₦airaland Forum

BigTableShaker:
Rip to your neighbor. Is he an Igbo?

Loool

bendolla:
u dey mad. u think say na english class be this? i no know why them no do this internet in a way wey be say u fit jjust summon person and slap am for no reason

Baba calm down now shuu

Scaredd:
I've noticed on similar threads seeking migration advice to Canada that almost everyone advises leave the country and I'm like "is it so good in Canada?

The only reason I want to travel to Canada or any other high profile country is to make far more money than I make in Nigeria.

Now, by the Grace of God I earn over 800k monthly with promising potentials for more. I'm 32yrs and planning to settle down next year, but with so many advises saying "leaving the country to Canada is the best choice", I'm so confused right now as per what's the best choice for me. I even watched a video where a guy living in canada said he spent upto 400k monthly on expenses.

So, I want to ask and need advise from anyone living in Canada. Would you advise someone earning 800k monthly in Nigeria to leave for Canada?

Your input is highly appreciated.

Well my Advice is don't worry, Chillax and calm down

that ur greed wee soon give you sense someday

bendolla:
i just noticed that for 5m naira, i can get myself a 2010 camero.
i was expecting it to be very expensive since people hardly drive it around.
please can you tell me the cons of owning a camero?
is the maintenance cos too high?
i am planning to sell the toyota rav 4 use now and by this because i feel it give you more class since it is kinda unique.
i wll prefer advice from people that actually own it or have good experience about it.
no assumptions please

no assumption please

Roseey0:
That how i will become somebody tomorrow now, one person will now come and be writing this Kinda things. Where were you when i was nobody

madam goan read the thread again and stop being petty

amliftedhigher:
Thank brother.
This is always my prayer. I don't want help from people rather let me be the one helping people

Nobody I repeat nobody makes it on their own

They'll need help in one way or the other so drop the mentality of I don't want help from people

It's how God has made the world to be

nony43:
Number 13 heaven will fall that day

Nothing will fall man only you cuz u keep quiet when a superior sneeze

Enoch07:
that's why I'm neither here nor there when it comes to Naija police

Enoch07:
that's why I'm neither here nor there when it comes to Naija police

Enoch07:
that's why I'm neither here nor there when it comes to Naija police

You've done well now continue and full the whole Thread

BlueAir:
The guy dey make me feel vomit. I'm just about to tell him to borrow 1.950million more from the bank and buy her Lexus

ecolime:
So you are suggesting he reduces what he has been giving her for over 3 years? This is not possible.

The best he can do is not to increase this figure for the next 7-10 years. Trust me

He should cuz that's what is making her lazy the mindset of my husband can provide everything and it really doesn't have a nice ending on the long run

Ghostrye:
Congratulations sir, you've won yourself a liability
But on a serious note, talk to her not all those 2 minutes jist, but a serious talk about how you feel and how you want your expenses and income as a family to be. Whatever misgivings she has will show face when you talk

no need to talk action speaks more louder

ecolime:
90k for feeding is on the high side for 2 adults. Don't reduce the amount to avoid issues.

She can make hair and also sew, these 2 skills will come handy when the kids start coming. Trust me, you will be glad she learnt them especially if you have girls.

My wife learnt hair making during her pre-NYSC days and my baby girl is enjoying it now. She's an offshore worker but we all enjoy the fruits of the various skills she learnt whenever she's around.

Anyway, I have a solution to your dilemma. That's if you are free lancer since you said you work from home. It's very simple. TEACH HER YOUR WORK. If it's not too technical, teach her what you do. Win the projects (Be the sole face of your project) but assign work to her. With these, you will get more jobs done, your productivity will increase, you earn more dollars and your client will keep giving you jobs. Don't forget you gonna be less burdened with work.

Let her know that's the only way she can contribute to the family. It's a win win situation for everyone. You have a complete woman- a wife, personal staff, partner, hair dresser for your girls (if you later have), tailor for the kids, a contributor to the home finance and an home teacher for the kids.

Please engage your wife, she's just blank business wise and bored.

