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ifex370:
Dude that's not not true..

Did you see the part were she said her friend in the US thinks the same?...

Its not a Nigerian problem.. Women all over the world are changing because social media gave everyone the chance to see new things and so, no one would like to settle for any less

can we simply jst sey social media or rather technological development seems to have caused more harm than good? i believe years back orientations like this were not that common, but seems what was suppose to be a thing of value to mankind seems to be "if not a major problem" to mankind.
well, dem really sey if eye too open na dirty dey enter that is what we are facing now with some females.

Omoge87:
Dear OP.

I don’t really understand this philosophy myself. I am a Nigerian lady. I currently work, I bought and drive my own car. Have almost completed my MSc which I paid for myself. My point being as a Nigerian lady I have never cared about what material thing a guy has. What girls think a guy can provide for them- they can actually provide for themselves if they work hard.

I have only been in two relationships in my life - but in those relationships I never cared about anything material. I cared about their long term vision and goals etc... I remember my first ex didn’t drive. I am the one that would drop him home after church etc.. When they had a need I would help. When I had need they would offer to help and I would politely decline - if it was monetary - simply cos I don’t want any guy to be saying he did xyz for me. Also I noticed Nigerian men associate helping their girlfriends with sex - so far as they are gifting you and giving you money they expect sex in return and as I am not a prostitute - I decline such things. I would rather ask my parents if I had any monetary needs. I don’t believe boyfriend should become your driver or your bank when courtship and vice versa. When you are husband and wife - then yes I can accept financial assistance from my husband - but not boyfriend. Why should a boyfriend be paying my fees or rent? I just don’t understand it at all. A girl should learn to be self - sufficient - when she has her own she won’t care if a guy has BMW or plenty money. She will rather want someone who is compatible with her vision and life long goals.

Bottom line my philosophy is if a girl works hard she won’t have to rely on a man for anything- she will not care if he has a car or money as her first port of call. She will be interested in - does he have a Job, is he a Christian, family background etc... because she wants someone likeminded and compatible with her also.

I think it is laziness that makes some girls want to live off a man. I just don’t understand it at all. My brain cannot comphrend the thought. There is nothing like having your own independence as a woman. I am not a feminist oooo. I just believe in hard work so you don’t have to rely on anyone or beg anyone for anything in this life.

On this same forum there was a post that asked would you rather a rich husband that cheats but provides or a poor husband that is faithful but can’t provide. I just shook my head. Why can’t one just have a hardworking husband and a hard working wife who are both faithful and provide for each other’s needs ?

see intelligent answer, any other truth apart from dis one here is a lie if only some few can reason jst like you but NO

Valerie47:
Which girl will want to sleep with a little man that has toothpick di.k?

Na u talk so anything for the money
beside how u use know sey e prick small?

Bitterleafsoup:

Somebody princess is just disgracing herself for just 1 million, not even $2,500. Buhari caused this.

and what is the difference between $2500 and #1m? cos "#1m still big pass

The guy na wa for am self, the age is not even the issue his lines of approaching the girl was very poor. who come tell am sey na only 35yrs fit take care of woman pass?
why the banana thing(even said fruit) that guy na error. but the girl lack manner atleast she wud have jst stylishly discharge the guy

Some of all this our entertainers are just too childish. The music industry is big enough why not the live and lets live thing" compete wit yourself for self improvement.

LuciferCelibate:
You are 32 but you just decided to inform us now of a rape that happened 25 years ago.

If you couldn't tell your parents or the Police back then, then you can't tell me now.

You're just an attention seeker.


Take your slacked pussy outta my face.

Hoe.


*spits

U rink is easy to speak out like that name it kinda comment self nai girls of her kind make den dry keep calm.

highpriestess:
If only ladies will start applying some little sense after seeing how you men describe them after begging to sleep with them.
I'm sure you knelt down and promised her heaven and earth so that she can allow you put only the head. I'm sure you also gave her your life savings but the way you will come here to scribble bunkum just to garner some schmuck appraisals from uncouth talibans still amazes me.

Some of you Nigerian men are very much disgusting, immature, loud, lousy.
Geese!!!
If girls haven't learnt from the past one year you guys have been ranting and displaying your idiocy on this site, then the said lady is doomed.


You men are the biggest who're one can think of; worst is that you guys do with impunity, but believe me, some women are actually coming out stronger, this whoring thing is the new revolution on the female gender since you guys think is right to body shame women after doing the same thing with them.

