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Like octafx like bet9ja...
I'd rather own a bet9ja shop

They sha used RCCG name to sell this news
And yes,it worked.
Just that anyone that hides behind another person's name will never have a name himself

It's all about who gets the lion share, isn't it...
























Everyone is clamoring for his share of this national cow milk.

I see the cow drop dead of exhaustion, I see the milkers scatter in a thousand directions...

This I have seen



My eyes are seeing and my ears are hearing

Lurdmax10:
https://guardian.ng/news/arewa-youths-storm-nnpc-demand-termination-of-tompolos-alleged-n4b-surveillance-contract/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&Echobox=1661231387&utm_source=Facebook

The nerve of you!

JASONjnr:
Even the church was a family affair....


I thought being a man of God is a calling... But soon as most men established a church... their kids and immediate family members gets called by God instantly.

Come talk to me when we have a black POPE

vicdom:
SPECIAL REPORT: 11 forgotten cases of alleged corruption by former Nigerian state governors
The Economic and Financial Crimes.

Commission (EFCC) has investigated 31 state governors for corruption and taken 11 of them to court, but the agency has recorded only two convictions, both of whom were pardoned without completing their sentences.

Put succinctly, it was all a ruse!

spencekat:
Depression is not a child's play.

Certainly not

Olayetan:
Looks like an unauthorized morgue

Exactly

I watch sitcom on
youtube... they take me straight away from wherever I was to their comic world. I just laugh and laugh

spencekat:
If you are depressed,do not always stay indoors.Go to where you will see people.Engage your loved ones in discussions.Above all,pray.You can just be pleading for God's mercies in your prayers.Cry,don't withhold it.

It's when I come back I can now pray.
If not, I for don die of heart break... seen terrible things in very short intervals.


Betrayals
Disappointments

Freelane33:
Rich people don’t watch Tv baby girl
Why you go buy tv too ?
Jokes
…………………
Stop telling her things again
Stay cool with her but don’t discuss
Your success and other with her again
Among families there are enemies
Among friends there are enemies
Among Neigbhors there are enemies
Among strangers there are enemies
Stay safe and always keep your success away from her .
She doesn’t want you to be bigger than her
And if you’re not very careful , she can go to the extent of terminating you .
Journey of a thousand miles start with a step .
She don take a step already by blocking your way from receiving a soft blessing that always come from your big sis but she’s not God another way will surely open .
Keep yourself off from her
She can only only delay the blessing
She can deny the blessing from coming to you
Pray against frenemies

While I find some of your submissions rather humorous, you went way too extreme on the twin sister, to the extent of suggesting she'd terminate her at some point. Common now!
These are sibblings that grew up in the same house and probably slept on the same bed all the time.
These things happen often in families. It's a normal siblings rivalry.

And to the op;

Your big sis is feeling responsible for your well-being since the demise of your parents and you guys are milking her emotional vulnerability, and seriously, you guys have to stop before you drain her up!

Your big sis CANNOT stay 'locked up' on you. She's probably peeping at you right now to see how you're taking her new stance.

You guys should give her a break abeg... she needs it.
She would always come through for you but try keep it down to only when it's absolutely necessary

Blessedmercy8:
Yeah. They both knew where they were heading but trying to play it smart.

Exactly my point!

Newborn27:
Reading through your post, I can perceive that you're a Yoruba man.

Firstly I'd like to caution you on this which I'm glad your conscience had already dealt with you....no matter how heated up the argument may be or how furious you might seem......DO NOT RAISE YOUR HANDS AGAINST THE WOMAN YOU LOVED......the best thing at that point is to take a deep breath.....and walk away, after some hours.... come back home and talk it out in a calm manner, then apologize where necessary to enable peace in your home.*looto omo ale loma n rinu ti koni bi...paapajulo ti o ba ti je lori oro iya eni....sugbon...ko soun ti suuru kii yanju.


Hint - no matter the amount of love of a woman has for her spouse...once you raise your hand against her....it will depreciate and she'd always reminiscence on that except if you make up with greater affection in future. Furthermore, no matter who's at fault... people will never be on your side once you lay your hands on her...oti jebi


On her part...... she's a new bride....I hope you remembered she hasn't been to a husband's house before and all she had was her biological parents no in-laws.....she might flop sometimes...grow with her in her new lifestyle... correct her in love ...as time goes by...she'd adjust....about her aggressiveness.... kindly accept her for who she is since no human is perfect....you perseverance can change her personality..... it might take time... marriage is not a bed of roses.... you should be there for one another when it's sour and rosy.



Lastly.... before I comment on your post.... I've been having some monickers that would come out to attack you in mind....and they never fail to disappoint....dem don land already...lol
Be ready for their bashing because they have a team and follow one another like ant and sugar....do not take their bashing to heart.... instead...pick few things that can help your home and move on.....one thing I realized about these set of people is that.....some of them never had a home or had been jilted hence they unleashed their frustrations on every erring male.... while little among them are like that due to their exposure living in a saner clime(which I'm envious of) they feel irritated at domestic violence cos they feel its abnormal which I'm in support of.


In conclusion, try to keep your extended family away from your home..... I'm not saying you should neglect them or not visit....but do things moderately....e get why.


Make I stop here.

See, she either shows some remorse and willingness to change or go back to wherever she came from and never ever come back until she gets some home training. She lacks respect and is so full of herself.
The young man is the calm type and she's taking advantage of him.
Urging him to accept her like that is like sending the young man to an early grave...
He gets to snap some day and either commits suicide or homicide!

Blessedmercy8:
Yeah but the topic is pointing to men in particular here.

Well,it goes both ways.

