. Are you saying there no bad people? Is it impossible fir a mother inlaw to be bad? |
Family › Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by TrainPark: 4:41pm On May 24, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by TrainPark: 4:01pm On May 24, 2023 |
How many tangible things can you give him? Entitled delusional beings who believe that their very existence adds value - while at the same time looking for a man to take care of them. This mindset is the reason why most women do not take time to improve their talents, personality and character because ALL WOMEN believe they are beautiful, valuable, and queens worth worshipping by default ... even if they have very shitty character, zero personality, bottom of the food chain value and eternally poor! Most women, with the exception of a blessed few lack self awareness, accountability and perpetually live in dreamland with expectations based in thin air! When your value is in an item you did not create and did not do anything to improve, then delusion and disappointment na your permanent companion. Thats why ALL relationships that go south are the faults of the MEN always. Well, reality na shege .. e go set in everly! Jennyclay: MONEY SEX LOVE ATTENTION.
If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.
BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her. |
Sports › Re: Manchester City's Bench: Is This The Greatest Bench Of All Time? by TrainPark: 3:20am On May 22, 2023 |
Echoly: Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy amen
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Politics › Re: Tinubu Cabinet: Muslims Lobby President-elect For More Ministers Than Christians by TrainPark: 2:54am On May 22, 2023 |
Chimez21: And we wonder why we are the poverty capital of the world when we've eschewed sensible decision making to relying solely upon HOPE despite the events of the last eight years. At this point in the life of Nigeria, hope is the only thing you can hold unto. Or apart from grammar and vitriol, is there anything else you can do about it before next elections? Poverty is an individual attribute not a national one. You can be poor anywhere and you can be rich anywhere depending on who you have chosen to be by your decisiions, actions and inactions! |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Cabinet: Muslims Lobby President-elect For More Ministers Than Christians by TrainPark: 10:10pm On May 21, 2023 |
I believe Tinubu will make a good president... I do hope he does |
Politics › Re: What Ganduje, Masari Discussed In Leaked Audio (Full Transcript) by TrainPark: 9:42pm On May 20, 2023 |
SwissMass: Waste of time, it is height of mischief, Peter girigory Obi and his miscreants at work, how will the two speak English rather than their language TRANSCRIPT, Sir |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lesbian Couple, Dr. Elizabeth And Krystle Ekpo Wed In US (Photos) by TrainPark: 10:25pm On May 17, 2023 |
saphiere: Let he without a sin cast the stone first. Na that stone go knack you head... |
Crime › Re: White House confirms Attack In Anambra: No US Citizens Were Involved Or Hurt by TrainPark: 7:10am On May 17, 2023 |
Megabig: America can’t afford to bring their person back home in body bags without clearing a few of the guilty and innocent…
Nigeria Biafra should not bite more than it can chew, Government officials should go hard on insecurity please, before it touches everyone |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Mouns Saint Obi And Afolabi by TrainPark: 2:12am On May 16, 2023 |
dam2000: i beg who hold the record of longest time having sex how many hour i want to break the record E dey mortuary since. You wan join am abi? |
Family › Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:57am On May 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: aahhh! tor!  I just reason am say devil wan use this one mess me up. Na him I act ooo |
Family › Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:54am On May 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Are the kids her kids or her step kids?  Her own kids! |
Family › Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:51am On May 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Which kain yeye story be this abeg! it is upside down!  And it is all true, bros me! |
Family › Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:39am On May 16, 2023 |
I had to 'deport' my own woman from this yeye Europe back to naija last month for a similar reason after repeated pleas and warnings She was becoming too violent with the children even flogging my daughter on their way to school. I had to leave work and come back to pet the pikin mek she no go talk for school say dem beat am from house. The next day, I called my wife to discuss the issue in private as a couple. Na so the woman begin shout dey insult me. I come begin fear mek neighbours no call police for domestic abuse again. She started telling me that she wants to go back to Nigeria. I asked if she will go with the kids and she said no.
