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TV01: TV, From where in One's articulate opinion did you erroneously devise that he was on his way to becoming a philanderer? Sometimes I wonder about you. You go through rejoinders with a fine tooth comb and draw conclusions out of thin air! If you want to talk of sin, which is the bigger sin. Marrying the frigid girl and eventually committing adultery and/or getting divorced, or finding out before hand and making a decision to break it off. The guy even said he was planning to marry her now. Ah ah! He did not say he was sampling. Women are at greater risk of what. Each person is responsible for their on life and the choices they make. Both men and women can be at risk of a number of things in any relationship. God Bless |
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TV01: Oh yes! Thank you for reminding me! And my favourite earthly MOG, TayoD! ![]() |
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So TV your problem is the moving of the hips, is that it? I'm not getting you on this one. Are you saying that praising God by dancing promotes lust in the church? |
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My Pastor's name is Jesus Christ, the Good Shepherd. |
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TV01: I'm glad that you clarified that this is your personal preference since I strongly disagree with you. Music is the strongest tool that the enemy has masterfully manipulated for his use. Music was meant to be spiritual and the instruments made to worship God. This was so even in heaven as you well know. Lucifer, now Satan as chief musician understood this power and even today has changed it from spiritual to carnal. Secular music appeals to the soul/senses, to that much I agree. But everything belongs to God. Rhythm belongs to God, beats belong to God, and to insinuate that they are carnal only merits question. I have heard worship songs to Jesus Christ in Hindi, in Arabic, in Chinese, in Jewish. I have heard praises to God in Calypso, Hip Life etc. Praise and high praise can certainly be up tempo however worship must always be intimate and slower paced. However people get caught up in the praise. But I see no problem with dancing before the Lord either. For the indiviudal who worships God in spirit and in truth, he/she can discern the spirit behind the music. 2 Likes |
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Of course he's joking? ![]() Right TayoD? ![]() |
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I don't have the time to deal with all the error in this rejoinder, however I'll correct you on a few things. Jen33: 2 John 1:10 If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take him into your house or welcome him Contextually this was a warning to stay away from those who denied that Christ came in the flesh and were spreading this false doctrine at that time. It does not mean that christians should not associate with non christians. Christ admonished us to be in the world but not of it. Jen33: Romans 16:17 says I urge you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. Again Jen, you need to understand the context and not generalize. Is what Paul admonishing them to do wrong? If my purpose in life was to make you miserable and deride everything you stand for and believe in spiritually, would you want to be around me? I think you're deliberately manipulating these versus to support you peurile arguments against Christ. Be careful. |
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Jen33: I agree. But OUR Saviour always spoke the[b] truth[/b] in LOVE and never insulted anyone (as we all have the tendency to do) |
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Jen33: Is that reciprocal or have you appointed yourself the guiding light for the path out of religious ignorance into cosmic euphoria? Try another one. We both know that truth can be a weapon used to antagonize and condescend, or to enlighten and enrich, it's all in the delivery and the motive. If you have a better way, then you should have a better attitude. |
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I agree with David. Pointless discussion. |
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One: Very well said One. |
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Jen don't u ever tire. If what you're saying is true it would seem that you're no better than the thing you despise since you lack one of the basic elements of any true spiritualism; love and tolerance. Your hate has consumed you. |
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Covering of the head (hats, scarves, doilies etc) is NOT mandatory in today's church |
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Ugwumba: Lmao! lol!hahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I haven't laughed this hard in months!!! Use the mouth!! lol! Wow, thank u so much for this, it's just too funny. |
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Most times the reason a married man has an affair has nothing to do with sex initially. There are varying cirumstances that may exist in his marriage:- 1. Lack of communication 2. Inability to resolve recurrent issues with his wife 3. The husband has chosen to develop himself, whether it be spiritually, academically etc, but the woman is just content being "wifey", and her entire identity is wrapped up in him and the marriage 3.5 He feels trapped, frustrated and bored with her. 4. Lack of romance 5. Somehow, someone's needs are not being met 6. Frustration with his life, be it financial or physical 7. Nagging, clingy, overbearing wife 8. The wife's unwillingness to change 9. The wife lets herself go physically and thinks she's won the prize so she can relax 10. Differences in spiritual convictions There are men who simply marry to have a wife at home to cook and bear his children while they continue to chase skirts. But the "good" man can also have affairs when they meet a woman who:- 1. Reminds them of what they love in a woman 2. They can talk to and confide in and the woman just seems to "get them" sincerely ie a friend 3. Gives him his space 4. Does not pressure him to change Over time this friendship becomes dangerous and the man becomes emotionally attracted to her, then the physical aspect follows. Women have this delusion that they can change a man when they cannot. All marriages have problems, but the key is communication, mutual respect, compromise and understanding to make it work. It helps to understand that even after marriage you are both still individuals and a woman should never lose her identity because she has become "Mrs." Ball and Chain. Good men admire and respect intelligent women who can hold their own and are not intimdated by a strong woman of God who understands and accepts her role as wife, but also her appreciates her value as woman. |
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davidylan: If a woman chooses to have sex before she gets married, then she at least should have an idea of what sex is about. Nobody's t talking about prositutes. We are saying the same thing. However, a woman who doesn't know what sex feels like at all can hardly determine her likes and dislikes or how to please her husband until he teaches her, which is what men love, to be considered sexual gods to their partner. ![]() davidylan: Please quote where I said anything was "imperative" or is that how you interpret the word "choice"? davidylan: Thank you. |
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davidylan: Let me clarify. A woman who is in touch with her sexuality makes a better sexual partner, not a better wife. davidylan: Obviously! And while is her choice to do so, her sexual development after marriage will greatly depend on her spiritual beliefs and what she believes her "wifely" duties should be. davidylan: Since we are speculating here, as far as I know, women who are prude in bed whether before or after marriage, have a higher tendency to push their husband to having affairs with other women and if not, puts a strain on their relationship on the whole. Again, it's personal choice. I never said I condone promiscuity. I just defined fornication the way the Bible showed it in scripture. |
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TayoD: and where does the Bible say sex outside of marriage is dishonourable, that is, premarital sex as I outlined it on this thread. We already established that fornication is sex with prostitutes and other types of illicit sex. Also enlighten me on what an "undefiled" marriage bed might be. |
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