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And the mother put it on record for the whole world to see.... Women!!!

Just slap! A guy with that kinda confidence must be taking hard stuffs or rolling with crazy peeps. He get strong mind to miss MATHS &ENGLISH exam!

He needs Juve treatment. Put him Isolation or under strict surveillance and if he's found wanting... Take him to where they deal with the Juveniles!

deturla:
Wow. This is amazing.

I hope you don't have that feeling anymore?

You are an overcomer.

I can't have that feeling again! We overcame by grace!

I was quite young then. I was trusted and tired of life. I went to the kictchen. Wrote the short suicide note. Held the knife . Put the tip on my Belle. But I just couldn't do it . I was too weak... I wished there was a way death could come with that much pain... but another voice in me said "there's another way- BECOME SUCCESSFUL!!!."

princdebola201:
if each member of family re paying tax how come nigerians paying tax is not up to 10% of the population ??

Do you know the total number of your population? Do you know how many are unemployed? Do you how many are underemployed? Do you know how many live from hand to mouth.

And these and ask that question again.

When you talk Intelligence, you can't take smartness and brilliance away. You'll be shooting yourself in the leg.

Intelligence generally is the ability to acquire and apply knowledge and skills.

There's a general intelligence which is called IQ. According to Wikipedia:
An intelligence quotient is a total score derived from a set of standardized tests or subtests designed to assess human intelligence.

There's another kind of intelligence. This is called Emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognise your feelings, as well as being able to control them and express them appropriately. It also means that you can empathise with people, and recognise their emotions as well as your own.

With a High IQ, you will be regarded as smart, brilliant, intelligent etc. It deals with matters that has to do with Logic. It can help problem solving , ideas creation , inventions, innovations , etc...

With a High EQ, you will be regarded as reasonable, selfless, patient, humble, normal, team player, wise etc.


Can one have a high IQ? And a low EQ? Oooh yes! You see them in smart scientists who don't take their bath, you see them in smart bosses who traumatise their employees. You see them in intelligent students who just don't care about their looks? Etc.

If you marry an Emotionally intelligent woman with an average IQ, you're set for life! EQ unlike IQ can be worked upon consciously.

I hope this helped....

StrongandMighty:
what does his age got to do with his personal opinion which is in a way valid...?
don't try to sound smart by asking his age . whatever his age might be, he's entitled to his or her personal opinion

Is that why you're so worked up?

Finstar:
Age is just a number, and has nothing to do with experience and maturity. Next time, swerve if you have nothing tangible to contribute.

Thank you!

And you're ?

How old are you?

Oboy you go find quote? This hustle must pay.

AudioNews:
Ewedu nd Amala
Na der hand work, Always on Violence,
Am nt surprised

Bigot

ChristianNorth:
And these people are part of the sophisticated people abi?

Yoruba people should continue deceiving themselves

Must you be tribalistic?

babythug:
As weighty as her being untruthful about her age is I’m not sure it should overshadow or becloud her good parts or the good times you may have shared and enjoyed in the marriage.

With child bearing to a large extent it’s barely in the hands of the individuals as many people with barely any pre marital sexual activity and good health reports sometimes find them selves without children. It’s completely by divine orchestration people have biological children. Why not prayerfully explore other options - surrogacy or adoption inclusive. It’s unfair to abandon her because of something which she truly has no control over.

If there are other challenges in the marriage itemise them to yourself and be sure that truly you can no longer be in the union and you do not have any love for her anymore! But I assure you there’s no 100% in any marriage . We all have our shortcomings but keep striving to make the best of our situations .

Na dem

Let me tell you what I know.

What the Lord has joined together, let no man put asunder. But you see,

There are so many marriages joined together in the Church by pastors that the Lord has not joined together.

You see those marriages joined together by lies and deceits are joined together by the father of lies Himself!

If you find yourself in that web, Run! I'm taking you. If you're a Christian. This is a truth you might never hear anywhere.

missimelda01:
True to an extent.

It still bothers me how a mother can reject a lady her son has spent time knowing, does it mean that she doesn't trust his judgement or something. Obi is gonna be a man someday and would need a mind of his own, women should know where to draw the line.

Most times, the son discovers that the mother was right after all. What a mother can see for her child, no joke o. No prophet can see that far.

Intelligentbabe:
Hi guys, sorry for the disturbance. I am pretty popular here, but had to open a new account:

A little about me: I am a lady of 27 years and I own a digital marketing and branding firm. I have not been in a relationship in the last 2 years, not because I don't want to, but because I am being careful not to date the wrong person.