I come reason am say this woman wants to cause me wahala that can lead to loss of the job that brought us to Europe. When she continued showing attitude, I asked her to put it in writing that she wants to go. When she write finish, I just book am ticket back to naija fir the next morning flight.
She did not believe me until when I carry am reach schipol Airport.. she come dey shock. She is not the type to ever apologise to me so I deport am. Now she is making trouble in naija that I pursued her.
I now live with the two kids. It is tough but my job is nice and allows me to go to office only 2 times a week.
My peace is worth the stress of living as a single father.
I have worked too hard from abject poverty to an expatriate position with a multi national to allow woman mess up my life with disrespect and anger issues. Worst case, the marriage end. Can't let no woman Bleep my life up.. |
Sports › Re: Israel Adesanya's Ex-Girlfriend, Charlotte Powdrell, Demands Half Of His Wealth by TrainPark: 5:43am On May 14, 2023 |
hiteelong: Someone will say Nigerian girls are gold diggers always after your money
Please is this gold digger a nigerian
laziness and greed is not determined by type of skin or race You are right. It is a gender thing! |
Family › Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated My Troublesome Baby Mama by TrainPark: 2:32am On May 13, 2023 |
Fabulozz: As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.
She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.
What should I do now mature advice please? Did you mistakenly sleep with her? Kpele ooo Baba Ejima |
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery Begins Operations Amid Lingering Fuel Crisis by TrainPark: 6:15pm On May 11, 2023 |
erico2k2: I recon you should sit bac and think out of the box on this o ne, have you any idea how much subs he gets from FG, how much gratification he gets from FG also tax exemptions? Also how much loan he has taken in the name of this refinary?.He manage to sell 20% to FG at an amount equal to building almost two brand new refineries. All the natural queries in the Sw and Se he bought and not mining and killed off local mans cement Biz.If you are in the know bross you will understand the fraud going on there. What I am saying may not make sense to you but its the obvious reality. You are taking on so many different points at the same time which makes meaningful discussion impossible. - I agree about govt support but that is how it works in every sector if you are a leader because the government has an interest in the success of private sector players. They provide employment and serve as the main stay of the economy. - Selling 20% to the government is business and even you will do that f you are in position. - All the local quarries he bought: I agree you he may have bought some but that is because it is his sector of interest. - Fraud: for your learning, business is not church work and as long as the players are within the rules, then all is fair. he is free to use his influence and connection. Just like I am sure you have used and will use if you are in position. |
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery Begins Operations Amid Lingering Fuel Crisis by TrainPark: 5:56pm On May 11, 2023 |
erico2k2: The reason for his post is not far-fetched, we are moving into Monopoly. He did that in cement and controlled the price. There is no fair trade, no one monitors or controls these commodities, he controls salt, sugar, cement and many more. He may be the leader but it is not a monopoly... BUA, and several other players are making it big there too. He was smart to focus on non-oil business sectors that are essential and hence his outstanding success. Anybody can go into these sectors. |
Business › Re: Dangote Refinery Begins Operations Amid Lingering Fuel Crisis by TrainPark: 4:16pm On May 11, 2023 |
You that has investigated, can you provide proof of your wild, unfounded accusation which may not be unassociated with the usual tribal sentiment! taylor89: If you investigate deeply you’ll realize Dangote is one major big problem we have in Nigerian government
I know you can’t relate but behind the scenes Dangote won’t be this rich if Nigerian government was working fine
These people are benefactors of bad governance
But 30k monthly warriors will come to defend him |
Nairaland General › Re: How Has Nairaland Helped You? by TrainPark: 4:07pm On May 11, 2023 |
I met a good friend here who happens to work as an HR personnel in a multi-national that I eventually joined before leaving Nigeria. He is now a brother, a colleague and friend. He helped me make a life decision that I am still grateful for. - Almost succeeded in chyking/marrying a popular Nairalander but she asked me a silly question and that I must give her my NL ID before we can proceed. I come know say her head no too correct even though she is a sweet babe. Na so I jump ship leave her matter. |