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lovelybugs:
Exact. It'll be painful to part in the short run especially when some sacrifices have been made but in the long run it pays boh of you better.

hmmm u sound " sorry to use this term" sensible and mature.... be like nor be our planent u come from.

lovelybugs:
Yea I get but some guys eh! The effrontery they use to ask for favours is just not worth it. It's not good to reject a gift if it's from someone you're familiar with and trust but if it's all these fuckboys eh, it's better to reject and save yourself the stress or accept what you can easily return.
Some people don't believe in helping out people without nothing in return( this applies to both genders)
Also for OP's case the girl's problem is greed. She's a greedy person who isn't contented with what they have.
What OP should have called her to her errors. I'm not saying he should date her oo.
She's probably lost his interest but he could have advised her like a bro that what she did isn't good and if she continues like this she'll loose her respect in the eyes of men.
Most of these girls eh,they get these mentality from their friends and mother's. And Unfortunately it has become the societal norms. It's up to people to start correction it if not the future is doomed.
Anyways I'll always say if a stranger(guy) who is interested in you offers to give you something with strings attached and you're 100% sure you can't give the person what they want abeg kindly reject ooo least we here stories that touch.
Also, men are their own problems .
You don't want to train a girl in school but you keep toasting students who's parents aren't even buoyant to supply all their needs. Be ready to turn to a second parent.
To all the guys that are paying their gf's school fees. May god reward you sha.
Keep in mind not all relationships should lead to marriage for yourself, the girls and your unborn children's sake.

Yes the moment ppl start realising it that some persons are jst part of a process in our life like u talk am"not all relationsip lead to marriage"

lovelybugs:
Yea I get but some guys eh! The effrontery they use to ask for favours is just not worth it. It's not good to reject a gift if it's from someone you're familiar with and trust but if it's all these fuckboys eh, it's better to reject and save yourself the stress or accept what you can easily return.
Some people don't believe in helping out people without nothing in return( this applies to both genders)
Also for OP's case the girl's problem is greed. She's a greedy person who isn't contented with what they have.
What OP should have called her to her errors. I'm not saying he should date her oo.
She's probably lost his interest but he could have advised her like a bro that what she did isn't good and if she continues like this she'll loose her respect in the eyes of men.
Most of these girls eh,they get these mentality from their friends and mother's. And Unfortunately it has become the societal norms. It's up to people to start correction it if not the future is doomed.
Anyways I'll always say if a stranger(guy) who is interested in you offers to give you something with strings attached and you're 100% sure you can't give the person what they want abeg kindly reject ooo least we here stories that touch.
Also, men are their own problems .
You don't want to train a girl in school but you keep toasting students who's parents aren't even buoyant to supply all their needs. Be ready to turn to a second parent.
To all the guys that are paying their gf's school fees. May god reward you sha.
Keep in mind not all relationships should lead to marriage for yourself, the girls and your unborn children's sake.

yeah u're absolutely right " but the question is how many ladies do stand to be corrected in our present world of feminism jst some few.

badadvice:
Hmmm, your situation is quite difficult.
But I can sense the intense love you both share.
So I'll advise you dont leave her for anything in the world talk more or less for a guy she just met.
Instead, it will be better if you just look for money somewhere, like collect a loan from the bank or borrow money from someone and wife this girl up immediately.
Good ladiess are hard to come by in this life (naija).
Dont let this one pass you by!

see this advice run.....nor tink am

Onepointfiveodds:
We've been at this for close to a year now, i love her but I'm not sure yet how much she loves me.. She comes to my side often almost everyday, sometimes even stay the weekend. I've never given her any gift tangible or money buh she seem comfortable with that because she knows I'm not that box up ( her salary is twice mine).
Last week, she told me she had a date with the guy (the admirer) but she couldn't go because she was busy at home and with me (so she said)
Saturday morning, she came to my side, have sex with me (not the first) and later said she's going to meet the guy again just to tell him NO properly, she begged me to let her go and i said, no problem.

Later that Saturday night, she called me that she's back. I asked her how it went and she started the talk about how she happened to like the guy and all... Said the guy's talking about settling down very soon which is what she also wants. All the guy needed to hear was YES.

I needed to post this hear to seek advice from experts. I am not financially ready for marriage right now but i love the girl and here is someone offering her on a platter of gold what she's always wanted.