Man what yr saying is totally off sense....she's doing all that cuz of too much comfort and OP's situation will never change till he reduce that amount buy enough food n other necessary things needed at home so she doesn't starve n doesn't complain sososo is not available

If she doesn't get this money for some months she will have sense by force. The only person i pity now is OP (tho i'm not praying things change) but if it does that he's not having enough money then he'll know what real problems and wahala is frm a nagging wife

Damnit God made wives helpmates an not some lazy ass pocket dryers

deji85:
I had to register a new account to post this to hide my identity. I apologise for the long post.

My marriage will be 3 years in Decemeber but I am becoming increasingly very unhappy with my marriage.

My source of unhappiness is that my wife has no or has lost any ambition in life. Before we got married she was working and she always mentioned how she was saving to start her business and all that. I was really impressed with most of the plans she had. After marriage she quit her job saying it was too time consuming which I supported.

She decided to start her business(a boutique) I gave her the money and after about 4 months without starting, when I asked, she said she was duped(4m gone). All efforts to get who she paid money to yielded no result. After about 3 months of her staying home I asked her what she wanted to do next and she said she wants to learn fashion design and try to build her brand.
We paid 350k for her to learn which she said she was done after 8 months. She got a shop, we equipped it and she started. I was really happy but 5 months down the line she said she was tired that it was not moving that she wants to turn the shop to a saloon, another expense and she had her saloon, shop rent was due after a few months and I paid. Barely 6 months after rent renewal she said she was tired(again) and she closed the shop. She was just staying home all day 6 months passed and no change.

I asked her again if she was just going to remain like this, she said she is still figuring out what to do next. 1 year passed same situation, stay home, follow all gist/gossip on social media(of which I'm tired of hearing) her friends 2 of them are also like her jobless and clearly not interested in getting busy. Most recently she requested I buy her own car. I told her we don't need 2 cars, I work from home so 1 car is enough for us she gave me cold shoulder for a few days because of this. Next anniversary is in December and she has already started searching which country we will mark the anniversary. Not that this is bad but her lack of ambition in life is eating me up. she seems satisfied just staying home and doing nothing. I don't know how to get her to be serious with life. I am far from happy in this marriage.

As she insisted, every month I give her 95k to run the home. Though i feel this is much for 2 people, I figured she might want to send something to her younger siblings and mum once in a while so I agreed.

If anyone has had deal with this or has any advise please kindly comment.

Baba ur the source of ur problems here....what do u need help for when yr the determining factor

and the guy couldn't batter her face
I so much detest weak guys

Whichever police did the arrangement of these bodies should further their career in decoration and catering management

who else noticed the type of Bullets Taraba police used are quite different from the Boxers/shirt removing bullet of our South eastern/ SS police

Slimranky:
Correct guy no forget to lunch your book here after you Don write am

Slimranky:
Are you a girl or a boy?

If you're a girl
In fact I'm paying for your movie ticket,plus a chicken pizza after the lockdown
because of this comment

If you're a guy then you must be a real nigga
And its because of you Guy's I posted this because real recognise real
Omo naija girls dey very boring and annoying mehn,,,not one of them dey creative its either
Yankee women or i'm single for life

I'll not forget but you gotta be amongst the nigga to bring about the change

See now you don dey reason movie ticket plus chicken pizza for a girl but now it's a guy ur giving him nothing. we gotta change that bro, guys should be given chicken pizza fr sensible comment or given money to watch movies to

Slimranky:
One bottle with one tap of arizona for your head bro
You must be a real gee to know that these poor European women are loyal asf
I get one for Venezuela,she encourages me When I'm depressed, no money for now but her son is working in Spain and soon she go migrate
I get solid hope say through her I go enter Spain chill for Ibiza
I wish to travel to Ibiza in my life time
I get another contact single mother in Indonesia young beautiful loyal girl nurse but she no get money to make thing's worst naira get value pass Indonesia rupiah
She wants me to travel down their and come live with her

