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daddytime:
Village people....why whyyyyyy
What is this in God's name?
Why did you have to tow this cowardly and selfish route bro?
So sad.
My heart goes out to his loved ones...

I smell foul play though

WAJE JUNIOR

The family of Muyiwa Olushola is in mourning after the computer programmer allegedly committed suicide by taking a drink suspected to be laced with an insecticide , Sniper, at Mosadolorun in the Iba Local Council Development Area of Lagos State .

PUNCH Metro gathered from neighbours that the deceased ’ s mother had gone for a vigil , leaving him at home with his father , Segun, and sister , Tosin , when he suddenly started screaming for help around midnight , but efforts to immediately gain access to his room proved abortive .

Eventually , the door to the room was broken and upon entry , Muyiwa was seen lying unconsciously on the floor with a foamy substance coming out of his mouth .

The 33 - year - old was reportedly rushed to hospital for medical aid but gave up the ghost on the way.

Investigation was said to have revealed that the deceased allegedly consumed a drink suspected to have been laced with Sniper, as a bottle of an alcoholic drink , two bottles of the insecticide and a cup were found on the floor of his room.

When our correspondent visited the area on Tuesday , it was observed that the house , where the deceased lived with his parents and sibling had been locked.

One of the neighbours , who did not want to be identified , said the scream of Muyiwa ’ s father and his repeated banging on the door alerted her and others to the incident , adding that it took about an hour before anybody could gain access to the deceased ’ s room.

The neighbour said , “ Around midnight on July 1 , I heard Muyiwa’ s father screaming his name and asking him to open the door , so I quickly alerted my husband, who calmed me down saying the noise could be due to a minor issue
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“ But when the man continued screaming and banging on the door , we had to rush out to find out what was happening, and when we got to their apartment , we saw the father trying to force his way into Muyiwa ’ s room .

“ The sister, Tosin , said they were inside when they suddenly heard the deceased screaming for help , but they could not enter his room , because he had bolted it from behind . It took over an hour before the door was opened and we saw Muyiwa lying helplessly on the floor and vomiting a foamy substance . We also saw an alcoholic drink , two bottles of Sniper and a cup. From what we gathered , that was the mixture he drank . ”

A resident of the area , who identified himself simply as Kamoru , said Muyiwa’ s death could be linked to depression , adding that the incident had prompted his family to temporarily relocate to another location .

Kamoru stated, “ Immediately the family members saw him on the floor , they quickly rushed him to a private hospital around Iba , but the doctor on duty referred them to the Igando General Hospital . They were on the way to hospital when he gave up.

“ I heard that he did not eat the food they gave him the previous day . I think he was depressed because he had been under a lot of pressure at home . ”
A close friend of the deceased , Babajide Adekunle , said Muyiwa had just been granted a Canadian visa and was scheduled to travel in October before his death.

Adekunle said , “ He went to Cyprus for his master ’ s and obtained a visa to travel to Canada recently after being denied on two previous attempts . We learnt that he was supposed to travel in October ; we are really unhappy that he took that kind of decision . He told us that his parents had been frustrating him at home and he decided to leave the house , but his mother disagreed with the idea .

“ He had even rented an apartment , but instead , the parents suggested that he should stay in another house that they built . They were overprotective of him , because he was their only surviving son after his younger brother , Seun , died some years ago . Now , he is gone and they are left with only Tosin . May God give them the fortitude to bear this loss . ”

Efforts made by our correspondent to get the Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, Bala Elkana , to react to the incident , proved abortive as he did not pick several calls made to his telephone line , while a text message sent to him had not been replied as of the time of filing this report.




https://punchng.com/computer-programmer-commits-suicide-after-securing-canadian-visa/

RIP English

Like play like play this thing don turn joke

TY Bello who took to her Instagram page to state her own experience noted that she was also sexually abused at her younger age.

She said that being silent after she was sexually abused killed her slowly.

The 40-year-old singer said that she only found relief because of her relationship with God.

See what she wrote below :


tybello

I remember how the silence I had to keep after the abuse slowly killed me .. I also remember the relief I found in my relationship God so early .That really was my rescue ..yet for decades I could never find my voice on the matter .. I was still afraid ..Mostly because I felt it may have been the fault of my seven year old self ..somehow.. Fast forward .. almost thirty years later ..I knew better .. and was ‘big’ enough .. I understood the importance of stepping up when it was time to share my story .. and ..I did in my @kemiadetiba ‘s #kingwomen interview .. it surprised me however,how hard it was to talk about sexual abuse after so many years .. but it was such a relief ..But soon after came the resistance ..

In sharing ..I faintly began tasting the shame again .. that same feeling of naked ‘dirtiness ‘’ I had as a child .. it hadn’t completely gone away .It also became clear .. that real stories of sexual abuse still sounded like NOVELTY.. I saw headline after headline .. even in broken English .. this my ‘confession ‘.that ‘ Dem ‘SPOIL ‘ me when I be small pikin’.. It didn’t feel good that it was so ‘sensational’ as I was aware of how massive a plague this was ..WE CLEARLY ARE NOT TALKING ENOUGH ..too many children sexually abused .. too many sex crimes ..especially now .. right under our noses .

I had to push past the inner conflict that talking about it was ‘unnecessary’ ... it was too long ago ..too ‘Oyinboish ‘to discuss publicly .. ‘. ‘Then of course ..that talking about it now would make it seem like my family failed me as a child .. but they didn’t .. and could never have known .. I had mastered SILENCE !they were victims too.

Every abuse story is different but it is SHAME that makes them complicated..

Sadly , the shame hardly lies with the perpetrators .. So I’ve learnt that it’s time to nail shame right where it belongs ..Far away from the wronged .. Bringing them instead to healing ,justice and freedom.