What should i do please? .. Is my relationship gonna die with this info? I'm confused

rules are simple NVR hold strong anybody that wishes to go.
on a second thought she wants to settle down and u're not ready to settle down pls let her go, except u know sey u don ready. girls and marriage na 5&6 oooh if u nor let her go willingly truth is she i'll definitely go by or means or start doing some certain tins behind your back. hope the guy is real shall not jst to go third basd with her cos some guys can do and undo ooooh.

lovelybugs:
Lol, that's the mentality of some men.
Once they've spent some money on you sex must take place.
That's why I'll always appreciate the advice my mum gave me.
She said, never accept gifts from a man who isn't your husband else be ready to return it when he asks for the unthinkable.
That's why I advice for first dates biko pay for your food.
So that one son of Jezebel wee not be telling you nonsense to your face.
And if you can't pay biko sidown for your house and hussle for yourself cause at the end of the day your money is your money and his money is his money.
Don't let any human being deceive you. There's nothing like our money, just money the partner is willing to share.

well, not all guys.kind of tru ( but is not good to reject a gift, but some gift are somehow worth rejecting at the long run). ppl differ we nor need judge.

some of dem won't i almost fell victim like that oooh some two years back wen i entered the saloon i sat down to cut all my mind be sey na mayb the #300 or las las #500 as the place package.only for me to sit down and my mind jst said ask this guy how much, bros said 1500 i sufri find my way oooh dem nor dey use shame chop shit.

Anagha123:
U fu*k up, after that date U suppose find way to invite her come ur house. After U don bleep then U go just dump her. A girl like her deserves it, someone wey wan turn you to her Atm.

Another day Wise up Man

So u mustbfu*k any girl wen u carry out on date?

Daeylar:

This is a smack down

You're right. Can they give love, respect, fidelity and companionship, no, A good number of these guys, the only thing they can give is money and yet they are reluctant to give even that. Crying and whining all over the place.

see u supporting her as if the females does same like wise....for the game of relationship, "THERE'S NO DEVIL NOR SAINT" goes both ways.

united442:
dnt date a beautiful jobless and shameless "UNDERGRADUATE" under d age of 18-24 with no specific source of income,dnt even take them serious cux its a waste of time..

new date asking for t.fare and sub says alot about the incoming money sucking/maga relationship

anyway,just keep thing up with her observe and see how it goes,provided u keep on applying brain like turning down d money/sub request u did earlier.

Bro the sub tin was totally wrong. but the fare tin was normal cos of the reason she gave. them nor dey use shame chop shit.!!! dude requested for a date did u in anyway imagine that she might really not be boyant enough, and besides nor be bad tin sey the guy self after the outing jst from e mind gift her t.p. notin wrong

kunkelhanspeter:
Menh am really tried dating students all d girls I have met in my life needs help where can I meet a lady who can take good care of herself

dem full pluto. but las las before u friend babe weda she gallant or not u suppose ready do small financing

DesChyko:
Only you say 'I left the role because it is no longer challenging'

Only you still say 'There are really no challenges I can't surmount'

Nigerians are complicated people

comprehension problem you see urself jst two line nah wahala and 2mro ur likes will be shouting buhari is not intelligent enough to rule nigeria.

chuksila:
Tiwa savage is a scam, she steals people's song and also sleeps around like a biatch... if you know you know... I want her to pay all of that money and become broke... I hate her EGO

u don sleep with her before?

Gaspardd:
Thing is i fell in love so easily, even sn holding my hand is even enuf for me to fell in live with that person(strictly females). Even now thats still me and i dont ever see that changing. So you can imagine how many heart breaks ive had in my life. . But i do not blame myself, i blame girls that wont stop going beyond boundaries.

girls go too use u play tennis be that...
jst to hold female hand u don fall in love weldone sir...!!!

psucc:
If I fail, my children shall surely send their children to schools of this nature. I am laying a foundation for them to build on.

So u nor believe in yourself at all?
why the "if " u fail.

for all those state dem mention so even if pdp get 1million each abeg e go close the gap of 3. something million? or dem get plan for governorshop election?

u wan explore.
Are u a child so if na house e invite you go, u wud have still went to visit him when u know literally what da brother wants all in the name of whatever u wrote here na from clap dem dey enter dance.(cos from all indication una two don talk many sweet talk well well)
On behalf of your boyfriend be very careful....!!!

hehehehehe...!!
my guy u funi moral lesson you can never satisfy or please anybody in this life apart from yourself....(help within your means and nor do extra jst to please learn am today).
Bros hustle hard and make your money not for her sake cos you nor get anything to prove to her or anybody, prove to urself that u can rise again.
keep calm and move on nor try am take her back ooih focus on what is right.