You see those US/canada ladies I dey always tell guys wey wan settle with them mai dem run oo cuz those days of American yung lady coming down to take a guy, spons him bla bla no dey again those girls don tear eyes now

If you really do like the Venezuelan lady stick to her most of them dey dey very loyal just like this my Serbia girl mehn she's too emotional I can't even try breaking her heart

Guyy like I was in a restaurant with a new girl like that then this guy entered with his white girl mehnn I saw their little daughter and I wished I had the talent of kidnapping cuz the Lil girl was damn pretty asf with tha naturally curly hair. As we comot that restaurant ion know how/why the 9ja babe just start irritating me for no reason I was remembering those times she'll ask me to sub fr her e.t.c

anyways we don't talk again

tunize:
The funny tin be sey na inside same Nigeria woman leg u pass come out and will be even funnier because weda u like am or not na still the same Nigeria girl u go marry and go still born for you. calm down our women are special.

Can you make the same mistake twice?

na mistake I use comot Nigerian leg but same mistake no go happen fr marriage mai I no lie you I no dey approach dem cuz where otta guys see beauty I see rot

I'm almost writing a book sef on how/why Nigerian guys have to stop helping these girls and let's build ourselves (I mean guys to guys) if guys can give these monies they pay to prostitutes or providing for girls needs to guys who are business minded 9ja girls would have a rethink and get sense

my hopes are Nigerian guys read this and learn

Naija246:
what country is she from?
If it's one of these poor eastern European countries, dump her.
Trying dating Women from Finland, Germany, Singapore, etc
these countries are rich asf.
Once you manage get one pregnant, you're set financially.

Poor European ladies are the best white ladies you'll ever find cuz they're humble and supportive

I got a Girlfriend like that from Serbia she's not rich but she's everything a man can ask from a lady. I've spent on her but ion regret it cuz she'll do more than that for me if she have

All I've got to say is Nigerian girls disgust and irritates me than decayed Poo

I wouldn't hesitate to bombard a large gathering of Nigerian yung girls

Olawrites:
This will make you grow faster in life and in your career.

These ladies draw you backward.


Them no worth am

Gbam

Saintbusco1:
your type of xtian follow old testament and not new testament

And that's the best type of Christianity....the Israeli type

MightySparrow:
Dangerous thing to do. soon this good will can be tool in the hand of jihadists to destroy kind 'infidels'
I also read some Christians distribute palliatives to certain Muslims to break fast in Abuja, good gesture gone crazy. While living in Lafia Nasarawa state, this ramadan period Muslims burgled christian provision shops to punish infidels. In the northern nigeria almajiri you helped with money ( they prefer food) will be the one to lead rioters to kill you or burn down the church that gives the community water from their borehole. I think this german kindness borders on stupidity.

A Real stupidity

ArcFresky:
Baba, nothing you can do oohhh..

Just pack out jejely.

Because if you are against the woman, everybody will be against you, which is dangerous.

That place may cast any time soon... And when police feel like they need money, they will pack you and join cultist.

decatalyst:
Uncle, seek peace and you shall find peace.

Move out of that environment if the smoke and stench is unbearable anymore.

Do not attempt to confront anyone...it is too dangerous and it doesn't worth it.

akinjojo1234:
Simply pack out and look for a more conducive house

Park out to where exactly?? can't you guys read to understand he's a Landlord

ONEarrow:
what happened,tell us

alot to always remember happened that each day I remember I keep missing the school... I saw a souvenir we were given then in SS 1 today flashed back to those days in school lol I cried sha

ONEarrow:
Tell us,what would you possibly wish for??..lets go!

that time can bring me back to those days in secondary school

ikh777:
Go to the BANK and complain.... then go to the POLICE STATION to open a case, also the police can trace that number easily and find the culprits in a matter of days.

Those criminals are wise they might not use their real details in opening the SIM which is so easy to do with those registering under umbrella

tallfish145:
My friends from the south west part of Nigeria, where is the best city or state one can relocate to live peacefully and best for business?

Ibadan

DannyJ19:
So why dem sensor the plate

So the real owner can still drive his thing outside in peace