So, I met a man late last year, when I went for a meeting. His company was to award a contract to my firm, so i had to see him in person as I am the owner of the firm, and he is the owner of his. As soon as as he entered the board room, and i set my eyes on him, i liked him (that was the first time such ever happen to me).

As time went on, we started talking, and our relationship moved from professional to friendship. He has told me of his past relationships and how he has been used and cheated on by his past girlfriends. And his belief now is that anyone that gets close to him definitely wants something.

The thing is I like this guy genuinely and I think he fancies me too. He is 80% what I want in a man. But his past relationship has really messed up his mind to thinking that the only thing girls want from him is his money.

My question is this:
How do I let him know that I like him genuinely and not really because of his money.

Are you sure you like him genuinely? Or it's just the euphoria of the friendship and the personality he's showing you that's getting into you . Or maybe it's just your need to cure loneliness as you've been in a relationship for a long time .

All I'm saying is that give it time. Don't force anything. Let what will be flow naturally ...

Let him heal himself first. You can't heal him. I know you feel you can change his heart about love and ladies blablabla but you can't. He needs chaos to restructure his mind again.

Don't allow a nice man use and dump you .

That's why I frown at some baby attitude I see sometimes on nairaland. No wonder marriages are breaking badly. Adults with baby brains.

Marriage is supposed to be a selfless institution but where one party is not, the ripple effect will be terrible.

God, please help me be a good man. Help me marry a selfless wife. Amen!

Maxxim:
There's an heavy clash happening right now between the hoodlums and the residents of ikotun/ ijegun area, I hope everyone living around this community will remain in their homes stay safe during this period.

You hope they are in their homes?
Who are the hoodlums now fighting ? Themselves ?

Do you know this is the reality of some ladies? Know your babe before chyking o. There are many psycho babes out there.

missimelda01:
This question is for both genders because I believe ladies are not the only ones who get sexually harassed at their work places. As for me, I've not been denied a job/opportunity outrightly, I just walk away from it gets to that stage but I've been approached directly and indirectly, I still have phobia for working with a private firm where the owner is a man.

Share experiences and how you overcame it, we could learn a thing or two.

Oh yess. The first question in the interview was " can I Bleep you ?" I said No. My mummy will beat me. I've not recovered till today.

bombidoski:
She was raped by her ex, that was how she lost her virginity

I feel this one. I got the experience too even though I knew she was scamming.

Dated only one liar ex.- my first real babe. Everything about her was a lie . From her name to where she lived. Abeg.
She dey lie. I even composed a song for female liars.

The craziest I can remember now ehnn is.... "She told me she was raped when she got pregnant for another guy.

What betrayal can be worse than this:

Getting drugged by my childhood best friend who I never knew was bi.
Thing is, we moved out of the area to a far distance but we still communicated on phone. Few years later I paid him a visit cuz we was truly my real padi. He made my childhood and teenage life worth it even though our parents were cats and rats.

I grew up on the streets where we trusted nobody. yeah, "we" . We were the team. We could kill together but never eachother. We went through dark times and came outta it together.

That crazy day I decided to go see my long term padi after I gained admission into the university. He told he also got admitted into a school but I knew he was lying cuz his elder bro told me. The day I came was a joy to behold. I noticed changes around his eyelashes- they were looking darker. Was hungry so I bought indomie for him to cook for both of us. After cooking, he served and said I should be eating that he wants to clear the kitchen . I was foolishly rushing the food like we always do to eachother. Didn't know I was rushing my death. He will come, take one spoon and go back inside to do Only God knows.

While he saw I was going down, he started telling me his plans on how he's going to call his other Gay friends and how they'll burst my anus open . How he's going to initiate me into their new club. Blablabla.

I couldn't move even though I was a lil bit conscious. I was paralyzed. Then he went to take his shirt inside the room that was when my mom's prayer got answered. I didn't know till today what pushed me out of that house. I didn't even know how I got the bus that took me home....

That was how I became a lone ranger. Everybody's best friend and Nobody's best friend.

Well well well. I now know better. I now function better.

This is my story.

While serving in Jos, I met one Cele babe in Bassa. She's the most beautiful babe I met on the Plateau. 'Eyes like the stars' I asked her "can I call the constellations ?" Her smile was truly like that of an angel or a princess from a long time ago.

Before meeting her, there's this babe in my neighborhood( fellow Corp member) that has been acting like a wife even though we were just friends with Benefit. She blocked me from meeting new female friends as she gets possessive even in public. She tells people we were dating even though I denied it openly . Then one day, Maybe she was feeling I was just using her, or she has seen a better option, she just woke up one morning and started giving me serious attitude. No food. No care. No *** and we didn't even fight. I beg tire all to avail so I locked up.