We must teach ever child the power of their voices ,,Apparently ,we must teach adults too ... and more importantly we must learn to listen .. understand and know that Sex is not a dirty word .. but DENIAL is




https://www.vanguardngr.com/2019/07/im-also-victim-of-sexual-abuse-ty-bello/

IamD18:
Bbnaija will make this case die a natural death.

Social media ranting is not reality.

Lets all watch and see

Amid allegations of rape levelled against its Senior Pastor , Biodun Fatoyinbo , the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly has declared seven days of fasting starting from Monday ( today ) .

This comes as protesters vowed to continue to demand justice following allegations by Busola Dakolo, wife of popular musician , Timi Dakolo, that Fatoyinbo raped her 20 years ago.

Addressing the congregation on Sunday , Fatoyinbo said the yearly special programme titled , ‘ Seven Days of Glory , ’ which usually takes place from July 1 to July 7 , had been suspended.

The programme had in the past attracted international preachers like Creflo Dollar and Bishop T . D. Jakes .

However , Fatoyinbo , who claimed to be speaking under the instruction of God , said the programme had to be cancelled because he did not want the invited preachers to go through the embarrassment of being heckled by protesters.

Fatoyinbo added , “ We will have prayers for those who are interested in coming but we are not going to have the seven days of glory. It has been suspended because I don ’ t want all those kind of stuff .

“ So, if you want to pray , come ; but the regular seven days of prayer, having preachers come in , you don ’ t want to put your guest speakers through that . We love to host people properly . ”

His speech was greeted with chants of ‘ we love you pastor ’ from worshippers .

In a prayer that ensued , he added , “ As we start our fasting , even though we are not doing the seven days of glory ( programme ) , those of you who are led to come and pray here , as you come , the Lord will lift you up . ”
Shortly after Fatoyinbo ’ s speech , his wife , Modele , attested to the integrity of her husband , insisting that he was not a rapist

Mrs Fatoyinbo said , “ Not even as an unbeliever would my husband rape someone . Hello , let me talk , please , not even as an unbeliever …”
However , her husband grabbed the microphone from her , saying , “ The elders are stepping into it , please let them handle it . ”

Earlier , the church , which usually begins its sermon at 10 am , held a session of testimonies by female members , apparently with the aim of rubbishing allegations that Fatoyinbo was a rapist

About seven women came out one after another to share their ‘ COZA experience ’ .

The women all claimed that their lives had hit rock bottom but God used Fatoyinbo to save them from destruction .

While Fatoyinbo was being eulogised inside the church auditorium , he was being heckled by protesters outside .

The protesters, mainly women , demanded justice and asked for the pastor to step down .

The # ChurchToo Movement , a group of at least 126 civil society organisations and individuals , which organised the protest , marched to the front of the church around 9 . 30 am clad in white T- shirts and holding placards that read , ‘ We are watching you, ’ ‘ Your pastor is not your God , ’ ‘ Thou shall not rape’ and ‘ No to sexual abuse in my church , ’ among others.

At the scene of the protest , COZA protocol officers formed a barricade against the protesters as officers of the Department of State Services , the Nigeria Police Force and the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps accosted protesters and journalists who tried to intercept the barricade .

A convener of # ChurchTooMovement , Bukky Shonibare , said , “ We demand that the board and leadership of COZA commence investigation into the allegation of rape levelled by Busola Dakolo and any other member of the church against its lead pastor , Biodun Fatoyinbo .

“ While the investigation is being carried out , Pastor Fatoyinbo must be asked to step down from any leadership role in the church.

“ The Christian Association of Nigeria , the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria and other relevant Christian bodies must show leadership by condemning this crime coming from the church. The continuous harassment and intimidation of Busola and Timi Dakolo, and other victims must stop forthwith . ”

She said in the coming days , the group would take its protest to relevant bodies to show that rape and other forms of sexual abuse would no longer be tolerated .

A mild drama , however , ensued while the protest was ongoing as supporters of Fatoyinbo emerged with placards that read , ‘ We love Pastor Fatoyinbo ’ and ‘ Biodun is a great man , ’ among others.

Our correspondent observed that some of them accepted N500 each from a # ChurchTooMovement protester to surrender their placards before other Fatoyinbo supporters rejected the amount they were offered .

About two protesters were said to have been arrested by the DSS around 8 am before the main demonstration began but their identities remained unknown as of press time .

In a related development , human rights advocacy group , Socio -Economic Rights and Accountability Project , condemned the alleged harassment and arrest of anti - rape activists who protested outside COZA , Abuja .
SERAP ’ s deputy director , Kolawole Oluwadare , in a statement on Sunday urged the security agencies to release those arrested unconditionally .



https://punchng.com/rape-coza-declares-seven-day-fast-as-protest-enters-second-day/

The heart of man




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Yawn

Hmmm

livebyday:
Africa will be great

Wake up

Hmmmmm....

But so long as we have flesh, sin must continue

Ok

Landlord from Hell

Yawn...

Exactly the same way my neighbors dad reacted when his Yahoo son bought hum a car...

Hian

Come thus Sunday..... VOZA PASTOR will tell his members to pray that the Devil is fighting hard against the church... And they will pray hard.

Jazz at work

I knew this was coming

We go see reactions tire today, tomorrow and next until Bbnaija starts


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Nigerian bloggers will never forget today....


No stress, just hang around Twitter, any celebrity wey react just screenshot it and post...

Could this be a coincidence....? And they said black magic don't work.. Funny thing about people who say this tho na say them dey fear juju die



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Could Prison calling this man.

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Meanwhile if you are a guy and you are reading this i want to to stand up hold your penis and repeat this prayer "Oh God my father, my peniss will not put me in trouble in Jesus name".. Oya start praying..

. It may look like a pun but i assure you. No pun is intended