Some of you guys have crayon dicks, sagged balls, the hole on the tip of your dick is so wide than the express way due to excessive cum, 1 minute men, very smelly putrid balls, but ladies hardly say bad about guys when they sleep with you men.

Every man has 53 litres of sperm to produce in his life span, but some of you have used 50l and not even married. Some of you no longer produce thick cum, your cum has become so transparent that it can't even impregnate a woman, cos of used and reused dick.
Let me stop here, but just know that this act of being lousy on social media is pitifully irritating and I believe ladies are so much learning( if only ladies can work their asses out, and stop depending on guys money, and parents stop depending on their daughters getting married to rich in law who would give them everything; something they didn't work for when they were young, then, most ladies will actually see the fact that some of you loud and uncouth men have little or no input)

Ps: my comment is for the loud and ill mannered men like this guy, I believe there are much mature men out there.

She just spoke the truth
Only sey u harsh
No need insulting her cos (I see no reason any sensible person will definitely come online to start shaming a lady he ones had something with...

iCauseTrouble:
Not only you Reeky. I invested over 100k on products just to have beards last year. This year, am doubling it.
Have bought every single beard products on jumia but nothing dey show.

Nor bother jst grow am direct e go come
Anytimevu barb shave ur side line

Depends on the level of crime though sey murder out of infidelity weda girlfriend or wife na for her to face the music.....

UrbanExotica:
2018 blessing when year is over.

Ur faith small ooooh " believe" i claim am anything can happen.

Una sure sey this nigga nor read this post of steps to steal chicken?

Man united as a club is finished truth be told coach is not really the problem of united, but the players truth is that some players are far above standard to some players.a player like linguard now truth be told cant go to man city and play for 90min.
Flash back to united between 2007,08,09 before the arrival of tevez look at the starting line of united then players with high standard like van nesteroy, ronaldo, park ji sung even wen tevez came he was still benched anderson was even benched cos of the caliba of playerd on the field nani same thing.
From head go down look rashford, linguard, lukaku, fellani all this players nor fit ball for team like barca or madrid na or even psg cos dem nvr suit that kind ball.
When angel d' maria left man u he complained of the players around thers dey spoil e leg why cos them nvr develop i only dey pity sanchez and co shall.

Woman wen wan cheat go cheat mke we forget story.....
Change is constant as far as that word "CHANGE" still exist forget it.

mofeoluwadassah:
follow your heart bro

Sorry nor vex na private school she go?
If no why she nor force her dad make e put her tru private school.
She jst haveva funi orientation to her opinion, though speaking her mind. Is now leftbfor youbto change her orientation but watch her as well on her level of demands to see.

myettiallah:
The truth of the matter is dat mourinho will not get sacked until d end of the season or until when its mathematically impossible to reach top four..
If he is sacked now. he will have to be paid £20m..and real madrid will appoint him

If the players refuse to perform well their market value will reduce ask Sanchez... Even Fred has been dropped from Brazil's squad....
So joke's on them ✌️

Real waitn bros nor talk am again oooh.
Same issue he's having at man.u, is same issue he had at madrid back then.
The guy must get issue with players and also e style of defensive football. This guy almost finish ronaldo career.

JeromeBlack:
I'm sure many people reading this have never heard of "pauper's tithe" or "poor tithe". I have gone through many sermons both online and in real life but I have never heard any Nigerian pastor explain this concept.

So, what is pauper's tithe?
The pauper's tithe, (Hebrew: מַעְשַׂר עָנִי‬ ma'sar ani), Maseer ani, is a hebrew word taken from the old testament that refers to the tithe that is reserved for the levites and the poor (widows, orphans beggars).

This can be seen in the book of Deuteronomy-

(Deuteronomy 14:28)
At the end of three years you shall bring forth all the tithe of your produce in that year, and shall lay it up inside your gates; And the Levite, because he has no part nor inheritance with you, and the stranger, and the orphan, and the widow, who are inside your gates, shall come, and shall eat and be satisfied; that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hand which you do.”

(Deuteronomy 26:12)
When you have finished tithing all the tithes of your produce in the third year, the year of the tithe, you shall give them to the Levite, the stranger, the orphan, and the widow, so that they can eat to satiety in your cities.


In modern times, Orthodox Jews give a tenth of their income to charity. Those in Isreal give some of their harvest to the poor. In traditional practice, this pauper's tithe was the third tithe. The first two had to do with church. In modern times, tithing to the poor/charity is more common among jews since there is disagreement to who is a true levite/descendant of levites.