Judging from the story, both of them are even moving at the same pace in the same direction. They're even so close to the randezvous... All they need is an enabling environment and boom!!
The rest is history

Blessedmercy8:
Not ideal. Speaking from experience. I'll share mine in a bit to buttress my point.

I was once close to a married man and this was because I was working with him.
This one was even a pastor. So ministry work brought us together.
I was a Sunday school teacher, and assistant head choir, assisting the wife in that department too.

So, at the time, I was more like his assistant because the assistant ( a guy) was not always around. So since I was always around and available, he took to me and was confiding in me.

Now, the wife was aware that we were close and doesn't express any form of disapproval because she trusted us together.

He drops me home most times and we would sit in his car and talk for hours before he'll start heading home only after I've started giving him body language that I want to go inside my house.

Initially we used to discuss generally about life and what goes on in the ministry but after a while, he started discussing family issues with me to which I wasn't comfortable about.
He would complain about how the wife is not supporting him in the ministry the way I do. And how he's tired of her stubbornness and all. In my mind, I'll be like why is he telling me all these.

The day I knew I have to draw the line was the day he told me the wife had been denying him of sex for a very long time and all that. I was somehow embarrassed cos I never expected him to disclose that part of his life to me as a pastor and someone I respect so much.

Another time, we were talking and he said, sister, see let me tell you, if anything happens to my wife now ( he now said God forbid, God forbid) and I have oyibo lady like you that is fresh by my side, ah, what do you think will happen? I'll just... you know, its easy, we'll just"... And I was like Huh... Pastor!!!... I now laughed to cover it up and he was like.. " nooo.. it will just happen. That was when I knew, I had to cut my closeness with him. This one he's already imagining death for his wife. Hm.

So, all I'm saying is, men cannot be trusted with being just friends with a lady. One day, the devil will minister to him to try his luck.

Married women, don't let your husband tell you, she's just a friend, trust me, nothing. Ha! Tell him right away, you can't be friends with her o.

My 10 Kobo na im I drop give una so.

Young lady, hold it there.
Men are not the only ones, women, sometimes even married ones,also generate terrible motives... I'm speaking from experience

Blessedmercy8:
Lol.. very very much!

No time

Coly2012:
If I no chop Sunday rice I go fall sick before Tuesday. So VERY should come be the SACROSANCT my brother.

This is serious

Blessedmercy8:
These are normal everyday activities, dreams and aspirations of the average Nigerian that can not be avoided na

Was thinking you would mention spiritual patterns like
Not getting married on time.

Delayed child bearing

Birthing so many children.

Cooking a particular kinda meal on certain days. Like beans for Saturdays, rice for sunday's and eba during the days of the week. Lol.. ..

Op no mind me o. Just catching cruise with your thread.

Nice post by the way. They really align with most Nigerian homes..

Yay!!!! FTC.
Seun, ngwa, my award. I merit it o. No wayo, Biko.

As far as I'm concerned, SUNDAY RICE is sacrosanct from generation to generation

You should add this;

At least one person is the black sheep of the house

Russia should attack them back na, period.
















I see world Powers turning on themselves, I see a third world war looming.












My eyes are seeing and my ears are hearing

sinkhole:
We dey talk battle, you dey talk aesthetic

two ways to look at it

SmartPolician:
I guess the idiots who did the ranking did it from their kitchens while making omelette or on top of their wives in the oza room without knowing where the city is because those factors show that they know ZILCH about Lagos.

On a serious note, I think it's because of Nigerians who seek asylum in foreign countries using Boko Haram terrorism as excuse. If you see what fellow Nigerians say out there just to get work permit outside this country, you will understand why Nigeria has no good image.

If Nigeria had a good image they wouldn't be seeking 'asylum' in the first place

StormpyBee:
In combat, PROFORCE is a beast.

If we judge by aesthetics, SP1 has it but PROFORCE will serve better in combat

IboHausaYoruba:
I won't blame the woman at all. The economy is really biting tough. Last Friday, I saw our assistant pastor coming out of bet9ja shop. I did not say he went there to gamble o. Maybe he went for evangelism.

What if he owns the place?
Anything wrong with that?

Lovenorth:
Are you one of the Ipob terrorists? If not why are you narvous about what didn't concern you?

What's that?

Fire on the mountain

K

Lovenorth:
The useless Biafran people would soon troop this thread to say rubbish about this good news

I think you need mental examination

They should go and protest at the man's house

DonBenny77:
She had to explain why he recieved the money. Not really a collaboration thing.
Some women no sabi respect their husband they beg every tom, dick and harry for money. Even on Facebook.
Next time tell her to ask her husband to ask for money instead. It's her husband that is your friend not her.

They keep begging every tom,dick and harry until the 'dick' among them decides to do his thing

Now we start calling the devil

post=115563616:
Update From . COM

A Nigerian Twitter user has shared the WAEC result of an orphan whose university education he would be funding, Reports.

@jibolaog revealed that boy who had an excellent WAEC result, was just someone who was carrying dirts for Lagos Waste Management Authority (LAWMA) last year.

He further revealed that the boy also scored 277 in his UTME, organized by JAMB. He tweeted;

The orphan boy I promised to fund his university education just sent me his waec result. He did so well..This is someone that was carrying dustbin for lawma last year..scored 277 in jamb.

See The WAEC Result As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

While this is quite commendable, I hope you don't come asking for his kidney or any other internal organ for that matter

I come in peace




















My eyes are seeing and my ears are hearing

It's a miracle

vivalavida:
There is a junior worker in my office with this same predicament. Her husband died. She had a boyfriend after his demise. The boyfriend died. Neighbour started banging her. Neighbour died too. She is kow a shadow of herself.

She should seek spiritual help

free2ryhme:
Keep quiet.

Jide Kosoko's two wives died


We are too superstitious in this county

And who says it's normal?