I was already dependent on her and was so pained but guy man gats bone. She now increased the pain by bringing a particular guy into the house eery evening for 3 days. She doesn't take the guy inside . They just gist around the compound. But on the third day, I knew they went inside(don't ask how I knew ) ...

I vex, entered street. Went to look for how to talk to this pretty babe I've been eyeing for a while. Took lil alcohol then waited for her to 'close shop' in other to run my matter.

Shop closed. I discovered that she was not going home alone but with 2 other friends. Liver been wan fail but I summoned the courage of my Ancestors! I was closely following behind and it was like a spirit used my mouth to say 'hi' and requested an audience with the damsel. Wow. She agreed but the first thing she told me was that She has a Boyfriend and I said I just wanted to be friends .

Three days later , we were gisting like we knew each other from Adam. On that third day, I invited her to my place to see me as I promised to prepare a delicious meal for her.
She came,we ate and played together and when things she initiated wanted to start, a call came through. It was her Fiance. She told the guy that she's in the bank and she's got batt low.(from that day I made a personal promise never to trust babes)
That's how she turned off her phone and just opened everything. Though she was like a log of wood but her response and beauty was like I was bleeping Rihanna. After matter end.
She acted like she felt bad. I did too so we promised not to do again. Then she invited me to her Church programme in the night. I asked "which church?" She replied "Celestial Church". Na there fear catch me.
We became sex mates and good friends on the long run that she even introduced me to her Guy. Sometimes after bleeping her, I'll meet her bf at the ATM and he'll just be greeting me well but in my mind I was really sad. She always insisted I come to church with her but I always gave her one format or the other I had to practically run away from her. I mean I had to leave my house and go stay in a Fellowship corpers lodge.

That's the second Cele babe I've ran mattaz with and there's this water vibes around them and they both had serious relationships and I didn't date either if them.
After escaping, I dedicated my life to Christ and now .....

BTW she got married to that her boyfriend this year... like this March though she's pregnant.

Lol. Like the normal nairaland cliche, If I fall in love with another Cele babe, should I date her? Advise me.


I have a story for the Sabbath babe.

*beats* this is super story.

sapientia:
First, OP, what you did was a crime, people have been advised against doing this so as not to overwhelm the already overwhelmed system

Secondly, the response by NCDC appears to be a bot as it kept repeating same thing.

But its still all shades of wrong. The response is below par.

To think they did not even ask for his details and contacts to at least know his proximity to any isolation centre.

Prank or no pranks, NCDC should have a way to at least determine to a large extent if a call is a prank or not.

Finally Nigerians, there you have it. Nigeria have no capacity to be going from house to house treating or taking people to isolation centres or hospitals.

Let's stay home and safe.

What OP did is not a crime. It can be classified as Journalism.

budaatum:
I am inadequate, but you do not deserve my professionalism and I am not defending anything. In fact, I'm attacking you! You had no symptoms but lied! Ordinary answering your call took us away from attending real ill people while you were "testing" if we consider you important enough to come and save you, in this our Nigeria at that!

I hope you never catch Corona Virus, but if you do, make sure you borrow someone elses phone when you call us because its likely we will no more be taking timewaster's calls!

Oga shut up jor. Because he just told you he was testing you guys. What if he wasn't. Failed Mofos. Still get mouth to attack. You don't even have shame.

I've seen an ex paint me terrible. I know what an angry or pained woman can be. Some are even natural Psychos. I've seen this not once or twice. Unnecessary Drama.
But you might just be an attention seeker who created two monikers.
Then you are the psycho!

OsuMustGo:
Means nothing!


Your Christ died for himself and not me or the world.
How can God need someone to die for the sins I never commited?
Is that not ridiculous?

THE ALMIGHTY GOD THAT I KNOW DOES NOT REQUIRE HUMAN SACRIFICE OR BLOOD FOR APPEASEMENT.

Cc: contract FOOI.
contractkiller
Please come and narate your father for us o

It's obvious that you're controlled by forces higher than you. So I say Let Him that Run His mouth not stop. For in the space of 60 years, you'll be out of this Earth. I hope you'll still have guts. ... But the funny thing is that Christ loves you.

Christ the Risen King. Principalities know , demons know. And everyone will eventually know. Greater love hath no Man than this. The mystery of God.
For I am Crucified with Christ and Risen with Him. Halleluyaa
....

DePolo7808:
Your mother is responsible for the handwriting you have, not your dad. Mothers pass that info to offspring not fathers.

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micxwell:
See your theory... . My hand writing is far better than that of my Dad and Mum. It looks nothing like theirs sef.

Don't mind that dude. Theory that holds no water. He's acting an Einstein!