I just want to really ask why Nigerian pastors do not preach about this poor man's tithe? Is it because they are so engrossed in filling their pockets?

Carholic church still practice it a bit or should i seh alot.
I guess is what they call second collection usuall gathered for the poor, needy, sick and otherwise.

chris31:
No matter how i love my wife i can never try this kind of thing women understanding are different from men she will now sees it as ur duty taking u for granted & trying to override u
To run an effective home there must be don't & does

Well said "don't & does"

myettiallah:
That juventus own convinced me beyond every reasonable doubt, dat those maches were fixed

Bro deh were not dem lose after all nothing at stake.
All the clubs beaten ystrday have already qualified.
Juve gt torino man u gt liverpool....if dem need am u for see am

valdes00:
Since its all about stabbing this days, i think its best I throw away all my kitchen knives....
You never can tell, your beloved calm woman can change overnight...
Time to start using plastic knives with unsharpened edge... He cut meat/Veggies or not, he no concern anybody.

Hehehehhe

MariaLavina:
What if she had gone with her friend for security purpose? What if she had gone with a third party to avoid with her Man? Things aren't always exactly the way they appear. The Igbo man was persistent, she might have heeded to his request out of respect.

Like someone suggested, she should have given the plate to her friend,place another order and pay for it. If it were to be me, I would have left the man, gone to another table with my friend and order what I can afford. Sisters over Mannerless beings! Arrant nonsense!

Security purpose in an eatery (a public place like that)?... Is a date and not come to my house.

InvestorO:
I think this guy is on a designer drug,performance enhancement drug or something that is hard for drug testers to detect........only training and nutrition can't make him this fit......Ronaldo,ronaldinho,kaka,Rooney and even zlatan all became fat,pot bellied and injury prone at his age

Body differ bro

Jayslicky:
Sorry to say this , not everyone is talentless like you, you DON'T' know who I am and yes none of my classmates are richer than me.

Hehehehe e pain you abi?
I nor dey insult person, and i don't need to know you also. Respect other peoples hustle weda small or big and dont be a judge.

Jayslicky:
Even if he copies African queen, he will still not blow, the dude is as talentless as speed darlington even most singers who came after him are ahead of him, how can a singer be in the industry for over 7years and still have no meaningful song.

Bros the guy come complain to you? Or na u deh pay e bill. The problem with we africans is that we too dey bad mouth ppl.
Sori nor vex abeg since u were born, u don ever compose poem? Life na stage run ur race and nor be person own cos nor be competition.
Some of ur friends wen una gather go school many nvr blow pass you? That is life biko.

Hmm 25k.
Speechless

My brother just sit and wait for the wors.
Can u even here urself out boiz like una nai dey give girls leg to ride on una anyhow all in the name of love.you deh friend girl wen nor fit apologise wen she's wrong but you do it even at her own expense.
My advice to you is simple" don't be a slave to love" but rather " be a king to it" use ur head instead of ur heart. i nor go fit tell u weda the girl good or bad.!!

Wen the hunter bcomes the hunted(nor be by muscle or 100pack).

daddytime:
Once banged can always be rebanged as long as it is in the mind of the bangee and the banger.

Hehehhe dis man

timibare:
that guy beside Kizz Daniel by the left is gonna betray him......he looks like a betrayal

Hmmm u na seer

How can u dump someone without hurting her bro? How u go fit use blade cut ur self make u nor bleed?
Bro sit down with her and tell her that one go deh more respectful.

Na so e dey start if na ur wife for instance, is that how ur friend will go to her pot to dish food?
I respect people alot oooh i nor fit go my guy huz wen e babe dey and i know sey na she cook the food then will nah go behind to serve myself if it was me and my guy is different since there's a lady there respect her. Some ppl nor get sense.
Back to the real issue ur friend whats so ever had to beat ur girlfriend because i nor go sey dem fight or mayb there's something else to the story u self nvr know.
I go blame u shall mayb na ur give ur friends or friend those kind funny right to ride on ur babe thats why....u didn't protect her enough. Try and settle out of station biko.
(If my friend beat my babe, i go break e head. If na my wife i go cut e hand comot, if na my sister combination of both, if na my mama i fit kill am). Ur friend nor dey respect u cos if he does he shouldn't have raised a hand on ur woman no matter the level of anger....watch ur friends bro cos this kind friend fit Bleep ur babe or rape her...ask her some questions shall.

swiz123:
There are always two sides to every story.

Even at then she doesn't deserve to be killed... If i have my way the guy should be killed as well too with immediate effect.