Youngbbt:
can a graduate use noun certificate To study for master abroad.

your question is funi ooh.
what does NOUN issue nor be B.sc, the other university nkor as u dey find superioty waitn dem dey issue nor be same B.sc? ( or u tink the former is written as b.sc while the latter B.SC)?

freemanbubble:
Oga don't argue with me
Am a Bini boy
There is no way APC can get vote in Edo state except in oshiomohole's region.

bros na the bini all of us day hope u don hear the result jst small margin and u are talking about not getting result.

freemanbubble:
Imagine buhari and INEC can't conduct a free and fair election in South South

This was what Jonathan did without stress
He allowed a free and fair election in the whole nation without favouring one region


I was an apo2 in Benin city
After the election there was no way APC can get up to fifty thousand vote in Edo state


Even before the election there was no way APC can get more vote
That was why i was very sure of PDP winning

So what happened?

APC thugs were allowed to destroy ballot papers even when armed police men were around

I have no respect for obaseki and buhari anymore

It is well sha

with all due respect sir Edo had 18 local gvt area, speak for what u saw alone in your PU abi as u deh ur local gvt and PU, u where also at the other local govt?

demitola:
You arent getting the gist! That's sarcasm alata meehn

my broda nor vex oooh now i get the gist those rant of na only 30% dem need mtcheeeew

notn was ringed here at all look the result well u go discover sey the sw was been dragged. and these were states that were ones won in the past with large margins.....some states are jst normal apc wins big expecially kano,kaduna,yobe jst the way pdp has grounds in east and south. the only complain i see here is that the result nor dey favour pdp.

Ehiscotch:
Good result for Atiku, we only needed 10%.

Una no sabi simple maths.

10% in Kano. 10% in Katsina, 10% in Jigawa, 10% in Yobe, 10% in Taraba, 10% in Gombe, 10% in Bauchi, 10% in Kebbi, 10% in Kaduna and 10% in Borno.

Add them, no be 100% votes be that? .

Stay Atikulated.

which school u go bros? abi with those percentage and result u dey hear u nvr feel am sey Apc don win

Ehiscotch:
Good result for Atiku, we only needed 10%.

Una no sabi simple maths.

10% in Kano. 10% in Katsina, 10% in Jigawa, 10% in Yobe, 10% in Taraba, 10% in Gombe, 10% in Bauchi, 10% in Kebbi, 10% in Kaduna and 10% in Borno.

Add them, no be 100% votes be that? .

Stay Atikulated.

which school u go bros?

seunmsg:
And they said Atiku will get bloc votes from south east and south. Where exactly is the bloc votes coming from?

u just spoke my mind oooh, even me i felt with all this ranting upanda apc nor go even get 10% vote from any of the eastern state. the rest dey come out soon. what i see with all the result coming out if its true is a close call for both parties but seems it favours apc more.

lanre2009:
help see if you can decode this questions.....thanks

the last question with 4,5,0 & 9 is 4+5=9-9=0
the first question is multiplication all through.

At all at all the guy did wrong but the way he died was very bad......(man unkind to mankind).
Dem for jst hold am give am slap or beat am small hand am over to police instead of stonying the guy to death.....ppl self jst like die on time buhari or atiku nor be this guy relation why waste ur life for ppl wen nor know ur name self

stupidity:
you let the girl stand naked while you fvck her shadow. You’ll enjoy it. Just try it

hahahahah

SolutionMee:


God should please make us be like Bobrisky

The story of his life is full of inspirations.

He rose to fame from nobody.

There's greatness thrust upon him.

I'm proud of you and don't mind being like you someday.

You are one of the few Nigerians that has innovate something outstanding in our society. You are a pioneer of a new form of gender. You are more like an inventor seff.

be urself em.
what has he innovated please?

AllenSpencer:
For it to be revealed to me that what you call a man of God is a dwarfed fool?

Hello! He is a dwarfed fool.

Their are more chances the while sluts in Nigerian brothels will makeheaven before him.


He is a benchmark for salvation, we all going to heaven.

you're not in the position to determine who will, or should make heaven sir. (don't judge).